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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What can I do to be normal and motivated again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what's wrong with me right now, but as it doesn't seem to be getting any better I thought I'd see if anyone else has been through something similar and what you did about it. I'm 24 years old and my studies just don't interest me anymore. I find it hard to get i... (217 words)

The ex my mom doesn't like!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I Went Out With my boyfriend for 6 months and my mom's friends heard that he was a gangster.. but hes not. he just hangs out with some of them so she told me to break up with him but instead I just told her I did. but I didnt so i went behind her back.. she found out and ... (343 words)

Does anyone know the name of the tablet that delays your period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Aunts and Uncles Does anyone know the name of the tablet that delays your period? Its not the contraceptive pill or anything like that, just uses progesterone to prevent ther period coming. Its just im on holiday next week and I was due yesterday! Hahaa I dont want to b... (86 words)

How do you know if a man is stingy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello people, How do you know if a man is stingy? I mean i had a date with a man i met on line. I prepared myself very well and wore the best i have. But i was shocked when i found out what he wore, he wore daddy jeans or baggy jeans a terrible sweater and a white unironed v... (150 words)

Gay moments...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - First thing first, i'm complely straight, i love girls yet i seem to to have what i call "gay moments" meaning i catch myself staring at a guy, Is there something wrong with me?... (34 words)

Help! My husband had an emotional affair and I can't let go of it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age - Help, I feel I'm going out of my head. My husband had an emotional affair and I can't let go of it. At first he was very sympathetic and supportive trying to help me overcome it. Now it has all blown up and affected his work due to my actions to try to get revenge on the ot... (173 words)

Any words of wisdom on how I can make my life better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A lot has happened in my life lately, i lost my father 6 months ago, my boyfriend dumped me three weeks ago for someone else and is now wanting me back, which is hard as i still have feelings for him, and i am having trouble paying off my debts (my own doing) and i feel like i ... (162 words)

Only friends and sex after divorce, or is it more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a divorcee (no kids) experiencing a very "odd but comfortable" relationship with a workmate who is also divorced (has kid of 6 yrs). I'd like to know if this relationship can work in the long run, or if we are risking our friendship. It developed 10 months ago and is still... (222 words)

Should I just be patient for a little while longer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a friend that has been around for 22 years. We have dated strongly for 3 years, split up then both of us married other people. Since our divorces, we have dated strongly off and on for several months at a time. Now I am invited to be his date to his daughter's ... (159 words)

What are the signs of being used as a place-holder?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

1 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - What are the signs of being used as a place-holder? Ive recently felt like my gf isnt as energetic about talking to me as she used to be. she is usually sad, avoids me on msn, when i am round hers shes not as cuddly, blames her parents for it because its not allowed, but the... (353 words)

I always thought I'd be her first... why did she do this to me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

1 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, this one is compicated. I'm in love with this girl. We've been inseperable since we were ten, and when we were maybe 15 she said she loved me too. Just recently, however, I went away for a while (not jail, overseas) and when I came back she was dating some football player ... (115 words)

Advice on how to make sex any less painful?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys, id really appreciate some help here! :) basssically my boyfriend and i tried having sex for the first time last night. it was so strong emotionally and so special that i dont regret it at all, and im glad it happened but it didnt manage to go all the way in because ... (118 words)

How do I reduce my "love handles"???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - heyy. this ones a bit random, but does anyone know how to loose the weight on your sides (the love handles) cause i dont know which exercises will help reduce them. help pleasee x... (37 words)

Classy travel ideas for my 21st???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - someone please help me :) its my 21st birthday this weekend... me and some friends are just going into town for a classy night. thing is... i wanted it to be a bit different so i was thinking i would like some classy travel to take us there, the thing is i have left it too late... (85 words)

My partner keeps changing his mind about commitment.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner keeps changing his mind about commitment. We have been seeing each other for 7 months and have both got a child each. We live over an hour from each other but manage to spend most weekends together and a couple of nights in the week. We both have stressful jobs but ... (388 words)

I'm so down about my love life, at 36 will I ever find love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help, I have cried myself to sleep the past 2 nights. Im 36 single and just unable to find love again. Since me and my ex, of 5 years split up 4 years ago, Ive gone from one disasterous relationship to another. I don't want him back, but since me he has a child ... (164 words)

