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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why do some Asians find it impossible to date Hispanic men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

15 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - A while ago I was in love with a chinese girl I knew for over 2 years. We were best friends and loved doing everything together. I always kept it open that one day we should try dating and she always found ways to dodge the topic. But whenever we didn't talk about the ... (760 words)

I would like to care a lot less about the way I look

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like to care a lot less about the way I look. I feel badly self conscious if I go out anywhere thinking I look less than great. I don't judge other people by how they look but I always feel judged by how I look. Whenever I see a man on the street who isn't looking at ... (171 words)

I need your help! Should I tell him how I feel or is he not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Argh this is long but I really would appreciate some outside opinions. I'm a 16 year old, pretty sensible girl. About a month ago my bf of 9 months broke up with me. It was hard on me as I was expecting us to have sex soon as we both wanted to be each other's first. Anyway, h... (359 words)

Could we be brother and sister???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, im only 15 and ive become really close to my friend and we are like big bro and sister. I've been told that my mum cheated with his dad before i was born and i want to know if he is my brother. my mum wont tell me and his dad wont tell him but my pics and his pics ... (77 words)

I have become increasingly concerned about her night time habits!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

15 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been living with my finacee for 8 months. We enjoy sex 3 or more times a week. I always ensure she has an orgasm before there is any penetration as I tend not to last too long. I have become increasingly concerned about her night time habits. Last night we were i... (260 words)

1 month late... BABY????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i am a month late. i took 2 at home pregnancy tests already. when i was a day late and 2 weeks late and they both came out negative but now im a month late and nothing. me and my bf dont use pertection. he uses the PULL OUT METHOD? i want to go to the doctor but first i ... (74 words)

Weird Ex Situation, Please Help Me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex has been acting so weird lately, we were hanging out and everything was good. Then she started hanging out with some friends from school and ignoring me. Then one day she came to my house with a car full of her friends. She told me she couldent talk to me anymore and we ... (148 words)

Worried about partner's future ED/low sex drive as he gets older in a significant age gap relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If you've been in/are in a significant age gap relationship, have you ever worried about this: your significant other experiencing ED or lower sex drive as he gets older? I'm with a man who is 20 years older than me (I'm almost 21) and I sometimes wonder how our sex life wil... (121 words)

Boyfriend says my work dress is too Sexy !

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone .. A problem about the clothing I wear to work. My boyfriend says that the clothese I wear to work are too sexy and too revealing . BUT THEY ARE NOT! I do like tight body hugging dress / suits which suit my figure, but Im very careful with my appearance . But... (124 words)

Talk about confused!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl and I were friends for 2 years and a half then suddenly i began to like her, but i was several month of me liking her sometimes but not feeling that i have feelings and i couldn't like understanding whats going on...then i began to like her for real and when i was ... (537 words)

I need boys opinions on make up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Heya, this question is mainly aimed at boys :) is it true that boys prefer girls that wear no makeup than ones than wear quite a lot? or is it okay if we still wear a little but it looks natural? thanks... (42 words)

Making out tips, I want them to be most romantic!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Heya, how can i make my pulls (french kiss) more enjoyable than they alredyvare, and almost more horny like and romantic? thaanks.... (22 words)

Any tips on flirting...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey all, ive been single for quite some time now and i'm looking for a boyfriend. any flirting tips girls? thanks... (21 words)

My ex boyfriend is stuck in my head! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello all.. Just the other day I broke up with my boyfriend because he ws using me. but now I can't seem to get him out of my head! i know i shouldn't get back with him he only wants me sexually and that is not what im looking for in a relationship. Does anyone know how i can ... (68 words)

I've never had an orgasm with him... how can we fix this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so my boyfriend and I have recently started having sex... for the past month, he's never given me an orgasm. I love him to death and I'll never leave him because of that, I just wanna know how to fix this. it's always disappointing to know that he can always get his fix ... (179 words)

Did I really break her heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - so i have hurt a girl and maybe got her heart broken dunno and after that she doesnt want to talk to me anymore or even answer my sms, i sent her apology letter but she didnt change and still doesnt want to talk to me,, one month after i sent her a valentine gift 2 days ago and ... (284 words)

I love him but I can't wait forever for a guy to just have fun in the end. I need more and I want more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I became close friends with a male co-worker two years ago. We had a strong connection between the two of us. Both of us were also having issues in our marriages and those issues help bond us together. After six months of close friendship we took it to another level. (And ... (461 words)

