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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend is way too sensitive for me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

24 February 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old and involved in a healthy, loving relationship. This guy is amazing, sweet, kind, and a beautiful person. We've been together for 5 months. However, he is a bit too sensitive. Sometimes I think he is almost spineless. I'm a very emotional person, so to see him ... (382 words)

Going to get married soon but now I'm paranoid she may be lying about her past.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello Aunts. I need some insight. Currently I am engaged and in love. She is everything I could ask for in a woman. Our relationship went through one huge road bump. She used to keep in contact with her ex boyfriend even though she knew it made me uncomfortable. I won't t... (587 words)

My husband has cheated in the past and now I think he may be having another affair!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age - I hope you can help me I have been married for 22 years and have 2 teenage children. I think my husband is having an affair he is very secretive with his phone I have found txt messages he has sent to a woman he denies everything. He has had an affair in the past he left me and ... (122 words)

Could my breasts still increase in size?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im nearly 18 and, basically, my bra size is uk 32A. but really, i have tiny breasts and though my boyfriend loves me the way i know he's a 'boob man' and would prefer if they were slightly bigger. my mum is just a 34B but is there any chance of me growing anymore? im very ... (80 words)

I'm in love with my husband and another guy. Which should I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in love with 2 different guys. One is my husband. We have been married almost 4 years. We have spent more time apart than together. He has a record for cheating on me. He's cheated on me more than count. He says hes changed. He is also the father of my little girl. When we ... (137 words)

She never says anything bad about her husband. Will she ever leave him for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a married women for some time she says she is leaving her husband but when. She tells me she has no feelings for him. She also says that she has told him already and she says she is not leaving him because of me. She say he is very good to her but they have ... (256 words)

Her hesitation in telling me about this guy has me not trusting her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and things have been going really well. We just moved in together, got a dog, the whole 9 yards. Last week I went out of town for some gigs (I am a musician) and while I was gone, she had a party at the house. Some guy was the... (262 words)

I think he is having an affair with a colleague of mine. How can I find out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for the past 3 years to a man who is also my work colleague. We lived together, at my house, for 5 years before that. I was wealthy when we married; my husband was not. Since my marriage, due to a very bad investment, I have lost an awful lot of money. My ... (178 words)

Wanting her to desire me more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - pls how can i make my girlfriend want me more in bed?... (12 words)

I don't understand my boyfriend's behaviour.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - (Mod note: Titled by poster) hello! i am in a distance relationship for almost one year and half. we met each other 2 times. once he came to me and than i went to his place. as we are not the same nationality. after i came back from his place i just felt more in love with hi... (442 words)

Will wishing an ex happy birthday seem clingy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - (Mod note: Titled by poster) Ok, so I was wanting to know if I should wish an ex a happy birthday if he broke up with me because I was too "clingy?" His birthday is 3 weeks away...will it seem like I want him back if I do? Also, he said that he doesn't want to be frie... (142 words)

I'm confused about my sexual identity! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) age 41-50 - I am confused about my sexual identity. I have been in a few serious hetero relationships. I enjoy and often desire hetero sex. I like men and I like how I feel balanced out by a male presence both physically and emotionally. Many of my erotic fantasies and dreams involve men, ... (806 words)

Sex seems to be the his main focus. Sould I go on another date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) age 51-59 - Hi, I ran into this guy that I use to work with last year. He had gotten a divorce and asked me on a date. I accepted the. Well, of course he tried to sleep with me,on the first date but I didn't. On our second date we had a talk and he told me he wasn't looking for a com... (280 words)

Insentive girlfriend and I don't know what to do.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age - For 18 months i have been in a relationship. I knew she had seen a married man long before we met. I never thought much as mistakes do happen. Yesterday we were talking in bed. Its now she tells me that i`m the only single guy she was interested in. Its now clear she actively ... (225 words)

Got contact but what should I do next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) age 30-35 - I used to know this girl, but havent talked to her in months, and we just started talking again on facebook. She said we should chill sometime and catch up, so i asked her for her number and i got it... now what?... (43 words)

Can I get back with someone who cheated on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - (Mod note: Title set by the poster) Recently, I discovered that my girlfriend of 5 years had cheated on me. I left, of course, and moved out of state. Here's the problem, She is telling me that she is going to do everything to make things right with me, how incredib... (125 words)

I've not heard anything... am I being paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently took a great woman out on a date on Sunday and had an amazing time. We both fell into easy conversation and tentatively planned on going out swing dancing the following Friday night. I waited until Tuesday night to give her a call about Friday. It is now Wednesday ... (97 words)

Help! Is this emotional abuse?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been in a relationship for 2 years now. The first year was wonderful. Then from one to the next day everything changed. If i have a concern. And i come about it in a respectable way like foe expl.: i feel that....., or dont you think that....., or it would help if..... ... (349 words)

Best friend told me he loved me but didn't want a relationship, now he's back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My best male friend confessed he loved me a few months ago, and also confessed he wasn't ready for a relationship as he was in the early stages of admitting his depression, and felt it wouldn't be fair on me. - which i accepted. Time past and he continued acting the same ... (393 words)

