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writes:Ok so this is a copy of what my boyfriend said to his new girlfriend just 2 months into there relationship.AND it is all the things he said to me but it took us time to build to these things and thats how they came to have such meaning.Anyway i've moved on, and not trying to jump into a relationship right away like he is he started dating her a couple of weeks after we broke up and this is what he had said to her two months in.I'd like to just get some opinions on it especially from guys and what they think thanks a lot! New girl said: I love you. (THATS IT!)Boyfriend said: i love you so much that my heart beats for you. your the only thing i ever look forward to and you always know how to make me so happy. i never wanted something to work out so much. i fall more inlove with you everyday its crazyy. you do control my emotions. when your sad im sad and when your happy im happy. i'd love nothing more then to be the reason your the happiest girl in the world. i know we have only been together for two months but my feelings for you would make it seem alotttt longer. there is no doubt in my mind that your all ive ever wanted needed and more. your perfect to me. i love you and i mean that with all of my heart.New girl said: I love you so much. Being with you is nothing I've felt before. I could never imagine feeling what I feel for you for someone else. I would choose to spend my day with you everyday if I could. I want you to always be mine and if loving you is wrong I don't want to be right (:Boyfriend said: :) i just miss you whenever i dont see you and i dont wanna sound stupid but i really doo. these past two months have been amazing and im soooo glad that its with you. i love you and i love loving you. your so beautiful even when you dont try, you can make me laugh which is hard for most people ha you challenge me and put me in my placee :) i always have the best time when im with you. and when you hold my hand it just feels so right and i never wanna let go. when we kiss its like everything stops and all that matters is you and me. i've never been so scared to loose someone that i was in a relationship with as i am with you. i love you sooo much that i really dont know what id do without you. im gonnnaaa love youuu foreverrrr nnnn everrrr whether you like it or not :)I repeat, this is EVERYTHING he said to he literally except it had a lot more meaning when he said it to me, he explained what he loved about me all of these are exact lines hes said to me, even about her supposed personality he says "you make me laugh which most ppl cant and u challenge me and put me in my place" he said that to me when he very first met me. And shes 17, he is 19 and everyone i know says shes dumb like not that bright so even though he is moving way to fast she doesnt realize it. and this is likely her first time feeling this way but its not his.I just think its so stupid how he's just "transferring" everything about our relationship and about me onto her, why doesnt he take time to himself instead of trying to duplicate me and what we had?Anyway, opinions on him and what was said appreciated! thanks alot!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010): Seems like he is just in infatuation mode to me, when everything is happy and shiny, but you can't see much of what is real with the relationship. How long was he with you? She also sounds like a rebound so he doesn't have to deal with his feeling of not being with you anymore. You're both still so young and have so much to experience, so go out and just have fun, don't always depend on a boyfriend to be awesome.
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reader, Sydnee  +, writes (8 February 2010):
Hi Anon,
i'm going to be brutally honest here, you come across having a very jealous tone, you can't possibly know that he doesn't mean what he has said to her more than he meant it to you, it is possible that he has learnt how to wrap women around his little finger and is saying what he know will please without meaning any of it. if he is so quick out of one relationship into another in this manner it could be that he is rebounding and is using her to replace you in the interim if he is just transferring as you put it everything it wont last, and if it does it will be purely because they adapt to their own relationship. my advice would be to let them get on with it on their own, he isn't your concern now
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reader, Sal84  +, writes (8 February 2010):
 Well lets make it short and sweet. Some guys have pick up lines and then there are these lines are said after a few days of being together.
By now your ex thinks of himself as a player after tasting success with you, so he had opened one burger shop called McDonald's and when it succeeded he is replicating the same system and trying to open a thousand other branches all over the world:-).
Don't let it bother you as this is something which he has learn t from somewhere and he is surely not being himself. There is a possibility that he does not know himself yet.
He never meant it when he told u and he doesn't mean it now too.You are better off without someone so fake. So cheers..cause you have moved on as you say:-)
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reader, cassie m +, writes (8 February 2010):
he sounds like a complete player.. he is using everything he said to you with her. how do you know that he didn't say it to someone before you? if shes stupid enough to fall for his lines then she is dumb. its been 2 months! ever thought he may be acting like this as he is not over you and wanting to make you jelous as he knew you would see it. it kind of made me feel sick by what he said i was actually cringing for him. he sounds like a looser and seems to be one if hes saying this after 2 months, thank god you got rid of him
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010): Why do you have this conversation between him and his new girlfriend? And why do you think the world revolves around you? He's not duplicating you. He's telling her how he feels, and you are being a jealous ex.
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