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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I just feel like he is trying to tell me what to do at the sacrifice of me doing what I feel is best for me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - first off hi and thanks for reading! My boyfriend of 18 months and i are in what i would view as a happy relationship, we get on really well, are communicative, care for each other, both take and give the same amount etc etc. The issue i am encountering at the moment is arisin... (399 words)

My husband feels like the 3rd wheel in our group of friends.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my wonderful husband for 17 years and consider him my very best friend. We live in a small town and are part of a clickyish group of friends that we have known ever since we got married 10 years ago. Just lately a new friend has come into the group and ... (225 words)

I can't dance at clubs and bars, but I want to

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - When I go out to bars and clubs I am shy. I want to be able to go out on the dance floor and dance with confidence. I am so nervous though that I am stiff as a board, literally can't move. When I am at home alone I can dance while listening to music (when no body is ... (86 words)

I like this guy who keeps using me, and my teacher is furious with me! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - One day ago i gave head to this boy i like, thinking he liked me too. Biggest mistake of my life.. im 13, he has a girlfriend, and he doesnt even like me. The worst part is that it was after school, in a hallway... More things occured, such as fingering, he ate me out and he ... (206 words)

Why would he come see me if he said it wasn't real and he didn't have feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have a problem that i could really do help with, a few yrs ago i got talkin to my now partener online, we got on really well and we live 6hours away from eachother we started to fall for eachother back then, but i got back with an ex of mine that lived up the road an he ... (398 words)

I'm worried about my girl's health during phone sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

3 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay... im very concerned for my girlfriends safety.. We've been together a while, and have been having phone sex for about the past month. So here's why ive been concerned. 2 nights ago while having phone sex after she was happy with what i did to her she said it was the... (375 words)

How did any of you in a threeway relationship go about it? (We are NOT talking about threesomes here.)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

3 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - We are a gay couple that are looking for a real third to join us. We are not looking for a thresome but a real relationship that will last. A threeway relationship. We can not find anything out there to help us search. Everyone just wants threeway sex. No one gets the ... (68 words)

To my ex, get out of my head!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i want to know why i can't stop thinking bout my ex. i just recently moved back to NC, due to the fact i am now officially married. i didnt want to move back, i wanted him to move there but he didnt want to leave his life behind, so i left my life behind and came and got ... (113 words)

Office teasing/bullying makes me paranoid...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I really like were I work. I'm also bisexual, but not openly so. But the work place is non-western and very homophobic. there are obviously gay guys working there but no-one mentions it or brings it up in front of them a bit like an elephant in the room. I don't think ... (258 words)

How can someone get over someone?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How can someone get over someone when it hurts really bad? I'm in deep pain.. I hurt and I feel my life is on hold. I just miss him all the time and he doesn't want to even talk to me. He doesn't respond to my calls or texts.. He took advantage of me and fulfilled a sexual ... (148 words)

Why is he blanking me all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I really like this person , im madly in love with him. We have both admitted how we both like each other but for the past couple weeks everythings been going downhill. We hardly talk to one another and when we get the chance hes always avoiding it. Im always putting the effort ... (112 words)

Is it bad of me to want to do more with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bf have been going out out for two months, but the most we have done is hug once - when he asked me out - and been to the cinema with his friends. Is it bad of me to want to do more with him? it's starting to feel as if we are more like friends then a couple, What ... (66 words)

Why do I not fancy boys my own age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Everyone (: Okay so i have a little problem. I fancy one of the teachers in my school :/ and for some reason i dont like any boys my age :/ which all my friends find weird. i was just wondering if people know why this is?!... (49 words)

Why am I so tired all the time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I am constantly tired and I can not figure out why. I mean I get a fairly good amount of sleep(from 10 till 6) Its like it is very hard to last through the day even when I am trying to prepare for my online test, its impossible for me to stay awake longer than at least 2 ... (82 words)

Did he have sex with her before coming to see me???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend usually takes around 10-15 minutes to orgasm. But the other day he came over after meeting with a girl and when I tried to give him oral sex.. he said his penis was sore... so he wanted just normal sex.. but once we had sex he orgasmed in less than a minute. This ... (110 words)

Why is everything I'm doing to make myself happier always so stupid?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What is this indicating for my future? My boyfriend of over three years and I have been discussing marriage and babies for about a year now. And every time I tell him I want to work as well to bring in a second income and have only two or three kids, he tells me I'm being ... (267 words)

