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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want to go to a convention in America but my friends can't afford it. Should I forget it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure what to do. I really want to go to a convention in America in a few months to meet the cast of a film that i am a huge fan of, but the problem is, since i live in England, my friends have been saying that they cant afford to go, and some of them arent as big fans ... (604 words)

After I masturbate, I can't cum again for about an hour. Is something wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

18 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - when i cum after masterbating i can't cum again for about an hour is there something wrong with me?? and also does anyone know how to make masterbating better???? Cuz i love the experiance im bout to do it now... (45 words)

How do I know if my new date is genuine as he is going away for 3 weeks?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay - I have just met a really great guy. But its all very new and I have only had 3 dates with him. But he seems like a really great guy - very genuine and very sweet and funny. Anyway he did mention that he had to go away for 3 weeks abroad on business and he is now go... (291 words)

Why is he doing this?? Does he just want SEX?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - a guy i met on plenty of fish dating site.. we've met in public once he says he wants to come to my house and chill with me cos HE HAS NO MONEY TO TAKE ME OUT. but he drives a very posh car and has a good job. i said i want to go out on dates and be a nice couple..... (170 words)

I love my married man but feel like I'm being used for sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello i'm a 32 year old woman and i've been seeing this married man for years. Anyway i love him alot and i do things for him but i dont think he feels the same way, and it hurts. His wife recently called my cell phone and i hung up because i did not know what to say. i felt so ... (162 words)

Do I have an STD from giving head?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i gave head on monday the 15th of february 2010 and yesterday the 17th of feb 2010 i got a coldsore thing on the side of my lip,..is that anything to do with me giving head? i heard you can get an std by oral, im scareedddddd... (47 words)

After what my boyfriend did to me, should I still love him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - heyaa im 14 and i went out with this guy who was 16 and he sed he liked me and loved me but then whenevr he asked 4 sex i sed no and then the next day he dumped me but thing is i still love him after wot he did to me and i keep thinkin did he only go out wiv me for sex? ... (66 words)

When I blush, my arms and face turn bright red. What is going on with me?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 years old and a female. My skin is actually very pale, but when I blush my face and arms turn bright red. Now it is becoming a problem and my face gets red all the time. When I'm talking to someone, when someone says my name, even if they aren't talking to me or about ... (129 words)

My roomie brings home random men, has loud unprotected sex with them, what should I do here?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. this is long but i really need some advice... i was wondering if anybody had any ideas what else i can do to help my friend. she is 22 and we share a flat together at uni where we are studying to be nurses. she is really beautiful and a nice girl but she seriously lacks ... (319 words)

Am I wrong and a terrible person, or is he just as much at fault?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question. But first I suppose I will have to give a perhaps long back up story. My boyfriend, or ex now, have been dating for 2 months. Within in the first month we moved in together. It was soon. I typically move in that soon but I just wasn't as comfortable with... (1234 words)

Should I lay back and keep seeing him or forget about him and stay friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I've been going out with a guy for almost 6 months now. He is a very nice person. We are friends with benefits. I have a daughter and it's just very hard for me to find a guy that I want to be in a serious relationship with, and a guy that I think might be good enou... (294 words)

My girlfriend is pregnant and I'm out the door!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

18 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, i've been dating this 31 year old women with a kid already, im 25 no kids and on the track of geting a IT degree. I been dating this girl for 7months, then she tells me she is pregnant AND she tells me she dont want it and wants to have an abortion. So i told her ill ... (257 words)

She took me bowling and then broke up with me! I want her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

18 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I started a relationship with a girl after four years of me being girless. She is an amazing girl who i cannot even describe in words how much she means to me. After a week and a half however, she took me on a great date to lunch and bowling, then as i was walking her to her ... (160 words)

Should I tell my wife about my fling with a married woman?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

18 February 2010 (M)

age - What are my next steps? Do I tell my wife? Recently, I had a sexual fling with a married woman who's husband found out about the fling through an e-mail he found on the computer. I am terribly upset about my digression and my lack of moral character. I think about ... (388 words)

I have no idea what to do about my troubled relationship without anyone getting hurt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if I should break up. It's been a year and a half now and until last October, I could see myself marrying "A" and having kids with him. We both wanted it. I still do want it but its definitely not possible the way things are right now. "A" says he loves me... (777 words)

