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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Help! What does this dream signify?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i was wondering if anyone could interpret this dream for me? i would really like to know what it means i was at a playground i don't know why cause im 15 but it was only me and this other girl that i happen to like. in real life i am shy but in the dream i could talk to... (111 words)

What does this really mean for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (?) age - My boyfriend rarely kisses me any more, when we have sex there is no foreplay, no reciprocation of oral sex for me, never any kissing during sex, sometimes he's looking at me and other times just watching porn while I perform oral on him. I try really hard not to let this get ... (77 words)

He seemed shocked when I asked him to cum in my mouth! I thought this was common.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1154 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im really confused becuase i thought guys like it when you let them cum in your mouth. I never did it before and my bf asked me where he should cum and i said my mouth cause i wanted to taste it for myself. He seemed shocked kinda and i asked him if he was ok with it or not ... (116 words)

Threesome in the making...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been together 10 years and married 4. We have always been very sexual and open about our fantasies. I originally introduced her to the experience with a women and she loved it. It was very exciting for her! We would go to strip clubs all the time and play ... (465 words)

He seemed so into me but now he just wants to be friends...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

- Hey, This is just a really strange one, and I'm at my wits end, I can't do this anymore... Five months ago I met this guy through work, we both work for the same company, I work in retail and he works in one of our support teams. We bonded, and exchanged email, and... (338 words)

Family doesn't like new girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, there is this girl (23) that I really like, and its not like I love her but REALLY like, she completes my personality, she enjoys all the same things I do including dirtbikes, hockey, camping, sports, she's very much like me in A LOT of ways. We have almost the same ... (815 words)

A man I'm dating still loves his ex!!

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - A man I'm dating still loves his ex. I really enjoy his company and he says he has feelings for me too. How should I deal with this? Backstory: We started hanging out before I moved out of my ex’s home. The first time we hang out he told me he was in love with his ex. At ... (332 words)

I really don't know how to move things forward with him or how he even feels about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I find it incredible how one person can have such a massive impact on your life. I really want to be with someone so much, I have done nothing but think aboout him since our date. The thing is, i'm just not sure how this older man feels about me! We'd had our first dat... (289 words)

I want to date my ex's roommate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have an incredibly strong crush on my ex-girlfriend's roommate. As much as I want to approach her, I think this may be too big of an obstacle in the way. We broke up about 6 months ago. The girl I like doesn't really like my ex, but she doesn't hate her either. How would ... (73 words)

Do women like ass hair? Need an answer for tonight!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My question is for the woman out there. When your having sex with a man do you like it if they have ass hair or do you like it more when there is none? A quick answer would be good since i need a answer for tonight thanks.... (49 words)

Is he blowing me off or just taking things slow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I met a guy from online..we met at a bar and we seemed to like each other..the conversation went well..he offered to buy me another drink..and then he said after awhile he isn't really a big drinker and do i want to go to another place after this maybe for coffee? so i agreed ... (441 words)

I'm in love with an older married man, and he's a friend of the family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I cannot beleive I am doing this...but i feel i have no other choice but to ask for help from those not attached in any way to the situation. I am a girl who feel in love with some one i cant have for so many reasons. I am a military dependant (my father is in the military.... (553 words)

My boyfriend wants a threesome and I don't.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend asked me if I would be interested in a threesome. It's not something that really appeals to me, but I decided to entertain the idea and at least discuss it with him. Not surprisingly, he was trying to push a threesome with a third girl. I'm straight, not ev... (231 words)

I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?

This question has 68 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

8 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often swinging. A few weeks ago she came... (141 words)

I have a huge crush on him but terrified it may all be a prank!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Okie-dokie. I'm currently 16 and at school there is this boy who is really giving me mixed signals!! It started about a year ago when we were put in some of the same classes for GCSES's and its grown from there. He's one of the popular crowd (I say popular, I don't mean the... (663 words)

How do I cope with Valentine's Day when it just reminds me of him cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age - Hi All, You may remember my saga about my text cheating husband with a work colleague. When found out and confronted she told me he'd done that sort of thing before. That alerted alarm bells about a necklace he'd bought for her predecessor in 2001 which I discovered on a ... (535 words)

