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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He cheated, she forgave him, now he is cheating again in a long term serious affair

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age - A friend of mine caught her husband after he had a weekend fling with a woman he'd met through an intimate encounters website. He said he's made a mistake. They went for counselling. She forgave him. Now she's just found out that since then he has become involved in an affair ... (117 words)

He would rather me look at porn and pleasure myself then go to him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. I am 24 he is 28. About 3 years ago he started to go on a lot of meds due to an injury.(long term injury) Long story short about 6 months or so after he started taking the meds his sex drive was almost totally gone. we went from sex... (493 words)

I love him to pieces, but he treats me like I'm worthless...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I hope you can give me some insight on how to deal with this. I absolutely adore my boyfriend to pieces, but he's stopped making me feel good. we used to be SO close it was sickening. A year later and hes just... blah! He doesn't text or call me if i'm away fr... (685 words)

Need advice on Valentine's gift!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I need some advice for Valentine's day please? I started talking to this guy at the beginning of December, we've been in constant contact ever since and I recently flew to see him and it was really wonderful amazing so now we're doing the long distance relationship thing now ... (150 words)

How do I know if the sex was good or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I had sex with this guy last night. It was totally a one night stand and I'm not expecting anything out of it. I was just wondering, how do i know if he liked it or if I was bad? I wasn't laying there like a dead fish and when i gave him head he was moaning. During sex ... (128 words)

Let's play a game! Who is more attractive?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im the poster of the unattractive black women post (Go back and read it. Great Posts) and I think we are not seeing eye to eye, so lets play a game. For men, choose one of the following women and explain why you would date her over the other (Obviously just physical attract... (149 words)

I'm in love with her but she doesn't see me that way, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - theres this girl at my school who im friends with and also who i love. last weekend i final worked up the courage to ask if she had a boy friend and if she wanted one. she answered no she doesnt have a boyfriend and she doesnt really want one. and even if she did want one... (127 words)

I'm fine when I'm alone but seeing my ex and his new girlfriend on facebook is killing me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i have a problem, im totally happy until i hear about my ex doing something or read it on facebook. His mom and I are friends on facebook and today she posted that the family and she even mentioned his new girlfriends name were going sledding. Of course i go out a... (876 words)

She treated me like crap!! Why do I miss her still?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone..i really need ur help! My relationship with my girlfriend(more like a fiance to me) for 2 + years now(we both were 17 when we started off)..ended 6 weeks back!!this is why! she was my first girlfriend and i wanted her to be my last!im not like others who could... (776 words)

Why would this guy stand up my daughter??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - this question is on behalf of my 18 year old daughter. She has had some very bad experiences with dating. A couple of weeks ago she had a former boyfriend "friend" her on facebook. He initiated all contact. He is in college away from home. He asked her to come up there to ... (323 words)

If he doesn't talk to you or call, is he not into you or just shy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - After reading 'He's just not that into you' I was wondering, from a guys point of view, are all guys like this? For instance, Is it true that if a guy doesn't like you, he won't call/talk to you.... Or can guys be shy or whatever, like girls can be? I'm 16, and I w... (87 words)

Should I kiss him at the party?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 and there is a boy that i like, he is 17, we are both going to the same party soon i really like him but im not shore if he likes me. when im around him i want to kiss him so bad but i don't want to because he might not like me. what should i do when i go to this pa... (73 words)

Jealous - what to do with lack of dating success

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I have had some problems recently. My friend has just got into a new relationship with a girl he works with and has known her there for a few years. I am happy for them, however I do feel a little jealous. It was only 2 months or so ago he broke up for the second t... (412 words)

Dating but relationship is going cold...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm seeing someone right now and for a while things were going great. But now things have gone kind of cold. We went out for a few weekends and she had fun but now she seems to be withdrawn and have a lot of stuff on her mind right now. About 3 weeks ago she started to go fr... (173 words)

