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writes:A million thanks for this site i look so young for my age i always get offended by people always looking down on me. recently i found a similar thing on this site to which i even replied to,but i av been looking for that page to no avail, kindly help me find the question and the reply i posted thanks to that. i just turned 28 but looks way down like 16 or wherever low i can be rated its been a problem to me, my most worry is about my fiance's pride,i don't want people to look at him with that stupid face because they think he is going out with a little girl i am a year older than him but i look way too young ,he doesn;t av a problem with it though but it still worries me how can i behave more maturedly? so people wont judge me from my young looks
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reader, qwuerty +, writes (15 February 2011):
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): do you watch Hannah Montanna? Well, her character brother "jackson" is played by the actor "jason earles" he looks 16, literally, but he is actually 30 years old. He has an age deficiency. My advice to you is to contact Disney and get on a show, they like adults who look like kids, easier to work with. and if you don't wanna do that, at least you know you're not alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010): Hi, I have the same problem and so do many, many other people. There isn't much you can do about it, unfortunately. The only comfort for me is knowing that people who matter know my age. I think it is better not to complain about it, because people who don't have such problems don't understand you. They can't imagine what it feels like being treated like a teenager when you are an adult. They think it is a blessing, that you are lucky, just wait till you are 40 and you will be glad...blah, blah, blah. I'm sure you have heard that a million times.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (14 June 2010):
 Oh geeze. Listen - it's all in your presentation and the way you dress. If you dress like a 28 year old and carry yourself with the confidence and poise of a 28 year old, there will be no issue of respect. If you're dressing like you've been studying all night for your freshman finals and you've pulled your hair up all fast and loose, that could be an issue.
Your fiance doesn't care, why should you? I think it's more a matter of self-respect at this point. YOU need to respect yourself and be confident, and it'll show.
Also, look at it this way. In 20 years, when you look younger for your age, you'll absolutely be the envy of everyone!
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