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writes:so i was dating this amazing guy for a few weeks. he loved me and i loved him. he told me he could see his life with me and that he never felt that he could love someone for forever before. but i broke up with him because he did something and didn't tell me about it. i felt like i couldn't trust him. i realized how much he meant to me though and that i really wanted him back. he asked me out two weeks later again but i didn't realize he was actually asking because i didn't hear him correctly and said i don't know. he said he was gonna ask me the day after on his birthday and he never did. i wrote him a letter of how i felt and he wanted me back again then he threw it off. a month later he went out with one of my friends and i got extremely mad at the both of them. we didn't talk for two weeks. then i apologized. this happened 3 more times and right now we are really good friends. him and his girlfriend also broke up. but today we got into another argument. but we fixed that problem. at parties or trips we would be all over each other and would flirt and have a good time. everyone says we are perfect for each other and will get back together. i wrote him something the other day and im questioning if i should give it to him. what should i do?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (14 June 2010):
 So much happened in these few weeks, or months? Reminds me of that gum commercial, talking about how that piece of gum lasts longer that a relationship. He already claims you as his love of his life and then did something bad, then got another girlfriend, then went back and forth with you 3 times. Slow down your pace and really get to know him. Honestly none of you or his actions back up the so called love between each other. Real love is actually very simple and innocent. Learn to differentiate whether you are after a feeling, or him as a person. Based on what he did to you, you should keep the letter to prevent another disappointment. Too much ups and downs for you this past month. Give yourself a break and learn to stay strong being alone. You have a choice of waiting for him to know what he wants, or slowly detach yourself from him. You couldn't trust him and he has done nothing to earn your trust again.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (14 June 2010):
 Yes give it to him and then if nothing happens move on and find happiness with someone else. Good luck
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