Please someone help, I'm scared I'll fall pregnant!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - please somebody, im begging you for urgent help :( im due on my period on the 3rd march, but tonight (23rd) i had sex with my partner and for some stupid reason i had unprotected sex with him - we never do, please don't ask my why :( he didnt pull out in time, and altho w... (124 words)

How to act around him...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Agony Aunt! There's this guy I like,we'll call him *Sam*.His horse is at the same yard as my horse. He's a year younger than me. We'd been flirting for a while. I tried so hard not to give him mixed signals because I knew that if he asked me out I wouldnt go out with him... (158 words)

It's over and I'm so miserable...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I've been reading the stories on here and i know i'm not the only one but i feel so alone I had to move away to find work, i managed to get a great job which i love. the man i work closely with became a very close friend, we share the same values, work ethics, sense of... (307 words)

In love with my gay friend...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in love with my friend (we are both gay men), I met him about 8-9 years ago, on my part it was love at first sight and as I didn't want it to be a one night stand, I decided to get to know him better before 'making my move'....... 9 years later we still are best of friends ... (180 words)

He's not sure if I'm "the one yet" but I'm sure - and ready for marriage.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend (28) and I (24), have been together for almost 3 years. We have not had any major issues, or separated within that time. Aside from the few pet peeves, we get along very well. I have expressed to him that I am ready for marriage and I know that he is "the ... (662 words)

Is this wrong???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just found out that my boyfriends nan and my great nan are sisters. There was a big age gap between them (my great nan being older), she went on to have my grandad and 30 years later my great nans sister had my boyfriends dad (so they are 1st cousins). my grandad then ... (84 words)

Should I keep him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age - I dated my fiance for 1 year before he proposed on Valentines day last year. Since then there has been internet sex flirtations that I found and he agreed that this was over and he'd never do anything like that again. Since then we have purchased a house together --- recently ... (246 words)

How do I go about being friends again without things feeling awkward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok there's this guy that I've like forever and we've been friends forever and it seems that i've liked him forever too. But a friend blabbed a few years ago and now things are really awkward between me and this guy especially as we used to be really good friends and he would ... (272 words)

He's losing weight and I'm less attracted to him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i have been with my partner four 5 years almost, i am attracted to men who are more weighty than slimmer men. when i met him he was slightly over weight and it suited me just fine. now however he is beginning to lose weight and although i do love him, im just not finding... (160 words)

The "pull out" method!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My b/f and me were doing it doggie style and he always pulls out and relieves himself on the outside. Last night he pulled out but then he shot his stuff all over the outside of my privates. I asked him why he did that and he said he gets turned on watching it soak my labia. ... (65 words)

Am I reading into things wrong? Is he into me or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Guys Looking for a bit of advice, sorry if its long winded. Basically I have been good friends with this guy for nearly ten years, and during this time I have been married and divorced, and he is now engaged. It has always (apparently) been obvious that he likes me... (261 words)

Does my ex still want me in spite of our current relationships with other people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Just after some advice really. Known my ex-girlfriend since 2005, split in 2006 because she still had feelings for her ex-boyfriend. However shortly after this we had sex on 2 occasions after a few too many beers Since then I've been married and now divorced and she's realised ... (207 words)

His family doesn't like me and he's obvlious to it. Should I skip the family wedding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help!! His aunty hates me and posted horribly messages to him when she found out we'd split up after a stupid argument (didnt even know what had happened). It sounds stupid but its caused sooo many problems for us because i dont want to be with someone who's family don... (239 words)

I'm back hanging out with my ex, and I still love her. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Right, me and my ex went out for 2 years, the relationship started turning sour and towards the end i started to perform in drink, then in the end i told close friends at a party that i didn’t love her no more and this friend approached her in toilet and told her to her face ... (596 words)

My husband isn't interested sexually in me anymore. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) age - What could be wrong with my husband ,and what am I suppose to do? I;m in my late forties, looking 30 something ,taking care of myself... But my husband just does not care about me,as a sexual being. I m totally frustrated, because I just don't get it. He is healthy, and his ... (130 words)

Can I purchase the pill even though I'm only fifteen?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys im 15 and in a month im 16 and have been with my boyfriend (16 years of age) for over a year. were not planning to have sex until im legal and we have talked about all the precautions. i was just wondering if u could go on the pill/implant a week before your 16. i ta... (98 words)

Do I have a chance with my best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - do i still have a chance with the girl i am in love with even though she considers me her bestfriend... (21 words)

Help! I like my brother's friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, help me on this please. Is it okay to be sexually attracted to and want to date one of my brothers friend? ... (26 words)

He is a great father to our kids and they love him but I cant help but feel like hes settling for me,while desiring someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - when i was just barely 16 my mother and stepfather married for 15 years went through an extremely intense divorce. i went to stay with my biological father and there i met the future father of our 3 beautiful children. for 3 months it was great. i never in a million years did i ... (654 words)

