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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Are hip piercings temporary?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really want to get my hips pierced. I think they look really cute (: I've got quite a flat stomach, so I think they'd suit me. My parents even said they'd let me get them and go with me etc. I've been searching them up though, and apparently, they have a really high reje... (171 words)

She is starting to get naggy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im going out with my girlfriend now for about 2 months.. But Im confused.. I think shes starting to get naggy.. To be honest I cant put up with that.. I dont know weather to break up or not.. If we do Ill get all the blame and probaly get a name or something even tho I didnt ... (67 words)

Is this normal male behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I had an argument with my long time (7 years) parter a couple of weeks ago and we didn't speak since then. I called him today and he just put the phone down on me. When I called back he texted me to say he has a new GF and they are going on a date tonight and he is going ... (457 words)

Pimples on my vagina...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me. I always had pimples in my vagina. The pimples always appeared and after 2 or 3 days then they disappeared. I had not had a sexual relationship. Six months before I marry but I did not tell my husband about that. Now he came to know that i have pimples in my ... (127 words)

Internet man troubles. I am confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have been talking to a guy on the internet for 4 months getting on really well. Text me xmas and new year's eve then suddenly went quiet. Text him and he told me he was just really stressed and didn't have time for anything other than work, I admit I did text too much but ... (99 words)

I love really enough? We argue over petty things.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been with my boyfriend for two years. i love him deeply and i believe he loves me. but lately, cracks have begun to show and we argue over petty things. is love really enough? or do you sometimes have to think with your head and not your heart?... (49 words)

I am head over heels, but he has a crush on my best friend. How can I get over it?

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a student and live at the halls of residence where I am studying. In august a bunch of first graders moved in and 2/3 weeks later I had fallen head over heels for this amazing, sensitive, funny guy. It didn't take long before most people knew I liked him and he found ou... (220 words)

Boyfriend more interested in computer games than me. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys! I have a problem with asking for what I want in my relationship. My boyfriend is a lovely person, I love him very much. He loves video games. He plays online shooters with a bunch of friends. My problem is he does this a lot. I feel as though I might as well not be t... (331 words)

Is it right for a man to flirt with other women? Should it bother me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think it is right for a man to flirt with other females.(ex.online,texting,and in person.)I have been with my bf for over 4 yrs and I am seen as the jealous one if I tell him it bothers me..Should it bother me? ... (43 words)

I'm repulsed by sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

6 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, hopefully somebody reads this. I'd appreciate some kind of feedback on my problem. Before anything, the basics: I am an 18 year old caucasian male I live in Canada I have Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder Not sure if that matters, but I figure I'd men... (442 words)

I have stretch marks and want to get rid of them

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 and I have stretch marks on my breasts and legs. My self-confidence has dropped to ZERO. How can I get rid of them? Im so embarassed - manly because Im embarassed about what boys will think later on in my life. Please help me, how do I get rid of them? ... (53 words)

When I am not with him I get a terrible sinking feeling

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been seeing a guy for 6 months. I love him so much more than I have EVER loved anyone, and I truly believe he feels the same way about me. I had a crush on him for 2 years before we started seeing each other, and he is THE BEST thing that has ever happened to me. He treats ... (204 words)

I kicked him out and although its very peaceful I am tempted to call him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I don't know if you remember me or not, but I was on here some months ago upset because of everything that had happened in my relationship. My husband had threatened to kill himself twice when we were dating, kept making excuses about not buying me a ring, and was ... (716 words)

She said we needed a break, but I don't know why

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

6 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my girlfriend have been having problems things just don't seem to be how they use to be in our relationship like she use to tell me she loved me all the time and well there use to be passion in our relationship now it just seems like we are friends. Well today ... (212 words)

I only feel turned on when someone else touches me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, when I try to pleasure myself by touching, I feel nothing. I mean I feel my hands on myself but It doesn't turn me on. When my guy friend touched my leg and somewhat rubbed it, I got turned on. Is it normal that only someone else can turn me on instead of me being able to ... (61 words)