Guy friend sleeping over at girlfriend's place

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend has a guy friend she has known since she was really young. Since she is going out with me, the guy friend still wants to stay over at my girlfriend's place all the time. I felt a bit awkward. Is this normal? ... (59 words)

Tampon troubles...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) age 26-29 - I feel really stupid because I am 13 and don't no how to put a tampon in iv tried but it just won't go in.... (25 words)

It ended too soon and now I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - there was this guy who was a year younger than me in school but age wise only 6 months. ever since i saw him i fancied him then when he started noticing me he was messing around pretending to love me and stuff (i think it was pretend any way) . then when i started my last year ... (259 words)

I need christian advice about living together.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I need the christian advice. I have been dating "Ted" for 6 months now and he is a wonderful man. He is so important and special to me. Due to the economy a couple of months ago, his business failed and he needed to find somewhere to live. Due to his lack of finances I offered ... (187 words)

I'm scared to get married again...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I left my husband for another man, after our marriage became passionless and I no longer loved my husband. I didn't rush into divorce, but moved in with the new man and things have been rocky but we love each other very much. Gave myself some time, now I'm ready to file for ... (181 words)

Family arguments are making me feel low...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been feeling low lately because of arguments between mainly with my family. First of all, my family don't spend much time with me as I'm 19 so 'too old'. As I have a boyfriend and friends they reckon I should be moving on to only spend time with them, but they always ... (374 words)

Was this just a harmless friendly offer or does she want it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl called Sarah. Me and her are mates but not close mates, and since she's gone away to uni I haven't seen her for a while. However, the last time we hung out she told me I should come round to hers on Saturdays cos she'll "have the house all to herself". I ... (106 words)

Help!!! Another pupil/teacher crush...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

1 February 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I'm fourteen and i'm really in love with my teacher ! It is so bad, seeing him at school knowing that i can't get him. It started last year but i thought it was just a chrush that would pass by but after the summer holiday i just really fell in love with him. But he isn't ... (227 words)

How do I get my parents to like my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok guys so I just got back together with my boyfriend and my mom who said that she would support me in any decision that I make is not really happy about it. She hasn't really liked him since the first time I brought him home. Since she did not like him I spent a lot of our ... (176 words)

Why do I feel so down on myself all the time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hia, i know its probably just my age and so on (im 15) but i feel like im nothing - like i'll never find a boyfriend. its lke i go out places and lads looka t me and smile, but it never goes further than that. i dont see how i am ever going to find anyone without asking f... (196 words)

I let her have the brunt of my feelings and I shouldn't have done it. How can I make amends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I had a really bad night last night because of some family problems and our car broke down out in the cold afterward. When i finally got home it was too late to study when for the test for collage i have coming up and i basically went to bed with a heavy mind. I remember wa... (234 words)

Is marriage REALLY that important?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiancee and I have been together for over 16 years now (since we were 11 and 12) and engaged for eleven years. We have two children (2 and 4 with another on the way). Up until quite recently, I had no intention of ever setting a wedding date. The issue is that literally a... (129 words)

Why can filing for divorce be so hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

- Why is it so hard to file for divorce when you know you don't love that person, but still care for them? Yet you both need to move on in life. It's such an ugly thing, the paperwork, serving the summons. It sickens me to even think about, yet living with a man who I have ... (131 words)

Have any of you ever come across a guy so painfully shy that wont do anything even though he likes you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Have any of you ever come across a guy so painfully shy that wont do anything even though he likes you? or have any of you known this to happen to anyone you know? How did you resolve the issue and build his confidence up? What can you do when you just mess around trying to be ... (130 words)

Baby blues at 16!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I really really want a baby, have done for like 2 years. My boyfriend's almost 19, we're engaged and hoping to move in together when I've finished my A levels. I don't have a job at the moment but I'd like to get one part time. He's got 2 jobs and a pretty good ... (106 words)

His secret admirer...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi guys, ok ive been in love with this guy in my year at school since last year but i was hoping that this year to give him a valentines card but the thing is im not ready to tell him i like him yet so i was just gunna put from ur secret admirer, its not that i dont like him ... (191 words)