Weighty issue...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - heyx at 5ft 2 and 11 stone, i really want to lose weight (need to) but at the same time i love to binge and dont think i can give it up completely. So i was thinking about eating 600 calories a day for 5 days in the week, 3000 calories for one day of the week (binge day) and ... (110 words)

I need to know if she is lying or telling the truth please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok i think my ex is lying to me about having a boyfriend. because just a couple of days ago on facebook she found out i had a girlfriend and then she says that she has a boyfriend who supports the same football team as me. but the night my ex found out about me and my new ... (180 words)

Should I keep on trying to fix things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I dated a single mother for 2 and a half yrs. During the first 3 months I kept a lie about sleeping with my ex before I met her. To me I felt at the time I shouldn't have to spill out some thing in my past in which I wasn't really happy with and didnt want her to judge my ... (868 words)

Why are black women seen as unattractive and the least or not desired mate???

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a black woman and I feel that I am not attractive because of my skin color. I have statistics behind me proving this point. 70% of black women are single. How the hell is this happening? Really? We aren't desirable in any way? Really? Not even our own want us. Im open to ... (271 words)

Will he ever wake up again...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey i wrote a question a while ago about my ex boyfriend sean. he has had his operation on his head but it didn`t go too well and he is in a coma and has been for a week or two will he ever wake up again ?... (58 words)

Do I go back to my ex girlfriend or continue seeing this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a bisexual female who is dating a man but my ex girlfriend i have dated for three yrs before wants me back. I just got with my boyfriend and like him but i still have feelings for my ex gf. She hurt me and cheated on me and my bf has issues with his ex. What should i do?... (61 words)

Ideas needed! How can I get my husband to have us do something nice for our anniversary?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My 6th wedding anniversary is coming up at the end of the month and I keep asking my husband what he wants to do or if he wants to get a sitter, and he just blows me off every time. I don't know if I should just get a sitter. I'm half tempted to just forget him and go out ... (161 words)

I so much WANT to believe in God!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello there! Im going thru some rough patches.... I really feel I want to believe in God, and build faith. But I'm not sure how to. Those who believe... do they have answered prayers, or some sort of a sign, what proves that someone really listens? Or am I totally lost? I feel, ... (69 words)

Is it just me... Am I paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of 2 years is super sweet we hang out almost every day and he never wants to go out with his friends but ive never stopped him from doing anything, hes just so infatuated with me, always wants to see me, texts me i love you in every message he sends me, calls me in the ... (669 words)

Advice needed. How can I be as hot as a porn star!!!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F) age 36-40 - How can I be as hot as a porn star? I already act the part - well, no, I don't ACT, I really do enjoy sex and I'm very open to everything my boyfriend likes or wants to try. I never say no until I've tried it (except for threesomes, I wouldn't like getting a third party ... (455 words)

Help! I want to be friends with my ex thought I don't know why... why do I care so much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So this is the deal. I HAD been with my girlfriend for 7 months. Sounds not a long time i know, but still it was my first love. When i met her she was great...full of life, love etc etc though then we hit a glitch..3 months in she broke it off citing that "i'm not what you ... (438 words)

"If he doesn't like you then he won't call!" Is this true or could he just be shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a question for all the men out there... I was wondering if the whole, 'if he doesn't like you, he won't call' thing is true. I'm only 16, and am wonering if guys just won't call/talk to you just becuase they don't like you, or are some guys my age shy? There i... (106 words)

Sexy dreams and attraction

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If you dream about having sex with someone, does that mean you want to be with that person?... (18 words)

I can tell her anything by text, but when she calls me I freak out.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. I have been talking to this girl that I REALLY like by texting but when she calls me I freak out and I get quiet so why when I am texting her I feel like I can tell her anything then she calls and I cant seem to say anything to her.... (57 words)

I'm crazy about her but she keeps telling me she is scared

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay, back in November I met this woman on a blind date through some friends. It was love at first sight for both of us. I knew from the moment that I first saw her she was the one I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Things went a little too fast though. There is a lot ... (516 words)

He is going clubbing in Greece and I'm scared he will cheat on me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and i feel like we're good at the moment. There's just one problem- he's turning 18 soon (he's a year older than me) and going on holiday to a clubbing island in Greece with all his mates. I'm very worried about him cheating on me and ... (109 words)