I feel neglected by him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend lied to me about going to work, he said he had work from 2 to 5 and lied about it instead i think he went to his friend's house and played video games, he came over at 5 and stayed the rest of the night acting all affectionate so i knew he was lying what should i ... (133 words)

I didn't give my girlfriend space...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, me and my girlfreind broke up over something I did, not cheating or anything to do with girls but a lie about something important to her. I broke her trust badly. She said she wanted space but I was very upset because we had never had this kind of argument before, I had ... (230 words)

Opinions needed. My first time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. me and my boyfriend want to lose our virginity together, as we have been discussing ideas. Any ideas you have would also be welcome! He hasnt seen me completely naked yet, but i said i would like to wear a sexy outfit at first, i'm not sure what kind yet. we have seen some ... (200 words)

Should I make contact with him again or just move on???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone i would like to give thanks in advance for the advice that is given. I was seeing a guy called liam over the summer of '09 and it ended as he wanted to get back with his ex (he was still in love with her). So that ended and then i started seeing another guy called ... (249 words)

Why don't I feel the same love and desire for my boyfriend, and how do I get back to where it was before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We have been very happy, i love spending time with him and he always makes me feel better. He is so nice and he is really the only guy who would really understand and put up with me. He is also my first real boyfriend. ... (223 words)

Help!!! How do I ask him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so there is this boy i have liked for nearly a year now and i wrote on here a few times about "should i wait" and "i dont know how to ask him out" but im tired of waiting i just want to get it over with so how should i do it because, i dont have his msn, we dont run in the ... (115 words)

Should I send him a valentine's text?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my man are on a break for a bit as he needed some time without any distraction to concentrate on some work problems but its valentine day next sunday and I wondered whether sending a text to say happy valentines was a good idea. I don't want him to think I'm ignoring his ... (56 words)

17 and pregnant???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm seventeen and i posted a concern on here a couple of days ago. Like i said before i had unprotected sex sometime around the 15 or 16th day january and my period was due on the 26th of january. It is now almost two weeks late and im freaking out. My boyfriend didn't ... (105 words)

My boyfriend lied to me about going to work...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend lied to me about going to work, he said he had work from 2 to 5 and lied about it instead i think he went to his friends house and played video games, he came over at 5 and stayed the rest of the night acting all affectionate so i knew he was lying what should i ... (60 words)

I'm using an implant, can this fail? Since Christmas I've been feeling pregnant.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Aunts. Could Someone Help and end my confusion? i had Implanon (impalnt) inserted Early Last Year, Around June i think or before, The Thing is ive had light spotting since it was inserted but since Christmas/New year ive had no period, no spotting, nothing! i had sex ... (181 words)

Is it normal for male and female friends to discuss their sexual pleasures in detail?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it normal for good male and female friends to discuss in detail exactly what they like during sex? By "in detail" I mean things like the enjoyment associated with giving/receiving oral, rimjobs, anal and the intensity of each. She and I have been friends for about 15 mon... (345 words)

We send our nude pictures to each other but how can I tell him I want more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy I knew from school almost hooked up once (almost a year ago) but didn't because I was not single at the time. Now I'm single and I'm pretty sure he is too. We still talk and he often sends semi-nude pics of himself and asks me to do the same via IM which is great and ... (89 words)

Am I too needy? I want to show her I care though

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl through a mutual friend in NY. She's seems to be everything I want in a girl. We've been dating for ten months now. When we first started dating (for the first couple months), she was a sweet happy girl that truly respected me. When we went out, she would hold my ... (358 words)

I haven't heard from him since. What do you reckon is happening here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - He is a relative of mines, yet distant. a few years ago, he contacts me for a favour..something to do with his music. I said I dont have what he wants but then he started talking more and more...until one day he just showed up at my door without my knowledge and that whilst ... (334 words)

My boyfriend doesn't get jealous?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend doesn't get jealous. Is this considered a good thing or a bad thing?... (15 words)

