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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Sex with my new boyfriend is not enjoyable

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Really embarasing - thank god for this being on the web - but after a really bad break up and completely destroyed self confidence I didn't have sex for around a year I'm now over what happened before and the other week I had sex with my new bf he enjoyed it but I didn't - I ... (91 words)

My best friends girlfriend get jealous and tried to talk me into having sex with him

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend and i are very close and ive noticed his gf getting jealous or upset about our friendship. but not to long ago he had broken up with her, and he told me he was sick and tired of her treating him wrong, but during the time they had still been dating he had to... (206 words)

We have run out of things to talk about

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. This boy who is my neighbour and i just started dating. I barely talked to him before. And now we don't really have anything to talk about. And our parents dnt kno we're together but if i go on a walk with him we half to keep a low profile. Help Please.... (53 words)

Should I flirt with my teacher and then report him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hear me out on this, I'm not just one of those girls thats "in love" with their teacher, I want to know if I should report him for this or not. So I'm a sophomore in high school, I'm 15 and my teacher is like 30, and he always acts really flirty around me, he even makes sure ... (474 words)

My boyfriend can't express his feelings

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend can't express his feelings for me, what should i do? Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months. We are so happy together, he makes me laugh and is so kind to me and dedicated to me. However He can't express how he feels for me. Even in our quite moment... (318 words)

What signs will a guy use to let you know he is interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What kinds of signs will a guy send to let you know he likes you more than a friend? Especially a shy guy who might not make it as obvious? We aren't close friends, haven't hung out much, which might be a good thing to avoid the "friendship zone". But I really like him and I'm ... (87 words)

Her mouth says one thing but her actions say something else

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19 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I got this on my mind, there has been this girl that I haven't talk to in like forever and she is taken but she told me she was single then I asked her out via text and never got to hang out with her but she talked about making out with me but then when we were supposed to ... (129 words)

My girlfriend is insecure. How do I reassure her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

19 February 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I'm in a cool thing with a girl, but she's so insecure about what I'm doing when I'm not around her. She's always asking did I sleep with her friend, or what I was doing at such and such a time. Or those little word traps they do, like, "do you find (some random woman) ... (105 words)

I get overly emotional PMS. Any tips on how to control it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Whenever I'm on, I get really, really, really emotional. I'm really emotional anyway but when I'm on, I'm like a bomb, I can go off in a second. I cry, I shout, I scream, I do a thousand other things. I don't mind that, it's just that whenever I do it, it's really obvious that ... (73 words)

Why the nagative image of Ginger Girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, i'm a 16 year old, female, ginger and i want to know why do guys not like you for being ginger ? it's just a hair colour like blonde or brunette but why pick on the ginger, like i've got a boyfriend, but he's ginger - he's very hot by the way :) but no other guys like me ... (83 words)

Can I deal or stay with my jealous wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

19 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - my wife gets jealous every time she thinks im looking at a woman . the crazy part is that i will see her look a a girl or woman walking on even in her car and after she sees her she will look at me intell she passes to see if i look that way. what can i do ? we have been ... (969 words)

He cheated, we reconciled; I am now expecting his baby, I moved out as I am unhappy but I still love him. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a serious relationship with my partner for almost 3 years now we started off as the couple everyone wanted to be. We got on so well barely ever argued and when we did both of us really wanted to sort it out straight away and we would always understand each others ... (993 words)

I don't know what to say about/to the girl who I suspect he had sex with.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I talked out our differences and have decided to get back together, But he was staying at a guy friends ans there is a single girl there. Well he got her (and me) flowers on valentines Day and I have a pretty good feeling that the day before we decided to get ... (167 words)

I am reconciling with my ex. Should I tell her I shared her secret with a friend?

