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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does anyone use Nair on their arms?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, does anyone use nair or something like it on their arms? does it work? what about hair regrowth? does it come back darker and thicker or just as it did before? does it grow back stubbly? thanks!... (39 words)

What do girls really mean when they say "size doesn't matter"?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

28 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - For just about the majority of my life, I've heard all about that "bigger is better" stuff. Well I'm pretty much 18 now and I'm convinced that I won't be growing down there anymore since it's been that way since I was 12. Mine is 4.5 inches long, and 3.9 inches in girth when... (251 words)

Troubled relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I liked this guy for 2 years. He is a year younger than me. We were in middle school and we had the same spanish teacher. He was the kind of guy that you love him but you don't think he would ever even think about liking you. So I kept it to myself. About two years later I saw ... (360 words)

He said he wants to stay single, but could I change his mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy. He's so sweet. He has been single for a little over a year. I have just been texting him for almost two years and I have had a secret crush on him ever since. I want to tell him but im scared. He said he wants to stay single but I was wondering if maybe me ... (79 words)

Birth control issues!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All- I can't find a good answer to my particular situation anywhere, so I figured I would try here. I am having some birth control issues. I have switched between several brands over the past year and I cannot seem to keep my periods regular. The pattern seems to... (165 words)

My boyfriend said he would have me sign a prenup. What do you think of this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My BF if self-employed and his business is booming. He's also very ambitious. He tells me a lot about his work and the other day was talking about a client of his whose wife 'cleaned up' when they got divorced. He's also got a friend who recently split from his wife and lost ... (196 words)

I think my best friend's boyfriend may be hitting on me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm wondering if my best friend's boyfriend's behaviour is appropriate? We often all go out together,we have all been friends for many years, but when he has had a few drinks he becomes very tactile with me. He hugs me, grabs me and strokes me and recently even kissed my neck. ... (77 words)

My bi-sexual, drug addict husband gave me an STD!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age - Two years ago, my dr said I had trich, and that someone was messing around. I wasn't a happy camper. Then in Oct 09, my pap smear came back normal with the HPV virus also. I was devastated. My hubby hasn't been working since Dec 03. I suspected he cheated between 1999 thru ... (109 words)

I like him but he is so hot and cold!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy through a mutual friend a few months ago. He told our friend that he really likes me and I feel the same about him. The problem is he seems to be blowing hot and cold. He has told a number of people that he is interested in me and when I see him he acts as if he is ... (252 words)

He has a lot of baggage.. Should I keep seeing him anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I met someone recently..i was unsure if i liked him but i knew if i was totally turned off i would have ended the date sooner (we met from online)..the first night we met at a bar and then he offered to get dinner and then we went to get another drink in his area..so he drove ... (415 words)

My b/f says it's the baby or him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am 14 wks pregnant and been in my relationship with my boyfriend for 8 years and we have a 5 year old son together. My boyfriend is not happy about this pregnancy and says he doesnt want anymore kids and is forcing me to choose between him and my baby.he says if i go ahead ... (84 words)

My wife has gone off sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi i need help! me and my wife heve been happily married for 16 years, My wife is 37 and i am 40. we have two lovely girls no money worries what so ever, everything is fine apart the fact she has gone from little sex drive to none. she has gone off sex completely, hates th... (106 words)

My husband and I are reconciling, but his g/f won't go away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been separated for two years. He cheated on me after about 3 years of me pushing him away and suffering undiagnosed post natal depression. It was a nightmare. Anyway he moved in with her. And has been with her ever since. We have never been able t... (292 words)

Concerned by same-sex masturbation fantasies

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Thinking of being with woman in a relationship feels wrong. Thinking of actually doing anything with woman feels wrong! But when i masterbate i think of woman. I dont want to be a lesbian or bisexual, but does this mean i am ?? I'd never actually do anything with a girl. Its ... (66 words)

Her ex wants her back -- do I walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

28 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I really think I know the answer to this but I needed to be reassured. I have been seeing this girl for close to a month now and everything has been going great. We hang out, or go out to dinner 2-3 times a week. We both have a great time when we are together and we talk/text ... (160 words)

My girlfriend's past bothers me so much, and I think it might affect our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3798 days ago

28 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is the best girlfriend I have had and think I ever will have, but it's just her past that keeps bugging me! See, my girlfriend 15 and lost her virginity at 12 to a 13 year old boy who she no longer speaks to. She said they did it because they were very close an... (316 words)

He says he can no longer be faithful because of my weight

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is there a way to get a man to accept that you're big? He says that he really loves what we have together it's the best sex he has ever had but he feels like he can no longer be faithful because of my weight is there anyway to change that I have started going to a gym... (58 words)

He's shy -- how do I get him to open up?

