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Is it true partners who hurt you are who you really want?

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Question - (8 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Is it true even if someone hurt you a lot in a previous relationship and you put a lot of your time and your energy into it and than it ends.

So both of you start dating again or maybe only one of you does but is it true that you miss this person even more because you've been deeply hurt and deeply tried to figure out what went wrong.

I read that when you have this kind of attachment to someone (even if its from hurt) you appear to be moved on even tell yourself you've moved even tell yourself your in love with a new person but inside your still dying because nothing has been resolved so is it true this makes you miss an ex partner even more?

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A male reader, adamskidude United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2010):

adamskidude agony auntNo, its not true.

The people who love you would nevet try to hurt you. Emotionally or physcially.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (8 February 2010):

LazyGuy agony auntSeems a silly thing to do.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (8 February 2010):

No. I can honestly say that I do not miss my ex at all, and she cheated on me on my birthday. The reason is I have met someone far better. There are a few who don't get over it. But most do.

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