Girlfriend of 10 months lies to me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok i'm having this problem with my relationship... My girlfriend, of 10 months, lies to me. She lies to me about where she goes, especially at night time. She tells me that she's going to sleep but goes out. I know this because when I get off from work and im driving home, her ... (168 words)

How do I deal with my 16 year old son getting his girlfriend pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age - I am the mom of 3 sons ages 18, 16 and 13. I just found out that my 16 yr old son got his 16 yr old girlfriend pregnant. We have been very open about sex and had MANY safe sex talks. I knew that he had a girlfriend but didn't know that they were sexually active. I want to be ... (151 words)

Should women make the first move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Should women make the first move? There is a guy I really like a lot. We are good friends, but I would love to have a deeper relationship with him. We are both shy, and although we flirt etc, nothing has ever happened. We are both single, and have talked in the past about h... (118 words)

Whenever we get in a fight she leaves and looks for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age - when ever my girl friend get in a fight with me she leaves and looks for sex to ease her pain she says. why does she go there everytime?... (29 words)

Low sex drive. Is it normal for a 40 year old man to only want sex once every 2 weeks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there. My boyfriend has low sex drive due to a hard job, hours playing computer games and being tired. And he puts off having sex because he says he is worried about his performance and letting me down. He is 40 years old and says his sex drive hasn't been the same the last... (772 words)

Do you think people can really change? Can we really forget the past and move on??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sooo a lot has happend in the last year, in fact a lot has happend in last 6 months to be honest, so here goes - last september my boyfriend of 6 months decided to end it with me, we had been through a lot miscarriage, lies and whole lot of rubbish, we rushed things and it ... (262 words)

My guy lasts FOREVER and can't even orgasm when he masturbates...help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - On Jan 19th I lost my virginity to my bf (who was also a virgin)...and he lasted at least an hour, possibly upwards into two. I only know that before we started it was 2:30 am and shortly after he finally came it was 4:30. I was in pain, obviously, but figured I shouldn't say ... (327 words)

Selfish lover...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do I do? I love my boyfriend - he's perfect for me and I can't imagine being apart. We started dating this past summer before I went to a college 12 hours away, and our sex life was really fun and enjoyable. I have a muscle weakness that doesn't really allow me to be on ... (385 words)

Should she have been more honest, and was she a virgin for me??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 2 years and have been together for 4 years in total. One year into the relationship we knew we were going to get married and started having sex with each other. We were both virgins, and it was special knowing she had saved herself as did I. Our sex life ... (265 words)

I feel I hurt his ego by saying no to being with him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My good friend and i accidentally fell for each other while he was in a relationship with a miss 6 years younger than him. regardless of their indifferences, i knew my friend loved her and worked to keep the relationship going. we exerted hard to hold back our feelings for ... (281 words)

Casts and foreplay???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm going on vacation with my girl next weekend. we're gonna have sex, and have had it before... ok here's the problem..... Last time we went, she had sprained her ankle a few days before, and she had to wear a walking cast.... we took off the brace part, and just lef... (182 words)

I just discovered my husband is cheating on me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just discovered my husband is cheaing on me. I dont know what to do. I am 5 and a half months pregnant with twins....... (25 words)

Help!!! Is he just using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing a guy now for about 7 months now, i am 20 and he is 26. he was the one doing the chasing. he still hasnt asked me to be his girlfriend. Late 2008 he broke up with his girfriend of 6 years. he has never brought up his ex to me but i do know they keep in conta... (574 words)

I feel so stupid for falling for this idiot!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just found out that a guy I have been kissing and having some fun with at work has a girlfriend and that he only gets with me because I am shy, have low confidence and he feels sorry for me, I feel so stupid for falling for this idiot, I knew he was never actually ... (143 words)

Why does he constantly pick fights with me? Will he ever change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It seems like my bf is constantly picking fights. when we first started dating it was that he had problems with my sexual history (which isnt bad), then it was that he didnt like me talking to any guys even friends, having a facebook account, wearing certain clothes now he ... (135 words)