I have to kiss my sister-in-law in a play! Should I do it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

18 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hello aunty,I am stage actor..my last few plays have done well and I am on a rise..2 days back I was offered a play with the best director in the business..this is a romantic play where my sister-in-law(cousins wife) plays my love interest..she also happens to be the leading ... (130 words)

I confided in my friend that my ex had been sexually abused, but now we may get back together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hey.. i broke up with my girlfreind about 4 weeks ago, she had been sexually abused in the past and it has affected her trust in people. anyway i took the break up bad, i kept things in for two weeks and then confided everything (including the sexual abuse) to a freind, the ... (163 words)

If there is no trust, is there no love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello there, I have a girlfriend and she is polite to me most of the time. I do had times that I enjoyed with her and know her family. I do have times that my heart says that she isn't trusting me entirely and lying on me. My girlfriend travels often and I don't have even ... (258 words)

I want to break it off with my 15 year old girlfriend but don't want to hurt her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

18 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 21 years old and my friend, who is 18, hooked me up with this 15 year old girl. There was and is a connection. However I seem to have become a nervous wreck and rather paranoid. See while our relationship is STRICTLY non-sexual, i just can't stand the age difference. ... (230 words)

Why do I still care about how I make him feel after he has continually cheated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - . There are times when I feel like my chest is caving in and I can’t even breathe. I wake up every day now with a fake smile so that my girls won’t see the pain and hurt that I am dealing with. I am more confused now than I have ever been in this life. At least when I was ... (1513 words)

She is away in a foreign country and I'm scared she is cheating.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

18 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Firstly, a bit of background about my SO and how we met: I visited China about 1 year ago and met a nice tour guide. At the time she told me she was living with her cousin (later I found out she was still living with her ex but they weren't getting along - she didn't have an ... (1130 words)

I tried to make him jealous, but now he thinks I'm really with my male friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - me and my long term boyfriend had a petty argument,neither would back down. we have our ups and downs,all is fair,we are as bad as each other. i thought i would play a little game to get him jealous,basicaly,i walked past the building site he`s working on with a male friend ... (112 words)

What is the natural way to tighten my vagina again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - after an abortion my boyfriend complained that my vagina is not as tight as it used to be, which i have noticed myself.please, what is the natural way to tighten my vagina again... (34 words)

He forced himself on me, but I love him even more now! Should I dump him?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - sooo this is going to be a long. ahh i dont know where to startt.. alright im 15 and my boyfriends 21. we've only been dating for almost a month on the 24th. i made it clear that i was a virgin and he understood that. he told me that he used to do a loooottt of drugs so his ... (280 words)

I'm getting an abortion but he doesn't want to discuss it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out I was pregnant four weeks ago. Today I had the consultation appointment for a termination which is due to happen on Saturday. My boyfriend of 5 years definitely does not want to keep the baby, nor do I. For various reasons we are not in a position to rais... (224 words)

Should I meet him once and for all or just be happy for him with this girl?

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I know a guy since 2003 and I was infatuated with him eversince i laid eyes on him. The problem is, during the time that I see him..he doesn't have a single clue how i felt about him. We were not even friends. I just communicate with him through SMS under a different name ... (583 words)

Should I trust that he won't cheat when he travels again? Or tell him to pack his bags?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age - I am in a dilema and not sure if it is the end of the line for me and my partner. We have been together for 5 years now and during this time I have a couple of other occasions to doubt him but somthing has happened again. He travels abroad a lot and this time he took my ... (443 words)

My girlfriend dumped ME, but she gets pissed when I go out or leave a comment on Facebook!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

18 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey My ex gf broke up with me two weeks ago because she thinks she should be single but still tells me she loves me, doesnt want anyone else and doesnt want me to find anyone else. She also questions me if i go out anywhere and gets jealous if anything is posted on my fac... (103 words)

Is this what younger girls are like these days??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

18 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Can some of you please explain the mind set of today's young women in their early 20's? I am in my mid-30's and have recently entered the dating scene. Although I am 35, I am in great physical condition and most people say I look 25. I married my high school sweetheart, who ... (402 words)

