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writes: I met a guy from online..we met at a bar and we seemed to like each other..the conversation went well..he offered to buy me another drink..and then he said after awhile he isn't really a big drinker and do i want to go to another place after this maybe for coffee? so i agreed and said you choose the place..we drove to his area which is about 10 minutes awayWe went to a cafe and we seemed to like each other..i was a little nervous..he complimented me a few times that i am really pretty, how can i be single..that i have nice eyes and i accepted the compliment and said thank you and he seemed to be a gentleman and not pushy. He asked if i liked sushi and i said i did and he said if we go out again and also said if you want to go out again, i'll take you to this sushi place. I offered him money when the check came to be polite and he said no its ok..he drove me home and when we parked he said we'll hang out again and i just said ok and then we kissed and made out for a few minutes..nothing too much...when i felt him maybe grabbing a little too much i would try to hold his hand. He said i drive him crazy(i guess meaning turning him on)? Also then said in a joking way you are going to have to go before i start ripping clothes off lol..he said only so much of that i can take. He then said that i can call him....Which i thought was maybe weird? and i said ok. I texted him today saying you are probably watching the game. I just wanted to say hi and thank you for the dessert. And he texted a little while later thanks for a great night with a smile face.Is he blowing me off or just taking things slow? I didn't text him after that and left it alone. Should I call him tuesday or wednesday night? Not sure how long to wait and he's the one who said i can call him. I hope he doesn't flake on me because i really liked him.(almost felt like he was too "cool" for me even and probably has other options online)..i really want to see him again and i can tell he doesn't want girls who become that pushy type rushing to be in a relationship. I'm just scared because some guys can show interest and even make out with you and then you never hear from them again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010): Oh what a gentleman he is if he tells you to go before he ripps your clothes off! Lovely joke. You girls need to be very careful about the guys you talk to online and whom you meet in person afterward. I find him weird after a first date. The sexual jokes at the first date could mean is not interested in anything more than sex. Meet him in public places (if you must) in order to know him better and don't lower the guard. Also don't drink too much when out with a guy you don't know well. You don't want to be taken advantage of afterward. READ about the many stories of blind dates that went wrong. Don't be one of them. This is an environment for those who are aware of the risks and can protect themselves. In your post I haven't seen one mention of possible risks that you are aware of - not one! That said, you can meet very nice people on the Internet but you can also meet creeps. Yes, it could be he has other options so keep yours open too. Work on your self trust as well. How can you feel you are unworthy of him if you don't even know much about him? Good luck hun.
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reader, called Steve  +, writes (8 February 2010):
 I'd not read too much into this - as he was laready trying it on with you; you refer to him grabbing too much?, then I'd not go back for more.
Sounds to me like he was maybe a gentleman (?) already grabbing to much, he was pushing his luck!
Steer clear if I was you!
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (8 February 2010):
l think he should be the one to call you. if he is interested he will call. l think you should just chill
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