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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Feelings for women changed, but not attracted to same sex.

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21 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i've been spending alot of time questioning my sexuality ever since i broke up with my girl friend last year. i've always liked girls and never found attraction to males. i would always get nervous around her since she was my first girlfriend, she said she didn't have feelings ... (220 words)

I'm a virgin and I want to get laid! Where can I find a girl?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

21 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I just turned 20 and I'm still a virgin. I desperately need a girl in and out of the bedroom especially in the bedroom. I live in Boston. I don't go to school and I'm too young to go to the clubs or bars. i don't really know anyone that can hook me up with any girl... (219 words)

What causes chronic cystitis?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age - I know someone who has not had sexual intercourse for years but suffers from chronic cystistis. What causes this and is there such a thing?... (26 words)

We got back together for one month and she dumps me for another guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need to know to if my ex left me for someone else. she just met that guy when we had just gotten back together. Overall we went out for 11 months but we still talked and we stayed talking so its as if we hadnt broken up so then it was 1 month and then she tells me that she ... (80 words)

She won't admit she loves me! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello agony aunts, i am a 16-year-old boy and i come from Greece. Sorry, if my English is not good but i will try to show my problem! Everything started when i fell in love with a 15-year-old girl. I love her and everyone knows that she loves me too but she doesn't admit it... (78 words)

Is sex texting a form of cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I went through my boyfriends phone recently and found some text messages I'm not too happy about. He's been sending raunchy texts to his ex-girlfriend. It made me so sick to my stomach when I read them, and what made me even more sick is I looked at the time and date he sent ... (143 words)

I need tips to raise my sex drive! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My sex drive has gone to nearly zero the last few months. I think it's linked to him having cheated on me and not feeling fully safe with him, also i feel that i need to have sex with him or i'm giving him a 'reason' to do so again. I know he is sorry and i feel more ... (283 words)

Is it too late to write my ex bosses.to say I never was a thief at work or let it go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age - Hi I have worked in a firm of separate partners under one roof and I was on main reception working for them all indirectly but none directly as they all had their own staff. All the time I was moaned at and when things went missing silly things such as air fresh behind ... (370 words)

How do I end a relationship with my ex? Do I want to end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 29 and was with my girlfriend for 7 years. We lived together for two years and fell out, and split up. My girlfriend moved 150 miles and in the mean time, we've continued to see each other for the occasional weekends, but it didn't feel we were entirely together, but I ... (191 words)

I miss my best friend in class! What can I do to make it more bearable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there. my friend has went on holiday meaning that im at school without her. i see her ALL the time and its really weird being without her. the other problem is that at school i have to sit through classes by myself. i dont talk to anyone in my class and i dont want to. ... (71 words)

My gf runs hot and cold with me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have just seen this website and I'm looking for some help with the following situation. I am 22 years old and my girlfriend is 19. We have been together for 4 months now. She is the first girl I have ever loved and probably my only real meaningful relationship. Wh... (622 words)

Old wives cure for acne

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is urine good for acne and for the facial skin? My friend told me this and I don't know if to believe her.... (23 words)

Problems with my bf...need some opinions on my situation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am coming forward seeking an opinion on a live in relationship that I am currently involved in. For about the last six months I have been witnessing some behaviours that are hard to work with and around. My boyfriend does not want to do anything with me and weekend after ... (262 words)

He chose her over me! Why do I break down when she speaks about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - this guy me and my friend like, chose her and when ever she tells me news about what happened between them sometimes im cool with it and somtimes i break down! help!... (32 words)

Concerns about my mexican bf...can you help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a Mexican since last summer when I met him working at some greenhouses. At first I thought he was married, but now I trust him, that he's telling me the truth. I had to leave near the end of the summer to go back to school. About a month later he had to go back ... (1109 words)

Which girl should I pursue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Which Girl Should I pursue? Girl A I been good friends with this one girl for a long time and we hang out like twice a week (burger king, houses) and we talk on the phone a lot. Only problem: she says she has a boyfriend who has been to jail and ALL of her friends tell her... (221 words)

Why are these people angry at me and not him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So I hooked up with a guy my friend had a crush on. She walked in on us when my pants were down. I told her I was sorry and that I didn't mean to hurt her. she didn't talk to me for a week but she finally started talking to me again and were trying to work it out. But her ... (142 words)