My love for her is tearing me apart! What do I do?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (?) age 41-50 - What do I do? I split up with my fiance in July after she told me she was seeing another guy. The reason she started seeing this other guy is because I'd become really down as I'd just been told my Dad was terminally ill with cancer. (Just for the record he's still hanging ... (279 words)

Why is he so distant and cold towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months, but in the past while he's become very distant with me and I don't know why. He used to give me a lot of affection, now I'm lucky if I even get one hug a day (we haven't had sex yet. This doesn't bother me, but I would like SOME ... (247 words)

Is there ANY hope for us in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I of 4 years have been in turmoil for the past 3 months. We had gotten into a large fight back in Nov, things where said that wheren't meant. He said the most horrible thing a man could say to a woman he was to be in love with and to my surprise I smacked him ... (388 words)

Should I ask my best friend out again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I asked my best friend out about 6 months ago and she turned me down in case it ruined our friendship but i still fancy her like crazy but i dont know if i should or when to ask her out agian.... (42 words)

Blow job problem!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i started seeing this guy about late november and in december I tried to give him a blow job (doing what i've always done in previous relationships which never had any problems to say in the least!). However after about ten minutes of nothing happening he just told me "this ... (129 words)

Is he still emotionally attached to his past life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend and I (been together for 1.5 yrs) were watching a sad movie last week and while watching it he was typing on his laptop. I looked over at one point and he was clearly crying, which he denied. I just wrote it off like it was maybe the movie and he didn't want to ... (197 words)

I'm in a bad way right now and need your help to get over her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

1 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone..I'm in a big mess right now..and i need help getting out of this depression!I know that this is a bit long..but plz have the patience to read the whole thing! Thanks!:) My relationship of 2+ years ended exactly a month back! She was my first gf and i wanted he... (595 words)

How can I get to know him and become his friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys im 15 and well im really shy around anybody... i grew up with only one friend because i went to this private school that only had 19 students from kindergarten to grade 12 and this year i just moved into a new town and my new school has 900 students in it from grades 8 ... (137 words)

I want to tell my ex I'm wanting her back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (M)

- Hi there! I am about to do something, and I'd really like to know what you guys think about it. Basically I am wanting to tell my ex that I want her back, we split up 3 months ago and are both single - whilst we were together, the biggest problem we had was that she find... (194 words)

My husband tells me I have nothing to be insecure about, yet I am very insecure. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi,im 22 years old and i have 2 kids and a wonderful husband,my life is very nice god has really blessed me and i should be very happy but lately I really hate myself I hate my face I hate my body and i just feel really ugly for some reason even though everyone says im really ... (191 words)

Becoming more than friends...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend of the opposite sex with whom I started having a 'friends with benefits' relationship. He's always been clear that we are not an item, however, we've started spending so much time together - we hang out at least 4 nights a week and often stay over at each ... (139 words)

Good songs about unrequited love?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anyone know of any really good love songs i can listen to about an unrequited love. thanks ... (18 words)

My girl and my best mate...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

1 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello folks, i am an 18 yr old male from India. I have been in a relationship with this girl from past 2 yrs. It was really like a puppy love when it started. We both were madly in love with each other... But 6 months ago i had to shift in some other city as my father got tr... (146 words)

I want to be the MAIN person in his life, not the last person...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with this guy for 4 years, he's cheated on my in the past and that's all i worry about. he has so many chick friends, but i can't trust him and it sucks. it seems like he talks to them more then me. when we fight he just walks away and ignors me. then the next day he ... (127 words)

Are trust issues contagious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Are trust issues contagious? I just broke up with my first boyfriend, of 3 and a half years. We'd been having issues. In short, he didn't trust me, because before I was with him I'd hooked up with random guys at parties (no sex though). He disliked my friends 'cause they did ... (687 words)

Should I still put this vibrator in the pack I'm making up for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I ordered a vibrator to go into a pack I'm making up for my boyfriend for valentines day that includes various lubes etc. however now the vibrator has arrived I'm worried it's too big and may intimidate my partner. The reason I chose this one was because it was waterproof a... (188 words)

Is there more to him texting this girl than meets the eye?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend been together for almost a year Now. I love him so much. He means the world to me. But we constantly argue, he says horrible things to me when we do. He apologizes but does it again. This the first time in my life I put up with this and I know i deserve ... (285 words)