I'm at my wits end on what to do next...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help im losing sleep over this guy n look forward to the moments im with him but when im around him i get shy! hes 21 im 20 the whole world tells me i shouldnt be with him cause of his past cheated on his ex gf....(smh i know) but ive been attracted to him since i was ... (242 words)

I feel like I've been stabbed in the heart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel like I've been stabbed in the heart. My best friend has told me he started dating another girl last night - I'm devastated. i really love him and have never told him because for the past 7 months I've been supporting him over his wife leaving him and he's been very fra... (89 words)

How do I turn it from kissing into more without looking stupid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi this is really embarrassing but i didnt know who else to ask... im 20 and have just got together with a girl for the first time (i came out about 6 months ago so this is all a bit new). weve kissed and cuddled and stuff but im really nervous about taking it any further! ... (149 words)

Communication troubles...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating the same girl for over 2 years. But every time I talk to her she just nods her head or says okay. I tell her how I feel and she apologizes for everything. I know in my head I love her but when I talk to other girls like from work. I rather be with them then ... (66 words)

Soon to be ex-husband knowing about the co-inhabiting new boyfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Heres the story: Married 5 years, emotionally the marriage has been over since January 2009, seperated in July 2009(not legally), asked for a divorce in October 2009. We have a young child together. I re-met an old friend from High School in december, we hit is off and are ... (431 words)

I thought he was committed to me... but seems not from his answer.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, Apologies in advance, this is quite a long question/conundrum but I will deeply appreciate answers. I asked a question about 6 months ago relating to my disappointment that my boyfriend, of what is now nearly 2 years, won't tell me he loves me. This is a similar qu... (332 words)

Girlfriend's male friend with an agenda!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing my girlfriend for just over three months and I have fallen in love with, she does have a male friend who she has known for 13 years and has kissed him, this guy has also confessed his love for her. She has told me that she doesn't want to be with him and ... (131 words)

Help! I lied to him about my age and now he wants to meet up with me again. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey :) so the other night I was out in a bar, now strictly speaking I wouldnt be allowed in there, as i'm 17, but all my friends are 18 and I look old for my age, anyway I wasn't drinking. So yeah I got talking to some people next to me, in particular this one guy. He seemed r... (312 words)

Help! How can I get his trust back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to know how I can earn my boyfriend's trust back. I slept with two different men when he was incarcerated, two different times. How do I get the love and trust and him not cussing me? I love him so much and I don't know why I did it... I just did!... (57 words)

I need to know how to be a real man!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-wife-has-stopped-having-sex-with-me.html#provide_answer I need to know how to be a real man. Liked your response to Charles999 last year just read it today your right. I'm going through the same thing and I'm a big pussy about the whole th... (393 words)

He text me to say he has "good lean meat now"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) age 51-59 - Hi, my partner of ten years walked out on me when I was unwell about a year ago. We kept in touch and we talked all the time and he talked about getting back together. Then he suddenly switched on me. He has always complained about my size. I am roughly a size 16 and I was ... (174 words)

How can I get her to focus on me more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

15 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I need some advice about my situation. There is this older woman I am good friends with. We ended up having sex a while back. She told me that she really likes me but the situation is complicated. What she meant was her and her ex-boyfriend were trying to get back toge... (457 words)

Is it wrong to assume she's playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So basically I have a friend/ friend with benefits and we have been hanging out messing around about twice a week for the last few weeks now. Though when we first met about 3 months ago apparently I got too serious for her and we went on hiatus for about a month and a half ... (346 words)

Why is he treating me like dirt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some advice met a guy on the internet, been talking to him for a few months, everything going fine. I know this bloke has a busy job which involves a lot of travelling. I had his mobile number and his email address and could contact him anytime. I admit to texting ... (190 words)

Like a virgin every time!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel Like i have a problem every time i have sex it feels like the first time and it hurts and the next day I'm really sore, is there something wrong with my vagina?... (35 words)

Why do I sometimes think of girls when I'm feeling horny?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - A lot of times when I have sex or masturbate I think about having sex with girls. I'm not attracted to girls usually and have always gone out with men. I slept with a girl once a few years ago. It was good but I didn't really fancy her, we were just quite drunk. I enjoy sex ... (87 words)

