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writes:I'm 14,female,and bi.So, I have a gf who I've been dating for almost 2 weeks, and I like her but at times my feelings for her fade away and come back later on. I've been a bit distant at times and I know that it's affecting our relationship, but I'm working on it kind of.. Anyway, my problem is that I have a huge crush on my close friend. I've liked her since the day I started talking to her. She has showed signs of liking me, and a couple of my friends think she does but she told me she doesn't like me like that, and isn't gay or bi. She's everything I've ever wanted and needed. I know I should break up with my gf, but I'm having trouble doing that. What should I do about this whole situation?
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reader, Lexi2010 +, writes (17 February 2010):
 Im going through the SAME thing...
BUT
im 15..
Pregnant by my BF..
Really like my best friend...
I know she likes me too because we`ve hooked up a couple of times..
IDK wat to do about this situation..
So I know where ur coming from..
Im here 4 ya..
But can someone help me too?
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reader, Caring Stranger  +, writes (15 February 2010):
 ok well firstly i think you need to end your current relationship because its not fair on your girlfriend when you have feelings for someone else. dont string her along-you say your feelings for her come and go, i really think you need to end it. it doesnt sound like you want to be with her.
secondly, i do not think that anything is going to happen between you and your friend. she has told you that she isnt gay or bi therefore as her friend i think you need to respect this and not pursue it anymore. i know this is hard (ive been there before too) but as her friend its important you respect her.
you are so young and just starting your dating life, try and have some fun and dont get caught up in wanting big relationships.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010): She is a close friend, thus she would have told you if she was bi/ gay at all and she isn't so don't go there
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