How can I keep the conversation flowing more with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi hope you can help! I need advice on talking to a male friend of mine. I really like him and all signs point to he likes me, except we dont talk much. I would like tips on how to talk to him online. he doesnt talk to many people online anyway not unless he has something to ... (289 words)

Will I ever get over this forbidden love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this is so sad i know, but i feel in love with this teacher at school. i am 15 and i know that he's 24. i am fully aware that nothing will ever happen between us, and i wouldnt dream of saying or doing anything - im not tht stupid. i realise it is illegal and all that stuff. ... (200 words)

How can I retract my foreskin safely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 23 old male. I have never had sex. My foreskin does not retract as I have never tried so I am perfectly ok with masturbation. I am a bit afraid about forced retraction.. How to do it safely?? Circumcision is not an option for me for religious maatters and neither I wa... (61 words)

My ex got cheated on by a woman with her own ex. Now he has asked for contact, ..could it be he is missing me that bad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex(he broke up with me,we lived together for 3yrs)We haven't talked in 9mths when the other day he asked my daughter to ask me to call him. He's always been painfully shy. He did date someone while we where apart that went horrible wrong. He found out she was cheating on him ... (100 words)

I love this girl but lied to her !!! What do I tell her to convince her that I am who she thought I was before she found this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 30 years old, divorced with one child. About a year ago my ex and I split up. Around that time I started talking more with a girl I'd known for a while but hadn't been close with. She lived a long ways away and at first it was just friendly. After a month or so, I started... (1225 words)

Ideas needed for a friends 21st.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all, its my mates 21st birthday this weekend... due to family issues and commitments i cannot make her night out, but i was hoping to go round hers or something during the day tie and do something fun... this can include drinkin but not just a drunken session because it ... (73 words)

He told me he loves me but clams up at the mention of a relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hia, so there's this guy, and he is 19 and i am 15. Yeh i know the age gap aint great but please dont say anything about it. basicly, he lives in the place i go on holiday - but i go there like 6 times a year so its kinda like a second home. and since i was like 13 i always... (291 words)

Can you get over being left for someone else when back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend liked a girl (x) as a teenager and became obsessed with the idea of being with her, kissed her once but could not be together because his close friend was her recent ex. Years past and he broke up with many girls along the way after thinking he was over x but came ... (376 words)

I'm married, but I'm falling for a guy 17 years older than me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 26, and I'm married . Our relationship is pretty formal and not at its best. We barely have anything in common anymore and I'm not sure anymore what triggered this relationsihp in the first place... I met this older guy last year. He's 43 years old. He is divorced and has... (418 words)

Help I have a Frigid Husband

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for over 8 years, 7 of which have been totally void of love, sex and affection. I became pregnant 7 years ago and all attention was switched to my daughter. I am very angry with him for destroying my life as I have continued to crave his affection and a ... (223 words)

Why does my wife not instigate sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

1 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married for 16 years. Sex has been a roller coaster. We have three beautiful children that are fantastic. "Susan", my wife, has been a nurse for 16 years. I've been in construction for about the same. My issue with "Susan" is that she almost never ... (245 words)

How do I win my wife back and keep our little family together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (M)

age - i just recently found out that my wife is having an affair. this is a guy she worked with 10 years ago. he now lives in las vegas. i over heard her tell him that she loves him. we live in va. they were together last weekend when she was supposed to be with her mom. We have an ... (442 words)

Is this age difference going to be a problem? And could he just be using me as a meal-ticket?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

- After being a single parent for many years, I have recently met someone who I feel very attracted to and he feels the same about me. We have been talking for about 2 weeks and just yesterday we had our first date. It was really nice and I did enjoy being in his company and ... (735 words)

Internet love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and i have been talking to this guy on myspace for a month or so and i like him and i think he likes me but we live very far away from each other. We are the same age and every time i talk to him my heart rate increases and i get butterflies. Is there a chance for us? ... (64 words)

My girlfriend thinks I act differently with her in drunk/social situations

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I have been going out with my girlfriend for nearly 6months and definitely love her. There is a recurring issue that comes up when we are in social / party situations and we have had a bit to drink. She thinks I change and dont act the same way as when we are alone. ... (138 words)