How do we get the spark back in the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i have been dating the same girl for about six years now and we have lost the spark. I need help on gitting the spark back and for us to fall in love again.... (34 words)

She feels much more loose than before. Could she be cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

8 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my gf almost two years now and through honesty I found out from her that she slept with many much larger guys than myself and thats fine. I've noticed that on separate occassions her vagina felt more loose than others and thought nothing of it. Recently though I ... (203 words)

He won't leave me alone, and HE ended it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me about a week and a half ago. he made absolutely no contact with me the whole time we been broken up and I eventually gave up trying to talk because he would just tell me how much he hates me and a bunch of other things. Yesturday I ... (285 words)

What goes through a guy's mind when a sex scene comes on the tv?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What goes threw a guys mind when he's watching a film with his girlfriend and a sex scene comes on? After a conversation over a bottle of wine with a few friends non of us could answer this question lol. Guys any feedback helpful x... (45 words)

Should I mend it or end it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend, I just don't know if I'm in love with him and I don't know what to do. I love him because he's a great person, he truly cares for me, he's fun to be around, etc. However, I'm getting so tired of our relationship because 1. He never pays- I'm... (423 words)

My boyfriend thinks I am not "freaky" enough. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend Thinks Im Not "Freaky" enough. I think he going to break up with me for that. How Can Isave This Relationship?... (23 words)

My boyfriend is a loser and won't leave. And now I'm pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my ex bf about a year ago while I was home for christmas break from college. My home is about an hour from my school. The relationship moved really fast and he eventually moved to Richmond with me. I think that I was lonely and he has always been really sweet and caring ... (345 words)

This guy is so hot and cold. What does he really want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy about 8 months ago. We had instant attraction but were just friends. New Years Eve we hooked up, and after that, he started constantly texting me, always texted me good morning, telling me how beautiful I am. We were basically together from then on, spending ... (298 words)

Why can't my ex be friends with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok.. So I was broken up with by a guy I was head over heels in love with about 5 years.. there are still feelings I have for him even though we have both moved on in life.. Recently I had found out he is actually friends with his girlfriend he had before him and I dated.. But ... (189 words)

What do you think of my Valentine's Day gift idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have only been with my boyfriend for 2 months so for valentines day we both decided not to do anything over the top. So for him I fought that I could get him a teddy with a rose and then get him a necklace and put it around the teddies neck. What are your foughts on this?... (58 words)

How can I make her more comfortable with kissing in public?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Right I've been seeing this girl for about 5 months now and we're dead close and really care for each other. But sometimes when I try to kiss her or hold her hand she is either a bit hesitant about doing it or just rejects it. Now I know it's not because she doesn't want to or ... (120 words)

He is waaay too clingy for me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my bf for 3 months almost 4, hes getting a little clingy, and i dont blame him. i use to be clingy, but i mean i wouldnt have a problem with it if it wasent constant. he says i love you waaay to much, i try to give him hints that i need space, but if i tell him i need a ... (163 words)

Help! How can I gain her trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i love this girl so much she means the world to me... but she doesnt trust me... how can i gain her trust?... (24 words)

Is Facebook reflecting how I fail socially in the real world?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Sorry, but this is post about using a social networking site to validate my worth as a human being. I am on facebook and I am not popular on there, nor am terribly popular in real life. I'm like a leper of facebook actually. Less than 30 friends and I asked for half of them to ... (262 words)

Am I going about this the right way? Is there anything I should be doing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay I’ll try not to go into this too much because it is a long story…. But me and my ex have been broken up for nearly 6 weeks (we were together for 7 months). We split up cos I suspected he wasn’t over his ex of 3 years (LDR) and he finally admitted he wasn’t. (She bro... (1638 words)

Many times I get the distinct feeling that he's avoiding sex. What's the problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age - Please help. I am desperate for advice. I am in a very loving, mutually satisfying relationship with my boyfriend of one year now. We both agree that each is the best thing that has ever happened to the other and have even talked of marriage someday. My problem is this. I ... (432 words)