I don't want to disappoint him by not being good enough in bed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i really need some advice. i've been seeing this guy for about a year now were not in a relationship but he wants us to be but sex is stopping me from agreeing to give it a go. im not a virgin but dis guy is the only one i've been with, but here's my problem we've had sex 4 ... (262 words)

Why do I miss her even if she has give me sooo much pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

18 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone..My relationship of 2 yrs with my gf(more like a fiance to me) ended 2 months back!She was my first and i wanted her to be last too!ive always wanted to be with just one girl for the rest of my life..but i broke up with her! Its a very long story..but i don't th... (592 words)

What is meant by "make my move"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, before you read this, check my previous question called "How can i make a move without embarassing either of us?" or something like that. Bascically everyone has told me to "make my move", but what is meant by this and how do i go about it. I know it sounds daft, but i ... (113 words)

Why do women not mention their husbands in a positive way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (M)

age - Why do married women with kids never mention there husbands in a way you feel they are in a happy marriage. For example, I was talking to a lady who lost everything in a flood and she mentioned she will miss the kids pictures those types of memories and nothing about ph... (129 words)

What if she spreads a disease to someone and I date them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, this girl that im not really too good of friends with but talk to her, she keeps having sex with all these guys in my school. i honestly dont doubt she will get some type of disease from doing it so many times with so many diff. guys! i tell her to stop and save some guy... (111 words)

I just bought my girlfriend a car, but lost both her and my job days later.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello my name *name omitted for privacy* i been wit h this girl for 5 years on valentines day 2010 i decided id buy her a new car a 2005 pntiac gto ls6 well just so happens on feubuary 18 2010 she leaves me i lost my job and i just broke down what should i do? she wont talk to ... (65 words)

To stay or to go...that is the question...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - *OPs own title* My husband and I are about to have our 10 year anniversary and I don't want to be together anymore. Now don't get me wrong I didn't just wake up and decide this. Let me start at the beginning. He didn't want to marry me, he just did it for the baby. It took him ... (463 words)

My parents have been married 25 years and now suddenly my dad seems to be bi and cheating on my mum!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Ive just found emails that my dad has sent and received from various men, and there sexually explicit. My parents have been married 25 years and now suddenly my dad seems to be bi and cheating on my mum. I have no idea whether he has done anything, but the emails have ... (248 words)

How can I tell I'm in love with someone I'm not with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - *OPs own title* Hi:)im a 15 year old girl, and i've liked the same guy for almost a year now. me and him are REALLY good mates (he's like my best friend) and he knows i like him, and he's recently told me there may be a chance between us. im pretty sure i love him, but what i re... (137 words)

Is he intentionally being cruel to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so upset right now. My ex was brn premature, like i was, and he was born with one leg shorter than the other, and he also has scoliosis in his back, so he has a lot of pain. He found out this week that its so bad now that he might need a wheelchair, or morphine, or he may ... (285 words)

Is my boyfriend too 'big' to have sex with?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am only 5'1 amd weigh about 137lbs but my new boy friend says his penis is 7inches he is about 6'1 and weighs about 235 lbs is that two big for me we havent had sex yet but i do have four kids thati did have vaginally... (48 words)

Would he be turned off me if iI told him the truth?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been single for 14months i get alot of guys cos guys think am cute and sexy.. but they just want me for sex.. and obviously i didn't give in and they've all disappeared.. i like sex when am in a relationship and in love. and ive met this guy..hes soo sweet and ... (179 words)

How can I make a move without embarrasing either of us?

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18 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, basically there is a girl at school who I really like. Anyway, I sent her a valentine's day card anonymously but she saw me. We still get on well but I don't know if she likes me. When people made jokes about us being together she acted irritated, but then so did i,to try ... (149 words)

Is it wrong for a boyfriend of 5 years to refuse to go to my Aunts funeral?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

- My aunt just died yesterday. I'm just wondering if it's wrong for my boyfriend of 5 years to not want to go to her funeral with me? This is pretty much all new to me. I have never been to a funeral or known someone close to me that has died. I am 27 now. I just told my bf today ... (153 words)

How do I carry on after my partners affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age - after being together for many years,i found out that my partner had been having a sexual affair with a female work colleague of his.this occurred as i was recovering from breast cancer.previous to this i thought we were happy in our life.obviously after many years together,as ... (117 words)

Should I send her flowers and a poem?