I want to ask a girl out but things are a bit difficult

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Moderator's Note: two questions have been combined. I am 13 and have a hign pitched voice and a bit over weight. there is a girl i like but before i do anything i need to lose weight and lower my voice. Any tips on how to do any of these things? hi i am 13. i like a girl (fir... (131 words)

He scares me with the things he says about sex!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok soo imm going to be 16 in 2 months. the guy im talking to will be 19 in 5 days. we have been talking on the phone and texting for about 2 months now. we`ve hung out 3 times. once in a group, once on our own, and then he came to watch me cheer one time. hes a great guy. i ... (209 words)

Is feeling pregnant and bloated a good enough reason to ask for a test?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a worrying problem...i think i might be pregnant. i am still having my periods but i feel as though i look pregnant. i havent had unprotected sex and i have taken a pregnancy test which was negative. i can't tell by my periods because they are irregular anyway ... (148 words)

My husband wont stop watching porn

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband of only a year loves to watch porn. I dont think he is addicted to it. But if i leave the house for a long period of time he will sneak off and watch it behind my back. I used to have better self esteem. But ever since i found out about this I seem to have no self ... (160 words)

He got a birthday card from his child and the mother, what does this mean

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - If a woman throws her boyfriend out of the house and tells him to leave and then 6 months later sends him a birthday card is she wanting him back?? I have been seeing a man who split up with his girlfriend but they have a child and still see each other because of this! However,... (79 words)

I need ideas for a birthday present that don't cost the earth

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - its my boyfriends birthday in a few weeks and i want to get him something incredible and romantic that he will absolutely love. the only problem is i have no money. i have searched the internet for possible ideas but they are all things such as making him a calendar or a ha... (131 words)

He told me not to wear makeup because I look like a tramp, now he wont answer my calls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for nine months...we've had arguments in the past, but we've always pulled through. We love eachother so much, or at least I thought he loved me... But today I rang him up to see if he wanted to meet up (we see eachother every day, unless ... (194 words)

I have more than a crush on a boy older than me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've known this guy all of my life, he's a friend of the family. Three years ago I realised I had a crush on him and I've been in love with him ever since. We're kind of friends and he's always nice to me, but the thing is he's four years older than me; he's eighteen and I'm ... (146 words)

I set up a boy as a backup in case the boy I liked didnt like me, but now my friend has decided she likes my backup guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so theres this boy i have liked for nearly a year now but im always really rervous 2 say anthin 2 him, so i came up wiv a "safty-net" hu seems quite interested in me so incase i didnt get with the boy i wanted to originally if i never asked him out or i do an he sed no, then ... (153 words)

I've fallen in love with a married girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

6 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a complete novice at this but I need advice. I have a nature of being a friendly flirt all harmless though. Ok a Girl started working where I work and has only been married for two months, I noticed she was always alone so I just started talking to her and gave her... (268 words)

I've said I wont move back in until he is divorced, so why is he taking so long

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi there, i met my partner 4 years ago, he told me he was seperated and looking for a new relationship, we clicked right away and we were in love in a few weeks i thot he was the most well mannered man id ever met he is 16 years older than me i was 31 when i met him he had his ... (581 words)

My boyfriend is very controlling

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I be with a guy that I was with four years and was a secret. He never took me where he lived and never took me to his parents. I always felt hurt about it cause my past relationship was not like that I would cry to him sayiing I don't want it to be this way and he woulds ... (387 words)

My boyfriend is the ex of my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I go out with this guy that one of my friends went with in ninth grade. I'm a senior and haven't talked with his ex since ninth grade. Am I wrong for going with this guy? We love each other dearly. The thing is, I still wanna be her friend. Is that possible?... (53 words)

I feel he doesn't love me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I will have been married for a year in about a week. We had a son before our marriage, and all throughout my pregnancy he never had an issue with wanting to have sex with me. About a month ago we found out I am pregnant again. Since then we have only had sex ... (249 words)