Do you think Viagra will help my 18 year old BF's erection problems?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now, we're both 18 and we havnt had sex yet (also still virgins). we have been trying to do it recently but every time we try he loses his erection. it's happened 10 times now so we still havent had sex. we have both spoke about ... (129 words)

Question about bankruptcy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

8 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - This isn't a relationship question obviously but with all the different types of people that are on this site maybe there is someone who will be able to answer me. I'm in the process of claiming bankruptcy. My question is this. If I don't claim bk and let my debts go to c... (119 words)

Who do I choose? The guy I like, or the guy I don't want to hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I been through a lot with my muslim boyfriend being a secret to his parents and where he lives it tool three years to introduce me because I broke up with him. I wish he could have did it sooner. While we was broken up I met a wonderful guy we have a very good chemistry he ... (239 words)

What the hell do I say to his guilt-trips???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were together for two years. Then we broke up for a year. And now we've been back together for two months (and counting). During the time we were broken up, I had a one-night-stand (which means I did NOT cheat as we were broken up). After it, I never talked ... (359 words)

I wonder if she is going to break my heart again in this never ending cycle...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - About two years ago, i was in a relationship with a really great girl. i mean this relationship was so good, it was hard to believe. i truly believed this person was my soul mate. well, i was planning on asking her to marry me, when she started to act rather strange all of a ... (454 words)

I feel insecure in this relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - We have been dating for almost three months and are close although we are at different periods of our lives. We have known each other for quite some time and work together very well. I am ten years younger than him and now just settling in confortably both at work and at home... (323 words)

Why does he resent me so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I'm sick of this situation. My boyfriend gives me crap about my past almost daily! I have done nothing wrong, I've been faithful, I don't flirt, etc. Yet he resents me a lot. It's like if I had cheated on him and he resented me for that. Except I haven't! I love him tons, a... (203 words)

Is it true partners who hurt you are who you really want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it true even if someone hurt you a lot in a previous relationship and you put a lot of your time and your energy into it and than it ends. So both of you start dating again or maybe only one of you does but is it true that you miss this person even more because you've b... (137 words)

Preventing pregnancy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I right that it's possible to get pregnant without penetration? What should I look out for to prevent these little accidents? What time about during the menstuation cycle is it least likely to get pregnant?... (39 words)

He only says nice things to me when he's smoking weed...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend over two and half years, i love him so much but he smokes weed all day which doesnt really bother me but it seems now thats hes only ever nice to me when he is high, when he hasnt had any weed he is really angry with me and calls me ugly n tells me ... (103 words)

Problem with long distance husband being committed to our marriage...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for only a year and my relationship with my husband has always been long distance, due to my husband's job (he is an officer in the Military). The problem is that I don't feel that my husband is ready to commit to our marriage fully, nor is he willing to ... (742 words)

I'm terrified of losing my virginity plus I don't like my body... Help!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hellooo this is a question for girls only , im scared of losing my 'v' , Ive Been seeing this boy for about a year now on and off and he is 18 and ready to lose his 'v' but i worried about losing mine ? i reali dont know what to do i feel and know im ready but scared its gonna... (121 words)

He says all he wants in life is sex!!! Does this mean he doesn't care for me any more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, i am 18 and have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I love him very much and always have, we`ve had our ups and downs but are still together. He is the first and only person i have ever slept with. However he never says "I love you" just "love you", and ... (108 words)

How do I bring it up to her that I'd love to try oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in a long distance relationship and we are very sexual whenever we are together how do i tell her that i want to try oral?... (27 words)

I missed him and want to check if he's okay...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have offered my man a break as to be honest he was in a bad place with work and housing problems. The problems... met him on a dating 5 months ago and we were getting on fine. Used to text him to check he is alright but it is doing my head in as I'm worried that he is ok and ... (123 words)

Is it ever too late to give space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, I lied to my girlfreind and it hurt her. She asked me to give her space, but because I was hurtng bad and missing her, stupid me sent her lots of texts to her too much trying to explain things to her and apoligising. This lasted for two weeks, I have stopped now. In t... (207 words)

Help choosing between 2 apartments (moving in with bf for first time)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This isn't hugely relevant to this site although it is related to a relationship, however didn't know where else to ask...need advice quick! :) My boyfriend and I are moving in together soon and we are stuck between two apartments. One is really large and has plenty of sp... (486 words)