Strong attraction for a married family friend who is older than 10 years. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello.... Hoping for some genuine suggestions and advice. I am 24 and I live in the UK. One of my very good family friend is in her early 30s. 33-35. She is married and has a daughter of 6. She is very beautiful, attractive, sweet and yes, sometimes sexy. She has a taste for ... (116 words)

Sent him a fake picture and used a fake name. Will he ever forgive me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Used a fake name and picture. At first it was just a fun account that my friend created and then I started to develop feelings for this guy. It went on for a few months and I finally had to come clean to him because I was falling in love with him and couldn’t hurt him any ... (910 words)

How do I make some new female friends, again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - When I was in high school I was burned pretty bad by 3 girls that were suppose to be good friends of mine. Ever since the I didnt focus at all on getting new friends and I even avoided people. I find myself now at 23 sitting here with no friends. seriously. Everyone has at ... (131 words)

I was raped by my ex boyfriend

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - bout a month to 2 months ago i was at my babys dads house who i am not with we have been split for a while now well we were having sex and he asked me if he could put it in my ass i said no he said comeon y not i said no sorry i cant do that so we kept having sex and then he ... (219 words)

Is the stress of an LD relationship causing us to argue a lot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5393 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known this guy for over a year. We met on an online dating site. In the beginning we made plans to meet, but it never happened because I always flaked out. But he never gave up, always keeping in contact. So finally we meet. We hit it off rather well. That was two months ... (173 words)

Is she telling the truth about wanting a long term relationship with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - A girl I am talking to said the other day that I am "good long term boyfriend material" but anytime she gets out of a long term relationship her "next one has always been really short". She says she wants to date me but does not want it to be a short term thing but a long term ... (282 words)

I am pregnat but worried something might have gone wrong

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am pregnant at 26 years old and thin/fit...size 3/4. I am not showing at all! I have my first ultrasound on Thurs., but I'm so afraid something is wrong. After I was born, and my mother was pregnant again, she went for an ultrasound at 12 weeks only to discover the ... (186 words)

I'm 16, my 46 yo relative has admitted he is in love with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im inlove with my second cousin his 46 and lives in scotland and im 16 i want my feeling to stop but recently he told me he feels the same i live in the uk he doesnt know how i feel i just want to get over him but his texts are just solidifying my feelings. any help ?... (59 words)

Took a pregnancy test-turned out negative. But I was bleeding! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi so I've been on the pill for six months and have had no side effects what so ever until this month when I got some bleeding(started last friday) it was like a light period and has lasted up until today when I was supposed to get my period (still bleeding) I went to the ... (103 words)

My boyfriends attitude has changed since I told him I loved him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - helle my prob that there were a guy how loved me ; i guess ; he was nice to me , he took care of me and everything that i ever wish but i didn't love him i actualy taught that i hate him ; intel one day he totaly change he stop calling me akin me how i doing every thing , ... (266 words)

I can't come out to my parents but staying in the closet is hurting my relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear aunts and uncles. this is a bit long and im sorry but im having a really difficult time at the moment and would really appreciate any help that you can give me. ive been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost a year and a half now and i love her more than i coul... (447 words)

Reasons for painful intercourse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I'm just looking for someones opinion on a problem I've been having. Well over the last week whenever me and my boyfriend have sex it really really hurts me. Its just when he penetrates me, and it stings like mad. During foreplay its completely fine. I've been ... (111 words)

How do you show that you want to move the relationship forward?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy about a month and a half now. Everything has been going good. He keeps telling me how awesome I am and when we first starting seeing each other couldn't believe that I wasn't taken already. He is also a very shy person. I was just wondering what ... (116 words)

Is it really a low sex drive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right here goes, My boyfriend tells me he has a low sex drive but our sex life is headnig down hill in my point of view. I havnt had sex for a week, even thought, he stayed round mine 3 night in a row and we only kissed occasionlly. I have talked to him but he just say... (133 words)

Will he leave me if he thinks the baby's not his?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The thing is, I'm currently 37wks pregnant! I'm with my partner of 3years who I love to bits but when I fell pregnant we were going threw a bad patch and I slept with sum1 else round that time. My dr said I concieved the 25th and I slept with the otha guy the 27th and my ... (130 words)

I'm Pregnant and he spiked my drink

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm almost 19 and I've been with my bf since the summer when we met at a festival and turns out he lives only a couple of miles away from me. Its sort of a semi-serious relationship we have. Anyhow we spend most of our time off our faces on drugs, since that is how we met. B... (225 words)

Is semen good for the skin

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - is semen swallowing beneficial for healthy skin? ... (7 words)