My boyfriend says the masseuse mastubated him! What do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I live with my boyfriend and his parents. we've been together for two and a half years now. Yesterday he went for a massage and I jokingly said 'make sure they don't give any ''special'' treatment!' meaning sexual favours as I've heard some massage therapists do that, he ... (146 words)

I really want to squirt. PLEASE help me out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. When my boyfriend and I first started messing around he was fingering me and rubbing my Gspot. I've rubbed it before while masterbating but never got to far with it because it had always been a bit uncomfortable. Well, while he was down there he licked and sucked on my ... (337 words)

Can anyone guess what’s going on in his mind? Does he actually like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I need some help. I’ve been talking to a guy on msn as mutual friends for over a year and I’ve fancied him since. He’s the first person I’ve proper liked. I didn’t see him much but by now I see him every day. There’s a problem though. We talk a lot on msn. He normally... (268 words)

Should I move on and not talk to him anymore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i'm going to try to make this a straight to the point question. I met this guy ad we really hit it off and after about a little less than a year(?) we got engaged. not soon after we got word that his step mum was diagnosed with cancer, so he went back home to stay with her ... (375 words)

My friend wants me to have sex with her and I don't want to!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i am kinda in trouble here i have this friend i have known her since we were kids and now she wants me to have sex with her . . . .but i dont see her like that how do i tell her that i just want to be friends i dont know what to do i am confused?... (59 words)

Which should I choose; my unfulfilling life with my boyfriend or my old friends and family back home?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am living with my boyfriend 24hrs drive away from my friends and family and a 3.5 hr expensive flight. I have been here living for over a year. We have plans to marry. I am having a hard time meeting friends here and having a hard time being away from my old life. I had ... (171 words)

I've only been dating him a few weeks but now I have started having feelings for his friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so, I've been with this guy for seven weeks and we dated a few months before. However recently I've been having feelings for his friend. What should I do?... (30 words)

Would going out with someone as young as 14 be wrong? And how would I approach him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Here is my Dilemma. I am in my first year of sixth form at the moment, and we still mix quite a lot with the lower school kids. About a few months ago I started noticing this boy, first i thought ' hmmm hes nice' and now im thinking ' omg hes gorgeous'. One of my problems... (169 words)

Will the 4 year age gap make our relationship difficult?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship with a girl that is 4 years younger then me we have been together and plan to be forever i was wondering if things are to serious for a 16 year old girl and do i have to worry about when she starts to want to go to parties and be a wild teenager. ... (59 words)

Am I too tall? Or am I considered petite?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 soon to be 17 and i'm 5'5" 120 pounds. Am I too tall? Am I considered petite? I've been told that I have quit my growth spurts.... (30 words)

Should I tell my friend I am going to ask out the girl that turned him down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (M) age - There's a girl that my best m8 asked out and she said no but he still has fellings for her but me and this girl have been getting on really well and today she told me that if I ask her out she will say yes do I tell my friend about me asking her out or not help !!!!!!!... (60 words)

She wont show me love, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

3 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for 2 years in May with a girl i love with all my heart. She used to put everything she had into our relationship and i mean anything but we almost broke up and i moved to California but then we started talking again and i came back for her ever ... (135 words)

I am tired of settling for the "not now" excuse!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have have an issue with my boyfriend or x now. We've been dating for almost three years now. I have a daughter and he has a son that recently moved away a year ago. Since his son has been gone he stopped doing family things together kinda like excluding to hang out with my ... (610 words)

How can I make sure something happens between us but I don't end up feeling used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17, and I've been in love with the same guy for about 9 months. We dated, which only lasted a month because I was very ill, and he couldn't handle it. We've been broke up for about 2 months now, still talk a lot, he still tells me everything. And anytime we've seen each ... (129 words)

Is it wrong for me to ask my new husband for a new bed?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it wrong for me to ask my new husband for a new bed because I do not want to sleep in our current bed because his live in girlfriend slept there? Every time I think about it makes me angry and would like a new start even with our things. I'm not materialistic but some ... (71 words)

Sex with a confidant, should I let him know I enjoyed it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i'm in a dilemma. I'm married and sought a male confidante (who is married)online almost 1 year ago..it was wonderful..being able to share everything. He did share things also but after awhile. 1 month ago, we met for a few hours. Initially just chatting in general then... (184 words)

