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writes:I met this guy about 8 months ago. We had instant attraction but were just friends. New Years Eve we hooked up, and after that, he started constantly texting me, always texted me good morning, telling me how beautiful I am. We were basically together from then on, spending every weekend together, he introduced me to his friends, his boss. About two weeks ago he started acting strange. He finally told me he didn't want to "jump into anything" and I should "back off a little." Okay, so I was a little hurt, but I backed off. He continued to text me good morning, etc. and we still kept seeing each other.Last week, he told me that he had been trying not to get too attatched to me, but he had anyway. I told him that I was sorry but I didn't want to share him, just joking around, and he said, "that's fine, because I go out and all I want to do is come home to you." I said, "so we're decided then?" and he said, "yeah." I figured everything was good. And it was, this weekend was great. Until yesterday morning, he woke up, got dressed and took off. We ended up spending the day together later but he was distant. This morning I didn't get my good morning text, for the first time ever. Is he scared? Bored? Did I do something wrong? Is he just in a bad mood? I want to ask him, but I also don't want to push it. I just don't understand why the sudden 180 from one day to the next. Literally Saturday night he was telling everyone that I belong to him, Sunday he doesn't want to touch me. What gives?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): I am planning on texting him tonight and asking him to come over for a minute... I am then planning on telling him: I really like you, but I can't just be f* buddies with you... I either need to be your girlfriend or we need to cut things off right here. I hate giving ultimatums like this, but in this case he's so back and forth.... I think 6 weeks is long enough to make up his mind, right?
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reader, Pip24d +, writes (8 February 2010):
It seems to me that this guy is not for you. He can't make up his mind if he wants you or not. He seemed to at first just keep stringing you along as a safety net but recently he may just be confused on what he wants to do with the relationship. I would suggest to let it go and if he really wants you he will treat u the way u should be
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