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18 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Now iam not much of a writer if fact i havent writen anything from when i left school, put i felt the need the other day and this is what a wrote, i thought that i should sent it to her with her favourite flowers 'liles' should i? Iam sorry, ive made mistakes It... (357 words)

I'm white, my BF is black, and I find ebony porn on my computer every so often.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OPs own title* First of all, my boyfriend tries to deny that he watches porn for the purpose of sexual excitement--as Myself, I have no problem with porn. I'll be the first to admit that I watched plenty of it when I was single, and I wouldn't mind even watching it with my bf. ... (174 words)

What does it feel like to receive oral sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this is a bit of a rude question but im really curious to know what it feels like to recieve oral sex. can anybody describe it. does it feel weird? im worried i wont like it. im a lesbian and me and my girlfriend have done everything else and now she wants to go a step further. ... (120 words)

Sweet girl with secrets, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

18 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - *OPs own title* I have been with my girlfriend for nearly four years. We were very exclusive, very quickly. Early on in the relationship I found out that she had been talking to her ex on the phone regularly, and even that he had tried to talk her into leaving me and gett... (292 words)

I think I am a lesbian, and I don't know where to meet a patner.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi um im 20 and i think im a lesbian but nobody knows. ive had a sexual thing with guys before and it was fine but ive also been with 2 different girls and it was incredible and i think about being with girls and know that if i was with a guy i would feel as though something... (135 words)

What are the signs that he has another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I talked to my crush/friend by text last night and he replyed three times. I don't think its another girl that he likes. What are the signs that he has another girl? I don't think that he lost interest in me but it could happen and I don't want it to. The only reason I'm trying ... (94 words)

Is her water infection problems due to me somehow?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend keeps getting a water infection. I know its very common and easily treatable but i was wondering if it had anything to do with me. She first got one in december shortly after we started having regular sex. This was cleared quickly and we carried on. We then didn... (138 words)

Is a body fat percentage of 11% a turn off for guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Am i too thin or muscly and does this turn guys on or off? Im 5 foot 3 inches, have a bmi of 20 but my body fat is really low at 11%. I am quite muscly because I dance and climb a lot, but is having so little body fat a turn off to guys? Also, do guys like strong girls? Guys ... (72 words)

I can't understand why I don't like her more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my girlfriend for just over two months now, but before we were friends. I was also told that before I asked her out she liked me for a while, yet i was still very confused and a little scared to be honest when she told me she loved me the first day we ... (578 words)

Why is he here with me when he has openly admitted he still loves his high-school sweetheart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Little back ground on us... My husband and I met on-line in spring 2005. We had a long distant relationship for a very short while before he asked me to move to Maine from Ohio to be with him, so I did... what did I have to lose right? I was single, no kids and if it didn't ... (681 words)

Help - step parenting advice

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Am I doing the right thing? I am a step parent to a lovely 9 year old boy. My husband is away for a week and I am taking care of my stepson on his visits here. We have him twice a week and his mum lives down the road from us. His mum and her partner their new baby and other son ... (517 words)

Should I stop loving her because she might be a slut?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

18 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was in a relationship for four years we have been broken up for ten months and i still dearly love her but we were talking and we came across the subject of sex and she told me that she have had sex with two guys and i really love her but idk if i should just stop loving ... (84 words)

Could I be pregnant or have caught an STD?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If I had unprotected sex but he didn't not produce inside me, is it possible that I can get pregnant or get an std?... (24 words)

Why would she stick around with a guy who she knows is attached? And why would my boyfriend keep seeing both of us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, This is a question I'm sure has been asked a million times.. but I'm sitting here distraught right now and I have to know. I'm a first-class girlfriend.. one of those extremely open, honest, caring and loving girls. One of those girls that gets done over and doesn't re... (284 words)

I think he doesn't want me because I am not pretty enough

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think he doesnt want me to be his gf bcz i m not pretty enough! dont i deserve to be loved too? i cry every morning once i wake, i cry to sleep every night. i know i sound foolish but i feel extremely down. fine, i m ugly but dont i deserve to be loved too? i m not ... (158 words)

