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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I've been dating my man for 2 years and I just want to make him feel extra good for valentines day!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my bf and I are long distance, and weather permitting, we'll get to see each other this weekend. I was wondering, what are some ways to make him really horny and satisfied. We have not had penetrative sex yet. Please help! I've been dating my man for 2 years and I just want ... (66 words)

Is his mum trying to turn him against me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this is kinda a stupid question but its eating me inside, recently my boyfriend was taken into a room with his parents then came out, and talked to me saying he needs 3 days a week minimum to himself, and that i ruined a party because i started to cry for a good reason, and... (154 words)

Wild look!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently spent a weekend at the beach with my BF. I didn't wear any makeup and didn't do my hair either. When we returned home I got back into my 'beauty' routine and he then told me he likes me the best with no make up and wild hair. I think I look better with makeup ... (79 words)

I was only using her for sex... well that was my intention!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

10 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex girlfriend just found out I was using her for sex when we were dating. Actually, We never had sex, but we were moving in that direction and I was pushing her. She was attracted to me because I helped her with her problems, and when she wanted to start dating I only saw ... (243 words)

She's confusing me by her actions... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5427 days ago

10 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to this girl for about 3-4 months but never actually had any deep conversations. I found out that she use to like me so deiced to talk to her since i did also like her. When i started talking to her she knew i liked her since her friend told her. After going ... (405 words)

I haven't had sex for ages and my girlfriend is away, My ex comes over tomorrow but I don't want to cheat on my girlfriend... Temptation!!! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

10 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, as i wrote you i had a gf, and we are practically 3 years years together. The past 4 months she lives in other city because of studies. Tomorrow one of my ex comes to my house, and i know we will have sex. But i'm worried about cheating on my gf cause i love her ... (102 words)

He's in college, I'm in high school. Therefore, my parents don't approve

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5427 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, I'm 17 and I met this guy at work who is 19 but he's a sophomore in college (kind of young for his grade) while I'm only a junior. We started hanging out and just like fooling around, nothing serious. But now we've kind of developed into an actual relationship with ... (212 words)

I am desperately unhappy because my boyfriend of 7 years is constantly critcising me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am desperately unhappy because my boyfriend of 7 years is constantly critcising me. I made a mistake when I was young and got with the wrong guy and had two children. My children are grown up now and going to college/doing ok .. I have since been to university and got a ... (546 words)

Why don't I like it when my boyfriend smokes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for a while, he's 19 and I'm 17 so therefore he's in college and I'm not. He smokes, not a lot but like a few times every week max. I vowed that I would never date a smoker. I'm not sure what really gets me about it, but I just have never liked the ... (180 words)

Hair removal creams...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

10 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife has seen ads about hair removal creams and wants to know if any are safe to use on her vagina. I have heard some bad reports about it. Your opinions would be greatly appreciated. ... (37 words)

How can I deal with his anger and get him to communicate and to become fully commited to our marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 5 1/2 years, and as I write this my husband has once again moved out and is saying he wants a divorce. Though up until last week he would tell anyone interested that he has never been happier and that I he loves me beyond words. And everything is fine ... (234 words)

My boyfriend accused me of cheating and hasn't called me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - The other day while I was out, a guy who used to like me turned down the street I was driving on and started to follow me just by pure coincedence. Not really in a creepy way, but definitely in a way that if I stopped he would have stopped to say hi. I was on the phone with my ... (326 words)

Valetines day for a couple that isn't "lovey"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I aren't really the sappy cutesy couple. We don't have pet names, we're not clingy and attached to the hip, and we haven't done the whole "I love you" thing yet. We've been dating for 8 months, and we talk about how we like eachother, but neither of us ha... (263 words)

He acts as if nothing matters but law school!!!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend stayed the night at my house last night, and when we got up to leave at the same time this morning--he was going to law school, I was going to work--my car wouldn't start. He acted like it was a huge burden to help me and spent all of 30 seconds trying to jump my ... (473 words)