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19 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I broke up with my ex girlfreind about a month ago. My ex (who i still care for deeply and love very much) was sexually abused as a child by her father. This has affected her in certain ways in her adult life and made relationships very difficult for her...Now please ... (632 words)

I want to move in with my boyfriend, how to bring it up in a subtle way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Basicaly I've been with my boyfriend just over a year and I want to take the next step - moving in together, how can I bring this subject up in a subtle way so it doesnt seem as if I'm pushing. It's not like I'm ready to marry and have kids, I'm still young, I'm in college ... (102 words)

How can you hurt someone you love so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - is it possible for my boyfriend of seven years to love me but yet he cheated on me got another woman pregnant he tells me and everyone around that he loves me but i am really hurt and scared that its just words because how could you hurt someone you love so bad... (53 words)

My girlfriend's tiredness the day after sex worries me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf is 23 and I'm 26 so we are still quite young. At the beginning of our relationship our sex lives were great. But after the first month or so of having sex every couple of days (at one point up to 3 times in one day), we've reached a point of only having sex once or twice ... (320 words)

I miss sex and emotional support from my husband, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, im 27 and have been married for 1 yr now .. i ve known my husband for 6 yrs before we got married .. since 6 months he hardly wants to have sex with me ... he usually complains of being too tired .. but when i check his browsing history ( which i know i should n... (305 words)

Should I be concerned about my period sickness?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I take to my periods very badly.. Every time I get my periods I experience Dizzyness, Feel very sick, Sore Heads, Bad moods, very sore stomach, and loose my appetite .. Should I be concerned? Thanks... (37 words)

How do I get my husband of 4 years to be more affectionate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband of soon 4yrs is no longer affectionate towards me. I tried talking to him about it and he says I'm annoying that I always want attention! when we dated he always wanted to be with me held my hand everywhere, why would I think he would change? He says I ask everyday ... (110 words)

How can my ex consider to bond with his ex who didn't support him during his difficult times, while I have?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like as many opinions on this topic as I can get. I am going through a recent break up. My ex boyfriend and I really had no problems until his ex realized that he was heading back to the top again. My question is: My ex expressed to me how when he was at the very lowest ... (379 words)

Every month I get very emotional, which affects my relationship. Could this be because of my contraceptive pills?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, This is more of a health question was wondering if anyone else had the same symptons or had expierienced them. Basically i take the contraceptive pill, the one were you take it for 21 days and then take a gap for 7 days and have your period. I've been on the pill for abo... (241 words)

Quick question for the girls: what do you look for in a guy?

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19 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Quick question for the girls: What is it that you look for in a guy? Both appearance- and personality-wise, I mean. I understand that the answer will vary from person to person, but still, I'm curious...... (39 words)

I'm pregnant with my boyfriend of 5 months and am worried it is too soon. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been with my boyfriend nearly 5 months. Im 27 hes 30.i have a 5 yr old daughter which he treats like his own. We are very much in love we dont live together but see each other all the time. Ive just found out im pregnant. Weve had conversations bout marriage and kids as its ... (125 words)

Seems he doesn't need me anymore. Why the need to call me then?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, I think I need some guy's opinion here. Here it goes, my ex for a year now has been keeping in touch with me from time to time as a friend. Along the way, I slept with him once 3 months ago but i regretted it so badly that I asked him to stop contacting me if... (359 words)

I'm going out with him and some friends. I'm nervous! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so nervous !!!. I'm 25 ( almost 26 ) and i like a guy who just turned 21 on Wednesday. He rang me today and said he is going out with a group of friends tomorow night, and asked if i wanted to go with them. I said i would, and he is going to call me again tomorrow to ... (220 words)

My boyfriend keeps talking about his ex...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been in a relationship with a man who I've been living with for 1.5 years. He is committed to me and acts in ways that confirm this. But he still mentions or references his ex--sometimes once a week! He tells me what the weather is like in her hometown, recalls memories ... (173 words)

My aunt, whom I often send money to, makes me feel guilty when I buy things for myself. I don't know how to deal with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Guys, Im so frustrated with someone and need some help. My aunty moved to America about 10 years ago because she met the love of her life and wanted to settle down etc...She is married with 2 children and doesnt work.Now when she lived here in the uk she had a good jo... (368 words)

Whenever I'm not with her I worry about losing her

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19 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my girlfriend for quite a while now and I love her to bits, the problem is if I'm not with her I suddenly feel depressed for no reason. I find myself constantly worrying about losing her. I try to think on the positive side but I keep going back to ... (162 words)

I fear my behaviour is slutty, please help me feel better about myself!