My LDR has changes and I think he doesn't love me anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am extremely disappointed with my bf.we r in a comitted relationship and yeah its a ldr.its now 7.5 months.i am upset because he watches a lot of porn movies which irritates me.and if i say i don't like it he says so what,its so normal.this breaks my confidence.i am beautiful ... (154 words)

Does he love me, I wanna know, how can I tell if he loves me so .....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i was wondering how to really know if a guy i met last week likes me. i want a males prospective please. i met him last Thu. and the next day we went on the same mission trip. he sat next to me the whole time on the 7-8 hour rode trip. he kind of "cuddled" with me, like we ... (137 words)

He's out of my league, but he says I am his "favourite".

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this nice boy who I think is millions of miles out of my league but he insists it's the other way around. I'm just a plain jane who's been told that she's pretty and kind, sorta like a mother. He's one of the very popular types; he's smart, attractive, athletic, kind, ... (363 words)

I worry a 9 year age difference might be too much

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'll be 18 soon, and my boyfriend is 27. I don't know what to do, because my friends call him a pedophile for dating someone as young as I am, but the reason we're dating is because we love each other. In the long run, will this seem like a big deal, and should I find someone ... (68 words)

How can I tell her I want to be alone for a while

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) age 41-50 - If things didn't work out with a girl and ended badly. Then you guys end up seeing each other in class a month later and he clearly doesn't want to talk to her. She still does. He knows he can't have her so what's the point of being friends? Is it okay for a guy to say... (219 words)

He wants me to come up with a cute nicname for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm almost 18, and my boyfriend is in his early 20's. He has all sorts of cute nick names (like babe, angel, etc.) for me but always wants me to come up with names for him. So what do guys like to be called? Help please!... (46 words)

He seems perfect .... but is he?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age - I'm dating a 60 year old man who's never been married, never engaged, never lived with anyone, longest relationhsip was 4 years. He's got a lot going for him; very attractive, fit, well educated, great job/security, good sense or humor, articulate. After three months dating ... (65 words)

I'm in love with my same sex teacher

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a 13 year old girl and im in love with my female karate teacher weve known eachother for almost 3 years, she is married and has 2 children with her husband ( my other karate teacher) 1 child is 2 1/2 and the other is 8 months, when i dont see her at karate my heart ripps ... (160 words)

We have set a wedding date and I am on probation for beating up a woman he had sex with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and Alex have been together for 2 yrs in the second month dating i kissed another guy then around the 6 month i sent some (pics) to a different guy then we went to a club and i danced with sum1 he claims the guy was grabbing me but he wasnt nothing physical ever happened ... (203 words)

My best friend is my boyfriend whose ex is my friend and she wants to get back with him

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I were together for about four years, and he has always had a problem with how close I am to my best friend (boy). Everyone around us always thought that me and him would end up together but it never crossed our minds. His ex was my friend and they broke up for about ... (234 words)

Is my best friend bi, should I tell him I find him attractive?

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18 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 17 now and have had this best friend that im very close with. and resently my feelings for him have grown. so i ask him a few simple test questions to see if he might be bi or at least willing to try, and two questions i had asked were: 1. " WOULD YOU EVER HAVE A THREESOME ... (220 words)

I want to travel and work overseas

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I apologize for the fact that this isn't about a romantic relationship but I hope you'll help me because I really need some advice, and I'm so lost. I have a TEFL certificate and I'm DYING to go overseas and start a new life and a new career. My goal is to go to Asia, or r... (492 words)

I'm 15 and I can't get a girlfriend

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18 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and I've been single for about a year. And I'm trying to get a girlfriend but I can't. Any tips? ... (24 words)

IT's our first date coming up, how will I tell if she likes me?

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18 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have an issue but it isn't an issue it's not bad haha I have a friend im starting to like her she always so nice I was at lunch and she ran up to me and triped and fell then knelled next to me at a table she didn't say anything but she was facing me only paying attention... (127 words)

I broke his heart, he wont answer my texts and I just want to get over it!

