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writes:*OP's Original Title*Me and my boyfriend have been dating almost 6 months and recently starting to planning our future together. hes planning to build a house and buying the funiture while Im studying. When Im finished, I just need to get a job and then we wil get married. But yesterday, he told me a very shocking thing of him, told me that when he was a kid, his mother have led a room for a grown man and when he moved out, he left a magazine where there was naked models showing.. As from there, my boyfriend was addicted to pornography. He had watch every saturday late 18+ movies and went on internet everyday. Since he met me, he dont watch those movies anymore but only go on the internet twice a week when hes at word. He says that everytime he go on the internet, he feel guilty ,humiliated and if he is cheating on me. But im so confused now. I dont know what to do. Saturday morning were going to our priest to help and talk to him. But how am I supposed to handle this situation.? How would it be if we were married? Would he be touching our daughters body if we had kids? It feels already if hes looking at other womans bodies. And it brakes my heart totaly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010): I'm not sure he IS addicted....if he is able to control his usage, that is a sign he hasn't quite reached the level of 'addiction' yet. Go to npsupport.net you will find answers for both you and him there.....
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reader, person12345  +, writes (14 June 2010):
 The fact is, he's being honest, which is very good. No he's not going to molest your children or start being violent unless something else is wrong with him. If he wants to stop, get some filter software to install on your computer that only you have the password to. Then he simply can't look.
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