He wants the physical stuff, but doesn't want to use me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - there was this guy i dated in 7 grade and we broke up. its now been almost 1 year later and he was starting to txt me telling me how sorry he was and that he always has liked me and he is totally into me and only wants me. this went on for a few weeks then he says that i want ... (219 words)

Guilt about having sex with my girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello, I am above 20. all of my friends enjoy sex with their girlfriends but I fear that I will feel guilty doing so so I dont have sex with girlfriend and feel annoyed for that...Friends dont feel any guilt and live happily and I feel like I am missing something in my ... (71 words)

Does he want to be friends after our break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend broke up a couple of weeks ago when he decided we couldn't work as a couple, and ever since we've been rowing and arguing and calling each other names etc. Anyway yesterday I realized that actually it hadn't been working for a while and it probably was the... (202 words)

Should I continue my affair for a chance at some happiness

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi my name is michelle i have been married for 20yrs, unhappily for 10yrs to a much older man. ( 30yrs my senior.) I have been having an affair to a single man for the last 4yrs and love him very much. My problem is, that he doesn't like me to say I love him and didn't even ... (197 words)

My principles say pay him back even though I think he used me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I would like to seek for your advice if it is a right thing to do. My LDR boyfriend and I of 4 yrs separated 4 months ago. Our love that I used to believe was not really a love at all but was just a mere fantasy. He used to help monetarily in times... (168 words)

I want to marry him, but my parents won't accept him because he is white

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a man, whom I love madly for the past five years. However, much of that time it has been long distance, and we've only been able to see each other for an hour or two here and there over the years. I'm away at school in another country and he's also do... (304 words)

Wife Unsure Whether To Confront Husband About Porn Watching

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a woman in my 40s, with two kids. I'm in good shape -- I've always exercised a lot. My husband and I have a healthy sex life (about 2x per week.) I'm not trying to sounnd conceited, but I'm often told that I'm very attractive by peers. I recently discovered that ... (437 words)

Three months on and I still have no closure...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am feeling more lost, alone and scared than I ever thought possible. I met my ex in October 2005 and started seeing him in October 2005. He moved to my city (6 hours away) in January 2006, and until November 2009 we had only spent one night apart in all that time. We... (362 words)

I'm confused how he feels after our first date and wonder what I should do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age - I met this wonderful guy online. We are in our 40's. We hit it off on the spot. He wa open, I was not, I had one pic posted of myself,,bt his profile stated he only likes slim and slender, I am not I 'm not overweight, I have curves like I told him I;m a size 10-11. Not bad ... (469 words)

Thoughts on Love, how do we cope knowing that the odds are against us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

21 February 2010 (M)

- As I am forty in a week's time and finding myself still single, it seemed a good time to write down some thoughts on Love and the seemingly endless amount of torment that we all seem to put ourselves through in its pursuit. And at times it really does feel like torment. How ... (1180 words)

17 Year Old with Erectile Dysfunction

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

21 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So heres my story i am a young guy 17 years old i am am an athlete and i had no health problems The problem i do have is erectyle dysinfaction which drives me crazy i really cant understand why am havin this since am 17 years old young guy! Anyway i went t the urologist and... (168 words)

I am so sick of my girlfriends lazyness.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend been together for around 4 years.we moved in and have lived together for 2.as of late she's been a bitch,anything and everything I do goes un noticed. She doesn't cook,clean,or help with bills.she likes to snap over the dumbest shit! Example-she wanted a ... (120 words)

What do I do to make things better between my daughter and I so that we can have a close relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have made a mistake that hurt my daughter badly. It was 10 yrs. ago, when she was 10. This guy who was a 'friend' was coming up to our house. He was interested in starting a relationship with me and likewise. My daughter got a kind of like 'puppy love' crush on him. Me and t... (672 words)

Sex does not feel good to me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my partner for about two years now and u thought sex would eventually get betty but it hasnt . sex feel like nothing to me i mean i can feel his penis inside of me but it doesnt feel good and it doesnt hurt its the same way wuth oral sex. i know its not him ... (90 words)

How do I get over my nervousness being around him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I really need help on getting over this cuz I can't take the feeling anymore. * no i didnt get broken up with lol * so, i started talkin to this guy yesterday that is my sisters friend. he havent talked in forever and it felt good to. he wants to hang out this week and he ... (196 words)