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19 February 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I need help. I'm 20 years old and I'm realizing now I'm turning into a slut:( I have a real hard time saying no to guys when it comes to sex or things like that. Its like I have no respect for myself. I know there are massive consequences for this behavior but I don't know why ... (138 words)

In love with my friend and I can never find the right moment or words to tell him. Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Being nervous about approaching someone that you like is normal, but I am in love with my friend and I can never find the right moment/ words to tell him. I was a bit drunk at his little get-together and I was planning on telling him, well, my actual plan was to kiss him gent... (158 words)

Sometimes he is nice and sometimes not

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im 14 and im datin this guy hes 15 weve been datin for about 4 weeks now and evrytime he phones me for example i say like me battery died and he goes excuses blahh blahh blahh and im like why u actin like this he always acts nice one minite and the next hes a dick it really ... (83 words)

Wife no longer interested in sex; is it OK to look elsewhere?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

19 February 2010 (M)

age - Hi there everyone, Mike here, new to the site but isn't it good? I have a problem, we've been married over 35 years and we hav'nt had sex for the last 22 of them, we've not fallen out in fact we're far better together than when we had sex, but just lately i've really needed s... (89 words)

On again, off again relationship -- I don't know where to go from here

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'd really appreciate it if you took your time out to read this, because I really need someone else's perspective on my relationship with my now ex... something I like to call 'the cycle.' I'm so sorry this is long, but I really need some advice. I met him in February last ye... (1546 words)

Straight man with homoerotic thoughts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm straight but I've recently questioned my sexuality because I started liking penis. I don't think I have homosexual tendencies because I have absolutely no "emotional" or "romantic" attraction towards men and don't want to start a relationship with men, but the thought of ... (142 words)

I feel awkward and have trouble letting go with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am not sure if whats wrong with me, I am in my late 20s, never had a boyfriend and for the first time ever I have fallen for someone like truly fallen for him, the problem is, is that he is a self confessed womaniser, but he is so confident I cant say no to him, we have ... (212 words)

Caught my husband cheating again; not sure where to go from here

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married 12 years. About 3 years ago I found out that me husband was cheating on me. I found out through the text messages and phone calls being made from his phone. I guess there were signs that made me believe that this was going on so I did not overlook them and I ... (609 words)

My husband isn't interested in sex any more

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

19 February 2010 (F) age - My husband does not care about sex. He is non sexual.. I don't know why. He is like this a few years ago now. He used to be very sexual guy. He had medical check up,and he is fine... He is not saying anything why is that happening. He says he does not know. The spice it up ... (205 words)

Could I be addicted to sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

19 February 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I've posted on here before about how i am obsessed with my wife's past and what she did sexually with her previous lovers. We have been married 14 years and have a very active sex life and usually have sex at least five times a week. The problem is she thinks I'm addicted to ... (144 words)

Any other girls who stayed exclusively with anal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and have been having sex with my bf for almost a year now. But I have only had anal sex with him, and only with a condom. (It did hurt at first, but now I really enjoy it.) My bf says it's wierd that we only have anal, and wants to have vag, or at least have anal ... (137 words)

I cheated 2 yrs ago.. but still hurts.. help me..

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 now.. When I was 15 n a half I cheated on my short term uncommitted boyfriend who was more of a friend with my ex who I had a serious relationship with for over a year as we stil loved each other.. I didn't wanna cheat but my ex was a manipulative person n it h... (199 words)

Should I tell my ex-girlfriend that I may have said too much?

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19 February 2010 (M)

Don't want to lose her because of guilt!

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19 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am 18 and my girlfriend is 17. We already had sex, but it's been a year since we started and now we only done it like 8 times. But we do things like oral sex and other pleasurable things. I know it's wrong, but we can't stop ourselves from refraining from those things, ... (153 words)

Can't help looking at other women and thinking about them sexually! But I love my fiance.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

19 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a wondeful Fiancé. We've been going out for over 9 years. The problem is that she is the only woman i've ever been with - I always had low self esteem - and lately i've found myself looking at other women and wondering what it would be like to be with them. I love my ... (131 words)

Do you think this guy is married?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I would like you to put your detective hats on and help me out please. The Brief: So I've known this guy for a few months but I have a suspicion that he may be married and would really like your opinion. Facts: Since we have met we have NEVE... (345 words)