My partner wont name me as a joint tenant on the house we share even when we get married, is he just covering himself in case anything goes wrong in our marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I fell in love with a man 15 yrs older than me, everything was rosey. We got together about 2 yrs ago and he asked me to marry him after 1. It is my first proper relationship, I am in my early 20's. I moved in with him to his house - which he built - 6 months ago. He has a well ... (446 words)

How do I get over my boyfriend who has just left me for his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my bf of 4 months just broke off with me he said he has reconciled with his ex please help can't get over him.... (24 words)

I only wanted him as a friend, but now he says he is in love with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im nina,and I have a problem. well its troubling. i met this guy online and we were just friends, then we got it up a notch and had phone num. we were friends but i didnt take it seriously I mean I was just looking for a friend to talk to ( and that was stupid of me )We s... (448 words)

Is she just a confused women who doesn't know what she wants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok here goes..I broke it off with my ex about a month ago b/c I felt like I wasn't full getting what I need out of the relationship. she is 31 and i'm 34..In the beginning, she spoke of marriage, having children, loved my house in the country, loved that I was close with my ... (438 words)

Will the Rubella vaccination cause any harm after I have had sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i was injected rubella vaccination and i had sex with my boyfriend after 10 days of it using protection. will it cause any harm ? the condom did not tear but i am still afraid, can i take an i-pill? plz reply soon. m worried.... (46 words)

Should we risk it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have decided not to go out with one guy that was willing to break up with his gf for me but i still have feelings for this older guy. i suppose we could be together but im not risking any thing. so should we keep having this "secret fling" until i get older, or just break it ... (59 words)

27 year old virgin - wondering if I need to get counselling

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi This is my first time posting a question but I figured what the hell. I am going to be 27 this year and I am still a virgin. It shouldn't be that big a deal but I feel like it is one. All my friends have had sex and some are even married with kids. I am embarassed and s... (446 words)

I'm just worried. If anyone has the answer please do tell!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im nina and i've been with a friend of mine, were close but we both got out of control. we started kissing, touching caressing.. and he fingered me a lot. after that it felt good then i noticed that i really cum a lot. Im serious i cum too much, it doesnt stop. he liked it... (96 words)

My partner says I am being selfish as I want to be with him all day on Valentines day because that is the day he has access to his son

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner has a 14 year old son who sees him every sunday 10.30 - 7 to be precise (not an hour less neither an hour more) and he only lives down the road so i can't see why he can't see him whenever. i work saturdays and he has his son sundays so i tend to keep out of the way ... (277 words)

He flirts with me, but he flirts with other girls too. Does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into 1 question] hi my name is ally and i started going 2 a youth group almost 2 mon. ago. i met this guy named, mitch. ive been friends with him 4 almost the whole time ive been going. i think he likes me... (200 words)

Should I continue being her best friend or would it be healthier for me to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this friend and she was my best friend but I haven't spoken to her for 3 months now. We used to tell each other everything and were there for each other throughout our childhood and university until she had 2 nervous breakdowns in a year. She is so different now. She ... (216 words)

I waited 3 months for a dinner reservation in a top restaurant and my bf has just cancelled out. Is it ok to take another man to not miss out on the dining experience?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age - A while back I booked a table at the supposedly best restaurant in the UK and it took me 3 months and a cancellation to get in. My b/f has known about it for weeks and how excited I am about it. Today he texts me to say that the mother of his child has given him access for the ... (126 words)

We arranged to meet Sat night and I have not heard from since.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am so confused. i was txting wat i thought was an honest decent man for th last six months. he would txt me ever spre moment he had every morning day and nite without fail. i felt something forhim and was re he felt it too. he coudnt wait to meet me and was forever telling me ... (179 words)

Should I confront my bf's female text buddy over flirty messages?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have founds some texts on my bfs phone and to cut a long storey short from a female he apears to have met online or through a friend (as she doesnt know how he looks), although the conversation is flirty its not sex-chat, and its unclear weather he intends to meet her or he ... (236 words)

How can I tell my wife I want to wear female clothing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - (Mod note - post re-worded for clarity) How can I tell my wife I want to wear female clothing? ... (24 words)

My boyfriend of 16 months continuously sends friend requests to models, adult film stars, etc. Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Does anyone have any insight or advice about this: my boyfriend of 16 months continuously sends friend requests to models, adult film stars, etc. He doesn't know these women personally. I am a little concerned, and wonder if I should be worried about our relationship. I have ... (79 words)

