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I don't know if he wants me or her

Tagged as: Forbidden love, Long distance, Three is a crowd<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (14 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 June 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

"OP Own Title"I met this great guy back in April at a party and we had a really good time together and kissed a few times, but I live half way across the country but I always go to his town every summer to visit my realitves and I am going in a little over a week and we had decided back in April not to date until I came back for the summer, since I'm staying the whole summer and we agreed we could see other people until then. He told me to text him when I knew when I was coming back but I haven't texted him yet because his facebook said that he was in a relationship so I don't know if I should text him or not. I really want to see him and I like him a lot, but I'm scared he will want to stay with the girl he's with now and I don't want to be the cause of them breaking up. What should I do? And if I text him what should I say? He doesn't know I know this he is seeing someone. Last time he told me his was into me and everything and he couldn't wait for me to come back in June but now I'm not so sure...

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (14 June 2010):

Seems like he moved on. A bit quick, which may indicate that he's working his way through a few girls and using them as he goes. I think if it says he's in a relationship, you're better off leaving him alone. You don't want to be hurt or used by him. Another guy will come along

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A female reader, tss18 United States +, writes (14 June 2010):

tss18 agony auntif he said to text him, then just text him. you dont have to text him and say im coming back so lets be together or anything. just text him and simply say hey you asked me to tell you when i was coming back and ill be there blah blah blah. then you can go from there. hopefully he texts back and you guys can pick up where you left off or be good friends. goodluck

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