How do I survive this without him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F) age 41-50 - i have a fifteen year relationship, two wonderful kids, seven and three. he will not marry me as i am so interested in money. what will i get out if it, not the fact of our children (young as they are), he is well off, but hasn't always been, he had nothing when we met. grew ... (66 words)

I'm considering cancelling our date for fear of screwing things up, I'm so nervious! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what do i do?!? Ive just started dating a guy in college with me and hes the first real boyfriend Ive had to be honest. anyway he asked me to go out on a date with him on sunday but im worried i wont know how to act or what to say. im becoming a nervous wreck over it an... (82 words)

What to do next???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F) - I met a guy from online and we went to a bar.. the conversation seemed to go well even though i was nervous.. i found him funny and nice.. he bought me a second drink and later said he isn't much of a drinker and if i would like to go somewhere maybe for coffee? i agreed and ... (672 words)

Help me! How can I get over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship with this guy for almost 3 years, he broke up with me for no reason when i ask him he said that i loved him too much. i really loved him and he really broke my heart. after the break up i still talked to him and i begged him to say with me cause i could ... (192 words)

Can a guy urinate inside the girl during intercourse???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I know that this is going to sound kind of dumb but I'm just a bit confused and would like answers, without making a fool out of myself. Okay here goes nothing... can a guy urinate inside the girl during intercourse??? it just seems possible to me and if you guys have any ... (65 words)

Stinky men!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem with my husband's hygiene. He just stinks most of the time. And I cannot stand to kiss him because he doesn't always take care of his dental hygiene. He does brush his teeth, but not as often as i think he should and I also wish he would go get professional ... (225 words)

We both like each other but he doesn't want a relationship... what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - In september i was in a relationship with a boy who is 6 months younger than me, it only lasted 2 months but i really liked him, anyway since the start of january he's been texing me none stop and on sunday 7th he told me he still liked me. I still like him too, but he doesn't ... (76 words)

What's so wrong with spending a weekend with the one you love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i are both still young (18 - 19 this year) He's only had one serious partner with a younger girl whereas my previous relationships have been with men 3 or 4 years older than me who have all been ready to settle down. I now feel that i wish to do the same. I ... (153 words)

I no longer want to have sex with my husband. How do I tell him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I tell my husband how I feel? I have been with my husband for 20 years and I no longer want to have sex with him. I do love and care for him but there is no emotional connection whatsoever. No kisses, no sex, no nothing! My feelings towards him have changed and I can't ... (83 words)

Why do I always seem to fancy older men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My current boyfriend is 54 and I am 30. The thing is i have always fancied older men. I have a stable family life and grew up with both my parents being there, i get on well with my dad. So i dont understand why i fancy older men? and not men my own age like all my frie... (64 words)

Why do men like fake boobs so much?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do men like fake boobs so much? In my country, guys seem to prefer fake boobs. These are some famous models in my country, which all men drool over (no nudity, just bikini clad, but probably NSFW): http://i48.tinypic.com/126eijn.jpg http://i47.tinypic.com... (285 words)

Isn't there any way that I can meet a girl and not have her say "wanna screw" in the frist 5 seconds?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this is sort of a small rant/ if u have any advice plse tell ^.^ ok, i live in colorado (whether that's suppposed to be a secret or not i'm not sure) anyway, i've been trying to meet girls to have some sort of meaningful relationship (as in know i don't want to go home with ... (184 words)

Is this the beginning stages of spousal abuse???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been married for almost a month and a half. not very long in my case, ive known my husband for about 5 years. me and him are known to play fight, but sometimes it gets serious and i usually get mad and walk away if that's the case. for example last night; we live ... (326 words)

Am I a fool for leaving her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

10 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I was with my girlfriend for around five years, although for much of that time I stupidly just considered us friends, even though we were often living together and always sleeping together. During the five years I left her a total of three times, even though I considered (an... (438 words)