Would this mean she had sex with another man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend went out partying and didnt come home till noon the next day That night we started having sex About 5 mins into it we stopped She was hiding her virgina when i asked to see it it was swole ang puffy than normal Did she have sex with a man that had a big penis?... (57 words)

Parents and sex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Right... I'm 17 and my girlfriend has just turned 16. I have to admit we haven't been in a relationship that long although it seems like we've been together for ages. We just really love being around eachother and having a laugh a lot... which is obviously why we are ... (418 words)

I can't ejaculate in bed... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - The following is a bit blunt I hope you don't mind! My girlfriend and I enjoy a healthy relationship and while we haven't had sex yet we are both comfortable with third base and full nudity. If I 'finger' her then she comes, but the thing is, I can't come during a handjob... (240 words)

Two weeks after I found out I was pregnant, he started acting like all the women want him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im carrying my boyfriends baby, 2 weeks after I found out I was pregnant he started acting like he is the hottest thing alive and that all the women wanted him, and his drinking increased and he wanted me to drive him around, I discussed this with him and he told me he is not ... (79 words)

Should I trust him or divorce him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - We've married for 14 years and no child. Recently I discovered my husband act differently. He started to pay attention on his appearance and he will go jogging with this female co-worker 3 times a week at his work place till 2330 hr. I've requested to join them for jogging but ... (176 words)

What should I think about these drunken incidents and the hickies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend called me last night,said he was going to come pick me up, after 3 when he called i didnt hear from him all night,i got dressed and waited..after about 9 hours of waiting i went to sleep,i got a phone call at 10 this morning, it was him telling me that he got ... (190 words)

Do I carry on acting the way I am for boys to like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, i always ask questions on this and either get just 1 answer or an answer that just doesn't help at all... i really need your help and to get that, i'm gonna tell you as much information as I can. The thing is, I really just want a boyfriend. Im not desperate, i jus... (470 words)

Does this explanation for the mysterious condoms sound reasonable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently asked what I should do because I found condoms in my b/f car that I have never seen before. I have ask him about them. At first he said I dont know. I ask him I have never seen them b4 and why are they in your car. He said he bought them for us. my b.c h... (204 words)

If you love someone and are committed to them, shouldn't you forgive them and deal with whatever made you unhappy about them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - If I find myself in a situation where my man can't accept my past because we always fight about it and I end up feeling so lost because I don't know what to do, I apologise to him all the time but it ends up feeling like he's not hearing me? My question is if I love someone and ... (112 words)

He never told me he wanted to be just friends! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, Please help I had a relationship with a man for 1 month and 2 weeks .He told me that he is looking to settle down with a woman and that iam what he is looking for. So he always tells me to send him e-mails or call him .One day we went out for tea he told me he was t... (255 words)

Is it possible to kiss a girl's breast during sex or foreplay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

6 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I want to ask a question about this. It confused me sometimes whenever i want to do it. The thing is that i want to suck or kiss my girl friend breast during sex or foreplay, i wonder maybe i might taste the milk during sucking or kissing her breast. is it possible to suck or ... (81 words)

It creeps me out that he keeps trying things when he thinks I'm asleep!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really don't know where to begin but my boyfriend does things to me in my sleep, for example last night he wrapped my hair around his penis and started masterbating. He also puts his hand down my pj's and feels around but I don't let him achieve anything. during the whole ... (113 words)

If he says 'luv u' before saying 'bye', could he really mean it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - if a guy tells you luv u before saying bye.. could he mean it casually?? or could he really mean it??... (21 words)

I really like this guy! But how do I approach the subject of going out, I only see him once a week

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I really like this guy, I've been single for quite a while and this guy is the first that I've come across in a good while that I've thought "wow, I REALLY fancy you!" He delivers stuff once a week to my work, and I take in those deliveries. We chat, he seems a really l... (157 words)