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28 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been dating since February 5th and we don't know too much about each other, its like we haven't made too much progress. I know we both really like each other but whenever we are on the phone we usually don't talk. I told him not to be shy around me he ... (196 words)

He's unreliable and I don't want to work with him, but want to keep the friendship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a friendship with a man. We were almost an item but it didn't work out but we have continued to see each other for dinners etc (but not FWB). We get on fine so there's no problem. I have my own business and he is looking to change his life a bit. As we work in the same ... (451 words)

Seven-year friendship being sunk over a guy

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28 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, yep back again, yeah more problems... i was really hoping the last time i came here would, you know, be the last time. It's really a continuation of the same situation but much worse now... I really need advice, I'm getting it from lots of friends but they're all saying ... (802 words)

Masterbation tips, from men!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - when your masturbating i was just wondering once you have a cumming does it feel any better if you keep going? i just stop after cumming does it get better?... (31 words)

Tired of Video Games and Thinking of Leaving.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. I am 24 he is 27. I am starting to lose respect for him for a few reasons. He plays online and console video games A LOT. Meaning the days I wake up at his house I can pretty much expect to sit there all day while he plays. ... (573 words)

Since getting back together over a year ago, she hasn't told anyone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Been with my girlfriend for 3 years now, she is 24. At first it was great, we saw each other all the time, we kissed and held each other a lot, we had lots of sex, we talked about the future and getting a place together. After a year and a half we split because I was accu... (454 words)

My husband says he loves me, but I just can't figure out if he's still interested!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) age - I feel very confused about my husband's behavior. To the point,where I might lose my mind. I'm originally a reasonable person, but my husband puzzling behavior really puts me on the spot. I can't figure him out. He says he loves me, but he does not look at me sexy,or have sex ... (116 words)

Was I just a rebound?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and this girl I was talking to for a month and a half are no longer speaking. I have no idea why but she just stopped texting me one day. I got her something small for valentines day and she seemed like she really liked it. At first it went 3-4days after that not hearing ... (295 words)

My boyfriend keeps getting raunchy pics of a girl he doesn't know. But won't tell her to stop. Am I being controlling?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 18 and we been together for 8 months now and it's the longest relationship he's had. But there's this girl who he doesn't know who she is but texts him. And she sent him a picture and in the picture she took with her cell and she was wearing a low cut shirt and ... (174 words)

I want to change my negative behaviour, and fix our marriage, but she won't change too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I think I am verbally abusive. I have caused a lot of pain to my wife and a lot of problems in our relationship. I used to blame her for a lot of our problems because she would never follow through with what she said she would do and she would dismiss concerns I would voice ... (552 words)

I'm Curious about my penis size!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

28 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I am 14 yrs old and i am curious about penis size!! My penis is 3.5 inches when flacid and 5.3 inches when erect. Do i have a small penis? and will it get bigger?... (39 words)

What should I expect during a french kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - [Moderator note: the OP is clearly much younger than the age stated] im young but not that young and i wanted to know how to french kiss some one and how you work up to it and what to exspect... (41 words)

He said he wanted to be more than friends, but suddenly changed his mind. I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - One day during class, a male transfer student from Italy, asked me for help. I'm the type of person who always helps others, so of course I helped him. (That's when we first started talking.) A few months later after we started talking more, I developed feelings for him. He was ... (522 words)

Some ideas needed on sexy pictures I can send my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to take some sexy pics of myself for my boyfriend, and would like some ideas on how to do so, poses etc... he is away alot with his job so i want to suprise him if you are going to write to me saying i shouldnt because we could break up and then hell put them round i... (105 words)

What the hell is wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Sex has always been an issue in our marriage. I've always wanted it more than my wife and it'll often only happen if I initiate it. But I find I'm quite sulky about it at times. If she says no I'll become moody and if she says yes, I'll sometimes say something during... (120 words)

I think my teacher knows I fancy him! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

28 February 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hey. I don't know if my teacher know I like him. I've liked my reacher for just over a year now and he wasn't at my parent teacher meetings so my mum and dad made an appointment to go and see him and I was there. Well he jokes with me and makes fun of me for fun and I do... (151 words)

I have strong feelings for my best friend's partner, and I'm worried he might feel the same way about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have strong feelings for my best friend's partner. They have been together for 22 years and I have felt this way for all this time but it has never been a problem, until recently. Over the years I have lived away from home and been in relationships of my own but in the p... (189 words)