Why is he avoiding me???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help :( I am sad and confused. The guy i have been dating for 4 months - well things have changed... he ignored me 2 weeks ago and then slowly started to talk to me after a week of silent treatment. During our conversation this week I asked him if he would prefer i leave ... (148 words)

I have been in love with my teacher for over two years... when do I say enough is enough???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am sorry that there is loads of topics like this, but seriously this is the only place i can post this where you won't get laughed at!!!. I am in sixth form and 19 years old, and for the last 2 years.. (since about jan 08) I have had feelings for one of my teachers. She is... (339 words)

What is the best toy to masturbate with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - to all the girls: whats the best toy/object to matsurbate with? give me any/all the suggestions you want :)xx... (19 words)

Now that my friend has a boyfriend she doesn't talk to me any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really annoyed with a girl I know. we used 2 be best friends but now she has a boyfriend. Normally when she had a boyfriend she'd still talk to me or stay in my house for the night but now she wont talk to me or anything. The thing that has me really mad is that for week... (208 words)

I so want to kiss a guy but how can I do it without my parents finding out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I'm Ally and I'm 15 years old. I've never kissed a boy, but I really want to but I'm afraid my parents will find out. How do I try to get alone with one of my guy friends in my youth group so I can kiss him and also make sure that my parents don't end up finding out? can you ... (68 words)

Opinions needed! Should I stay or leave...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - O.K I have been with my man for 5 years now, and we have 1 child together age 3. We also have another on the way. The problem is, he has not had a real job since he left the Military in 2006. He has worked 2 jobs since then, The first job he had left the job and moved back home ... (361 words)

Is it possible for a guy to like you yet totally ignore you in social settings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - A question from a friend.. Is it possible for a guy to like you yet totally ignore you in social settings?... (21 words)

He's gone from perfect to a thoughtless liar!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'll try and keep this brief. My ex was amazing for 4 years. He then cheated on me and started with her. since then he has been nasty, then was nice again and said we'd get back together, now is cooling off, saying he loves me, unsure if he wants me - messing me around. I'm ... (251 words)

What is a "drama queen"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age - What exactly is a drama queen? My friend keeps accusing me of being a drama queen. I think he is more dramatic than I in that he has a terrible temper. After a little while things blow over and he acts as if nothing ever happened. Who is the drama queen here?... (55 words)

Why am I feeling so run down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (?) age 30-35 - hi im 18. i know this isnt a relationship question but i need help. for the past fews months i have been feeling really tired even if i sleep for hours, when i wake up all i want to do is sleep, i feel like i have no energy. also whenever i wash my hair lots of it comes out and ... (227 words)

The guy my cousin likes asked me out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5427 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - The guy my cousin likes asked me out and I said yes. The thing is that they are too far apart in age to ever go out and he doesn't like her. I kinda like him but want to know if what I am doing is wrong? My cousin has always been mean to me and jealous of me and this certainly ... (70 words)

My boyfriend told me sex with me was boring!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - okay.. so im 22 years old.. ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a bit now.. lately he hasnt been able to last that long but during the starting of our relationship even up till about 3 or 4 months ago he was able to last longer and we did it a lot more.. now im lucky if ... (211 words)

Should I email him my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently noticed that I only have a few more months until I graduate from high school and my high school years come to a close. For those four years, I have had an obsessive crush on one of my teachers. I have thought of him every single day; he's the first thing I think ... (193 words)

I feel crushed by guys!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel crushed by guys Hi im a 16 yr old girl... i really hate my relationships with boys and ive given up. It hurts when your freind tells you that one of your ex-boyfriends told her that he made a mistake when he was with me. I know that its really easy to say not to mind ... (124 words)

Why does it hurt to pee after sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having sex for over 2 years now and I've never really had many problems. However, a few months ago, I randomly got the symptoms of thrush. I went to the doctors and got something to treat it and it worked. But since then, it hasn't been the same. Everytime after me ... (167 words)