Why is it guys my age just want hook-ups?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it guys my age just want hook-ups? i m 18. why arent there guys who want meaningful relationships? fine, i want sex. but i've been keeping it reallllyyyy long for the one but why hasnt it come? how long do i have to wait for someone whom i love and who really loves me... (142 words)

Why do guys always seem to want sex so badly???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey guys im 14 and for some reason it seems that i always break up with my boyfriends because of sex... the last three boyfriends i had were realy nice but after going out for a few months they just kept asking me for sex and i dont want to have sex till im older... im still a ... (93 words)

I feel like he raped me... he was so aggressive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi so im turning 16 in april and my bf turned 19 a week ago. we have been together 3 months but ive known him since i was very young, about 4. we had sex for the first time the other night, not my first time ever. i had sex with my ex bf 3 times. so he was my 4th time ever ... (195 words)

Male input would be useful. What makes the perfect woman?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Not really a question. More of an investigation,just wondering what makes the perfect woman-not just looks wise but taking that into consideration. Please and thankyou :).. xx... (27 words)

Should I postpone my career for another 18 months, in order to move with him? Is this worth doing or crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with an amazing guy for nearly three years. We've never lived in the same place but have managed to keep it going this long - obviously because we both feel it's worth it. The thing is it's not getting any easier. At the moment it's necessary for us to be in ... (211 words)

We broke up because we fought too much but I can't stop thinking about him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear readers....plz help me. i have been with my boyfriend for more than 3 yrs now.... though few months back we broke up, so technically we are not in a relationship but things hvnt really changed. we both love each other madly.. we broke up because we fought too much. th... (327 words)

I don't know what to think... is he interested at all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this one guy that i've been seeing around lately. We both are on the tennis team but he's JV (sophomore) and i'm freshman, so we only see each other after school on Weds. and Thurs. for afterschool practice. We've been going out with all our tennis friends, who are... (199 words)

What did I do wrong?? Have I scared him off already?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i met a guy on plenty of fish dating website.. he was really sweet and would call me every day and would actually ring when he says he would. i met up with him on friday.. we went for a ride.. got something to eat..did a bit of kissing.. he said i looked nice.. he didn't... (170 words)

Girlfriend won't touch me, but is happy for me to touch her. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a (lesbian) relationship with a girl for almost a year now. She lets me touch her and bring her to orgasm, but she wont touch me. We kiss and her hands will brush my back and hair, but nowhere else. We've talked about it a great deal and she says that she just ... (146 words)

I'm a virgin at 30, I'm not sure if my moodiness is the result of sexual tension, how to deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel embarrassed to be asking this but I'm so grateful to have the Internet and be able to ask anything anonymously. I worry about this question not being taken seriously and I worry that no one will believe me. I'm 30 years old and I've never slept with anyone. Never h... (677 words)

Ex texts me out of the blue, maybe he is just lonely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Today an exboyfriend got in touch with me and i havent spoke to him for a few months as it ended when he decided he was still in love with his ex. I can't help but think he wants us to get back together after telling me he'd have me as i was speaking about not being able to get ... (129 words)

Does he have a drinking problem or am I overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have been with my bf for 4 yrs now. I am worried about his drinking. It didnt bother me before now it is because I am thinking about our feature. He always did drink, once I moved in with him I notice just how much. He used to buy pints (vodka is his choi... (352 words)

He's lost in the past it seems!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 3 years now. For the past 8 or 9 months it seems he has been trying to get in touch with a bunch of his exes. I understood 8 months ago when it was near his birthday and he needed some closure of the past ten years ... (241 words)

I left my boyfriend of 9 years because he is not affectionate, although we had a great sex life. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I been with my boyfriend ( yeah not even married ) for almost 9 yrs and we have 3 kids together... Weve been thru so much and I still love him alot. but he is so different now, he changed completly after HE was unfaithfull..... hes never affectionate only if he wants sex and if ... (264 words)

He makes me feel like a criminal because of my past. Help?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I'm at my wits end. I'm hopelessly in love with my boyfriend. The problem is he is obsessed with my past. I have been completely faithful to him. In the beginning of the relationship he said he didn't want to know anything about my past, he was a jealous guy, he ... (608 words)

I'd like him to show me 'public' appreciation...

