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What do you men really find a sexy attribute in a woman you want to go long term with?

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Question - (8 February 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *urpleprincess writes:

Hi so I'm wondering... I'm a nice looking girl so I've been told. I've been in a long relationship now and still happy but curious so a question for the guys. What do you men really find a sexy attribute in a woman you want to go long term with?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010):

Intelligence, I find that the nicest

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010):

Some of the other things that I consider sexy about a woman are the sound of her voice, her eyes and how she looks at me when we are lying in bed not having sex or looks at me when we are just talking. The voice is very important because I have to listen to it every day.

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A female reader, purpleprincess United Kingdom +, writes (8 February 2010):

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Yeah thanks all it was a personality thing I wanted. I know we find eachother atractive but care dearly about this guy and whilst things are going good now just wanted a few opinions make sure the spark stays. Thankfully I'm a good cook bonus :) All good. Thanks guys xx

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A male reader, PeterPan United States +, writes (8 February 2010):

PeterPan agony auntConfidence... intelligence... consistency... inventive/cleaver... witty/humorous...

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A male reader, bharat mehta India +, writes (8 February 2010):

bharat mehta agony auntYou will wonder to learn, but I think only one thing is very sexy in female, it is not body because not even in long terms, but very short terms became more familiar and old, and loss its charms in the eye of lovers, but 'INTELLIGENCE' is very sexy, which has power to make beauty even in seemingly odd situations. If the person is intelligent, very fast in learning....then all will be matched at the end.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010):

I have to agree with Flyguymyeye on attributes, but those are not really the sexy ones. I am assuming by sexy ones that you are referring to body shape or something like that. If that is the case, then my ideal sexy is slim, 5 ft 6, nice round butt and about 34C. However, some are negotiable in my mind, as it is unlikely to find the perfect person in all areas.

Intelligent, fun to be with and faithful are not negotiable for me though. They are required. The others have somewhat lesser importance. As for cooking - I love to cook, so that is low for me. :)

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A male reader, Flyguymyeye United Kingdom +, writes (8 February 2010):

Most of the cliches apply:

intelligent

confident

attractive

fun to be with

non slutty past (no one wants the village bike)

faithful

well, perhaps those are just mine. Hope that helps

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (8 February 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntMy husband says cooking ability is very important.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (8 February 2010):

Confidence is very sexy.

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