Do gut feelings mean anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Apparently when it comes to love, we should follow our gut instinct. I've heard that a lot. Many people say that they just 'know' when they meet Mr Right or Miss Perfect. I've always believed this too. But now I've fallen for someone. This is the first person I've ever tru... (187 words)

How do I tell him I want him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Me and my ex have been split up for 3 months and are good mates. I really like him and want him back. I love him. But he doesnt seem interested. He is single and we have a laugh together but it only seems to be as mates. Just after we broke up I told him that I wanted hi... (158 words)

My wife has gone nuts. She claims she loves me etc but there is no affection much beyond a peck on the cheek and no sex.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

1 February 2010 (M)

- Help My wife has gone nuts. She claims she loves me etc but there is no affection much beyond a peck on the cheek and no sex. She tells me that if I do not pester her for sex then it might happen more often but I realise now after 6 months that this is just a fob off to avoid... (97 words)

I am supposed to get married in 2 1/2 months but I just got my sister in law pregnant!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

1 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi im master splinter . in about 2 and a half months im getting married BUT THERE IS ONE THING i need to get of my chest its my sister inlaw to be well about 2 weeks ago my girlfriend went into hospital to give birth to our 2 child . i was there at the birth but when i left her ... (235 words)

What do you think?? is he just playing mind games with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this guy that ive been getting to know..we get on really well..i like him at lot.. and i use to think he feels the same but now am not sure anymore. anyways he asked for my number on msn cos he said he wanted to hear my voice..i think he blocked or deleted me when ... (207 words)

Sxx and masturbation hurt! What is wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, this is abit embarassing, but i don't really want to talk to anyone else about this. I first started *trying* to have sex with my current partner two nights ago, and it really hurt. I'm not a virgin as i've had sex before, but when they were fingering me (clitoral AND... (92 words)

I feel afraid of being ridiculed behind my back, mocked and never taken seriously...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) age 41-50 - I am socially withdrawn. I have gone through alot of changes the last couple of years. The changes started with a move to a different state, which was a good thing and I was very happy. I got into a relationship and that went downhill. It was hard to lose someone I enjoyed so ... (1160 words)

My bf of 2 years says his stressing and he needs to take a few days silence break

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! Well I was just wondering to how many other women this happens to and what should I do to make things better or not be horrible girlfriend.. The problem, my bf of 2 years says his stressing and he needs to take a few days silence break, he runs his own business. I know for ... (129 words)

I am worried my partner won't like my breasts.

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my breast are loose and big will my partner not like it becoz he is younger than me?... (18 words)

How do I deal with my girlfriend buying prescription drugs on the street?

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1 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So my gf works at a strip club (topless) i trust her and know that she loves me but i get that little feeling here and there which,because of what she does for a living,i think is normal... but she said that i don't love her and that i'm going to get jealous after a while ... (230 words)

Ideas for a valentine's gift???

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 month and with valentines day quickly approaching I haven't got a clue what to get him . please help... (27 words)

Another cheating husband! Now I have trust issues!

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1 February 2010 (F)

age - Dear cupid Please take your time and give me your views. I am married and have been with my husband for 30yrs,I found out that he was having an affair with a girl 20yrs younger (also married)I was devastated as i never dreamed that he would cheat and lie like he did. At first... (344 words)

My huby thinks I should forgive and forget his 2 year affair!

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1 February 2010 (F)

age - I found out my husband has been having an affair and texting this woman for 2 years i accidently found itemised bills and now he expects me just to forgive and forget and move on. how can i do this we have been married for 41years ... (50 words)

I am a afirst class catch, yet he has cheated on me for possibly a decade. Can affairs include an emotional connection?

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was wondering if I could please have some advice. Recently, after nearly 10 years together, I discovered my boyfriend's nasty little secret he's been hiding for me for years. He's been seeing someone else on the side, most probably (from what I've been told) the entire... (839 words)

I like recieving but feel uncomfortable giving. Is this weird?

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I let my boyfriend go down on me and touch my boobs bt i dont feel comfortable touching his penis is this weird ?... (24 words)

I rang, I texted, I went to his house, I threatened to text the woman I think he has been seeing, ... and now he calls me a psycho stalker!

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My Now ex boyfriend called me a psycho who is stalking him! I am married but separated for 2 years and this has always been an issue for him. because of the cost of divorce i didn't go through with it until recently. My divorce should be final in a few months.My ex husband ... (830 words)

On a sale of 1-10 she rates me 3, I rate her 9. How can I get my rating up?

