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writes:Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for about 18 months, were both 19 years old, and I used to love him very much, but I just don't anymore. I've thought about it long and hard and I'm pretty much decided that I want to break up with him, but there's a big problem, my parents have booked a holiday (in about 2 months time)and hes supposed to be coming with us! He's paid £660 for the holiday. My mum told me when she booked the holiday about six months ago "you know, now this is booked, you two cant break up!" and i really dont know what to do :( please help! Thankyou so much! xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help, I broke up with him today, and one of my girl friends is going to buy him out and come away with me instead :) and my parents weren't at all angry (i now think i was stupid for thinking they would be!) but were very lovely and supportive :) thanks again! xx
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reader, polarkite  +, writes (8 February 2010):
 Haha. Your mum is funny.
Is there any way you could get a refund for his part? I'd start calling expedia or the hotel or whoever it's booked with and find out.
Otherwise, I'd find some other friend or guy who's willing to pay the money to come with you.
Ideally, you want to break up with him and un-invite him to the holiday. Otherwise that will be really unpleasant.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 February 2010):
Well it would be a bit terrible to go on holiday with him only to break up when you get back. And if you want to break up, then that's your own business and has nothing to do with anyone else. You are an adult, you can make your own decision. If you want to break up, it's best to break up now.
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