Am I dealing with a gay latino man on the down low?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been spending time with a man who I think is interested in me. When we are together he is very affectionate. We cuddle and touch a lot. However he never goes much further than that. Our kisses are chaste. He hasn't come on to me sexually. He has told me that he wants to ... (407 words)

Will it get easier even although his daughter is there all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of 2 years has a 2 yer old daughter, i try my hardest to be a part of her life, play with her when she is around and i know it sounds selfish but i still cant get used to being number 2. I know its never going to change, but i cant stop thinking about all the 'f... (213 words)

I need advice in getting over the past...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - It's nice to find a place like this... So, almost 2 years ago my fiance and I broke it off, after 5 1/2 years of being together, engaged for 2 of those years, and forcing it to work for 3. The break-up was bad, and it left feeling pretty bruised up emotionally. ... (276 words)

His ex is ruining our relationship...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year and a half. Prior to our relationship he was in a very intense relationship with a girl named Erin*, their relationship ended, six months later we got together however she will not leave him alone and it's having a ... (502 words)

I want to forget about him but I can't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I joined this web site so i can post my problem and hopefully get help and also try helping others going thru problems. this is my problem i met this guy we will call him sam* We went out 4 a while about 6 months, during those 6 months we broke up a lot becoz we didn tr... (217 words)

She tells me she loves me but her actions don't back this up. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl online october last year she was in my country at the time, now she is back in her home country but soon to return to mine to study and also be with me.. it has progressed to full on love from not knowing each other at all a few months ago and being from totally ... (378 words)

I want to get out of the friends zone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How do i escape the friendship zone and get my girl?!?!?!?!? I think that this girl i like just considers me a friend how can i change that? advice is most welcome kind people!... (37 words)

A bad relatioship destroyed my confidence to initiate sex. How can I over come my fear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I would like to be able to masterbate in front of my husband, but even after reading all the encouraging comments about it I am still quite nervouse about it. Heck, I cant even ask him for sex when I am in the mood. I'm just not sexually aggressive anymore because of a past ... (100 words)

Should I organize my birthday plans around his access visit with his daughter?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Its my birthday today, i had planned a bbq at my house, when it started to rain i told my bf i was going to change to dinner with friends at a restaurant, he said no i cant come (because he has to drop his daughter off to her mums house at 8pm) just go with your friends. i wa... (243 words)

He made love to me but now considers us friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age - I met this guy less than a year now. He was the first one who asked my contact # and he was the first one who visited me at home. During his first visit he asked me if he can sleep at my place. At first i dont like him but as days passed by i develop my love to him especially ... (158 words)

Have to go swimming but have my period!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I have a minor problem that isn't life changing but it currently feels like a big problem! Tomorrow I have to go swimming. I really have no choice in it. But I woke up this morning and my period had started unexpectedly. I don't know what to do now. I know the obvious... (122 words)

Is there a way to be married before God by man of the cloth and take vows but not file the paperwork and she still change her last name?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been married and divorced. I want to eventually marry my new girlfriend, but we have a difference in marriage processes. She wants to be married the "right" way which is being registered with the state. However, I do not believe in the governments rights in being ... (101 words)

Does sex ruin relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - does sex ruin relationships? me and this girl love each other ... we had sex and we slowly drifted appart but i love her so much and she still loves me a little so would not having sex be better?... (42 words)

Sex is not working out for us. Why is that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well im fat and me and this girl went to have sex... it was my first time but not her first... she was tight but not tight tight... but she hadnt had sex in like a month... she was on top and we couldnt get it in... i couldnt get fully hard why is that? ... (67 words)

Will out age difference make a difference?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im nina, I just have a question, my bf and i were togetehr for a year and we were doing fine but im just worried, well in these past days I've been thinking about it, about our age differences. Im 18 and he's 27. I met him when i was 17 and he was 26. We think the same, ... (149 words)