Tips On How To Hook Up Smoothly

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So there's a really popular,sexy,beautiful girl at my school who's shown an interest in me. She's been going to all of my basketball games, both at the home court and away. We've gone on study dates together and I've gone to her house to study, and met her parents. When we ... (164 words)

Why does he make sexual comments to me if he doesn't want to have sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age - I have a friend of about one year. At first there was a little romance and a little sex but that all cooled by his choice because 1) I have herpes and 2) I am menopausal and he wants children (he is 15 yrs younger than me). I can clearly see his viewpoint; it's not the first ... (190 words)

I became aggressive in trying to get him to like me and I tried sleeping with him but he could not perform

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have liked this guy for over 15 years. We dated over the phone when I was in the 9th grade and he was in the 11th grade. We use to talk on the telephone about every thing we had the greatest conversations. After a while, this guy asked me to be his girlfriend, I said yes but ... (266 words)

I told an engaged friend how I feel about her and now she does not want to talk to me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Friend of 2 and half years now, she moved to CA for pursuing PhD with her Boyfriend (Both American, they’ve been dating for 3 years before moving to CA). She became my close friend. I’ve been nice, kind and caring to her, always been there to help her, attentive, and ... (685 words)

MY bf of 8 years just up and left to another country without telling me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

3 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 8 years. I've done everything for him. He left in the beginning of January to his sister in another country, without even notifying me. I heard it through the grape vine. He hasnt contacted me up to now. I've contacted his family and t... (267 words)

He wants dirty talk but I just can't do it!

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3 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - alright. i have been having an affair with a friend of mine for a while now and we started off as friends only then grew into having benefits.. now there are stronger feelings there!.. but anyways.. i am not vocal during sex. i find it degrading somehow and embarassing.. i dont ... (118 words)

Should I be concerned about this discharge?

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3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I started on the birth control patch a few weeks ago. I was suppose to have my period January 17-ish, but I started a week before my period was suppose to come, so I didn't get it until this week. So I didn't have my period at all in January. Today, when I was laughing and... (188 words)

He re-used the same condom. Will this make it less effective?

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3 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i setp with someone for the first time last night, and he took the rubber off after, then put it back on about 5 mins later after through it on the floor. he didnt cum the first time because it was quick. but what are the chances of me geting pregnet because he reused it and ... (60 words)

Was he looking at porn or flirting on line befoe having sex with me?

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3 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ummmm, without trying to be too specific, I took a shower and then when I was done I went to my bedroom to put on clean clothes, and my man was in the room with something in front of the door, and when I walked in he was more then ready to get "down". And after we were done ... (111 words)

I have never had a gf I don't think I have the courage to ask any one out... can some one help me?

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3 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - ok well im 13, atheist, and i have grown up closer to girls than guys, so i know alot more about jr. high/ early highschool feelings and though processes than most other guys (yes i grew up with a single mother) i have one friend that is a girl that all of my othe... (152 words)

Are any married women prepare to put up with a cheating husband?

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3 February 2010 (F)

age - Hello! I am curious to know - are there ANY married women out there who would put up with a cheating husband? If so, do you pretend not to know what's going on behind your back? Do you take care of your children and ignore his lies and betrayals? Or is your marriage so open ... (93 words)

I'm 18 and she's 26. Am I just getting played?

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3 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive been casually dating this one chick that i used to work with for about a month now. Im 18 and she's 26. I have my own place,car, and full time job making decent money and so does she. we went on a few dates and even spent new years eve and christmas eve togethe... (275 words)

I'm too old to have a crush like this, ..but I can't get over it.

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3 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a non-traditional student(well over 21) at a university. Last semester I got the impression that my professor, whom I liked very much, may have been interested in me. He doesn't know my true age. At the end of the semester he worked a comment into a lecture that I know ... (152 words)

I am too scared to let myself cum.

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3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18 and i have problems about cumming... when im having sex with my boyfriend and he strarts to rub my clit after a while i get the feeling that i'm gonna pee so i make him stop...for what i know thats the moment when i'm gonna cum but i get scared about that feeling ... (83 words)

I want to marry her but don't have the nerves to ask!

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3 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I love my girlfriend more than anything else and I want spend the rest of my life with her, but I'm don't have the guts to ask her to marry me even though I'm fairly sure she would say yes. She makes me smile when no one else can she is always there for me and I really w... (68 words)

I am trying really hard to give him pleasure and give him an orgasms everytime but I just can't!

