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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me about a week and a half ago. he made absolutely no contact with me the whole time we been broken up and I eventually gave up trying to talk because he would just tell me how much he hates me and a bunch of other things. Yesturday I contacted him about how I just found out im pregnant and am just going to give it up for adoption and just wanted to let him know. He was ignorant for awhile and I yelled back at him a few times.. his ignorance was more around saying "good! i would hate to have a kid with you anyway" and saying he'd kill himself if i kept it and kept him in my life with a baby. I stopped arguing and just told him that i told him what i felt i needed to tell him and goodbye. He continued texting me ignorantly.. usually id respond but in this case i ignored him. it got to the point where all he would do is send me text saying "lol bye"... I blocked him number.... then he would get on internet contacts and send me emails and messages saying "lol bye".. i still wouldnt respond... Is there a reason he is acting like this? is he really not over me and expecting me to beg him back.... Im not doing that. i shouldnt have to beg someone to care about me and stop treating me bad... He left me, I just dont see why he would go out of him way to send me the same message "lol bye" on every thing i have on internet and on my phone....
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reader, EllisInChains +, writes (9 February 2010):
I think throughout your relationship he's always been very insecure in himself. The only way he can validate himself is by knowing he's important enough to hurt you. He definately will try and talk to you if he feels he's being ignored.
Block any form of contact, he's made it quite clear he doesn't want to help you through this tough and trying time.
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