Do I choose the boyfriend who loves me, or the guy I really like?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok here it goes...my name is eliza and me and my boyfriend have been toghether for a month he is a good guy but he is reallly immature and really obsessive and grabs my ass and my boobs like every 5 mins. He loves me but sometimes i dont know if i love him. i dont wanna hurt ... (227 words)

What did she mean saying boyfriend/girlfriend talk makes her nervous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl I like. We've been hanging out a lot lately. I feel like she likes me, but when I asked her about us dating, she said the B and G word make her nervous (boyfriend and girlfriend) My question is what does she mean it makes her nervous? She's been cheated on a ... (68 words)

I feel like the third wheel around friends who are couples.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my friend and i both have a crush on this guy. he told us tht he likes my friend but wanted to still be friends with me. yesterday him me my friend another couple and my other friend whos a girl went to them movies. tthe whole time it felt like me and my girl friend were alon... (203 words)

How do you deal with someone who only cares about themselves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you deal with someone who only cares about themselves? This guy use to be nice to me but now all of a sudden it seems like he doesn't care about anyone. He ignores me, but it has gotten better. I can't tell my feelings for him that he is a jerk who never wants to be with ... (117 words)

I need to decide where to complete my studies

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (?) age 30-35 - hey guys..random question. Since many of u guys are experienced with education please help me decide whether I should take a law degree in USA or UK. I really cant decide,so I just need ur perspectives cuz I have no family to talk about my future. I prefer a small state college ... (70 words)

My husband is unhappy because people now know about our marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I left the military to be with husband. We kept our relationship on a down low because he is an officer and I was enlisted. But, I got out so that I could be with him and marry him with no problems. I had envited three of my closes friends from my unit to our wedding. And ... (163 words)

Is it normal to bloat a few weeks prior to menstrual periods?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Ladies....a quick question.. I notice when i get my period and the 1-2 weeks before it arrives my tummy and boobs swell-which i know is normal...however i have also noticed that my bum and legs seem a bit bigger and then after i get my period everything goes back to n... (102 words)

What are the legalities of a 26 yo impregnating a 16yo in the States?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - can a 26 year old man go to jail for getting a 16 year old girl pregnant even if they have her parents permission?... (24 words)

My girlfriend seems fixated on a mate of mine

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for just over a month. But was was friends for a few months previously. The question is, as soon as i mention a certain good mate she talks about him. And it seems she talks to him on facebook alot aswell. As soon as she see's his name ... (126 words)

How can I break this cycle of pain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

21 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Its been a couple of weeks. I was feeling good, and had managed to avoid her for pretty much the entire time. Today I saw her. A couple of weeks ago she cheated on me, and we broke up. I still care about her a lot, but I would never go back to her after what she did. That is... (400 words)

I think he is about to propose and I find I am doubting my long term love for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 years and lately have been having serious doubts and wondering if I should break up with him. We have had problems in the past due to his dishonesty and he has betrayed my trust and hurt me deeply several times. These things put a strain ... (723 words)

I am uncomfortable with the recent increase in porn by boyfriend watches

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Whats the opinion on boyfriends watching porn now and again? My bf and i have been together for three years now, live together. one day last year i found in our computers history that he had searched for some porn. not just for a porn site however but for a specific type of ... (216 words)

Although we are FWB he brings out the needy clingy in me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i started the whole f.w.b. with a guy i had a crush on. at first we went on quite a few dates before we had sex, but soon after it was obvious he wasn't looking for a relationship. in fact as far as i know he's never been the relationship type with any girls he's dated. but ... (320 words)

When ever there is a private moment my stepdaughter flaunts herself

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 February 2010 (M)

age - I am a man in his early 50's,,very fit and keep in good shape.I am also married with 2 teenage daughters,and another step daughter from my wife's previous marriage.We all had a lovely pleasant family unity until my step daughter started maturing and at the age of 16 has become ... (129 words)

My girlfriend's father is horrible and I worry about causing trouble for her and her mother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Help! im 17 and have girlfriend who i think is the best. and we've been going out for 5 months now. It's all going pretty well but 1 things holding me back with her. Her father! I had heard horrible things about him before i started going out with her but i thought nothing ... (333 words)

I am in love with somebody who will never love me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i love this one woman. and yes i know i'm young but i love her and she doesn't love me but we're really good friends. sometimes i think she likes me and other people think so too. but i know, i just know she doesn't actually like me like me. i don't know what to say. she makes ... (87 words)

