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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:all of my sexual partners where people who weren't in love with me and i wasn't in love with them .. all of the people who loved me and i loved them haven't had a sexual relationship with me .. so now , i can't mix "love" and "making love" .. i have a bf , we love each other .. but every time we get physical i get a little bit uncomfortable .. i even start crying sometimes .. !it's like , i'm either in love .. or making love ... but not both .... maybe deep inside i think that making love sabotage love ... and that's why i don't make love with the people i really love .. it's like , love is too pure for that ... i don't want to stain it !!does it make any sense ? maybe i get insecure .. like , I'd think that perhaps he doesn't love me , perhaps he just wants to have sex with me ... it's a lot easier for me to have sex with someone who i KNOW that he doesn't love me than to have it with someone who says he loves me .. i really don't know .. HELP!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 hi i no that your post is dated back in June but id like to offer you some help anyway, it seems that you slept with men for the sake of sex and didnt connect it with love and now you are struggling maybe you would benefit from going to see a sex therapist.
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