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writes:Hi, i was wondering isnt it suppose to feel good if you touch or rub your clit? When ever i do it i dont get any thing out of it or some times it just hurts when i do it. Is that normal? Also my boyfriend wants to finger me (sorry if to much info)but im worried about when he does it, if he touches my clit i wont get any thing out of it or i might hurt but i dont want him to think its his fault cause its me. Should i tell him before we do it that it doesnt feel good to me so he knows? The most iv ever done was making out so hes gonne be my first for this. Is there any thing i can do to make it feel good? Thanks for any help im really confused about this. Reply to this Question
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 Your clitorios is very sensitive so you have to start off with very light stoking or rubbing and as you get more aroused it can take harder rubbing and stroking. It's important for you to experiement on yourself so that you know what you like.
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reader, DaisyDuke  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 Hey!
I'm so glad you posted this, because I'm having the same problem and I wondered if it was just me! Until one time my boyfriend (not anymore) played with it while he was touching the outside of my vagina, it felt really good but it still hurt a little. And it doesn't feel good when I try to do it, I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
Good luck and I hope you get the answer you're looking for hun x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): My wife doesn't like her clit to be directly touched unless she's already really turned on. She masturbates through her panties. You might try something like that, or play with your nipples first.
As for your boyfriend, I don't think you need to tell him anything beforehand, just be prepared to gently correct him if he does something you don't like. Maybe offer to show him what feels good?
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