Unsure what to do now... Help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy at a bar of all places, i thought he was the bouncer, so i gave him my id and we started talking. Only to find out later that he wasnt the bouncer just some guy in a black tshirt who wanted to talk to me.. from the moment i saw him i knew that there was something ... (806 words)

He wants me to go through with this 3-some even although I'm not really that keen!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A few weeks ago my fiance started texting me asking what I thought about threeseomes. I told him right away that I wanted to do one, thinking that he was talking about a FFM threeseome. I love to pleasure him and turn him on and he has told me numerous times that me being with ... (356 words)

Is this a man who knows what he wants and should I just live my life and see what time brings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I have been dating this man, I asked about our future together he told me leave it to time but keep contacting me. Is this a man who knows what he wants and should I just live my life and see what time brings?... (48 words)

Copy of my ex and his new girl's conversations... can I get some opinions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so this is a copy of what my boyfriend said to his new girlfriend just 2 months into there relationship. AND it is all the things he said to me but it took us time to build to these things and thats how they came to have such meaning. Anyway i've moved on, and not ... (685 words)

What to do with the engagement ring after breaking up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! I was engaged 5 years back, and he got me a diamond engagement ring. Things didn't go well and we split up, but I kept the ring when we moved apart. We did have a small discussion about it, but he said he wanted to wear it and I didn't like the idea of him actually wearing ... (231 words)

I've tried everything for 2 years and I STILL can't get over my ex!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so let me start off by saying what i've already tried. and this isn't to bash anyone's ideas or advice because trust me i really need them. I've tried hanging out with friends, visiting family. i even moved back in with my mother and am going to a college nearby. I've ... (505 words)

Am I paranoid? Am I overreacting? I feel trapped!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, yet another issue of trust Iv had a long discussion with my gf about her talking to her ex and this guy she lied about a couple of times and also kissed, told her it unsettles me and i dont really feel secure because of it. she- however - does not understand ho... (590 words)

Is he moving way too fast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so there is this guy I have been seeing for about 3 weeks now. But I dunno if I should keep this going, I feel it makes me sound shallow when I say this but I am not attracted to him in a phyical since. He is perfect for me in every way except there is not that spark I feel ... (194 words)

He admits that he occasionally wishes he were single!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I love him very much. It may seem fast, but I feel that he's the one and I would like to spend the rest of my life with him. However he has admitted that he occassionally wishes he was single. We're both 20 and he believ... (275 words)

I had a bad feeling he's hiding something from me, so I went through his messages!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a bad feeling that my new(first) boyfriend was hiding something from me.. for the simple fact that every time he got a msg he would turn his fone away so as i couldn't see it.. so after several opportunities to look thru his fone i finally took one.. and found a message ... (316 words)

What's the best thing I can or should do about her ex who has reappeared after four years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - so ive been best freinds with my girlfreind for 4 years, And ive been going out with her for 7months, when i came on the scene 4 years ago, i took the scene as her closest male freind. my girlfreind joined a college course this year, and she met her ex as he is in the same c... (278 words)

3 months married and I feel I've made a BIG mistake!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Reposted with an update: We've been married for 3 months, been together for 3 and half years in total. We lived together for a year but I moved back in with my parents cos I hated his housemates. We got our own place and moved in a week before the wedding. For me the bigges... (580 words)

I feel he's moving way too fast!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfreind and i have been going out almost three weeks and he is already telling people he loves me. But the thing that bothers me most about that was that he was planning on proposing to his last girlfriend until she cheated on him. now I'm afraid that he is going to give ... (62 words)

She says I am the best at eating her out but I want her to return the favour!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my girl for 10 months and she still refuses to give me a blow job, I mean she says I am the best at eating her out but I want her to return the favour. ... (39 words)

I found condoms in his jacket but they're NOT ours!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So me and my boyfriend been together for 3 year we have a real rocky past but for the last 4 months I feel like we have really connected. Until I found condoms in is jackets. They're not ours so I confronted him about it and he gave me stupid excuses. Part of me wants him to ... (83 words)