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1 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well me my girlfriend we been dating for about a month and couple weeks now. Our relationship is great it's going by good I love her a lot, but when I ask her how much she loves me she said she only loves me a little. From a scale from 1 to 10 one meaning the worst and ten ... (108 words)

Is a throbbing sensation down below normal when seeing a hot guy?

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - when I see a good looking guy I get a funny feeling in my bits, like a throbbing sensation and I notice it also gets very wet down below which I hear is normal but is the throbbing sensation normal? I can't control it at all and it happens several times a day basically whenever ... (117 words)

What does it mean when a guy keeps looking at you out of the corner of his eye?

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when a guy looks at you out of the corner of his eye (as in, he isn't talking to you or anything and your walking by and he keeps his head positioned forward, or not towards you, but you can tell that his eyes are looking in your direction)? Does it mean that ... (80 words)

Would a man keep texting and talking online for 9 months if he was not interested in something serious?

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this awesome guy online 9months ago. we met in person 5 months ago. he is not the kind of guy who expresses his feelings opening. he hates talking on the phone so we mostly text. we text each other all day everyday with occasional phones calls here and there as i respect ... (86 words)

I don't want to lose her, ... but she wants time apart.

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1 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girl of two mounth's told firs we need som time apart to miss eac other a day later i got i need space. we were moving a little fast i know. more n to the story i stayed a monday with her tuesday i asked her to stay with me she said sh would end up sleeping in whic happens ... (174 words)

Should I make a move on my friend?

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid (and readers), I really like this guy... but he's really shy... I mean, we have really good chemistry and everything. We like the same things, and we always have really interesting conversations and enjoy each others company, but I don't know if he likes me, and ... (136 words)

Other guys are propositioning my Girl friend!

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1 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girl friend says other guys are proposing her because we are in a long distance relationship and she keep on telling me, but i don't want to hear that because is making me to be insecure. I see her after every one month for three days.The thing is when I want visit her at ... (86 words)

My husband told me by the end of the year he plans to be single.

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and i went out to a work function Saterday evening he got upset. Beacause i gave wrong directions and we both did not know the place. How ever i did mail the invatation card to him 2Days before with the directions. Now that night he told me before the end of the year ... (1496 words)

She wants a break, ...but then cries and text's me. Does she want to start seeing me again?

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1 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - about a week ago, my girlfriend of two months told me that she wanted a break. that she needed time and space to prioritize her life. she told me she still loves me and still cares about me. we even shared tears over it. the day of and the day after when I went over to talk to ... (127 words)

My new partner wants nothing to do with my sons from my prior marriage, ... but I want to be a dad, not just a father!

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1 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok... So here goes.... Five years ago my ex-wife and I got divorced. From that marriage I have two wonderful boys aged 8 and 10 that mean the world to me. They live with their mother and because of my schedule I only get to see them every other Monday and Tuesday and since ... (407 words)

How can I score girls who are 8's and 9's?

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1 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - SO recently ive been working out as hard as possible for football and ive been running but for some reason i am not getting cut and im starting track today, and i was wondering how i can get what i want so i can score 8s and 9s (girls) cause ive been told, im handsome, ... (87 words)

I'm uncomfortable looking at the girl who gives me a lift to school coz her bf tells me what goes on between them.

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1 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - For the past 4 months ive been helping my best friend with his relationship, he has told me everything about him and her, probably cause im supplying him with condoms, but the thing is his gf gives me rides to school and i just cant look at her the same knowing wat they have ... (123 words)

Why do men like porn? I can't see the appeal.

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1 February 2010 (F) age 30-35 - Ok, this is probably a dumb question but why do men like porn? I'm a girl and I've watched porn but I don't see the appeal. Just like guys don't see the appeal in chick flicks, I guess. I'm a small breasted girl, with huge hips, normal ass that is ridden with cellulite. ... (853 words)

My cousin who I have sex with says he does not like my attitude, ...but I am still gunna ask ya's if he loves me?