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My other half often comments on other girls pictures or 'likes' them on social networking sites, particulary from a alternative modelling groups fan page. Although I don't mind as such as i know its only pictures its not cheating he shows no signs other than the fact that we ... (153 words)

I'm so frustrated because of my name and envy others with nicer names!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please try to understand how I feel, because this problem might seem really shallow to others, but it's upsetting me a lot. I love my family, but I hate, hate HATE our family surname. I don't mean I just don't like it. I mean that the name causes me emotional pain. ... (970 words)

Why is it so hard for us to tell each other what we like sexually? We've been together forever!

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - so Ive been with my husband for 7 years. I love him to death and only want to make him happy in every way. but we have one issue. He is only my 2nd partner, and im like his 6th or 7th. I had a lot of growing up to do sexually, like watching porn, using toys ect during sex. ... (329 words)

Please help me, should I stay or should I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5422 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i am in a relationshio with this guy and i am unsure if i should stay... So here's the thing iwe have dated for two years now and have had a child who is only 6 months old. We have had many of fights and been through alot and i am unsure if i am only staying becuase ... (229 words)

Am I a fool to stay with this guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm feeling very confused and unsure about what to do in my relationship. We have been together on and off for 5 years in may. We live together and had a wedding booked for last may but it never happened as i left him due to us arguing so much about money and the house etc. We g... (357 words)

Ex's family hate me, but I did nothing but try to help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age - I need help. I had to divorce a man I love still becasue he was bi polar and refused to get help, I did everything iun my power for years to help him. Even our priest said to me I am surprised you are still trying to help him . When he was in episodes I would be scared for my ... (407 words)

I really want a baby, but I am confused at the whole situation.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 19, I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now never been happier and I know he's the one he is a few more years older then me. I've always wanted a baby. Last week I had a scare, told my boyfriend and he said if you are it's good news it's not bad, obviously it will ... (115 words)

I'm so confused, is he interested or is he confused?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Right where to start met a minute on the internet 6 months ago haven't met him yet as he live quite far away from me. I must admit I have trust issue because of previous relationship one being my son's dad. Anyway thought this man wanted space so gave him that, listened to ... (192 words)

What should I do if I give my boyfriend his Valentines gift but he does not have one for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i want to know if my boyfriend was sick and on valentines day and so he did not get me a gift but i have a gift for him if i give it out and he does not give me one what should i do.... (45 words)

Why is this happening to us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm kinda frustrated and so my Gf, when she gives me a handjob and a blowjob, and after I Cum, I got frustrated and Mad and I sooo need a space from her, and I'm kinda about to leave her, and she starts crying and etc and the next day, we're back together. Why is that ... (73 words)

She had a one night stand before I asked her out and its really getting to me! Should I let it go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My new girlfriend broke up with her then boyfriend because she wanted to get with me, she told me she had liked me for 5 years and I had felt the same but neither of us had thought to say anything. The problem is the night before I asked her out she had a 1 night stand with a ... (91 words)

Boys and sex. What is it these days?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Why are boys SOO obsessive about sex? It's like a must have for them! I have been asked for it a couple of times, but I'm only 13. Im definitely not having sex until I'm at least 17 and I when I've found someone I love and trust to loose my virginity with. What's the ... (84 words)

Does the hurt and pain EVER go away or at least ease?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age - It's me again, Well we went out for valentines dinner on Saturday night and it had to happen. I mentioned I suppose I'd be getting a poxy bunch of flowers as usual rather than a heart necklace (like he bought 9 years ago for some woman he got close to but I only found out w... (455 words)

Long distance broken relationship..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy a while ago on holiday (lets call him *fred), we only talked for a couple of days, but then we had to go home. He's irish, I'm scottish. We stay far apart, then he added me on msn. He asked me out, and I said yes cause I did quite like him, he finished it, and I ... (266 words)

I think I'm turning into a monster! Does my ex like my best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel really insecure, it doesnt help when my ex and best friend are together i get so jealous its with other girls as well, i no its bad and annoying i would invite her out feeling happy, then when i see them together i just would stay away. He treats her the way he used to ... (311 words)

Should I have said "I Love You"? I have not heard from him since and I'm worried I scared him away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing this guy for a while now and we get along really well. I have very strong feelins for him and last night I told him that I loved him. I don't think that he could return the feelings. He told me that he loved me too, but I don't know if he meant it or not. Now ... (96 words)

Why do I miss her when I finally gathered the courage to end the relationship after 2 years of emotional abuse?