What do you men really find a sexy attribute in a woman you want to go long term with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi so I'm wondering... I'm a nice looking girl so I've been told. I've been in a long relationship now and still happy but curious so a question for the guys. What do you men really find a sexy attribute in a woman you want to go long term with? ... (50 words)

Threesome heartbreak...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. well where can i start, when my bf and i started dating, in the heat of passion i told him i would doing anything for him, even have another women with him. Later on in the relationship i told him i had a threesome with my best friend and her now husband (which he had met). ... (344 words)

How can I stop being so jealous and why am I so jealous with my boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am sooooo jealous with my boyfriend, and I dont know why. I Have never been jealouse with any of my past boyfriends. I started being jealous with this boyfriend at the 5 month mark I'd say. We've been together for 9 years now. And I get so jealous, if he even looks at... (204 words)

What can I say to get rid of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am dating a guy but he is one year junior than me that actually doesnt matter to me but the thing is that I no longer wanna date with him. Seriously I am fed up being in love with him. I have already betrayed him once but now I am not getting guts to betray him any more, ... (76 words)

Got back with my ex because I thought he'd changed... but he hasn't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and a guy have been together for like a year. We met at a party and got totally involved in each other although he was in a relationship with someone else but he told me he would break up with her and that he doesn't contact her anymore.. everything was perfect until the ... (399 words)

Can you get pregnant when you have a period?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

8 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hii, i know most people call it dirty, but can you get pregnant if your on your period?,... (18 words)

I wonder if he will ever open up and let me in

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I have been with my current partner for nearly 6 months now. It's been the first relationship in nearly 10 years where I can honestly say that I really like him. He has his head screwed on the right way, works for himself, has his own house etc etc. The thing is, I ... (392 words)

My pregnant girlfriend is insisting I move or lose all contact

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

8 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend is 6 moths pregnant, now we are arranging to start living together, she lives with her sister in london and I do live in mantchester, now the thing is she says I should go and live in london with them, but I asked her to come over here she strongly refusing, and ... (110 words)

When it comes to nudity and porn my boyfriend has double standards

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8 February 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I think my boyfriend has double stanards. He likes watching porn and even though he's not addicted, he'll defend his porn use until he dies! Well, I don't like him looking at other women. I don't like thinking he gets pleasure from others. I know it's not cheating, but he is ... (416 words)

My friend has a problem child, what can she do?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My friend has an 18 year old son who's living at home with her and her new husband. Her son's father is a waste of space. He dropped out of college without telling her and then got a job for about six weeks then walked out. Since then he's done nothing except sleep all da... (195 words)

Does the amount of x's at the end of a text signify anything?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok from both a guys and a girl point of view does the amount of kisses at the end of a text mean something? I know some people say it does but then again others dont. Some people like myself just but one x at the end to friends but do more x's man something. Espeically when ... (102 words)

Could I have been so drunk I don't remember having sex?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A month ago, i met one guy, we start making up til we met, then i realize that he had a girlfriend, but 2 day ago we were drinking a lot, and there's an important part that i can't remember, I just don't remember like 30 min or something like that, i just want to know but i ... (118 words)

I tried to spice up our love life but he was shocked

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

age - Hope you can help and understand what i am asking I am not sure how to write this but hope you can get the jest in what what i am asking. My husband and I have been trying to get our marriage back on track after I found out he had been cheating on me several times thoughout ... (357 words)

I was stood up for New Year, and since then we have only texted, I don't know where I stand

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - l am 23 and my guy is 26. we have been dating for 1 year. the problem is l don't know if he still loves me or not. was suppose to meet him on new years and he didn't turn up. l didn't contact him and he didn't also. l then texted him twice last week to ask him where l stand. he ... (95 words)

How can I make him wait for me until we are married?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have been dating my bf almost 2 years now n soon he is gonna be my fiancé but the thing is i am virgin and he is not and m sure about his feelings, but he doesn't wanna wait for our weeding. we have been talking about that n he is gonna wait till after the wedding but too ... (109 words)

Should I talk to him on the phone? I have never had a boyfriend before and I don't know what to do!

