A
female
age
30-35,
*hloe101
writes:I play online RPG games. One of the ones I play, very little females play. I used some fake photos as these helped me advance in the game.The game has a close knit community, I have played for 2 years, and over this time, I got to know a man very well. We love each other, we have never met, I know this is difficult for some to understand, but 2 years of speaking to someone everyday, I know him better than some I know in real life.I want to meet him.. I know this sound ridiculous but I can not even begin to explain our relationship.Except - he thinks I am the girl in the photos I used on this game. He says my appearance is not important.. he loves me for who I am. But I am so scared to tell him. The thought of losing him breaks my heart.Advice, please?Please don't bother with nasty comments about internet dating etc, I have heard it all before. Reply to this Question
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 This one is easier to fix. Tell him that because of the nature of online wackos and possible predators (I know, a bit of BS), you didn't display your actual appearance.
Then show him a picture of the real you. What could you be afraid of?? Was the picture of some fashion model, and you have a 90 pound mole on your face?
Eventually, he's going to have to know the truth. You do NOT want to wait until one of you is at the airport!
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