I really like my professor but I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really have a big problem, because I really can't admit that I really do like my professor, and I am not already the kind of student before, when I still do not have the feelings for him yet. I am a first year college student and I'm 16, also, my professor's age is 24. ... (143 words)

Does anybody have any information about permenant birth control / essure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5346 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been researching forms of permanent birth control, and I was wondering if anyone has information about essure. I have read the information on the website and searched for personal experience on line, but what I really want is to find someone who has gone this route. ... (49 words)

Is it right to give an engagement ring during an argument?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Is it a bad idea to give a engagement ring during a argument or a break up to try to mend things back together if you really love that person?... (30 words)

Does 'what goes around comes around' happen to your ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and i recently broke up. Needless to say things didn't go the way i planned it. My ex ex before this one was always there for me but he did a really good job of getting his life on track while i went to another relationship and was acting so happy and just ... (571 words)

My husband cheated on me and I need to find a way to forgive him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband cheated on me with a married woman. I found out by accident and it has wrecked what was a great relationship between he and I. He is sorry, won't do it again, blah blah blah. We have a stormy road ahead as I can't let it go. We have 3 girls that are young and th... (240 words)

The teacher I think I like kissed me, what am I supposed to do now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! OK, well, the issue is that I'm 17 and I'm in a really well known private school doing my A Levels at the moment. English is what I want to do at Uni and, as you might know, contact with teachers in a private school is a lot more informal and casual. That was fine wit... (425 words)

I can not deal with him getting phone calls from this woman everyday...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age - My story is a very long involved one but I have asked for advice on here before and it has always helped me a lot. I have known my husband for about 14 years although we have been married only for a few months. My problem all revolves around one of his female friends. ... (465 words)

Is going to a striptease cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, It's been 4months I got married. Few days back when we were talking about the adult store I asked my husband if he ever went to striptease. He said his friends arranged a bachelor's party for him there so he went to that place. Its just a week before our marriage he went ... (113 words)

What would women think of my 'manhood'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I need an opinion, I am back on the dating scean after 18 years. I have been with only 2 woman in my life. here is the deal I am very subconcious of my manhood, I am okay size wise but I have a left leaning curve (thicker at the curve than base) and am uncurumsized but able ... (81 words)

Is this pattern of sexual interaction common?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Surprise surprise!! another guy with issues about his girls sexual past. Her number is a okay in my book (I'm her 7th) at close to 30 years old. However, five of those fellas were in a six month period her last semester of college. Three of those things were one time thi... (132 words)

Why is my ex-boyfriend doing this to me?

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey people am in a dilemma.. Broke up with my boyfriend last year november. But the previous year it was on and off.but last year november i broke it off officially. After he confessed he slept with some other woman. I forgave him but icouldnt trust him anymore. But befor that ... (216 words)

My girlfriend cheated twice, can she really mean it when she says she loves me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

19 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a few years now and she has cheated twice. The first time she cheated was early in our relationship, but I decided to give her a second chance. After that we became really close and she told me that she never cared about anyone as ... (281 words)

Why do people think it is so horrible for sixteen year olds to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and have been dating this boy for almost two years now. He's 19 and he was my first, but I wasn't his. I was just wondering why everyone seems to consider sex at my age so horrible? I have never once regretted my decision. Of course the first time is always going to be a ... (83 words)

How to get the best out of masturbation?

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19 February 2010 (M)

- I have got a higher sex drive than my partner and in order to pleasure myself i need help masturbating as sometimes I just canot get it up, even though I want to so I need as much help as I can get. anyone get any advice on how to get the best out of mastrubation?... (59 words)

Is it normal to go through 'dry spells' when someone is under a lot of stress?