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my cousin and and `d i slept together twice before, and i enjoyed both times. he was over here just last weekend, and he didnt say one word to me but as soon as it is just the two of us, he's really talkative and touchy feelu and we kiss alot. and me being in love with him... (128 words)

'You can't hurry love, no, i'll just have to wait'

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1 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - (Mod Note - OP's own title) I have been with my partner for 5 years, we married in January 2009, but have been apart since august, as she walked out as i was slightly aggressive towards her one night. We have been seeing each other on and off since then, we get on really w... (134 words)

I've fallen for her...........but how can I get her to come see me without her bf????

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1 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so ive fallin for this girl, I am 16 and she is 19, we met on a cruise 3 years ago, the week i spent with her was the greatest, but she lives in Las Vegas, and she has a bf who is threatened by me i guess, she currently isnt talking to me cause he told her not too. But when ... (179 words)

I am getting mixed signals. Does she want friendship or more?

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1 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl I met last year and she was in one of my classes and we didn't talk much in class but we would exchange glances and talk a little but.Recently we started to text and skype more and more...she usually texts me first. But i'm getting mixed singles, we have a class ... (123 words)

Please help me to try and not feel so insecure about Mr.Busy

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this really nice guy at work, he was a customer, and I new his order and would always have it ready when he came in. He is really attractive, nice smile, he is also funny and charming. Now he never came back to where I work for about three weeks... I was like hmm how... (800 words)

Am I in love?

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1 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for 3 months now, and things are going so great for us. I enjoy every moment we spend together, and when we're apart, she's always on my mind. This is both of ours first relationship that's been even remotely serious. I see no faults in her ... (293 words)

Girls pester me for sex and I do it to be nice.

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1 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am an 18 year old guy..I guess I'm kinda attractive..maybe..my only problem is that girls keep pestering me for sex.once a girl told me she would stop disturbing me if we had sex and i agreed so that was it. I am not a sex freak though i 've had sex with quite a number of ... (99 words)

My boyfriend has been accused of cheating, who do I believe without any proof?

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1 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for 14 months, over this period there have accusations made against his fidelity by quite a few people, some unreliable but also some reliable sources. There has never been any proof but in my mind i'm not able to fully dismiss the doubts i ... (100 words)

How can I stop myself from falling for him too fast?

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My current situation is I am dating a guy. After every date and the following day I am constantly wondering if he is going to call/text me. He always has. I grow very worried that he must not like me, which then snowballs into me overanalyzing what I could have done wrong the ... (292 words)

Does everyone know if STD's can be transfered by oral sex?

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1 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Does everyone know if STD's can be transfered by oral sex?... (11 words)

She seems interested online, but not in person.

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1 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am so confused. Last week, my cousin brought one of her friends over to my house for the first time. We started talking, and got along well. Then she added me on facebook (before she even left my house) from my sister's computer, and we started talking and talked pretty much ... (204 words)

I get a weird sensation in my clitoris.

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I’ve been having sex with my bf for about 2 months now…lately we’ve been doing it more often and for longer. Last week, the day after sex I noticed that the area around my clitoris had a strange sensation every time I went to the toilet, it wasn’t really burning, it’s hard to ... (145 words)

My mum is never going to approve of him.

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I Went Out With my boyfriend for 6 months and my moms friends heard that he was a gangster.. but hes not. so she told me to break up with him. but instead I just told her I did. but I didnt so i went behind her back.. she found out and everything go wrose.. and she thought I ... (185 words)

I want her back...how do I tell her this?

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1 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I dated a girl few years ago but we broke up shortly after. We've been friends since but I want to go out with her again. How do I tell her I want her back?... (35 words)

If he's not into me why is he talking to me? Help me understand!

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I went out on a blind date 10 days ago. It went pretty well and I think we both had a good time. I've talked to him online almost every day since then. He also asked me to watch a movie with him one night, but I was busy. I had a five night business trip that I just got ... (199 words)

He mistreated me badly and I'm scared of him! How do I deal with this?

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with this guy for four years, we both are 19. A few days ago I was visiting him at college, and I accused him of cheating on me, because hes done it before, but he yelled at me and told me to get out of his house. He dragged me and pushed me downstairs, smashed my ... (100 words)

I'm in love with him...how do I tell him?

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi- I have been struggling back and forth every day as to what to do about my situation. It's all I think about all the time and I need some answers. Heres the down low- I've been really good friends with this guy for about 3 or 4 years, I've always considered him on... (200 words)

We decided to start anew and admit past cheating...I told him and now he's upset!