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15 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone..i really need your help! My relationship with my girlfriend (more like a fiance to me) for 2 + years now (we both were 17 when we started off)..ended 6 weeks back!!this is why! she was my first girlfriend and i wanted her to be my last! im not like others w... (826 words)

Did he like my surprise hug because we are just friends, or did he like it because he 'likes' me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How would you know that your best friend liked your surprise hug or liked it because he likes you? I've been wanting to know if he liked me more than a friend for a long time. my crush was blushing a lot more. I walked bye him and his back was turned so I decided that I would ... (180 words)

My parents want me to stay away from him after his drunken outburst, but he wants us to get back together! I really don't know what to do...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! i'll try 2 keep this as short as i can, i've been seeing a guy for about a year and a half now were not anything official but we dont see other people sounds complicated i know! anyways we have been finished a while but last night we had a drunk row, and with temper he hit ... (133 words)

Any way to make him come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex asked me a week ago if I wanted to try again. He said that his feelings for me havent changed over 2 years and he really cant lose me from his life. And I'm the best thing thats happened to him and he cant wait to tell people we are back together. I told him we should s... (286 words)

Over the last year our sex life has gone down-hill, how can I get my wife to open up to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - How can i get my wife to open up more to me. I have never had a boring sex life. For the past year its been real bad. I need advice please. ... (32 words)

He called me his "casual friend" at the end of our date! How can I talk to him about this without appearing to be clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple of weeks ago I met up with a guy I've been online friends with since last summer. I've had feelings for him for some time. We had a great day, typical date- cinema, meal, then to finish we went on a walk and got to know each other some more (a lot more- he told me all ... (169 words)

I'll never be able to forget that my father always favoured my older sister

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a question about my father. We are four sisters and since we were small he used to compare us. He has always favoured my biggest sister. He has even confessed that he liked her most because he finds that she has more qualities than the rest of us. I have never be... (177 words)

What do lads like a girl's lady bits to look like?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well im think about sex for first time and i was curious as to how lads like a girls lady bits too like. totally shaved or not?? Because this is the only thing im self conscious about Helpppp !!! i really need your answers :D... (52 words)

How can I get her to love me as more than a friend?

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15 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - IM A MALE/FRIENDS A FEMALE Ive been desperately in love with my best friend for a year now. We started the relationship terrible as i came to find out that she was my best friends ex girlfriend. Then out of the blue as soon as i start talking to her, they got back together.. ... (120 words)

I've dreamt of being in a relationship with her but now there is a chance of it happening I'm scared I might be a rebound or it might not be the right thing for her

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15 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl in my college biology class. I remember the first time we met like it was yesterday and yet I can't seem to understand how it has been only 5 months. We clicked it off immediately. We were suppose to be studying but we'd chat about our lives and dreams. I found ... (510 words)

Do you think I did the right thing?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend just split up because we can't make it work at the moment - we're both at different schools and it's an LDR so it makes it really difficult for us so I suggested to him that we go our seperate ways and if he wants to give it another go a couple of months ... (578 words)

Why aren't we "Official"?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been "seeing" this guy for a few months. There is a slight age gap -I am 20, he is 25- but we get along very well. We hung out very often before it reached this point. From what I've seen, he's kind of shy; I made the first move on him, and it took him awhile to get used ... (255 words)

How do I get over my ex boyfriend when I am due to give birth soon?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am currently 32 wks pregnant and alone. Father of baby is ignoring me and didn't even wish me a happy valentine's day yesterday. I bumped into him after 30 days of no contact and was doing well until the conversation turned ugly. I looked better then him and acted ... (840 words)

Is it wrong that my husband discusses our personal life with the mother of one of his children?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age - Please could you tell me how you would feel about this. I am recently married and have found out that my new husband discusses our personal life and things about me personally with one of the mothers of his children, asking for advice and her view on things. I think this is ... (85 words)

I suppose I should let these friendships die but I am hesitant because my partner is still close to the men in the group. What should I do?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all. Im a 32 year old woman. A year ago, I moved back to my home town after years of depression and a breakdown. My relationship was collapsing, I couldn't hold down a job, the town I lived in was crime riddled and grey and I just had to leave or lose my mind. During the ... (355 words)

I tried so hard but I could not ejaculate whilst having sex, what is wrong with me?