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19 February 2010 (F) - Hi there, me and other half havent had sex now in almost two months, he is under an immense amount of stress at work at the moment and when he comes home on a weekend all he wants to do is sleep. Im starting to worry now that its me and that he isnt attracted to me. Is it ... (77 words)

My partner will not have sex with me and I am a virgin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello I hope someone can help!! I have been with my partner for three years. I am a virgin but he has had around four sexual partners and also has a child from another relationship. The problem I have is that he will not have sex with me!! I asked him to have se... (378 words)

We have a mutual understanding about harmless flirting, but should I tell me Fiance I told a guy to meet up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my fiance for nearly four years. Im very happy with him although we r not havg as much sex as i wud like. We ave discussed this and are working on it. A few months back we wer both at a bday party and so drunk we both cant remember goen home! We r open with ... (285 words)

Why does he not want his family to know about us? Is he unsure of where the relationship might go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age - I've been in an relationship since october 2009. I'm white, and my boyfriend is from Bangladesh. I love him deeply, he's the most amazing person I have ever met, he always makes me laugh,he's so sweet and kind it's almost unbelievable. but i have some underline issues one is he ... (239 words)

Sex means nothing to me, should I wait anyway?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sex means nothing to me. I'm scared I'm going to find this amazing guy who won't want sex. It's an awful feeling but despite thinking this, it still means nothing to me, at all. But I think I'll feel really bad if I find a guy who wanted sex with the right person and I just ... (69 words)

My ex-friend told all his friends that I tried to have sex with him. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-friend is a guy and has told all his friends that I tried to have sex with him. We used to like each other a lot and then I went out with a guy and he got jealous so went out with a girl, and then made up loads of rumours about me. People think I'm really desperate for ... (80 words)

Is this really American culture? It hurts that he considers what I did in a picture 9 months ago as cheating

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi dearcupids! You always offer great advice, so here's a question for you. My boyfriend and I recently got into a fight about a picture that was taken of me. Now Im from a different country than him, he's American. In this picture I was at a party with a good friend of mine ... (565 words)

My girlfriend is pregnant with another man's child, and he wants none of the responsibility...so what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

19 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 3years is pregnant for another man that she just broke up with and he doesnt want any part of the responsibility. waht should i do?... (28 words)

I don't understand how he does not feel the pain I feel or how he can just cut off from me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age - I am in my 40's been with my partner on and off for nearly 11 years. When we met my marriage was failing and this relationship was everything I had ever wanted, he cared about me we talked for hours about emotional things and the sex was awesome. My ex husband made things very ... (308 words)

He was a drug dealer but says he has reformed

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok this si going to sound stupid because i cant belive i'd say this but cutitn to the point. met a guy online.normally i wouldnt rush into things or get attachedd. nearly been a week and we jst chat so much. seriously hes great, and he understanding but t... (222 words)

My boyfriend seems very secretive and I think he may be cheating

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think that my fiance may be cheating on me. I am not sure, but something tells me that he is, and that he is still lieing to me about it when I confronted him. I found texts twice on his phone about him meeting up with someone and them catching up. He also described in the ... (185 words)

Pregnant with second child to a drunken abuser

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 25 with my partner almost five years. he is 42.we have a 3 year old little girl which he is very good to. im 7 months pregnant again with his second child.but things have always been on and off with us. he has a drink problem. he can be off it for weeks or even a couple of ... (205 words)

How do I get a girl on her own so I can ask her out?

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19 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am just wondering if you have any ideas on how to talk to a girl alone. Thanks to the answers on the last 2 questions i posted (how can i make a move without embarrassing either of us and what is meant by make my move), I have decided that when we go back 2 school after half ... (414 words)

I'm 14 and have a question about male sexuality

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im just curious, does a guy have 2 b hard 2 give a hand job or head?... (17 words)

I have some concerns about my contraceptive pill

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey there; I have a few issues that I'm really embarressed about but I feel peoples experience will help me understand before I go to the doctors. Okay, here goes: This Valentines I wanted to skip my period and so I take the pills according to direction to prevent get... (195 words)

Tips about sex for a newcomer with a smaller penis?