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know why I keep thinking about this guy. I'm over him but I just feel sorry that I broke his heart. I lied to him and I feel sorry I wanna tell him Look, I'm sorry for hurting you. I wasn't faithfull at all and I regret EVERYTHING. I wanna forget about him...but I ... (134 words)

I think he hates me, but please don't tell me to dump him!

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I honestly think my boyfriend either hates me, is embarrassed by me, or is disgusted by me. Here's our story (it's a little long, but I feel it's necessary to portray him appropriately): We met on an anime themed chat site kind of like Gaiaonline, but for cell phones. We ... (1034 words)

I really like her, but am worried saying something might upset our future plans

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18 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I like a girl who I am good friends with, I live with her and we get on great, we chat for ages and joke with each other constantly. im not sure if she feels the same way. Im stuck as we have put money down and are going to be living in the same house next year, and if i say ... (70 words)

Our parents got married, now they say we have to split!

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I got enganged 1 year ago to "stepbrother" - well he wasnt till 2 mounth ago. both my parents and both his parents were devorsed, and my mam and his dad have been very good friends since we got together, and 2 months ago they went on a cruise and got married. now our parents ... (152 words)

My boyfriend seems to enjoy "taking care of business" by himself, even when I am there wanting sex!

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry, this is a little long-winded. My boyfriend and I have been together for a very short time. He lives very far away and we have been seeing each other for a few months. Every month and a half we get to spend a few days together at a time. We have only spent about 25 d... (557 words)

My boyfriend is in jail, I send him money, he used to cheat, should I leave or wait for him

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend in jail for escape.he got one year for it but the thing is when he was home he show me and my kids no attention bt i love him but to set this whole question off i got locked up behind him treating me like cramp and he wrote me once and now he locked plus i been ... (97 words)

Is there a way to let him know I appreciate him without him thinking I'm ending the friendship?

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this would seem weird, but doesn't it seem appropriate? I have lived a life (as many others probably have) where some people I'm close to eventually are just gone from my life. I may casually say 'good bye, take care', to them one day thinking this may be the end, or ... (533 words)

My ex wants to get back together... again. Should I give this other guy a chance?

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - recently everything has ben realy crazy. a friend of mine died, i broke up w/ my on/off bf of over a yr for what will be the last time. my moms bf was beating her and she just told me and , both my parents drinking has gotten worse (even if they were already drunk nightly). ... (160 words)

I wish she could show me how much she loves me.

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18 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiance told me she doesn't want to be friends with me...if she wanted me as a friend then she wouldn't be with me. I can understand that to a point, but she treats and talks to her friends with more humanity then she gives to me. I know she loves me, that's not the p... (244 words)

I want to have mutual friends with my fiancee but she doesn't.

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18 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I need some insight. Okay, basically my fiance and I argue about what is acceptable and what is not acceptable in our relationship. We've been together for about a year now, and I feel as if I should be a priority in her life and not put on the back burner ... (251 words)

We are going to see each other again after 2 years! But my family won't let me date him.

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i apologise for the long story but ive cut it down quite a bit. when i was little my mam and dad spilt up and they both moved away, i moved in with my grandparents and lived there for about 16 years, i visited both parents and my mam still had a say in everything i did. ive ... (210 words)

How can I approach these subjects without being yelled at?

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18 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I guess I'm here asking this question because I feel like I would be breaking the hearts of everyone else in my life if I asked them. I started dating a girl about 7 months ago and I'm not sure if we're right for each other. Sometimes we have a great time together, b... (315 words)

My gay best friend proposed to me! And I want to accept!

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My gay best friend just asked me to marry him.... SOBER!! Now, he's a gay man who everyone thinks is straight or bisexual and he can play it straight very well! SoO straight, that he is enlisted in the US Armed Forces! I love him with all my heart and soul and I can't im... (165 words)

How can I be hot with small boobs?

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18 February 2010 (F) age 36-40 - How can I be hot with small boobs? I have small boobs, wide hips and a small waist. I think it's a very feminine looking body. But guys still drool more over busty women! I don't get it, boobs are only fat. I've seen guys drooling over women with narrow hips, who have big ... (242 words)

It started as a plan to make my ex jealous, but now I love him!