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i meet this person on the internet he seems sweet he wants to start talking on the phone but i never been in a relationship before a guy never even looked at me that way so i don't know what i should do, what if he doesn't want a relationship and he just wants friendship. can u ... (71 words)

How to stop being envious of other girls?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this girl who my ex boyfriend used to date and at the time I was dating him. I was so jealous of her because she was PERFECT. People always say no ones perfect but she is. Every guy wants her and everyone thinks she's beautiful. She's a model also. People have told me I ... (156 words)

What could this stinging pain be?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I get this stinging pain in my vagina during and after urinating... i googled myself half to death cant find anything... have a gynae appointment in a month.. please help?... (30 words)

Do you think I might have a chance of getting back with him?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i was with my ex for 9 months and we were in love. then we had 1 argument and he called it a day, we hadn't spoken in 8 months and i started talking 2 him on internet. i asked him if he misses me and thinks about me and he said honestly yes, he misses the banter and everything ... (226 words)

I'm being criticized by a teenage boy! Why is he behaving like this and how can I get him to respect me?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - HI. I'm a happily single 35 yr. old woman. I go to church alone and even though I've been going to this particular church for more than 2 yr.s it hasn't been easy for me to make friends there. Lots of people smile and say hi but they don't really know me or care enough to know ... (825 words)

I think I'm driving men away due to trust issues from past relationships

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I think I have serious trust issue's with men. Had to serious long term relationships the first being with my son's dad who cheated on me when my son was 3 months old. The next I was with him for 6 years and he was a free loader which I now see at the time I didn't. Now I met a ... (127 words)

How do I know what his sexual fantasies are, and do I tell him mine?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 23 and my partner is 26 we have been together for 3yrs and are both madly in love but our sex life needs a bit of sparking up but how do i know what he is into, what his fantasies are and how do i let him know what mine are with out bluntly asking or telling him?... (59 words)

My boyfriend isnt giving me any time!

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a committed relationship since 7 months.the guy i am having in my life is my first boyfriend and i am his first girlfriend.we both really love each other.he says i m the most important part of his life.but now a days his actions have changed!he has gone to his ... (176 words)

I can barely go to my boyfriend's house without wanting to punch his mom in the face! What can I do?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i have this problem with my boyfriends mother i hate hate hate her with a passion!!! she has the worst parenting skills in the world , she screams 24/7 and she moves things and then accuses my boyfriend and his brother of stealing them , i hate her parenting skills... (280 words)

Can I take the morning pill again after a few weeks and could I be pregnant?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just started to get intimate with my boyfriend, we haven't had sex yet but we have done oral and foreplay. 2 days ago, after I performed foreplay on him, he came, quite alot. I got it on my hand and he got it on his. I was fully clothed at the time but I get really p... (174 words)

Do I have a problem? I'm too scared to go to the doctor and afraid to talk to my parents

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello doctor , I'm 20 year old. I bleed when my guy fingers this happens rare not all the time but when it happens i have problem with my menstural cycle. i never had sexual intercourse before i dont even know whether the hymen is broken or not. if he fingers the next... (226 words)

Never wanted despite all my good attributes

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8 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This is something that has been bothering me for quite some time. Girls never seem to have any chemistry for me. I seem to have tremendous difficulty starting any kind of relationship or retaining any kind of interest with girls. People tell me Im good looking, intelligent, ... (502 words)

What could be wrong with my girlfriend?

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8 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - the girl i love has been really worried lately... she is worried because she feels like she always need to go to the toilet... she says it feels like she doesnt fully empty out... but a couple days she said her hair started falling like only like 4 strands out at a time...... (70 words)

Do you think she is actually committed to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

8 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so here is my question. I am enaged to the woman of my dreams, love her very dearly. Recently I feel as though she is not committed to me in our relationship. I recently had a good friend's fiance ask her some questions. My boys fiance asked her when she goes out does she ... (166 words)

The waiter has my number, should I call him to ask him out?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay so there is this really cute waiter at a restaurant that my friends and I frequent. I met him about a year ago and recently he seems to be showing more interest in me because every time he sees me he greets me with a hug(a little longer than the normal hug)and a kiss on ... (546 words)

My hubby wants to try bondage but I hesitate. What should I do?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunty,I have been married for 4 months now and having a nice relationship with my hubby,however recently he has been insisting on using cuffs in bed!!he wants to try bondage.. He wants me to cuff him and make him my slave!! I have not tried this before,hence hes... (58 words)

I want to break up but he has paid for the holiday!