The last thing I want is babies but that's all he wants!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Im 27 and been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. About 2 years ago the topic of children has come up and i am 110% sure i never want to have them-i dont like children and i made it very clear to him. He however wants children and being the only child himself wants at... (401 words)

He's letting our relationship slide because he has to have at least 6 hours of gaming a day

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for over 2 years. he has recently got back into n online game, world of warcraft. he plays non stop all day - i mean wake up at 8am to play and play till 12am, if i am at his house he will play from around 8am - 12pm, then hang with m... (229 words)

We've been friends for 5 years, he's everything I would want in a guy, but will it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been friends with a guy for about 5 years, we don't see each other all the time, probably once or twice a month, but he's almost always the one I call when I get in trouble or need someone to talk to etc. It's quite clear he would like more than friendship but r... (212 words)

He's shy and I've been told to be more flirty with him, what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im kind of unsure now..and dont know what to think. My mate reckons the guy ive liked for ages actually wants me...but im unsure. Theres been some background between us. To me it was obvious he liked me however i never said anything as i was very very shy, all he would do is ... (966 words)

Why would my so called best friend do this to me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my best Friend said we should get really drunk and sleep with Random stranger when we go on holiday. i said am not going to get drunk and sleep with Random strangers THX. she called me a boring.Kan.k:( i took off our marriage on face book.. she called me pathetic and ... (217 words)

He dumped me for another girl so why does he keep texting me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex broke up with me for another girl, but keeps texting me asking how I am and how school is and I don't reply coz I don't think it's fair. Anyway, yesterday he text me while I was in college saying 'Hey. did you send me an e-mail? x' and I was pretty intrigued so I t... (165 words)

I'm going on holiday with my b/f and wondering if I can wear a bikini

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, Im a size 16 and im going on my first sun holiday this summer!! Im going with my bf so i want to look really good but im so worried about bikinis. Can someone please tell me wear i can get ones that will flatter my body but still look really good. I dont know whther... (95 words)

Do "mansluts" ever change or will he always be like that

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunts and Uncles Ok so, last night i was at a party, i had my eye on a guy on the guestlist. I went too the party and actually met him he seemed nice and after a few drinks we pulled. He is however what one may class as a "manslut" but i actually really like him. I'm wo... (91 words)

I have a FWB relationship with my best friend, but I want more

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a FWB relationship. Now let me be honest, it isn't a casual acquaintance, he's my very best friend and we hang out almost daily, call to say goodnight, share a bed etc even when we are not having sex. Recently I've been thinking that unless it goes further or he's ... (311 words)

He broke up with his g/f but still isnt ready for a committed relationship with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When I started seeing this certain guy I knew he had a long distance girlfriend, we broke up a month ago because of it. Now he has broken up with his long distance girlfriend but says he is not yet ready for a commitment relationship with me. However, he is still sweet to me ... (85 words)

6 years later she realised she hadn't forgiven me and left

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

6 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - About 6 years ago on a lad's holiday I cheated on my girlfriend with a prostitute. (we had been going out for 4mths) It's the worst thing I've ever done and I instantly regretted it. I came home and confessed to her and thankfully she forgave me and gave me another chance. I ... (212 words)

I'm feeling guilty for liking someone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm feeling that i am a guilty person. i had knew a guy from U.S and i work for him as a foreign language translator. we coped pretty well in work. one day he had introduced his friend that is a writer to know me, so that i can help him in translation as well. i worked with his ... (143 words)

Can anything else go wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Anyone ever had 2 weeks of your life where everything is going wrong and you cant see any light at the end of the tunnel??? I failed my driving test-again! I didnt get a promotion at work-despite the fact i work twice as hard and the girl that got it is practically best fri... (219 words)

My sister physically attacked me when I am 7 months pregnant!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

- Im 7 months pregnant I still live at home with my parents and sister and lastnight I had a row with my sister and she physically attacked me. My parents are standing up for my sister saying that ' I shouldnt hide behind my pregnancy as a way of hitting and not expecting it ... (153 words)