The sex life of a male Taurean???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a male, Taurus and I heard many rumors about this zodiac sign. Can i get some feedback about the sex life with a male, taurus please? Well girls would probably be the ones that could give true details, but guys can too. Thanks!!!... (45 words)

How can I communicate with my husband effectively?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband and i have been together for 10 years and have been married for 3 years. about a year ago i told him I had slept with my ex when all i did was go down there on our wedding day only bc he hit me i forgave him. about 2 months ago i told him i didnt sleep with my ex, i ... (211 words)

How do I make things better???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am in deep trouble I think. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months. I have been suspicious that he is pursuing other girls throughout this time. He is Arab Muslim and I am White Christian girl. He is 31 and I am 25. I know I am an insecure person. I have r... (683 words)

Help!!! Should I ask her out again and if so... HOW???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, I'm 14 btw. Bascially, i became friends with this girl about a year ago. We tried going out, but that failed, horribly. Now we're the best of friends. i talk to her like every night for about 1-3 hours. She liked one of my friends, dated them for about a week, and th... (93 words)

Is finding Mister Right really possible or is it just too tall an order for a dreamer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been feeling bewildered lately, mostly because of work and a loaded school schedule, but also because I am yet to find love or so I feel. I want to feel the rush of nurturing a relationship into something beautiful; I want to find that certain person that fits like a ... (176 words)

Why does my teacher always try to make me feel small?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Ok basically, this isn't a relationship question but I kind of need some advice. I'm in college at the moment and I have this teacher, she seems ok but sometimes she can kind of talk down on you, like I'm 5 or something. And today I accidently forgot half of my hom... (237 words)

Why was he unable to penetrate me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I've been dating my boyfriend for the past 6 months. Yesterday we try to have sex for the first time but he couldnt get hard. When he did get hard we still couldnt have sex because he couldn't penetrate me =( . Does anyone have any answers or suggestions ?... (51 words)

Can anyone shed some light here...? What's wrong with him???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok during high school my very first bf lied about sleeping with me and i cut off all contact. now its been like over a year later havent spoken to him or seen him to only find out he is still talkin about me and our relationship but making up stuff. cause he and a mutual friend ... (137 words)

Am I crazy to throw away someone who loves me so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am deliberating breaking up with my girlfriend. The thought of it is killing me and I have never broken up with anyone before. I made a list of reasons for why I want to end the relationship, and a list for why I want to stay. The "reasons to end it" are at least... (281 words)

My penis slips out during sex, how can I stop this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

10 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So i know i have asked this question but i still feel like i didnt get a good answer. Me and my girlfriend are trying to have sex... we are both virgins so its kind of like going into this blindfolded. We get each other going i get her wet and all and yes i have heard the a... (128 words)

He only talks to me by email, not in person. Is he too shy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5427 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - (I have posted this before, but with less info, please don't delete this!) There is this guy in my school, he's in two of my lessons, and I think he likes me, but I'm not too sure. When we're in our computer class, he e-mails me (he always starts convos first-I never do, ... (305 words)

Is he just saying this to her to keep the affair going?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, my friend is 32 years old and is married. She has been seeing a 45 year old married man for quite some time now. He always says "i love you" to her and tells her she is beautiful, sexy, hot etc etc. Also he says that he enjoys spending time with her not just a sexual ... (80 words)

How can I tell I am in love, and how can I enjoy sex more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - [MOD NOTE: Two questions from the same poster have been combined] 1. Am really confused,how can I tell if am in love. I just dont know what I feel for my boyfriend, I have strong feelings for my ex.could he be a rebound? 2. What can one do to enjoy sex? It was fun with my ex b... (67 words)

I have lied to my online friend, about everything for 5 years. I am going to meet him now, what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been using fake pics for well over 6 years and at first its fun with the attention but after a while reality sets in and it always come to an bad ending!! But this was when I was a lot younger and now I'm 21 I don't do it no more bc at the end of the day reality is way ... (355 words)