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15 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i am in love with my girlfriend for 3yrs now...we both live in different places.... whenever we meet we used to have kind of sex.. which is not purely sex...she has a problem in loosing her virginity....in one of her birthdays i forced her to have sex and she finally agreed.... ... (85 words)

What should I say to him now he has mentioned he wants to take things further?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi :) me and my boyfriend have only been together for a month and half, and two days ago he kind of brought up the topic of taking things further. Whether or not he actually meant sex, I don't know. But as we only spoke about it briefly, last night we texted about it, and yes ... (196 words)

Is it wise to move in together?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This May I graduate college. My boyfriend of 2 years has found a job at the other end of the country. I haven't started looking yet but besides my family there's nothing to keep me where I am. I think it'd be exciting to move somewhere new. I'm just scared for what it would ... (121 words)

Does he like me or should I forget about him?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been texting this guy none stop for about 3 months.i've known him but never talked to him.we never hung out and i dont know if he likes me.. he texts me none stop, always says what i'm doing but when it comes to hang out he always bails he used to talk to my friend/sti... (206 words)

Why don't girls put effort into relationships?

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15 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is just not putting forth effort into our relationship. She wants me doing all this shit and I get nothing back in return. I even tried telling her nice things all the time and loving on her but I got nothing back in return. I want to know if all girls are like ... (73 words)

I feel like he is my soulmate but he is moving away for a new job, is there any hope for us?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Yall thanks for answering; i'll try and only give you the important info so i posted an online personal ad, and the first thing i said was that i want a monogamous relationship.this guy responds, i totally don't think i am going to like him, but i still go out on a date... (773 words)

We went on a break but never got back together, how can I get back into the relationship now?

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15 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I once went out with this girl a while ago, it ended last october, but not on a bad note, we just had a break and never got back into it and i kind of want to get back into the relationship with her soon, but i don't know how to go around it or that i should just simply move on ... (99 words)

He likes being sought after, but it frustrates me

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15 February 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I had attention issues with my boyfriend from the time we started dating eight months ago. He was always too busy for me. I complained several times but he did nothing, and actually seemed to enjoy the chase. He would however treat me very well and spoil me with a lot of ... (154 words)

Is he a little too attached to his dog for him to be this depressed after it died?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has been depressed for about a month now ever since his dog died, is he a little too attached to his dog for him to be this depressed?... (30 words)

How should I confront my boyfriend about his declarations of love for other girls online?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i`ve had 5 other girls talk to me on msn telling me tht my boyfriend keeps on telling them that he loves them and he has just got out of hospital and has lost some of his memory when i talked to him about it a few days ago he said that he was really really sorry and that he ... (125 words)

What are my next steps with this?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in the middle of a divorce and have met a married man who has the same values and needs. My marriage will be over for reasons that have nothing to do with him;however we have connected both mentally and sexually. I was asked where I was 10 years ago. He is miserable with ... (197 words)

How can I get over him when its so hard because I work with him?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everybody. I've been talking to this guy from my job for two yrs. We are ten yrs apart. It was really Good at the beginning but not its not the same nomore. He saids he doesn't wanna be with me because he doesn't want Another family. But he's been talking to someone else... (223 words)

Depressed about being lonely

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help, No one seems to approach me to date... I'm fairly attractive, I take time each day to fix my hair nice ,put some makeup ,lip gloss all that good stuff..am currently eating healthier and working on losing weight.. Im not horrible looking or obese... I always smile ... (130 words)

What does he really want from me?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing a guy for about 6 weeks. I'm his first non one night stand since he and his long term girlfriend broke up a year ago. We were friends for quite a while before that. There were a couple times when I was drunk and had a bit of a freak out on him, but I apologized and ... (522 words)

Did I look crazy for getting angry? Did I look like a wuss for apologizing?

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15 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was exchanging some emails with a female friend of mine who I like. We'd been teasing each other about some things and she made light of something that had happened earlier between she and I and some other friends of mine in which people's feelings had been badly hurt. Her ... (196 words)

Should I feel embarrased about my penis size?