For anyone out there who has been cheated on.. can you tell me when the pain starts to subside?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, For anyone out there who has been cheated on.. can you tell me when the pain starts to subside? Only three weeks ago, I found out my boyfriend of eight years has been having an affair for the past year - and possibly the entire time we've been together.... (352 words)

Her super-conservative Christian views kept her from returning my affections.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

6 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, i had a really close friend 2 years ago, and i had a MAJOR crush on her, but her super-conservative Christian views kept her from returning my affections. We kinda lost contact for 2 years, but then i tried to patch things up. It seemed to be working at first, but then ... (114 words)

I'm married, will be a father in a month, but can't control my feelings for the receptionist at the gym.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

6 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, I am a new member on this site. I am married now for 8 months almost and we will have a baby soon. We dated for only around 1.5 years before we decided to get married. I go to this gym everyday and have started liking a girl at the reception who is also intere... (183 words)

Is a man gay if he crossdresses and uses toys on himself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Why do men use toys on themselves and cross dress and feel they are not gay? I can understand the feminine side, but the toys make me feel that I cannot satisfy him like a man could. I also have a problem with the deception and lies. A man marries you promising you a ... (220 words)

I consider touching oneself as a bad thing.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Here we are, I and my boyfriend had a phone sex which something I wasn't even heard about before i just read somewhere and realized it yeah I'm old fashioned so what, don't you think he should tell me that he want phone sex before started it with me? anyway, there is something ... (179 words)

I'm 15 and we want to have a baby

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - People are telling me i'm Crazy ! Im 15 and planning to have a baby ? My boyfriend and i been together for about 1 year and Two Months. He tells me he Loves me and he will never Leave me.We been having intercourse since we meet. Now we both want to plan a baby !i know ima ... (67 words)

It's Friday night and here I am, alone again!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - It's friday night and I'm alone. I was at a friend's b-day earlier tonight. It seems like every night I'm alone. I like being to myself but this is getting ridiculous. When I was out at the restaurant I saw many cute girls out with guys. One of them smiled at me. What am ... (179 words)

Why are women's bodies so complicated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I did not have a cycle for the month of January. To my thought it was suppose to come down on the 27th of january. I took the first pregancy test 4 days after it was suppose to come down , came back neg. So I waited a week and 2 days later came back neg. Again !!! Yes I've been ... (157 words)

Our first time and she says she didnt feel me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time and she said she didnt feel me inside? I'm to small or whats wrong with me?... (26 words)

I hate her and I cant let it go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Several years ago, I fell in love with a boy. A girl that I was friends with at the time liked him to and dated him behind my back. Both of them were aware of what they were doing to me. She was always jealous of me and had issues of her own at home and with eating disorders... (168 words)

How can I forget a girl I never even went out with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

6 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - first girl i loved was when i was 17 yrs old.. and i am 22 now.. back then i did not date her but we were very close friends. I wanted for us to be together but she did not want that because her best friend really liked me. so that didn't happen and it's been 5 or so years and ... (161 words)

Our friend just got a new girlfriend and none of us like her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

6 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my best guy friend just got a new girl friend and none of our friends like her. she's just awful and she's cheated on every boyfriend she's ever had.we all love him and would hate to see him get hurt. we were wondering if there was a way to break them up before he gets hurt or ... (166 words)

Virgin, half virgin, whats the definition of virgin?

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do YOU define the term "virgin"? A person who hasn't had ANY sort of sexual experience at all? Someone who hasn't had sexual intercourse but has had oral, anal? For girls, do you consider them a virgin if their hymen or "cherry" was popped from masturbation or fingering but ... (92 words)

Should I give my ex's best friend a chance?

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I of one month broke up earlier today. This is our second and last break-up, we broke up last Tuesday (though the whole process was three days)and we decided to get back together this past Monday. I'm hurt but deep down I know it's for the best. ... (662 words)

My step dad is in the army and bosses us around like we are little soldiers.