Everyone hates my bf - now my ex bf.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I didnt see myself searching for relationship advice on the internet but im desperate. im 23 and my bf is 25 we been together for almost a year. living together under my moms roof. we both love each other alot were pretty content besides for a couple issues. he has a record and ... (297 words)

I want to help my woman be that strong woman behind a strong man type of woman.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - (Mod Note - OP's own title) How can I help my girlfriend understand that I need to see and feel more affection from her? I've talked to her, but I'm not convinced that she is hearing me. So I'm not sure if she just doesn't know how, or was raised that way. She says t... (611 words)

My boyfriend makes me twitch and shake. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, when i am with my BF my right leg shakes.. I've slowly gotten use to this and recently my arms started to twitch and move, but i didnt really want him to stop.. I was just wondering if this is normal and ok or should i do something about it?... (51 words)

How the hell can you tell if a bloke you meet on the internet is genuine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How the hell can you tell if a bloke you meet on the internet is genuine. I have met one everything going well. Never met him yet just phone calls and text. Not worried he has a wife or girlfriend as texts me back usually when I text him but not always sometimes he is busy with ... (124 words)

I cant get off anymore when masturbating.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im Nina, it's a little embarrassing but I masturbate and so, and i started to finger myself, I cum a lot but I don't seem to orgasm anymore. I dont get that high feeling only half way. why? so then i stopped, just to have a break... I just thought if i stopped, it... (84 words)

I've just been given the brush off, or is it true he needs space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Met a man been together 5 months he lives 200 miles away haven't met up yet. Yes it was an online meeting. Been texting and talking over the phone. Talked to me christmas and new year and while on holiday also speak to him a lot at night. I do believe he hasn't got a girlfriend ... (174 words)

What is wrong with this guy, ..he seems to have two faces.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i met the guy called Ray(fake name) at youth club. we got to know each other little bit and bit.then we shared a contact number. we see each other once a week cuz youth club start on friday. ray is friendly,caring and funny guy when he texts me. but when i met him he's q... (130 words)

I care about people a lot. But I'm feeling exhausted and am wondering...will anyone ever be there for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

7 February 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Um, well...okay, I'm an agony aunt on this site, and I'm going through a difficult time. I like to help people. I care about people a lot. But I'm feeling exhausted and am wondering...will anyone ever be there for me? I try to help on this site. And I would drop everything ... (233 words)

How can I tell if the girl at jcrew is into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I was in jcrew today doing some shopping. while doing so a blonde who works there asked me if i needed help. she was so pretty, her hair was tossed up like kirsten dunst. i looked into her eyes and smiled and she smiled back. i smiled even more, and then she sort of turned ... (171 words)

I'm afraid I may have texted too much and scared him away!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Met a man online. Thought he was great got on really well. Has a very stressful job. Used to text him and he wouldn't answer me so I would text him again he would answer with something like, yes still alive, just stressed and thatv would be it. So obviously worried about him so ... (136 words)

Are stretch marks a huge turn off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

7 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi all ok heres the problem, i have a lot of stretch marks. actually they are alot but the worst ones are on my back, stomach and sides of my upper body. i also got very light skin which makes em look worse. And i heard u cant get rid of these, even if u can make em "di... (148 words)

I'm afraid he will leave me because I am too clingy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend just told me he is afraid that I will become too clingy. I feel as if i lost almost all of my friends because I work too much and a certain situation that makes things akward. When he told me i need to hang around my friends more it crushed me because I feel as if ... (156 words)

I feel like I am getting the blame for his past bad relationships. What do I do?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im in love with a man who is scared of getting hurt, when we are together we have lots of fun and do everything except have sex. He says he doesn’t trust women and doesn’t know if he ever will again. Iv been hurt too and as far as I know iv never hurt anyone that I was ... (88 words)

Can birth control cause me to become less wet during sex?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I get extremely wet right before sex and during sex and I stay very wet all throughout sex no matter how long the session is (lucky me I guess). I've never had to use any lubrication. But I was wondering if taking birth control can change that? Could it cause me to become ... (67 words)