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19 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I guess you can see from the title, the subject of sex has come up between us, I'm a virgin, she's not, though we both know about each other. I'm kinda worried though that I won't be able to satisfy her 'cause my penis isn't exactly well endowed, nor do ... (222 words)

I told him I loved him, now he says we are not a couple

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i was seeing this guy for a couple of weeks. He came to my house feeling no pain and told me 3 times that he loved me. I really paid no attention to it since he was out and had a couple of drinks; ok, alot of drinks. We did continue to hang out that weekend. Well, then i go ... (178 words)

I broke up with him because he was ugly, now he has somebody else and I want him back

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have dated this guy about four years ago and we broke up mainly because he was to attached and never gave me space. He is a very good man and all but the one thing that turned me off was his looks he was not attractive at all. But everything else about him was perfect. He ... (151 words)

My husband has checked out emotionally and I don't know where to turn

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my husband since I was 14 years old and we've actually been married for 13 years. We have one child together. I just feel that the treatment I have to put up with is not right. I feel my husband emotionally abuses me and he apologises, but the damage is done. ... (436 words)

I think my Pastor might be flirting with me

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19 February 2010 (F)

age - I am confused. I think my pastor may be interested in me, but I'm not really sure. He calls and checks on mne when I don't go to church and he's protective of me and my kids. About one month ago, I came to church for the first time in weeks and he said,"I love you so much." I ... (261 words)

I'm with a great guy but we just don't click romantically. Any advice?

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, Somehow I've gotten myself in a very tricky situation. Okay, so about a year ago my dad's house was getting foreclosed and this guy I was kind of seeing in another state invited me to move in with him. I accepted and we started dating. We ended up moving again ac... (351 words)

We have been dating 2 years and he won't introduce me to his mother!

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i have a very unique and difficult question,i am married and i have a boyfriend. he is divorced after being married for 29 years. i have been with him for 2 years and he still wont introduce me to his mother. i am always with him except when im with my daughter. my husband ... (119 words)

Is 4 sexual partners a high number for a 21 year old?

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just broke up with my boyfriend and we only dated for 2 months and he was basically using me for sex, I posted a question about it a couple hours ago and recieved good respones. My question now is- I am 21 and have had sex with 4 people. Is that a high number...? I hate to ... (202 words)

I want more opportunities to have sex without family around!

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I know this sounds silly but I could use some advice on it. I'm 16 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half now. I lost my virginity to him, he wasn't a virgin, this past October. Now the problem is that we never get the opportunity to do it again... (123 words)

I'm not sure I want a baby but I want to make my husband happy!

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Everyone wants me to have babies. My parents, his parents, him, our friends,our relatives... etc.,etc... I am 35 and married to a wonderful man. I told him when we got married that I would give him children. He has wanted to have a baby for years. I still expected to be a... (355 words)

We talked for 7 months and I found out he is still with his ex. And he denied our relationship!

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I am a young girl of 21 years old and just had my heart torn out by the guy i least suspected would do it. I have this guy friend who i have gotten really close to...we both went to the same high school and while in high school we both liked each other but never ... (510 words)

We connect and we love kissing but neither of us wants a relationship.

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im in love with someone who loves me we connect well and wen we kiss its amazing he doesnt want a girl friend and vice versa wat should we do... (31 words)

Sex has ruined our friendship. Can we ever get back to how it was before?

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19 February 2010 (F)

age - I began dating a man I've known for 30 years. He is my younger brother's friend and there is a six-year-age difference between us. He was off limits for the first three decades, but I figured what the heck we're in our forties why not give it a try. He came on to me like ... (588 words)

I don't know how to tell if I am bi or straight

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So uhmmm Im confused... I'm not sure if I'm bi or straight. I really don't know how to tell if I am or not. Would anyone be able to help me out with this? Tell me what to look for or how I should feel or something? I've been unsure for a couple months now and I'm started to get ... (63 words)

I have a huge crush but I'm just too nervous when I'm around him. Help!

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm totally crushing on this guy in my class. We're friends and I'm not a shy person, but around him I am. He's not a shy guy either, but around me, he used to never make eye contact.(My friend spoke to him and said he acts normal. But when she saw the two of us talking, she ... (378 words)

He dumped me after a year together and now I just don't know what to do.

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i was going out with this guy for what would have been a year on the 27 of this month. we always had a good time together and we both really thought we were going to make it through high school and we had so many plans together. we were best friends first and than he asked me ... (377 words)

He keeps screwing around with girls online!

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so my boyfriend is screwing me over , around december i found out that he made a my yearbook account and a seperate msn that i never knew about and was tlaking/ fliring with chicks and doing shit on webcam with them , i found out wat abck then and he told me he delted it ... (240 words)

Based on his actions, do you think he likes me?