I told my flat mate of my girlfriend's abusive background

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

21 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I broke up with my ex girlfreind about a month ago. My ex (who i still care for deeply and love very much) was sexually abused as a child by her father. This has affected her in certain ways in her adult life and made relationships very difficult for her...Now please ... (640 words)

I've been on the receiving end of a cheater!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm open to hearing what you have to say about this. Have any of you ever had an affair, or had someone cheat on YOU yourself? If so, what was the outcome? For those having the affair, if it was found out and suddenly out in the open, which partner did you choose? D... (143 words)

A question about sex, will this happen again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The first time my boyfriend used 2 fingers to finger me, I bled quite a bit. If two fingers make me bleed that much, what will happen when I have sex for the first time? Will I bleed again? Will it be worse? (fyi, when I say 'bled quite a bit' I'm talking quarter-sized stain ... (63 words)

He wants a naked picture, I am so nervous I feel I am going to puke!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, So this guy i have known for a couple of years, me and him have started talking... just today. and he said i had a nice body and wants a pic of me naked. i told him he probably wouldnt get it but he says that it would make him happy. should i just tell him straight... (148 words)

I've been there through her breakup, should I ask her out or wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im starting to like a girl that has just gotten broken up with. ive been there for her and ive asked her to prom and she said she might go with me. i know thats not the same thing as asking her out out. heres my question do i go ahead and ask her or wait?... (56 words)

I met my perfect man about six weeks ago, but he only wants a platonic relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

21 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All! I will really appreciate any insight. I have a lot going on in my life right now, but feel like I have romantic needs. I've been looking for someone kind and mature for a long time. I met someone about a month and a half ago. He's intelligent, giving and funny. it seems ... (323 words)

I fell in love but he only wants a platonic relationship

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21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old female who fell in love with a 29 year old male. We're both in college and I believe we are absolutely perfect together. He had been single for six years before he met me, and he isn't the type to fall for just anybody. He really makes me happy and we are both ... (576 words)

Should I maintain this relationship or look for somebody my parents will approve of?

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21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old and have been dating my crush/best friend for over a year. By far, this is the best relationship I've been in so far because we're very compatible and honest with each other. He's really sweet, caring (not just to me, but to people in general), understanding, ... (421 words)

We are flirting on facebook, could he be interested in me?

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21 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, This guy my sister used to talk to and never dated but just really were close, added me on facebook and we started talking. We flirted and it was cool. I used to have a major crush on him lol. But he has a gf and they dont really see each other. But he is talking to me wh... (88 words)

On facebook I messaged a guy, but he never responded

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21 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I message this guy on Feb 11 from facebook right, and he haven't response to it.I message him because we would just both stare at each other without smiling or even speaking, and I thought maybe if i message him it would break the ice. He even change his profile pic. Why would ... (120 words)

I am finally pregnant, how come we are not more excited?

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21 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Aunts and thank you in advance for any advice. Well Im 24 years old my husband is 27 and we have been married for 2 years. Well this week i found out I am pregnant this will be the first child for both of us. I was shocked to find out I was pregnant because when we were ... (264 words)

I want him back but he's got a girlfriend

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21 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - all comments welcome ;) .. x a couple of months ago i split with my partner because of peer preasure.. which i told him, then we got back together but told no one, but then someone found out but they were cool with it, the next day i was in school attending a p.e lesson, ... (180 words)

How honest should you be without risking losing a relationship?

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21 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So i just have a basic question. I understand and am all for honesty in relationships, and believe honesty is always the best policy. So if you love someone so much and you dont ever want to lose them, are their limits. And of course its not something you do at all. But if you ... (92 words)

I am still a virgin, is it unrealistic to wait until I am married?

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21 February 2010 (M)

age - I'm a 45 yr old male christian virgin. The women I know just want to be friends with me or they never want to be married and they just want a physical relationship. These are both christian and non christian women. I wanted to be married by now. I'm still searching. I certainly ... (119 words)

I am not sure who, or what, I am supposed to be

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21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I look so short and fat. Im in my early 20s. I feel my life is all over because I don't have a good friend to share my problem with i feel so lonely every time. I feel so low when my other girl friends get a call from their boy friends i feel that i dont have one.I had broke up ... (184 words)

I am a girl and wondering what it would be like to kiss another

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21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I usually date guys and like to flirt around them. I use to have a boyfriend but we broke up because it wasn't working out. I just didn't feel anything when we kissed. But this week i went to a work site at Pet Clinic just for one week. There was this girl there and she ... (210 words)