I'm sick of my wife being lazy and doing nothing! I deserve better, don't I?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

10 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Right, I'll try to keep this short and to the point. I have been married for 10 years (together with my wife for 13 years), all in all we've had a pretty good marriage so far and I was pretty content. Until our new neighbours moved in. Now I can't help comparing my wife w... (586 words)

Is he keeping these past 'sex texts' as a trophy or something to get off with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - About 6 months ago I found very explicit sex texts on my husband's phone. The texts were between him and his (female) boss. I filed for divorce (because of this and his controlling/bullying behavior)but put the proceedings on hold because I was feeling sentimental during the ... (184 words)

I should run but my heart says stay. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm seeing this guy who all my family and friends hate they say i can do better but i love him i no i shouldnt get involved with him as hes got 3 children but he means so much to me and he makes me happy but i dont know what to do my head says run but my heart wont let me what ... (67 words)

My wife has more time in bed for her toys than she does for me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

10 February 2010 (M)

age - I'm totally confused over whats going on - I normally sleep really well. I recently couldnt sleep and heard my wife orgasm harvesting (masterbating) - she had several orgasms it seemed at different times of the night. she would have an orgasm(s) then sleep then have another O ... (307 words)

I am moving on anyway, but still would like to know why he is like this

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (?) - I have been seeing this guy on and off for almost 2 years in a non committed relationship.(I was happy with that for a fair while) It will be going really well he will be calling me all the time and wanting to be having lunch dates,dates,talking on the phone for ages. We will ... (441 words)

I am letting my jealousy ruin our marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im a jelous person and i dont want it to ruin my marriage. Well i get upset and jelous if my husband give attention or talks alot to other women! I do not know why i do it... Please can someone give me advise what could i do to make it better. Because i dont want him to think i ... (78 words)

I can't say those three little words "I love you"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hii i have a problem i am in love with my boyfreind but my probleme i can't say it to hem , so when he tell me that he love me i only say me too , and even when i try to say an other thing i don't find any word, so pliize help me... (58 words)

We do everything couples do but he says he wont be my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been seeing a guy for 8 months now. he was the one doing the chasing all along. we talk everyday, see eachother weekdays and weekends, basically act like boyfriend and girlfriend.hes met my family and i've met his family and friends and we know eachother well. he got out ... (124 words)

I find myself pushing him away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

10 February 2010 (?) - I met my boyfriend through a friend a year ago and he at the time lived interstate. We emailed each other everyday and found we had similar dreams in life. We travelled back and forth about 6 times for weekends and had a lot of relaxed fun and romantic sex. He moved interstate ... (250 words)

I am so paranoid about having my period that I don't want to leave the house, cant concentrate at school, ...I even dream about it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my issue is that I feel like I'm the only girl in the world who is extremely paranoid of her period. It's always on my mind, because i'm always thinking about "well, what if i get it this day when i have to do this" and I also worry about it so much, that it often appears ... (375 words)

My dream guy gets angry when other men call me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just met this guy barely a month,he's my dream man. The only problem he has is that he gets angry wheneva a guy calls me,i dnt know what or how to pls... (33 words)

I am feeling guilty about my relationship choices.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and in love with a guy 30 years older than me.we lived together for 8months and had the best memories and I never felt that way with any young guys before.It was like a dream for both of us(he would always say It's too good to be true).he was separated from his wife for ... (321 words)

She ignores the ex's call when I am around, ..but answers them if I am not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My girl friend's ex-guy always calls her that he wants her back.I asked her if she has told him that she's now engaged,she said she has told him but he kept calling. The annoying part is that if we're together and he calls,she ignores his calls,but when she's alone she pick... (61 words)

Is it bad that we talk about sex? I think he is trying to get in my pants!