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex Bf broke up with me because he said i dont put much effort in our relationship then after a day i saw him with his new GF....Then i become depress and desperate to win my EX back but my Ex just keep telling me we are just better of as friends and that He hopes i will find ... (333 words)

Should you marry a guy who is not your type?

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Should you marry guy if he is not really your type and he is trying to be who you want to be with?... (23 words)

I feel he should have his own friends rather than hanging out with mine!

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, My boyfriend and I are having an argument about mine and his social life. First, I have to give you a bit of background info. I sit at home all day with nothing to do, he works 2 jobs, I'm currently looking for a job, and waiting for school to start for the spring ... (156 words)

Should you marry someone if the sex is terrible?

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Should you marry someone if the sex is not good and there is no possible way for it to get any better?... (22 words)

He's too nice! How do I get him to be more rough?

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like my boyfriend. He's great, and nice and does everything just the way I want him to. But it's starting to drive me crazy! I wish that for once he'd do something wrong or get angry or something but he hasn't! This wouldn't be a huge problem but I'm not a person who ... (105 words)

What signs should I look for to see if he likes me?

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - The guy I like called me and nervously asked me to come to his friend's picnic on the weekend. We are ok friends, so it's not unusual for him to ask me to come, but I can't think why he'd be nervous, unless he likes me too? What other signs should I keep an eye out for that he ... (114 words)

I don't get why I have these weird fantasy's of being submissive to someone. Am I normal??

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Do I have a problem? Ever since I was a little girl I innocently (no sexual just like little kid imagining) fantasized being submissive. And I still do, I've never told anyone this. It's not because I am ashamed but because It's really personal and not average I guess. A... (177 words)

My best friend has a girlfriend...but I'm in love with him! Advice, anyone?

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I realized the other day that I'm in love. He's my closest best friend and we have been for about a year, I feel like myself the most when I'm around him. I tell him things I would never tell anyone else. He confessed to me the other night that he used to like me a little in ... (120 words)

Do I go for it and tell her I like her or am I just chasing a hopeless dream?

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18 February 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I want to be with a girl who I feel is absolutely perfect in every way, but there are several problems that I'm not sure how to overcome. I'm 21 and so is she, we both go to the same university. I can't stop thinking about her and I get the feeling she likes me too. But one ... (344 words)

YEAH we have great sex but is that enough? Does it compensate for the neglect?

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - After 6 years loving a "badboy", I am still left neglected and lonely. It seems every occasion or event meaningful to me, I end up alone. I am constantly disappointed and p.o'ed. After the steam cools, he always calls or shows up apologetic and seemingly sincere. Til the ... (262 words)

Should I just walk away or should I stand my ground as his bestfriend?

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Ok so my ex and I stopped talking for about four months (after break up), got to the point where I truly thought I was over him. He contacted me out of the blue and wanted to be friends, after 3 weeks I acepted and we started chatting heaps again like we use to. I didn't... (276 words)

Ideas for things to do to make the her know I care, when meeting my online girlfriend for the first time...

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys, i was just wondering if you could help me out here. So im meeting my online girlfriend for the first time in about a week(im going to be careful, cautious, all the good stuff.) I have grown very attached to her, adore her, and want to show her that i care deeply for ... (102 words)

Birthcontrol is a must but has killed my sex drive..

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been on birth control (the NuvaRing) for about 4 months now. I find it causes me to not want sex really at all. Apparently that is a cause of taking it. My boyfriend wants to have sex all the time but I never feel like it anymore. I started on the ring because my ... (114 words)

What to do when Porn destroys two relationships, and I'm fully detatched more than emotionally...

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have to start from the beginning so its understandable.. (prepare for a long one...) It starts with my ex "James", We had an okay relationship. It seems okay now, mainly because we are over everything that happened and can laugh about it. We broke up because of our f... (1582 words)

Live-in has become rude. He has started burping and passing gas...help..

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. We have lived together for 8 months out of that time. Recently he has become quite rude. He passes gas and burps infront of me way more than he ever used to. What can I do to make him stop or be more polite?... (61 words)

I'm doing it by the book but how do I have a happy ending?