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for about 18 months, were both 19 years old, and I used to love him very much, but I just don't anymore. I've thought about it long and hard and I'm pretty much decided that I want to break up with him, but there's a big problem, my parents have ... (116 words)

Age gap relationship, good sex but for how long?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 32 and i am in relation ship with 52 yr old man . our sexual life is good till now. may i know how long will it be? i love him very much............... (36 words)

Not sure how long to wait and he's the one who said Ican call him.

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I told him he has to be out by March but I want him out now!!!!

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a huge problem ! My boyfriend and I broke up I called it quits after 5months. He was living with me and my son and I told him that he has to give me half of my rent which is 400 my rent is 700 no problem he has been doing that. Latley we have been fussing everyday it's ... (128 words)

I bought him a message in a bottle... what should I write?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is away for college and for valentines day I bought him a message in a bottle that has 3 scrolls inside, any ideas on what to write inside? Like a love letter maybe I don't want to be to lovey dovey. ... (43 words)

What should I do..he wants to bring his mother and stay nearby for a week following the birth of our child. I barely know them!

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay, so here is the question. I'm pregnant, 37 years old and got pregnant almost immediately after I met the man who is the father. I've always wanted children and thought I would have them on my own by the time I was 40 (if I didn't have them by them) so am ecstatic about ... (598 words)

I'm falling in love with her but, well, its complicated...

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8 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, my mother started dating a guy I knew from playing poker and he has a daughter that at that time was in a relationship with someone else. After a month or two my mother and now step-father are married and she has become my step-sister. Also, the boyfriend she was dating ... (265 words)

I cant get over my boyfriend's best friends, cousin, ... even tho he is about to become a dad.

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 19 and i have a boyfriend, iv been with him for 3 and a hlf years. i meet this guy who is 24 and is my boyfriends bestfriends cousin. ive kind of met up with him a couple times and really really like him. he also has a girlfriend and a baby on the way, hez told me he really ... (86 words)

Self absorbed spot light seeking friend is being a bully.

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8 February 2010 (?) age 41-50 - My friend is self-absorbed. If she doesn't have the spotlight for even one moment, she'll try to find a way to get it back. She'll even go as far as interrupting two people talking, to get them to pay attention to her. She brags about how all these guys want her and ask her out ... (143 words)

He tells me I am hot so why aren't his friends all over me?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Heeey ! 3 kso i love thiis websiite ! alright , well i was seiing thiis one guy once and he is prettyy much one of the more popular kiids , and were not seiing each other anymore , but were stiil really good friiends , and idk but i thiink he stiil likes me , ..... he always ... (199 words)

They all stalk me because they think I am so hot and want to be with me! But they don't answer my msn messages!

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okaii : so this is kiind of a weiird thing but ... its been bothering me , lol , so my brother plays travel hockey , and hes one year younger than me , so on his team there is guys his age and my age . so we have been on two hockey tournaments and i really love them , lol , be... (185 words)

What to do when you were fooled once again?

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8 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - (Mod Note - OP's own title) Well, The story is damn long, but I'll keep it simple: I fell in love with a girl that hat a boyfriend. She ended falling in love with me. 2 weeks later her boyfriend broke up, and 3 days after that, we were coming together. Insanely said, I had my... (697 words)

I have a crush on my younger brothers friend.

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okaii : so i have a brother thats one year younger than me , and he has a friend that i never really talked to before , but then when we started to talk .. i started liking hiim. then i stopped because i didnt think he liked me at all . but a year or so later i found out he ... (210 words)

Should I break up with my gf because I am attracted to my friend - even tho she does not 'do' girls?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14,female,and bi. So, I have a gf who I've been dating for almost 2 weeks, and I like her but at times my feelings for her fade away and come back later on. I've been a bit distant at times and I know that it's affecting our relationship, but I'm working on it kind of.. Any... (143 words)

I feel guilty and trashy for wanting just sex with my ex.