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this guy that i like and am getting to know.chatting.. and gong on dates with..this guy says he wants to love me..treat me like a princess etc: hes really sweet..and gentleman.. and he keep asking me if i like him and what i think of him..but i dont know what he ... (195 words)

I am 16 and my voice has not broken nor has my penis grown.

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10 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - (Mod Note - OP's own title) Well I am 16 turning 17 on May 21st cant wait for it really but.. I am planning on going out more once I get a stable job and a car or bike most probably will be thinking more and more of having sex around that age. Well so far I got a ton of pu... (134 words)

Sexual partners are shocked over how wet I got. Is this normal?

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and recently tried to have a threesome with some friends (that drunk night) They both were shocked at how wet I was; even when not arroused and how smoothe my lips were. Just wondering...is it normal to be that wet or smoothe?... (50 words)

My dog eats my undies!

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know that when you're first going through puberty that you discharge frequently; but I'm 18 and still do. I know this sounds gross and believe me...ticks me off, my dog will chew through the crotches of ALL my underwear. 1. is it normal to continue this discharge? 2. H... (64 words)

She has threatened to file sexual harrasment charges against me because I don't want to become her boyfriend.

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10 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i met a girl on a dateline and she wants a boyfriend but i dont want a girlfriend and she told me that she go to the law and file sexual harrasment against me because i dont want to be with her and she wont stop texting and call me... (50 words)

Two guys that are the "love of my life": Where can I start?

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - (Mod Note - OP's own title) I studied abroad almost four years ago and met the man of my dreams. I had been in a bad relationship in the States and knew as soon as I met him that THAT'S what a "real" relationship was supposed to be like--he was absolutely the kindest, sweetest... (608 words)

He treats me like crap, lies, and breaks up with me all the time, ... but he is a good guy at heart.

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It's kind of a long story but I guess you should know everything before you can really advise me. I started dating my boyfriend in June of 2008. Now it is February 2010. In that time he has broken up with me twice and we have taken a break twice. Everytime, it was him that ... (1333 words)

Me and my fiancee are trying again but can't get it right

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10 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - How is it going doc? Me and my fiancee have been trying to get pregnant since we lost our first child in June last year her period just came on today the 10th and her cycle for the last three months have been consistent at 27 days now this one came on a day late I was just ... (111 words)

Do you think my boyfriend cheated on me?

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - One night my boyfriend an a few of his mates wen to this girl house an they stayed there all nite an most of the morning there was a few other girl there aswell,he told me who was there an i believe him,until 6 months later one of his mates let it slip about another girl who ... (82 words)

I am not sexually compatible with my husband. How can I get him to stop being such a prude?

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - (Mod Note - OP's own title) I can't say how glad I am to have found this site. I am a 28yo mother of three boys. I have always been very sexual. I can remember masturbating as early as 5 or 6. My first sexual incounter was with the little girl across the street. We were ... (477 words)

Sometimes I can see a future with her, other times I just want to break up.

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10 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear, i've been with my girlfriend for almost a year and a half we had a hard start she's 8 years older than me. but since 10 months ago we decided to go for it. for the last 2 month i've been going through ups and downs sometimes i feel i adore her and i wanna be with he... (179 words)

My husband gives more attention to other women and it is making me jealous.

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Could anyone please help me i realised that i do not like it when my husband give more attention or talks more to other women then he does with me. I also relised i am jelous but its getting worse. And i do not want him to think that i do not trust him because i do trust him. ... (396 words)

My mum found condoms in my dad's bag and was in tears all night. Should I tell him!

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so sad right now. A few hours ago, my mom spoke softly to me that she found out something about my dad. She found condoms in his bag yesterday. She told me that she cried the whole night. I don't think she confessed to my dad yet but soon..she will. I don't know what ... (225 words)

I am tired of feeling guilty for being attracted to older men!

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10 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i find myself extremely attracted to older guys! not just because some show signs of maturity and have more in common with me but also because of their physical appearance. this isnt something recent its just something i dont really talk about for fear of being scolded for it. ... (296 words)

My husband treats me like a man, ...I want to be treated like a woman!