How can I get my mom to let me date a boy who isn't Jewish?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm Jewish, but I'm not into my religion as much as my mom is. My mom wants me to date a nice Jewish boy but all my friends are different religions. To top it off, there are NO Jewish boys here! We have had arguments on this topic before and she knows how I feel about it, but ... (94 words)

I've been in my relationship for a year now and feel I have lost my identity. What's happening to me?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like i lost my identity along the way , i'm not sure how or why but around 2 years ago i was -someone- i had my interests i had my bass lessons i had my books that i read i had my own style that just came so natural , people would notice me before they became my friends ... (314 words)

Is he stalking me... Or am I just delusional?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy I know who seems to follow me around campus. We're both in college and have very different schedules. I'm not sure if he's actually following me, so I can't make any judgements. But he always seems to find me (just to talk). I have a class on Wednesday that g... (163 words)

My boyfriend just dumped me and I may be pregnant.

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 15 an i went out with this guy for almost a year, weve had sex an the last time we wernt as carefull. i got my period after but it was a few days late and it was alight pink at first but than was a redish brown and wasntas heavy as usual. ive also been having stomach ... (88 words)

I'm still in love with my gay friend.

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I get over my past relationship with my gay lover? He was so kind, yet abusive, yet mysterious... I can't for get him...he left me on the driveway...and tried to get back with a past boy friend that was his lover for years... His boyfriend totally turned away from... (127 words)

Does her having large sex toys mean she is not happy with me?

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7 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for 8 years and I have always assumed we both enjoyed sex, but I have recently found a very large dildo and 2 large vibrators which she has obviously been using, to be straight about it I feel she does not enjoy sex with me and prefers the toys and ... (66 words)

Do you think my wifes long distance affair will last? Should I ring the other guy and explain what she means to me and hope he will back off?

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7 February 2010 (M)

age - my wife has been talking to this guy she knew 10 years ago from work.i just found out that they had sex when she was supposed to be at her moms.they talk on the internet.he lives in nevada and we live in va.i overheard her tell him that she loves him.they have been talking for ... (300 words)

My long distance boyfriend has stopped calling as much or answering his phone.

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - we started our relationship a couple of months ago. my boyfriend works in another city and has very little time. whenever i go there to meet him, we stay together and have sex. but recently he has stopped picking up my calls from morning till night. at night also, he doesn't ... (66 words)

I want to work at it and she is very negative and seems mentally already checked out!

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7 February 2010 (M)

age - 47,wife 46 married 24 years, 3 kids 20,18,14. Recently entered AA, now sober for 2 years. Spouse says I have withdrawn and she has fell out of love with me but still loves me. said she has put my attempt to be happy 1st at her expense. I have been unhappy with my career and am ... (187 words)

Am I overreacting or is my partner actually taking the piss with me?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I feel my partner is taking advantage a little bit... for example, tonight, he was going out with his friends, which I was absolutely fine with, obviously! But 2 hours into the night, he says he's bored and wants to see me, which i say ok to.. an hour later, he c... (147 words)

During his time of need, he reached out to his ex!

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - We've been having problems already because of me not being able to trust him. However, he got into a car accident yesterday, he called me to be there for him; however, he contacted his ex through text messaging. It's a big thing and I want to be the only on there for him but he ... (182 words)

My mom found my boyfriends underwear and freaked out!