I don't want to have sex, but at the same time am tempted

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21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm in a situation with a guy that I've known for my whole life (literally). We just saw each other for the first time in years, and we got into some pretty heavy physical stuff, but we didn't have sex. I'm a virgin, and he wants to sleep with me, but I'm not sure. I'm ... (210 words)

She still think's I'll do anything for her, but I wont

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21 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - alright so I have an ex girlfriend problem like many people do as well. This girl has most definetely got my heart for all the wierdest reasons. But About a month and a half ago we broke up because she wanted to be single or didnt want to be very serious. This upset me alot ... (272 words)

I couldnt talk online due to power failure but she thinks I was ignoring her

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21 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i loved with one girl with whom i just talked in the phone. she knows that i love her and she too loves me but couple of weeks ago she called me online but there was no electricity because of which i could go but she thought i ignored her, plez help aunt? ... (55 words)

I wish we could reverse roles so she would know what it feels like to be cheated on

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21 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I React? My girlfriend came out to me that she’s been speaking to another guy for the last two months. She’s met up with him couple of times too. She told me that the reason she never picked up when I called her was because she was on the phone to him. She also sp... (559 words)

Everytime I think about sex I get a mental block because of my past.

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21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. My question is basically how do I get over my bad sexual experiences and give sex a fresh start with an open mind? This is my sex experience so far though...I grew up next door to my cousins who were a couple years older than me. When i was about 10, my cousins would ... (404 words)

Being opposites used to be great, now our relationship is falling apart!

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21 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for over a year, but only had 'title' for eight months. We are complete opposites, but in the beginning that was the best thing because we learned from one another's experiences. We both used to party once in a while, handled our responsibilities ... (141 words)

How do you move on from a serious long distance relationship?

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21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How Do You Move On From Your Serious Long Distance Relationship?... (11 words)

I'm in love with my best friend of 5 years but she doesn't feel the same way!

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21 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a huge problem I have been best friends with a girl for about five years now and I knew from the moment we met I was in love with her all through out the years we have known each other we have been together a lot of the time and I told her how I felt and she told me the ... (191 words)

My boyfriend is in Canada and I feel like I have been forgotten!

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21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel really bad but, I am really jealous of my boyfriend and selfishly hurt. I want him to have fun with his new experience in Canada and meeting friends and all that jazz it's just, he's having so much fun that he doesn't have any time for me and I feal neglected and hurt. I ... (176 words)

I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.

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21 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up with me. I just don't like my ... (437 words)

I don't understand all of this mass hate.

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21 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just want some opinions. Please be sensitive with your advice since this is a sore subject and I have never asked strangers before. I had a rough childhood, use your imagination. I have reconciled with most of my family and I honestly forgive them. I am now a functioning ad... (561 words)

Am I too young for a 17 year old boy?

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21 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 14 year old girl and I like a 17 year old guy and he says he likes me but says I'm too young. Am I too young?... (28 words)

Would you consider what I did rape?

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21 February 2010 (M) age 36-40 - The night began with a party and was all good fun , I ended up in bed with a girl that I know quite well and we were both naked and fooling around with fore play . Naturally I was extremely aroused and wanted sex ..she said NO , I stuck by that ..this happened a number of ... (151 words)

She left me to find herself. Should I stay with her as friends or try and get her back?

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21 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i broke up a week ago. She told me she wanted a break to find herself. She has recently started seeing another guy. She said she wants to be friends with me still and cant imagine not talking to me.She has told me how she is hanging out with other guys and i ... (101 words)

We have been together 9 years and are engaged and I still haven't even met his son.

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21 February 2010 (F)

age - Hi All, I have been with my fiance going on 9 years. We got engaged a year and a half ago but have never discussed wedding plans, his choice....whenever i used to begin, he would change the subject, now i don't bother. He is divorced and has a 21 year old son whom i have nev... (198 words)

How do I control getting wet too easily?

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21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a little bit of a problem. I notice that whenever something turns me on I get wet pretty easily. Is there anyway I can control this or make sure that it doesn't come as soon?... (37 words)

My girlfriend's father is horrible! Should I stay with her or let it go?

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21 February 2010 (M)

I want a boyfriend but guys only want me for sex!

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21 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - everyone i meet say am really sweet, friendly and caring.. ive been single for 14 months and ive had 8 guys come my way and they ALL WANTED SEX:( and off course i didn't give in all these guys have disappeared..cos i want relationship +sex not just sex!! the thing... (203 words)