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writes:Ok well kind of a long story, Me and My girlfriend got together at 16 and stayed together for 5 years. In that time we did grow up and become diffrent as I prefer going out on nights out however she is a more reserved and quiet person. We split up about 4 months ago but have still been speaking regularly. I think I could move on and get with another girl however I wont because I know the minute that I do that, she will do the same and I hate the thought of her with another guy. I dont think we are right for each other at the moment but I also still want her. Its got to the stage now where we either make a desicion to give it another go or we need to cut all ties and I am changing my mind on a daily basis of what to do!! Help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010): In your position, I'd let her go. Gettign back together nothing will really change and you'll end up even more unhappy.
Letting her go hurts but at least if you're meant to be together you'll definitely know once you've had time and a clean break.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (14 June 2010):
 You can't have it both way, if your not into her than just let her go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010): I have been married to a 'home body' for almost 15 yrs and am currently going through a divorce. It doesn't get better. I love my husband, but his lack of any social life is unbearable. I wish we had have broken up while we were dating and remained friends where we wouldn't be going through this now with 2 children involved.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 June 2010):
Well you have no choice. You either want to be with her or not. You can't have it both ways. But the best thing you can do is move on and cut ties. If you were really that into her, you wouldn't feel this way. End it and accept that she will move on.
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (14 June 2010):
 There's an old saying that says:"You can't have your cake and eat it, too" That means you can't move on sans your g/f and keep her from seeing other guys, too.
The choice is strictly up to she and you. Do it or don't. Pick a direction and commit to it. That's about the long and short of it. Good luck!
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