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it bad that I really want to hook up with my ex? We're on friendly basis. We were together for 2 yrs. But lately, all I can think about is just hooking up with him. It's strictly physical. I asked him if he was interested (twice!) and he said yes but both times I backed out ... (107 words)

We agreed to stick to oral, but I am wondering if he really wants sex after all.

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I (He's 21, I'm 20) are really quite close. We've been best friends for about 6 to 7 years, and we started getting close just last summer. A lot of crap happened in between, but to make a really long story short, we started dating in december and have been ... (256 words)

My familys not letting me have a proper relationship with a black boy?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well bassicaly this is a horrible experiance, im 17 and ive been with this black boy for about 4 months now, And he has not even met my family yet, well hes met my mum and my mums ok with it shes says it my life etc.. but my DAD and his side of the family dont like it at all, ... (180 words)

Ex boyfriend that's always there!

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I Went Out With my boyfriend for 6 months and my mom's friends heard that he was a gangster.. but hes not. he just hangs out with some of them so she told me to break up with him but instead I just told her I did. but I didnt so i went behind her back.. she found out and ... (402 words)

Cold shoulder. My fault or his?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First let me start off describing my relationship with this guy, Samuel. I am head over heels for this kid and he knows it. We dated a while back, but he was having family troubles and we decided he needed to work things out. Recently we have been hanging out a lot, and it's ... (322 words)

Plagued by indecision and don't know what to do for the best... please help!

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Plagued by indecision, and am in need of some advice, or maybe someone to shed some light where I can not see! I left my boyfriend of 4 years a few months ago, we have a 3 year old, and Im 15 weeks pregnant. (Im 28) I am so thrilled to be pregnant, but I am not sure if I... (528 words)

I fancy a work colleague but I'm married and don't know how much longer I can keep this in.

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8 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I dont know what to do, I have fallen head over heals for a a woman at work, she has no boyfriend / husband, but I'm married and have been for nearly 10 years. I've told no one, not even the woman at work about this, but its eating me up like crazy, I suspect she may fancy me ... (112 words)

I think my boyfriend's sister fancies him!!!

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My live in boyfriend has a year younger sister. Something is so wrong with their relationship. She leaves comments on his websites saying he's sexy and he's so cute. Very weird I know. Also I wouldn't mind if he had such a strong relationship with one of his 6 brothers but she ... (199 words)

Since I've fallen pregnant he seems disinterested in me...

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going for two years strong, until a few months ago when we found out that I was pregnant. Ever since I told him he has been very distant towards me, flirting with other girls, focussing souly on his looks and nightclubs, and barely even bothering to ... (997 words)

Am I alone in feeing this way? I hate sex!!!

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8 February 2010 (F)

age - I hate sex! I am in my fifties... I have a wonderful husband and three adult children. I love them all. I find men attractive, but I hate sex, I always have, I am not a lesbian. It is not all it is crancked up to be. No. My husband does not know this. Still not game to ... (86 words)

Do you think he was put off that I didn't want to have sex yet with him?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age - I am probably just freaking out for no reason... but I've been so worried today. Long story short - I dated a guy last summer... got too involved too fast (the sex happened after about two weeks)... and as a result, he didn't want anything to do with me after that. A month ... (338 words)

Mutual friend does not approve

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy that I like and I am pretty sure he likes me back too. We have a mutual friend whom I just told that I like said guy. This friend says that she does not approve of this because he is too complicated. She has known him longer than I have but she also has a history ... (88 words)

My boyfriend might not be capable of fully loving me due to childhood trauma. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

8 February 2010 (F)

- Dear Cupid, I'v started seeing someone whom I have quite strong feelings for (we've been dating a month, but I've known him about a year and a half). An interesting dilemma has come up: Just as I've started to get those 'loving' feelings, he's explained to me that he'... (226 words)

Why would he want to masturbate instead of having sex with me?

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8 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend recently spent the night with me. We got it on before going to sleep and both had a good time. The next morning, we're both sitting up in bed (I was naked, he was in boxers) and watching tv. Next thing I know, he's playing around with his morning wood. I have no ... (221 words)