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15 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - A friend of mine made me feel so ashamed and embarrassed when she was making fun of me because I have a small penis... I am 17 years old and it is about 10 centimeter (4 inch) long, and 9 centimeter (3.9 inch) circumference, when it is "hard". Is it normal to feel this... (109 words)

Valentines Day was such a disappointment, he never makes me feel special anymore...

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15 February 2010 (F)

- Two weeks ago when my b/f and I were having a fight he bought me an ipod and gave it to me, to get himself out of the doghouse. He said it was an early Valentine's gift. He didn't wrap it, he just handed it to me after we left the store. When V-day rolled around, I got him a ... (322 words)

I'm 14 and pregnant, what do I do now?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, im 14 and im prego. honestly i dont know what to do. because were i live you cant get abortions and i dont believe in adoption. im scared to tell my mom, the only people that knows is my boyfriend and my bestfriend which is his sister. my boyfriend is 16 and ive been with ... (77 words)

Why is she trying to make her boyfriend jealous by flirting with me?

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15 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I think a girl is trying to make her boyfriend, whom she recently broke up with, jealous by flirting with me. How would I know if she is?... (28 words)

Can a change in blood pressure medication change somene's personality?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Can a change in blood pressure medication change someone's personality? My b/f used to take Diovan though it didn't control his blood pressure that well and his temperament was always combative and argumentative. Then he got switched to a new drug and for 8 months he was so ... (210 words)

What are the signs of bi-polar disorder?

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15 February 2010 (F)

- What are the signs of bi-polar disorder? Does anyone know?... (10 words)

Do you think he had a fling with her and only ended it when she went crazy?

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15 February 2010 (F)

- What do you make of this? My b/f and I have been together only a year when this (single) gal starts working at his office. Suddenly they are going out in the field together a lot and he claims it's for "work". (Funny when her male counterparts held that position, he never ... (353 words)

Why would my boyfriend not respond to this letter?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - One day I was very angry at my boyfriend and told him to have a good life, after that I wrote him a letter explaining why I was upset, since then I have not heard anything from him :( Below is what I wrote, please help me explain why he would not respond to me after this? ... (259 words)

Too hormone induced for my boyfriend?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - It's kind of embarrassing but... lol Well, I had my virginity taken a few months back and now all I want/think about is sex mostly and my boyfriend is like 'We need to get you to calm down a bit' and then I get all pouty at him cause he's just starting to brush off my nee... (123 words)

How can I find out what he wants without scaring him off?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like someone and I can't tell what he wants. I'm hoping a third party could have some insight. Here's the basic timeline of events: About a year ago, me him and another guy would hang out a fair bit. I knew the other guy had a thing for me and one day he told me t... (419 words)

A little peeved on Valentines Day

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so, I've been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now. We have a sort of long distance relationship going on... him being in North Carolina and me being in Maine. It's been kinda rough being away from each other but we do make a point in seeing each other from time to ... (308 words)

I don't deserve love, this is what I feel now :(

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, These days, after having lots of problems, Suddenly I feel that I don't deserve any love and those people who have left me for someone else, I think they have done the right thing. It has been 4 times that I have been left by my ex-boyfriends for other girls. I'm... (205 words)

Is it normal to have swings in my feelings like this?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been going back and forth in my head about whether I need to move on or stay in my marriage. I can't seem to make a decision, and I go from one extreme to another. One day, I may think about getting my own place, how nice it would be, and then I feel content in my ... (264 words)

I have no love for him anymore, but I feel reluctant to ask him for divorce

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for almost 5 years. We both have two kinds, 2 year and half (twins). I am very frustrated about my marital relationship because day by day, I found myself and my husband becomes far away and away from each other despite we sleep in the same bed. We have ... (418 words)

I saw my boyfriend cheating on me.....in a porn video!

