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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My live in boyfriend has a year younger sister. Something is so wrong with their relationship. She leaves comments on his websites saying he's sexy and he's so cute. Very weird I know. Also I wouldn't mind if he had such a strong relationship with one of his 6 brothers but she texts him every day. There isn't one day he doesn't hear from her. She tells him way too much about her love life. She tried hooking him up with her ugly friends before we met. She used to come in our house like it was hers. Also she used to go out and always call him to pick her up and drive her around. He never says anything bad about or to her even when she's dead wrong. I think she likes him more in a relationship way. She doesn't like me at all and I really don't care. She's not even the type of girl I would be friends with. Or could. I've tried telling him and he says im crazy but am I? Its so creepy but she knows had he not been her brother he would never talk to her. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010): I'm sorry, but I think you're looking way, waaaaay too much into this. Its worrying that you're thinking this way about his sister, stop being jealous of the time he spends with her, she's family. Just focus on your relationship instead of this crazy idea.
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reader, Taz3r  +, writes (8 February 2010):
Well what I would do, (this is just me), is wait until the next time she comes over and the three of you are together. Then bring up some bogus story you heard, like, you could check your phone and be like "haha my friend just saw her sister looking at incest porn. Incest is so gross." or something like that just to get the topic out there inderectly. Then see how she reacts. If she's like "well love is love" or "that's normal for a lot of families" then I would take that as a sign. Like I said though, that's just what I would do personally. (:
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