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked my boyfriend if i could have a pair of his boxers, i usually used them to sleep in. My mom didn't know i had them, but she knew my boyfriend. I'm really not close to my mom, so I never told her me and my boyfriend were boyfriend and girlfriend. When she would ask i wo... (211 words)

Oral Sex Odour - Is it normal?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, so the thing is that when i give my bf a blow job his cock smells HORRIBLE, like really nastly, kinda like fishy or of pee a bit..... is that normal?? thankyouu x... (36 words)

Is it weird that a 19 year old is interested in a 16 year old?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hii, im new to this sitee but i jus have a quickkk question. well imm about to turn 16 and the guy imm dating will be 19 this week. is it weird that hes interested in me? (bc of the age) neither of us have a problem with the difference, i was jus wanting some other opinions. ... (60 words)

I love her. She likes me. How do I tell her that I want to be with her?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and I are close, and we are gradually getting closer to being in a relationship, but we both are hesitating. I'm afraid. I love her and I know she doesn't feel the same back. I know she only likes me. I don't want to pressure her but as we get closer and closer it's ... (110 words)

My husband accuses me of giving him an STD.

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - please help me. i always have pimples in my vigiena.the pimples always appeared and afther 2 or 3 day it disappeared.six month a go i married.i did not tell my husband about that . now he came to know that i have pimples in my vigiena.the problem is that now he has also pimples ... (107 words)

We've been talking back and forth for awhile now... What does it all mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) age 36-40 - He is a relative of mines, yet distant. a few years ago, he contacts me for a favour..something to do with his music. I said I dont have what he wants but then he started talking more and more...until one day he just showed up at my door without my knowledge and that whilst ... (334 words)

Why am I in love with a player??

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - whats wrong with me... im in love with a player. hes cheated on his past two girlfriends. he used to like me but when i didnt do what he wanted like kiss him or whatever he called me boring. i havent done anything with him ima virgin. i know its wrong to like him. but we go to ... (155 words)

How can I gain a girl's love back?

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7 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - how can i gain a girls love back?... (8 words)

I'm completely supporting my son, his girlfriend, and baby and running out of money! What do I do?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i would really appreciate some advice. Ok, i was with my 19 year old sons father for 20 years. It was an awful relationship, he was a control freak and was verbally and physically abusive. i left him finally 2 years ago and moved so that he doesnt know where we live. I also ... (541 words)

What are these bumps on my legs and how can I improve them?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My legs and thighs have bumps on them and are always dry and not smooth. I'm very insecure about my legs. I see other girl's legs are smooth with no bumps so why are mines like this? I don't let a guy touch me or see my legs or feel my legs because of this. I want to go to... (95 words)

Ideas on teenage dating sites?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Anyone got idea's for a teenage dating site? Im not too young to date and dont tell me to not get involved with guys cuz ive never had a bf and im ready. thxx. ... (34 words)

Constantly stuck in the "friend zone" and need to get out!

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7 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to flirt :( and pick up lines don't work for me. I'm 16 and a junior in high school. theirs always guys that hit on girls and make out in the hallway. i personally, am not a loser, or bad looking. why can't i be like them? i talk to popular girls here and ... (103 words)

Is it okay to have a crush on your cousin? Or am I just a weirdo?

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7 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have always wondered... Now, I just have a brother (I am male) and no sisters. I've always wondered... do people find siblings or cousins of the opposite sex to be sexually attractive? Can you "fall in love" with him/her? Or are we humans biologically programmed to not l... (134 words)

Sex between us isn't like it used to be, help!

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We used to have sex 3 or 4 times a day but within the past year things have gotten so stressful and there's been alot of fights between us. Now we have sex maybe once a week. How can I get us back to where we were?? Also when we do have sex I feel like its just the act. I don't ... (73 words)

How do you decide if a relationship is worth it?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - When do you decide when a relationship just isn't working and isn't worth it? Is questioning whether it is worth it a bad sign? Is not being able to see it lasting a bad sign? I assume it is. What about feeling this way and it has only been a month, should it be this difficult ... (372 words)

Dating for 3 years and now I want to settle down. Am I wrong?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We've been in a relationship for over 3 years. We've had our ups and downs but for the most part we've been pretty good and happy. We have a house and pets together. Is it wrong for me to want to know where its going? I told him I wanted to get married like yesterday and hav ... (74 words)

My husband cheated and called ME a psycho, now he won't leave her!