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6 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, i have a huge problem with my step-dad. It may sound ridiculous but i really cant stand him. Hes in the army and thats one of the problems. He works in a different town and is only home on the weekends for the most part. But when he is home i never want to be there. When ... (182 words)

Why do I always feel lonely?

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6 February 2010 (F)

age - Is anyone happy in th world at all? I have study about loneliness and it says that people gets lonely 48 times in a year. Is that true? How come I am always lonely even with my own husband who does reject and has not make love to me in almost 14 years, and the bad is that we ... (130 words)

Why wouldnt my b/f give us another chance if we ever broke up?

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Me and my fiance have only been together for about 1 1/2 or 2 years. Of course we have our ups/downs like every body else. But, he says that if we ever break-up he will never come back to me.He said if we break up for any reason at all. When we first hooked up, he s... (90 words)

My wife is going to divorce me and wont listen to me

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6 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - me and my wife had arugement around christmas about my step daughter brining mher boy-freind over house when i don't like the kid and how i come i always have money to pay the bills. the arugement got heat and alot was said i called my wife a whore and she called me names ... (123 words)

Do "birds of a feather" always flock together?

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy over the internet, and I like him very much, we have already set a date to have a coffee or something next week... Untill now I haven`t found any big red flags,and we have been talking a lot, and everything is great so I was feeling quite safe.. But trough some ... (131 words)

I want to make sure I am prepared but what size condoms should I buy

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was always told that in situations, not to rely on the guy to always have condoms. And I'm with it, being independent and what not. But I have a question. Since all guys are different, like when I compare my ex to the guy I was recently with, they are total opposites. So when ... (102 words)

My b/f likes to admire other girl's looks

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, How am I supposed to feel about my fiance talking about another female? This includes whenever I'm around him/when I'm not.He has even talked about how good another girl looks when I was on the phone with him one night. He was having a conversation with his brother.... (180 words)

I am worried about hair in the nether regions

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 17 year old female who is suffering from hair on my butt, not my cheeks, it's inside of my cheeks around my hole. ( I apologize for graphis terms). I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months, and we haven't really gotten to the sexual area of our realationship, but we ... (123 words)

Does he love me or is he trying to get out of marrying me

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married woman due to my husbands abuse and very suspicous behaviour I felt all alone. My husband had his first love and he could not forget and my comparsion. Listening to dirt words. after a year of marriage i deliverd a baby boy who is twelve now. In my work place I ... (438 words)

I think our teacher is putting off weird vibes

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me start by saying I feel a little awkward talking about this, but I want some advice/answers to the problem I've been having involving one of my teachers. You could say he's one of the more fun, "popular" teachers in my school; he likes to joke around with just about ... (375 words)

I love her but I don't want to be faking orgasms for the rest of my life

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im a lesbian seeking for advice on sex with my gf. i was a virgin when i met her and on one occasion she took away my virginty. it was not too painful when she thrusted her finger in for the first time.but it felt uncomfortable when the finger hits the cervix. the 2nd time we ... (228 words)

Could my lack of experience turn my boyfriend off?

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Thanks for your time. I just turned 18 and im still a virgen and iv never gave guys bj's or any thing like that. My bf is a all most a year older then me and i know hes had sex and had bj's before and hes more experanced in that then me and im pretty sure im ready but im scared ... (121 words)

How can I get over this crush I have on my teacher?

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. I am getting verrry annoyed with a certain teacher, who I have a crush on. I can't seem to focus in class and everytime he looks at me...well I just can't look back and look somewhere else! I look at everyone else and all their attention is easily focused on him and I ... (337 words)

I don't want to be the overbearing mother but I can't have her having sex with a guy that can't commit to her!

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6 February 2010 (F)

age - Aunts I need your help. My daughter is 18 yrs old, when she was 16 she met Ryan and they dated for 6 months and she got pregnant. Ryan was very supportive during the pregnancy but once my granddaughter was born he was inmature, spending a lot of time with his friends and ... (185 words)

I don't want to tell my family that the baby's father is part Turkish!