What does he mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - been seeing this really nice guy i liked for ages, been seeing him for about 8 weeks now, everything was going great. he was texting me every day, seeing me every sat night until something changed.. i haven't seen him for 2 weekends because we've both had a lot on, so he hasn't ... (158 words)

I am having trouble being able to tell if he cares about me or not

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A few months ago my friend introduced me to this guy who worked with her, and we started hanging out and hooking up a lot. He is from Harlem, and not to be racist, i am just trying to describe him, but he's very hood. He says that there is no strings attached, which i was okay ... (235 words)

I feel so alone now my boyfriend has left me so soon after having his baby

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of two years just broke up with me, i just had his baby all he wants to do is go out with his friends and telling me he wants space. I tried moving on hangin out with friends taking care of the baby by myself but i feel so alone like noone wants me around anymore ... (62 words)

My friend is mad that I started dating a guy she used to have feelings for! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently got out of a bad relationship, my ex was always demanding sex and using mind games to make me feel like s**t. I found hope in another guy, he's amazing and always telling me how perfect I am. He listens to my every problem and never asks for anything in return. ... (126 words)

Would you consider this cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I seem to have that feeling of distance between us for a few months now. For me- it seems as though he is just comfortable and doesn't feel like he has to try anymore. I believe the two most important things in a relationship are being able to communicate, ... (213 words)

I'm afraid of what the reprocussions of losing my virginity!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help! I am a 20 year old virgin and not sure about losing my virginity yet. My problem arises when I'm around my boyfriend-whenever I'm around him, I get massive sexual urges. I mean REALLY strong urges. I just want to touch him all over and please him, but I'm afraid of ... (80 words)

I'm 13 and have been with my boyfriend for 4 months. I worry about our relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - [MOD Note: Multiple questions from the same user combined.] Im 13 and iv been with my boyfriend for 4months and I have some questions. 1. We havent realy done anything he's said he wants to kiss me but every thime we go to kiss we both get nervis and don't end up kissing. I ha... (373 words)

What type of man would be best for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Who would u choose? A man whos reilable.honest.could trust 100 percent. Caring. Sensitive and shy. But you dont quite fancy them totally like u dont wanna rip their clothes off! Or a man whos gorgeous. Fit body.you just sit there thinking oh my god your so sexy. A charmer. Know ... (84 words)

Can anyone help me overcome anxiety?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had anxiety for as long as I remember.I tend to anaylise the details of things that have happened months... even years ago, i tend to worry about the fact ive messed up in some way even if i know deep down theres nothing ive done wrong at any point and somethings just ... (206 words)

How can I overcome shyness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a really shy person when i don't know people very well, and often find it awkward and don't know what to say, I've heard that this has come off to others as me thinking I am too good to talk to those people but it's not that at all, how can I stop people thinking this of ... (59 words)

My ex - can't live with him and can't live without him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Here is my situation: My bf and I broke up. We have a child together and a house. I moved out since I couldnt afford the mortgage and he could. He has this drug usage (weed to be exact) that makes him extremelly hyper and i couldnt stand being around him, which is one of t... (246 words)

A disturbing confession by my friend's 11 year old daughter

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Last night i babysat my mates little girl who is 11 and found out something im really not happy about.... Now heres the situation. They have hardly any money-Her partner works part time and she doesnt have a job-basically they are lazy people and scroungers. I've kno... (421 words)

My mum is offering me money NOT to have sex. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i really love this guy i know for 2 years. i want to have sex with him, he does too. but my problem is that my mom will give me $950 if i keep it till i'm 17 or 18. wat should i do?... (44 words)

Boyfriend has pushed me to the edge - do I dump him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 17 months now. It's pretty serious, we're getting a flat together and everything. I try not to think too far ahead because all manner of things can go wrong but I'm pretty sure he's the one. But this last two weeks, it's been like walkin... (390 words)

My girlfriend and her bisexual friend want us to have a threesome but they won't elaborate further

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and i tie each other up during sex. I'm male and when she's fully bonded she loves me rubbing my penis along her body. She recently suggested her female bi sexual friend wants to join in. I am very open to the idea but they wont tell me what they want me to do to ... (62 words)

Help me win my long distance girlfriend back

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

28 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Where to begin? I been in a long distance relationship with a girl for 4 years but it goes deeper than that, alot deeper as this is'nt the normal meet a girl online, fall in love kind of thing. We been best friends for 5 years before we fell for eachother. Recently she broke up ... (399 words)