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My question is regarding my reaction to my husband sleeping with another woman. I found out he was seeing this woman from work and I knew he was going to her place so I kept calling and texting him all evening to find out where he was and what was going on. Then he called me ... (278 words)

Visited an adult sex shop and now feeling upset about it.

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend went to a adult variety store today and I got upset about it.. Am I wrong?... (18 words)

How do I make "sexting" more interesting?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i have this problem my boyfriend knows alot about sexting (saying sexual stuff you want to do through text)and hes alot better at it then me. I think cause iv never realy done it before. I like know the basics saying i want to have .... with you and im going to ... but how ... (92 words)

Reconnected after 9 years but now he is engaged and I want him back!

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well i dated this guy about 9 years ago. We dated about 8 months and he was head over heels in love with me. He was the most wonderful boyfriend you could imagine and i loved him so much. We got along great but i was young and my friends were telling me he wasn't the right guy ... (281 words)

Can you tell when a person has had sex? Is this true?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So... I am very open with my parents and siblings about sex, we talk about it from time to time and stuff but not like detailed. My mom tells me not to have it, and my brother says if I did ever have sex at my age, he would be able to tell because I would act or be differen... (188 words)

I hate having to choose between my beliefs or him! What should I do?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this boy i like and we went out for a week and then he ignored me for a while, and then he came back and was like i'm sorry. he wants to get back together. I really like him ALOT. however, he's like you know what type of relationship i want. i really want to but i ... (372 words)

My bf's penis is unusually red..and it hurts him and me to have sex. What is wrong?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. okay so this is kinda an embarrassing thing but im also kinda concerened, i had a bladder infection a while back and the antibiotics the doctor gave me ended up giving me a yeast infection. it is the first one ive ever had so i dont really no much about it. but since th... (221 words)

Should I make a fake facebook to see how many ex boyfriend feels?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was going to make a fake-facebook to look at my ex-boyfriends page. Ok, i dont want people telling me to just get over it and that i dont need to look at his stuff. He got a new girlfriend fairly quickly after we broke up (rebound) And since we dont talk i dunno how h... (170 words)

He says he likes me a lot..but I found his profile on a dating site!

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 35 and have been single for about 2 years. I recently met a guy at a friends birthday party. He has initiated seeing me every day for the last 3 weeks. He sends me text messages when we're not together telling me he can't wait to see me. Yet yesterday I was helping one of ... (116 words)

Girls..do you like it when a guy licks you all over?

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7 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm simply wondering, do women enjoy being licked all around their bodies passionately and tenderly, or is it a disgusting act for you? please comment thanks... (30 words)

She says I don't stand up for her and it's put a strain on our relationship! What should I do?

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7 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend are having some serious problems, and I think we may be about to break up. Our problems occurred from Wednesday - Sunday last week. We saw eachother on Monday and Tuesday and everything was fine. On Wednesday and Thursday she accused me of putting footb... (597 words)

Frustrated..my bf can't get aroused! Help!

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So about a month ago i met this great guy and weve been hanging out at least twice a week since then. A week ago we officially became bf/gf. Everythings pretty much perfect. The thing is though we havnt had sex yet. For the first couple weeks it was my choice, i thought ... (161 words)

The seem to resent that I will be in charge

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am aware this isn't a relationship question but I'm about to become an Assistant Manager at work in a charity shop. I've been a volunteer for 6 months and was offered full time work as an Assistant Manager to cover for the Manager's absence. I was previously unemployed and ... (181 words)

Its been three years, but he still calls and texts!

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated someone for about 2yrs and started hearing rumor about him talking to another girl while being with me. I confronted him and denied it so I believed him. Then I heard he was engaged to this girl. I confronted him and of course denied it again and told me to trust him. ... (232 words)

We went on a couple of dates, but he is still in touch with his exes?

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7 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I went on a couple of dates with this guy but he has been in touch with his ex GF all the time. They split up about 6 months ago but stayed in touch and they talked about getting back together. Whilst we were on our date she was texting him and I heard him listening to a ... (569 words)