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i been in a relationship with my boyfriend for six years and we met really young i cheated on him two years into the relationship and he found out and i just recently told him we were not very stable at the time i cheated on him and were together off and on but recently we ... (349 words)

He's my best friend so what are the signs he like me more?

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - how can girl tell her if her guy best friend likes her more? What are the signs? I mean he calls everyday, or texts when he can call! Knows my family, worked with my mother! Knows my close friends Said to a mutual friend that I will always be there in his life?... (61 words)

Shy people..what kind of impression do they give off?

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1 February 2010 (F) age 36-40 - A simple question: What is your most lasting impression of a person who is shy and who does not get involved much in casual and impersonal social events? Say, you had a neighbor who was always nice, but never just came over and knocked on your door to hang out, and who didn't ... (83 words)

She is 19, I am 16 and her boyfriend is threatened

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1 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 16, well a month away, and she just turned 19, she lives in another state and her boyfriend told her not to talk to me cause i guess he feels threatened. He told her to tell me to lose her number. But we had a conversation and she doesnt really want me to. And i am ... (97 words)

Guess I need an understanding, what do you think, what would you do?

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey I have been friends with my guy mate jake for nearly ten years. He met me at some dance thing where he fixed me up with his cousin, But that was a joke bearly spoke or meet or anything. Instead jake would call me every night and we'd talk about everything, and ... (360 words)

Is what I feel justified?

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1 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend recently tried to create non existent penis insecurities in me, though jokingly ... she also openly discusses other hot guys with her friends right in front of me and sees his pictures on facebook in front of me. But she has always wanted to marry me. I k... (103 words)

Why can't my wife orgasm through oral sex?

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1 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been having great sex lately and we have been very adventurous with each other after many years together. We have given each other oral sex a million times and we have both enjoyed it greatly. I wanted to do something really nice for her so I gave her oral ... (253 words)

15 years old and pregnant!

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 15 yrs old i lost my viriginty to a guy i thought i loved he said he felt the same but it came time for me to realize that he wasnt looking for love he just wanted one thing and that isnt it well anyways the condom broke he left me and now im facing whether or not to tell ... (103 words)

How do I cope with cold feet?

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1 February 2010 (F)

- Having second thoughts about getting married a 2nd time. Been together 5 yrs. We're both late 40's. Have lots in common, good sex life; but b/f is high-strung at times, which wears me out. I know no one is perfect, least of all me, but feeling scared about getting married. Why? ... (119 words)

Why does my relationship with my cousin hurt my family?

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - About five months ago, I started talking to my cousin (first cousin once removed), who's about the same age as me(16), after being apart for quite a while. Before this, we would have occasional awkward 3-4 minute conversations, because we never really knew much about each ... (278 words)

Burning sensation down below...

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im so confused because i have been having a burning feeling in my vagina for a while so i got a pee test done and said that i had a bladder infection so i got some meds for this.....so i have took all the meds and its doesnt burn when i pee anymore but it is still burning ... (115 words)

Do I honestly like him enough to be going out with him if my feelings change all the time?

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bf have been going out on and off for the past 2 years, when we break up it usually only lasts a few days or a few weeks max but I'm always the one that breaks up with him. My question is do I honestly like him enough to be going out with him if my feelings change ... (90 words)

I'm never fully satisfied when we have sex. How can I change this?

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my BF for about 6 months. He's more than I can ask for in a guy and I'm so glad we're together. While everything else is great I find that I don't get much out of sex. I get really turned on by him and I can't wait to get into bed but I am never fully sati... (218 words)

Family do not like my boyfriend after our past- how can I resolve this?

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had some problems with my boyfriend which resulted in him asking me to leave our home last year, at this time he also quit his degree course which he was doing well at, and enjoying. Since then we have re-kindled our relationship, and things are working well, we have bot... (269 words)

Help! I'm scared to tell my mom I'm pregnant... again!

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1 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me, I just turned 16 january 20 and my boyfriend turned 19 dec 16, i got pregnant before and got an abortion 5 months ago and I'm pregnant again. my mom is extra strict and so is my family, once again my bf wants to keep it and I do too but I'm afraid of telling my ... (65 words)