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3 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my boyfriend have tried twice to have sex and i'm not sure what is going on..he just can't seem to keep an erection.im trying really hard to give him pleasure and give him an organisms everytime but i just can't please... help any tips/tricks? something?... (47 words)

I don't know how to have an orgasm.

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3 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - How can i cum or orgasm when i masterbate without sticking my finger / anything else in my vagina ?... (20 words)

I think my bf's Aunt wants to have sex with him.

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3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a real relationship for the first time and have a three month old. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. But whenever he goes near his aunt, I feel like they might start something. It's not like they are blood related or anything. I just have high ... (85 words)

My FWB is getting attached. How do I break it off without hurting him?

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3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my FWB (friend w/ bennifits) have reached an agreament, we both decided that FWB was all we wanted, but now he seems to be getting "emotionaly attached". I realy don't want to hurt his fealings but all I want is fun, how do I break it off without hurting him?... (52 words)

I am not sure if I am gay or bi, but I kissed my friend and now he wont talk to me.

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3 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I'm a 15 year old boy going on 16. And ever since i was lil, I've always had a strange feeling for guys. And till today i still do, and it's getting stringer. And it came to me that i might be bi-sexual or gay. Anyway. I have never been in a relationship or kissed a... (307 words)

We have been on and off for a year, ...should I go back to him again?

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3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im thinking about going back with my ex bf, but he seems different then before...he's jealous. i have a best guy friend, and when ever i say hi to him my ex gets quiet and he asks if do i like my friend, or just makes the face. we have ben on and off for a little more then a y... (168 words)

Is it ok to play tit for tat games ignoring each other.?

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3 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Today i ignored my friend/crush because hes been really conceited and wont talk to me by text, email, or AIM. Me and my fiend were on the bus sitting across from one another and he sat behind my friend grace. Me and G played a no talking game and R my crush was staring at me ... (158 words)

I hate to ask a cliche love question, but...

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3 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this boy about two years ago. We knew each other for about a month before we started going out. Out of everybody I've ever been with, I liked him the most. We went out for a while, before I broke up with him after a 'friend' told me that he was just using me to get ... (224 words)

The physical component of my marriage is non-existent.

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3 February 2010 (M)

age - The physical component of my marriage is non-existent. My wife is a child abuse survivor. She is very kind and sweet and a great mother but has no respect for men. Years ago, I explained to her that her reactions to my physical ovetures caused me to feel like a perpetrator. In ... (168 words)

Guy over friend?

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3 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - theres a guy that really likes me but he already has a gf he said he will break up with her for me but she is my friend and i dont want to hurt her. should i go out with this guy? ... (42 words)

Considering dating an older woman...

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3 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a college student and I am really not attracted to any girls I know personally or for that matter my recent and distant past. I have joined an online dating site, and have considered dating an older woman. I have just turned 23. My question is: Do older women in their la... (99 words)

I know I won't ever be loved like she will love me.

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3 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, im pretty new to the whole "post your problems online" scene, but I've never loved a girl like this in my life and any kind of help/advice would be appreciated. Well it starts out like this. About 2 years ago I met a girl online. We talked a lot, almost every day, lot's ... (402 words)

Not wanting a relationship or sex

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3 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a problem of sorts. I am normal by all accounts, but sometimes I wish never to be in a relationship and never to marry or father children. Sometimes I see myself down the future when I am old, without a wife or children. Of course I like to be sexually active and go o... (238 words)

How can I get off this horrible path I'm on...?

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3 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i started a new school this year, and meet a guy who took advantage of me. and we went months with out talking until we started talking again and became i would say really good friends with everything forgotten. then a time came were he expressed these feelings to me, that ... (437 words)

Will she cheat on me if she cheated on her ex partner!

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3 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - ok guys i need your help! ive been with my girlfriend for about 7 months now, and it seems that every month that gose past i keep finding things out about her past that i dont like and sits on my head! everytime i try to talk to her about it she gose off on one telling me its ... (950 words)

Who do I choose? My heart tells me John Doe, but my gut tells me my new husband!

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3 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all! I need a little bit of an explanation as to what I should do here. Any real advice is welcomed, please don't sugar coat or honey glaze anything. I need the truth. This entire ordeal started in September of two years ago, when I was first hired as a teacher at ... (383 words)