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm pregnant but now raising this kid alone. My family have no idea who the father is and as he does not wish to be involued, i see no reason why my family should know. It is the child at the end of the day which is most important. My question is a bit on the shallow side so ... (224 words)

Why do I keep thinking about him?

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i can't stop thinking about a guy who i knew just a month. i don't know if i really fall in love with him or what. i knew he doesn't love me, but why do i keep thinking about him? ... (40 words)

Is it possible that he is now clingy?

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I have always heard guys say that once a girl loses her virginity to a guy she becomes clingy But in my case the one that has changed is my boyfriend He was my first while he was much more experienced After having sex he has become a lot more loving and caring H... (126 words)

I sometimes wonder if he ever did plan on marrying me

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid's lounge, i have a question because quite frankly I'm at a loss. When my boyfriend and I were together 1 1/2 yrs(almost to the day)we got the news that we were going to have a baby. There were ups and downs because he thought he couldn't have kids and so did i, ... (183 words)

Can I trust my girlfriend?

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6 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend almost 14 months, she attracts a massive amount of attention from other males, a wee while ago she left herself logged into a social networking site, and when i realised she was still logged in i took a little look in her emails and there were ... (108 words)

I want to have a relationship with him but his ex is always in his head

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now,we got together right after his girlfriend/babys momma of 3 years left him,he constantly looks up her myspace,but tells me hes looking for updates about his daughter,when i know hes kinda stalking her,he looks at his ex's current ... (159 words)

He fancies me, he fancies me not ...........

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, this is quite a simple question. All i need to know is this. Does this man fancy me. I've been looking at this from every single angle i can think of, and i come back to yes, he does. But the thing is. He is not like some men. The story is this. Yesterday i went... (470 words)

We live together and tonight he said sex is a meaningless act

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. Recently it's like he's lost all interest in being intimate with me. Just tonight actually he told me that he thinks sex is a meaningless act! How could you possibly think that it's meaningless being intimate with the ... (111 words)

He is a horrible abusive man but I cant let go of him

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6 February 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I can't let go of this abusive, horrible man. He has such a hold on me! I love him a lot, I don't why but I love him so deeply and I just can't let go. If he apologizes and wants me back, I just can't seem to resist. I still see more pros than cons in staying with him, but he ... (336 words)

I'm confused over this guy who is always there for me

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres a guy who I've been friendly with for a year now since we first started College. For the past 2 months, we've started to get closer in general. Hes bought me lunch, drinks, he's sorted things out for me, we've hugged, snuggled up watching TV, he's kissed my head and ... (605 words)

I don't understand him, or is the problem me?

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys hope u can help bit of a long story but here we go. ive been with my partner 7 years and we have one son together (4 years old). we deeply love each other but the problem is his family. im a very straight forward person and speak my mind alot which sum ppl might fi... (563 words)

Am I still in love with this guy after all these years?

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6 February 2010 (F)

age - I have always had problems with my love life. I don't think I have ever gotten over my first love. I always find myself thinking and dreaming about this guy. I haven't seen him for 30 years. Just recently he found me on facebook and starting e-mailing. We corresponded for about ... (113 words)

I am hurting so bad and all he shows is anger

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - About a month ago I posted a question about trying to fix my relationship. I was having a hard time fixing it by myself and he was putting forth no effort and I left him (changed my number, blocked him from internet communications). He would show up to my house... make up new ... (429 words)

We have solved our problems but other people wont forget

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i had some problems with a guy in september,october,and early november. we solved those problems and we are now boyfriend and girlfriend but no one will let us forget about what happened in the past. we have moved on and have now been dating for allmost a month;i really care ... (71 words)

He wines and dines me and is very attentive, but will he ever commit?

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6 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all. I have a slight dilemma.This guy and I have been "hanging out" for a little over 3 years,(we have known each other closer to five).We have been having sex regularly(at least once a week,on mutual days off) for half of the 3 year "hanging out" period. Whenev... (149 words)