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30-35,
*ozzie
writes:My boyfriend and I (He's 21, I'm 20) are really quite close. We've been best friends for about 6 to 7 years, and we started getting close just last summer. A lot of crap happened in between, but to make a really long story short, we started dating in december and have been really close. We have both agreed that there wouldn't be sex (oral was ok) in the relationship before marraige because of religion. He's a very strong Christian, which is one of the reasons why I love him. I have told him that I've loved him, but he has yet to say the words, yet he shows them with actions.I'm at college about an hour away from him, and can only come home every other weekend. Here lately, we've been 'roleplaying' on msn, including oral and other things. Yesterday though, while we were roleplaying he pushed it farther, and we roleplayed us making love to each other. It was wonderful, and I would LOVE for this to happen in real life, but because we've both agreed about no sex, I don't know if it would really happen or not and I was really quite shocked. Pleased, but shocked. I won't be able to come home for another three weeks...so I really don't know what to think or do. He's been known to say "No" and then his actions tell me different. He's said this would NEVER happen, and yet it would in the future...(Marraige).I'm so confused!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (8 February 2010):
He wants it, but he is committed to his religion. Have patience.
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (8 February 2010):
It sounds like he is just saying that he obviosly finds u sexually attractive. He may not go for the physical act untill yall are married. Cyber sex doesn't mean nothing really so take that for what its worth. If he doesn't try to get u to have sex then don't sweat it
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