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, today I was talking with my friends in tennis for after school practice. This guy, let's call him Joe just basically ignores me but while I was talking to one of my friends, Joe comes along and just basically pulls him away from me and they talk and my other friend just ... (222 words)

I'm scared of sleeping in the same bed with him, but I don't know where to go!

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i posted a previous story about my bf starting to become aggrasive, i followed advice and just let it go. It happened again,last night, this time he did more, wich I hate to accept, Will I ever find a person who loves me without hurting me? He forced himself on me, I clearly... (213 words)

How do I tell my father I am moving in with my boyfriend?

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18, how do i tell my father im moving in wit my boyfriend?... (14 words)

My husband and I don't have sex anymore and we can't have kids. Should I leave him?

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for two years to a man who is much older than I, (he's 64, I'm 34) and lately, we have been having some issues serious enough for me to question whether or not we made the right decision. My husband has two adult daughters from a previous marriage and had... (371 words)

If a woman refrained from sex for a year, would she become tighter?

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a quick question...... someone once told me that if a woman had sex, then refrained from sex for a year she would become very tight down there. Is that a myth or is that true????? -Curious... (43 words)

My ex dumped me by text but won't leave me alone!

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right where to start. Well me and my boyfriend broke up around a month ago after spending 6 months together and I still find it so hard. We were so close and cared so much for each other but out of the ordinary he dumped me by text. He then messed me about for a while because ... (144 words)

I lost my virginity to my friend but my ex is back in the picture!

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone to make a long story short I was with my boyfriend for a yr before he moved away. We kept a LDR. LDRs are very hard work and we were both very occupied w/ school and work so I decided to break it off after another yr of being away. Before he met me, he had lost ... (347 words)

Should I live with my ex to get help with our baby?

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay my situation is very complicated right now and im needing some advise. ive been living with my boyfriend for a year now we moved really fast so its been a hard road. im 26 and he is 28 he has two kids 4 and 5 from a previous relationship. and i have two boys 2 and 5 ... (337 words)

I really like this girl but her family says I am trouble because of my past!

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19 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I grew up in a VERY small, everyone knows everyone town. When I was 16 I started hanging around with the wrong kids and got into a lot of trouble. I got in to drugs, drank a lot and joined a gang. I was a little hell raiser that didn't care about anything or anyon... (354 words)

I'm black and she is Muslim but I like her!

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19 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm black and i realy like this muslim girl and she rely like me to but we dont no what to do we both no her family will go take kindly to this but we both love each other what should we do?... (45 words)

I had an abortion and now regret it deeply.

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had an abotion on the 6th feb 2010 and i really didnt want it and everyday i feel myself wasting away. when i found out i was pregnant i told my boyfriend straight away and the first thing that he said was, what am i doing? and then he said if i keep this baby then he wil... (333 words)

I'm afraid she doesn't miss me like I miss her. Should I let her know how I feel?

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19 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i really need some help guys....i miss her so much,but the reason we stopped talking was because she broke my heart, and i didnt want to have my heart broken again...so we stopped talking to each other but now a few weeks have passed and i realise how much i really do love her, ... (107 words)

Any advice or info when looking to start dating guys?

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19 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys. I'm a 15 year old guy. And Ever since i was little i always knew i had an interest in guys. And I've just been denying it and hiding it all along. But now it seems that I'm getting more comfortable with it.The thing is I've never really been in a relationship with ... (160 words)

How can you be happy and single?

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19 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - how do you be happy and single. Everyone around me is with someone and I feel really depressed. Any tips? Thank you x... (23 words)

Is there a way to get past her sexual past?

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19 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i met the women i love about a year and a half ago we are both 26. the problem is that she told me her past i did not want to know ever but she talked about it and anyway she slept with 13 guys thats including me that was with in 3 years.i have been with 4 including her. a... (377 words)

How do I let her know she needs to move on without her getting too upset?

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19 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, well my last ex and I broke up around January 2009. It was a mutual break up because she moved to America (I live in Australia) and we agreed that it could be too dufficult keeping a long distance relationship. We've kept in touch because we both wanted to stay close ... (181 words)