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ever since my ex broke up with me over 2 years ago, I have been looking for ways to get him back. AT FIRST I made the mistake of chasing him and pushing him farther away. Then when I backed off, he began to initiate contact by calling and texting me. The calls and texts are few ... (335 words)

I don't want my four year relationship to end. I've worked so hard and I don't want it thrown away because of sex.

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. I'm only 18 years old, but I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for four years. I'm not very interested in sex anymore, and I'm afraid he's going to end us over it. He complains that we never do anything, and I feel bad. Even when we do have sex, it ... (210 words)

Genuine reason or mental block?

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have a strange problem. I have been married for a year and I still cannot love my husband. To be honest, I was never in love with my husband...even before I decided to marry him. We didn't get a chance to date much but he seemed like a nice, gentle and a kind man and I t... (285 words)

Does size matter guys?

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do guys think of large labia? I don't mind mine just wondering how guys feel! Ta x... (26 words)

I wondered if anyone has noticed anything like a type of stigma about single people?

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm one of those people whoose always always single, I wondered if anyone has noticed anything like a type of stigma about single people? I've often wondered that it's because I'm a girl with short hair and a flat chest anyone think this could be why?... (54 words)

I don't want to leave her but to me it seems that if I do it wouldnt even matter to her

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18 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok me and my girlfriend just got back together after like 2 months of not being together and now shes tripping and pissing at me for things that i havent even done...i do evrything possible to be with her n i do anything for her and now all shes paying me back with bullshit...i ... (94 words)

Does this sound like I just had an orgasm?

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Did I just have an orgasm? I have never had sex before/ barely any sexual contact really... but just now I was watching porn (not a habitual thing, more of a curiosity) and was squeezing my legs together abit and clenching my uhh pelvic (?) mucles... and suddenly I felt ... (208 words)

Am I being treated like a door mat?

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi peeps! I've been living with me bf now for 7 months now and I'm reallu concerned about the way my bf treats me. Our relationship used to be filled with affection for each other, now I find its very one sided. I'm always the one who instigates sex and whenever he wants me... (179 words)

She constantly accuses me of cheating on her, yet she's the one who did the cheating?

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18 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend cheated on me a while ago and i forgave her and took her back, i love her, but our relationship is hard recently i don't know what to do. I lost a lot of trust in her when she did that, but i had enough to believe her and take her back, all i want is to build ou... (537 words)

He says he doesn't believe in relationships, but I want to be in one with him. What can I do?

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Afraid of relationships but not afraid of commitment. My current lover has a chronic fear of relationships, he believes that every relationship is doomed from the start so why even bother. We've been seeing each other for a year and have been exclusive but how do I get him to ... (86 words)

Am I too young to buy a sex toy? Should I?

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Thanks for your time i turned 15 a couple months ago and iv never had sex. But i want to try useing a dildo or a viberater. I dont know were to get one? and how old you have to be? plus i think its embarising to buy one at a store. My cousin got grounded for haveing one and i ... (129 words)

Is there any reason why I shouldn't bail on our marriage?

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18 February 2010 (F) age - I'M trying to save our marriage at the last 10 years,it is 25 year long now... Well, there is no luck. After years of counseling,self -improvement on my part... He did not change a bit. Now, he is sexually unavailable,not just emotionally.. Long story short, he is a ... (252 words)

Is it the end? Or should I just try harder?

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18 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I said I should move out, but now I want to stay and work things out. I've been here before i'm afraid. I have been seeing my girlfriend for 18 months and we moved in together 6 months ago. We encountered a few problems early on when we moved in which I admit I held ag... (318 words)

Can you get a blood blister from too much sex?

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18 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, random sex question.. Is it possible to get a blood blister from having too much sex? It's like a little bubble on the inside of one of my vaginal lips. I had really rough sex for 5 hours. Lots of friction -- Great - amazing time. But a few hours later, the bump appe... (118 words)

I am divorcing my cheating husband and he is already happy with someone else. How can I get over it?

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18 February 2010 (F)

age - I have been married 14 years, it was both our 3rd marriage. We are getting divorced and he bought a house for him to move into. I am quite devasted about divorcing, even though I acted as if I wanted to be divorced I would keep changing my mind. He cheated on me 7 years ago for ... (330 words)