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, well see my problem is my husband treats me like one of his buddies, like talk to me like one joke with me (depending what mood he is). And will tell me take this or carry this not like a book like heavy stuff chairs from upstairs to down stairs. Anyways i just feel that i ... (533 words)

I psyche myself up to give my boyfriend a lap dance, ... and then I chicken out!

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ahhhh ive been wanting to give my boyfriend a lap dance and make him so horny he screws me senseless. lol. i get in the mood i get a cute baby dolls outfit. i think i look all sexy and stuff i pick out the music, but i get to scared and chicken out. i am not sure what to do ... (76 words)

I treated her bad and cheated on her, ... now I am losing her. How can I win her back?

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10 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i am a male 32 yrs old and in a realationship for 6 years with a beutiful woman and i have 5 kids , 2 that are with her and i have treated her bad most of the time and i cheated on her last year and was so quick to have given up on us and now she wants to end it and i have been ... (136 words)

How do I accept the fact that she's going to mess with other guys?

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10 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my ex have broken up from a 1 year relationship and she tells me that she loves me so much but she just doesnt think she's ready for a committed relationship yet and that she doesn't want to hurt me no more and i treat her so good, better than any other guy could ever ... (108 words)

Am I losing interest in my boyfriend?

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. He says he loves me and he never wants to lose me and wants me to tell him I love him but I just can't find the words. Lately I feel like I'm not as into him and I think about other guys and how my life would be without him and ... (154 words)

Is my boyfriend becoming agressive?

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I live together and we both go to the same school, he's 20 and I'm 19. So the other day we were kissing on the bed, just messing around. When all of a sudden he pins me to the bed, I tought okay.. but idk.. he did it like really hard, I told him that we were... (163 words)

Could it be? A...Soulmate?

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm Kajimaru, and I wanted to ask a question. There is a boy who I am interested in. Lets call him 'Tatsuno'. Tatsuno has everything in common with me. Even before I knew him, there was always his name in my mind...His real name, of course. So, he is my best friend, also. ... (92 words)

I am exhausted by the intense highs and lows that come with my boyfriend! Do all couples go through this?

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10 February 2010 (F)

- I am so confused. Been with b/f 5 years and they've been rocky years. He's short tempered and impatient and it causes us to have alot of fights, but he is aware that his personality is very intense, and he does apologize and he's good at doing a really,sweet, heart felt ... (171 words)

I am starting to think sex is gross and want to turn Vanilla.

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know if this is a good thing or a bad thing, but I'm starting to think sex is GROSS, for the first time since I experienced it a little more than ten years ago, I am not coming from an 'oh, I've been with so many people and done so many freaky things that I want to g... (522 words)

I'm a girl...whos in love with a girl...whos my teacher!

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i know this is wrong and i know that there could be conciquences for this but holding it in isnt getting me anywhere and i havent told anyone about this. i need to know if i should tell a certain female teacher (i am a female) how i feel about her. (she is single and in h... (229 words)

My boyfriend does not like me to smile at anyone.

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend doesn't like it when i smile at people and he told me that he doesnt like it and he always fight with me so help me what should i do? ... (32 words)

He denies sending dirty pics of himself to another girl, ... but I saw them with my own eyes!

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Their is this guy that I had been dating for about 14 months.... I love him to Death and care about him so much. I left him about month ago due to finding dirty messages on his phone sent to another girl and messages on his computer to his ex (the mother of his children) ... (385 words)

He's been a commitment phobe, now am I becoming one?

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are planning moving in together, marriage children the works after a long time together. However in the past he has been a bit of a commitment phobe and on one or two occasions things have got serious and hes done a runner. All of the moving in together etc ... (195 words)

Do you think he likes me or not?