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over three years now. He's currently in his second semester of his freshman year of university and I'm in my second semester of my sophomore year of university. We go to different universities 6.5 hours away from each other. I have ... (411 words)

Should I have a 6th abortion for the same guy I've been with for 12 years?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 7 weeks pregnant for a man I have been seeing for over 12 years with a two year gap in which I had a child for someone else and so did he. I have been pregnant 5 times for this guy and he has forced me to have abortions knowing I am the type woman who wants a happy family ... (422 words)

Was I masturbating?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm seventeen, and a senior in high school. I've never had a boyfriend, still a virgin, and have never gone out on a date. So you might call me naive. Anyway, a few days ago, I woke up from a dream and found myself rubbing my pajamas where my parts are! I don't know if I was ha... (91 words)

I really want to be there for my friend but I am unsure of Christian traditions when it comes to funerals

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15 February 2010 (?) age 30-35 - So I just found out that my friend's sister just died friday night. I went to highschool and two years of college with her but this is the first time we have spoken since she transferred universities. Her and her sister were really close, spent all their time together. they ... (222 words)

Mad over a hickey my boyfriend gave me

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend 5 and a half years. we used to give each other hickeys when we were young, as we grew older, I hate getting them and I've told him not. but recently he made 3 huge mark on my neck when we were making out. i got so mad at him when i saw but he think ... (100 words)

Is this appropriate, and should I be concerned?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My b/f and his ex wife text or call each other every single day. They do not have children together. She treated him poorly when she left him for another man, and even stole money from him. Recently they started talking because she convinced him they would both benefit from ... (149 words)

I'm in love with my ex and really, really want her back!

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15 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I was with my ex for three years, we had a son together who's now two, we were pretty unhappy, we fought quite often and she said we should break up. This was almost a year ago but heres the thing, we are around each other all the time, slept in the same bed for a while and ... (209 words)

I can't have sex or use tampons because I think I have vaginismus...

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I think I have vaginismus. I'm 20 years old and I've never had sex because I've always backed out of every situation because being touched down there is just painful, not pleasurable at all. I've never masturbated because I've just never felt the inclination... ... (113 words)

I think I might be a bad kisser!

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, pretty much the title says it all. I know that it's really hard to stay with someone that's a bad kisser, because you get those urges. I do NOT like using tongue while kissing, but most guys do, i know. How can I tell if I'm bad at kissing, and how can i get better... (69 words)

How can you say to your boyfriend that you're unhappy and want to leave sometimes?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a little confused about how I feel. Im in a long distance relationship with an older guy who I see about 6 months of the year. At first it was amazing. I got very close, very quickly and easily to this guy. I've never felt so much love for someone and he was very generous ... (548 words)

My boyfriend kissed another girl when drunk

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 11 months. last week he went out with his friends, got completely drunk and kissed another girl. I found out that night as he told me himself. he seemed really upset then (obviously i was devastated) the thing is I dont know whether I ... (205 words)

How can I get over it when I see them together every day?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So here's the deal: My friend has claimed, "I'm gay. I'm a lesbian," since I met her. She and my brother started hangin out together when she came to visit me. Before she ever came to my house I had fallin for her. When she finally realized that I liked her she'd already spoken ... (146 words)

Should I replace my ex-boyfriend's jacket?

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15 February 2010 (M)

age - Should I replace my ex-boyfriend's a jacket that I distroyed? I had it in my possession when he broke up with me. I was angry at the time and damaged it. ... (31 words)

What are my chances of making it work with this new guy? Or should I go back to my ex?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and had been with my bf thats 21 for over a year. We are at college together. About three weeks ago I met this other guy. He is like the exact opposite of my bf and I was really attracted to him. My bf is basically quiet and dependable and didn't really like me ... (225 words)

Would it be a bad idea to date my ex's best friend?

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, recently this guy that i've liked for a while has started telling me that he really likes me and wants to date me. But when i see him at school, he just nods or says Hi and walks off. Then when i sit by him he never really says anything. I guess i just want to know if ... (117 words)

What do I do now? I want to take it further but I'm worried she only seemed interested because she was drunk!

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i would really appreciate some advice. I think im a lesbian and im attracted to one of my very good friends. She is a lesbian and is literally the most beautiful girl i have ever met in my life. she is amazing. We met at uni and have just been great friends for the ... (409 words)

How do I deal with this break-up? I want to stop crying and feeling so sad

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15 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i broke up with my boyfriend who I truly love for many reasons. i know it was the right thing to do yet I still feel so sad/depressed and i dont know what to do. he was very insecure and didnt trust me (altho ive never given him any reason not 2, never cheated, dont flirt with ... (239 words)

I'm not sure if I can call this a relationship anymore....

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15 February 2010 (M)

age - I have a girlfriend. we live together though I'm not sure I can call it a relationship anymore. There is no physical contact whatsoever yet she still wants me to buy a place and for us to move to. She cries sometimes about getting older and not having had children... (402 words)