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anonymous
writes:Hi, im 19 years old, i tend to finger myself when im arroused, in the morning i felt the need to finger myself, and so i did and also in the shower,couple of hours later i wanted to finger myself, but it hurts? why is this? what am i doing wrong? i make sure i cut my nails and my fingers are clean, so why does it hurt?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010): Are you lubricating yourself enough with saliva or a non-petroleum based personal lubricant?? I don't care which body part you are rubbing, anything will get sore without lubrication. I like to finger myself a lot also, but saliva wasn't cutting it. When I first started masturbating, I used saliva and even petroleum jelly. But then I found K-Y jelly, which is amazing. It is a water based lubricating jelly you can buy at your local supermarket or chemist. It will stay slippery a long time with saliva or a spritz of water. It is non-toxic so if you get some on your tongue wetting your fingers it is safe.
If you are like me and like to finger yourself a lot during the day, then there is nothing wrong with leaving the water based lubricant on after you orgasm. It is safe to your skin. It will get slippery again with a little moisture and you can wet it anytime you want to finger yourself and you are ready to go!
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