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well there's this guy who is a senior in high school and I'm a sophomore. I used to think that he liked me because he tried to impress me, make me laugh, etc. The main way I could tell was that I would catch him staring at me all the time. Anyway I really liked him back but ... (237 words)

He said I could be a stripper at Seaworld because of my weight gain!

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have gained weight in the past 6 years my fiance and I have been together..lately when he gets angry he calls me fat or a pig. He even said to me the other day I could be a stripper...at seaworld. Now he says he won't have sex with me until I lose weight and says its my ... (99 words)

Is he just a regular horny teenage boy or something more?

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15, me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 4 months. i love hanging out with him, but it seems like whenever we go to his house he just wants to do 'things' like he doesnt even want to be with me. but i do things (not sex) with him to make him happy. is he just ... (74 words)

What kind of hints should I be looking for from a girl that can help me decide whether I should make a move or not?

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10 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I think a girl at work has liked me for awhile, but I screwed it up cuz I was just too shy and fearful to approach her and talk to her. She's gotten a bf since, but there just seems to be something there from time to time which indicates that there still could be something ... (95 words)

My boyfriend wants sex for Valentine's Day but I don;t know how to tell him that I think we are too young.

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15, i just turned 15, me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 1/2 months, things have moved really fast for us, we kissed after 2 days, made out after one week and started 'doing stuff' after about 2 weeks, since valentines day is coming up he wants sex.. since that ... (91 words)

How do I keep a LDR fresh and make her feel wanted and special?

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10 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. I wonder if anyone can help me with some good advice to my problem. I met a girl a few months back and got on really well.We decided that we would start a relatioship. The problem I have is that she lives in another country and now has gone back home. We both want t... (117 words)

I hate his 4'9, fat, annoying girlfriend and want him to break up with her for me.

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid, im really in love with this older guy! his name is jake, only he is 19. and im 14. but he's so hot and he is always flirting with me! he is my neighbor, and whenever my parents go out they ask him to watch me, and whenever he does, he is always flirting with me,... (140 words)

I always seem to be he one initiating communication in my LDR.

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10 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Me and my ldr gf have been talking alot when we first started dating but after like 1 month it begin to slow down. she stop texting me first and calling me first so i have to be the one who initiate the call. i mean she pick up when i call and call me back when she see a m... (123 words)

My sex addiction is leaving me spirtually, physically, mentally and financialy exhausted. I need help to stop this!

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10 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Im 28. A husband for 3 years. A father for 2 years. Im a sex addict. I have been for 10years. I use prostitutes. Not so long ago i confessed all to my wife who somehow stuck by me and eventually forgave me. Recently i started again. Crazy thing is i have no idea y? My wife fur... (127 words)

My boyfriend always talks about sex and treats me like an object. How can I get him to stop?

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend who only talks about having sex with me. I feel it's disrespectful and he randomly pulls out my shirt to look down it. How do I get him to stop?... (36 words)

Hes always blowing hot and cold.

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i need some unbiased advice!.....basically, i was in a relationship from a young age, 15. At the age of 20, i fell out of love with my boyf, and fell totally for my best guy friend who id known for three years. I ended my relationship nt knowing what wud happen as my friend ... (319 words)

How do I NOT sound like an a**hole to ask my fiancé to have vaginal rejuvination?

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10 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - How do I NOT sound like an asshole to ask my fiancé to have vaginal rejuvination? We have great sex and a great sex life, but a lot of times I don't anything when I'm inside her. She has said she feels me but I feel nothing, and that is a first for me. I feel like an asshole ... (86 words)

My Husband only wants sex once a month! I am always ready for it!

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10 February 2010 (F)

age - my husband hardly wants sex. I am always ready and want to. He only wants sex maybe once a month... (22 words)

Do you think he lost intrest and likes another girl now?

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10 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi okay well theres this one guy that i like like crazy. and before he used to pay a lot of attention to me like he would trip me in the hall way and up the steps he would also walk with me to a few of our classes and while walking with me he wouldn't talk to other girls and a ... (111 words)