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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok basically i met this guy about 5 months ago, and we've been dating for about 4 months, everything seemed perfect. his family liked me, my family like him, my mum loves him, he comes round for tea and stays till quite late and my mum really comfortable with him here etc, we get on, same taste in music, fashion etc etc.then i started hanging round with this group who are SO lovely. they are completely like me, same views on world etc, they're crazy and like, just wanna have fun, and we go out and have amazing nights and parties, but my boyfriend isn't it to that.i've started to wanna go out more and have lots of fun, but i'd feel awkward if he was there cuz he's not like that, and i have mentioned it to him and he said he don't know them etc.alllllllso. then in this group there's this guy, and we're just friends but he told me liked me. he's really like, romantic but not in a stupid way, he's going to a festival which i am and he's going to the college i'm starting, he lives near and i see him a lot cuz we were friends.2 days ago me and my boyfriend were arguing and he said lately i've been pushing him away, thinking about it i probably have,bt i do this to see if they stay cuz i've been cheated on a lot. we had a big argument and he kept going 'you obviously aren't happy with me liv, if you're not happy finish it' and i went 'you finish it!' and he said 'ok then' and then i took it seriously and went 'don't talk to me again' and then he called me crying like 'we're not really split up are we?'so now i'm single but i knw we will go backk together as it wasn't even proper, and he's coming to mine thursday.it's just this other guy.. i will see him later when i go out with everyone. and idk what to do..do i leave my boyfriend for this guy for the fun side? or do i keep with my boyfriend who is great with family, stable and who i know loves me.i think i'm a bit bored of my boyfriend, cuz we don't have the same friends, we don't really go anywhere together, and i go to parties etc and mad nights and he can't join the experience and this other guy can. when i'm with my boyfriend, everything in perfect but when i'm out it's like i cba:/also,is it bad if i say to the guy i'm staying with my boyfriend but say 'i'm really intrigued by you, and we have so much in common, we're going to the same college etc, and i really hope one day we get together because i think your amazing' or something?thankyou!!!!xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, Aim.xx +, writes (14 June 2010):
Yes it is wrong to say that to this guy. If you hope that you will get together one day with him then you obviously want him and not your boyfriend. Do not string your boyfriend along but you can only make this decision yourself no one can do it for you and you said you are bored with your boyfriend why dont u talk to him about this and ask him to come out with you for 1 time you never know he may like it. Best of luck hun! X x x
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