I had a row with my girlfriend... did I do anything wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I recently had a row with My Girlfriend (I still hope) and I was informed that She is using Me. I have no idea if this is true or not. Anyway, I asked to have a chat with Her about it and unfortunately I told Her whilst still visibly upset ended up sayin We need to talk,... (111 words)

How to approach my threesome fantasy again without seeming pushy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - dear cupid i have a fantasy having a threesome with my wife i spoke to her and she willing to do but she hasnt mentioned it again how can i approach the subject again without it looking im pushing the subject ????? ... (52 words)

My hairy arm really embarrass me and I feel that I have to cover them up...will anyone be attracted to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I really need some help. Im 13 and I have really dark and hairy arms and always feel like i have to cover up. I also have never had a boyfirend so I always blame the arms. At school even in the summer when its baking hot i keep my blazer on because i dont want anyone to ... (171 words)

Why is it only the mans biology that's considered when discussing porn in relationships?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so there's lots of questions here about men and porn, and relationships being destroyed over it. But what i'd really like to know here, is why it's only mens feelings and biology considered? So men are more sexually driven than women, they are visual creatures, and ... (379 words)

It makes me nervous for him to touch me ...i dunno if I should let him...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend Fraser are always together at school and we always hug and stuff but he always has his arm around me and touches my arse and touches my tits and tickles my arse too. but i feel nervous when he does it. it may be natural for him to do it but i dunno if i ... (79 words)

Can precum on fingers cause pregnancy through clothing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - If precum (I think it was, it could have been rainwater) soaked very little through my pants and got on my fingers from readjusting myself, and I subsequently went on to rub my girlfriend from outside her panties and pants, is there a possibility for pregnancy? Bear in mind ... (106 words)

Size, growth and virginity?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16 and have a 7.5 inch penis with a 5.5 inch girth/circumference. I know there has been a ton of questions like this asked across the web and I know a lot of them are just people trying to get self gratification, but I feel I must ask my own, genuine question. Fi... (221 words)

How do I go about not acting insecure even if I am?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Please help me i feel like a lost cause anymore... kinda.. anyway ive had a bad string of relationships always the guy getting hurt or cheated on... well im dating a girl now who until about a week ago i thought everything was great... she pretty much left her bf of three years ... (303 words)

I need relationship advice fast. Please ... :(

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 and a half years. We both love eachother but she lies to me so much about such little things for no reason. Well, anyway the big problem is today she said she was going to meet another guy and how she's sleeping with other ... (246 words)

I am in love with him... he is infatuated with another girl in our halls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles, I am in need of some advice on how to cope with my feelings for one of my friends. So basically I moved away to university in September and instantly became friends with this guy, we shall call him 'Ian'. So the two of us instantly became friends and my f... (330 words)

My online guy says he loves me all the time, how can I know he's being sincere?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy I met online. I have met him in person and it's completely amazing how much we get a long. He said he loved me even before we met (talking for a few months, phone webcam) and I kind of took it with grain of salt and then now he ... (211 words)

I still can't accept the fact my ex left me for someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - In know the reason why I can't get over my ex is that he preoccupies my mind. I have tried to to do other stuff, meet people, went on a vacation and spent cash on shopping. But when I am about to sleep and when I wake up, I feel so depressed to think about what he did to me. ... (239 words)

I leant on my lower tummy, do you think my baby is OK?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm 11 weeks pregnant and i stupidly leant on my lower tummy trying to close a window with my feet in the air. I am not a light girl but being healthy now cos of the pregnancy, mind i should have worked on being healthy before but what's done is done. lol. I didnt feel any... (147 words)

Husband's money is controlled by my dominating father-in-law

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5378 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi , i got married after my MIL expired. my husband works with my FIL same co. , after marriage i realised my husband does get to keep any money with him he has to ask his father , even though father is getting pension , it is very annoying,as in our family we are allwd to keep ... (174 words)

Will the tearing of restored hymen hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am sexually active for 1 year with my ex-bf. I told my current bf that I am a virgin and I gone through the hymen restoration surgery 3 months ago. We plan to have sex next week after a party and I worry he will hurt very bad like my first time. Will the tearing of restored ... (68 words)

Should I expect my ex of a year and half to stop talking to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone So my ex an i broke up around Oct. of 09 so about 5 months ago and we had a really bad break up the thing it was like wishy washy he sort of said i cant give you what you need and then i said we should break up he just said okay and after that we still saw eachot... (800 words)

Since I told him I like him I haven't heard from him...please help me, I love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am an english girl, one night my friend sed we was goin out wiv her friend so i sed ok lets go as we never had any plans for that night. so her friend came and it turnt out to be a kurdish man, i was shocked because i had never even spoke to a kurd before and now i was goin ... (175 words)

How do I achieve bigger boobs without surgery?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really want to attract someone I like but I have small boobs and although I know there's nothing wrong with that and so forth, I do want to feel confident and attractive. I would like to boost them a little, make them appear fuller and bigger. Also anything that can ... (54 words)

How do I get his attention when on webcam?

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you appear confident on webcam to the guy you like when deep inside you're a little nervous. Is there any body language such as twirling hair that will grab his attention, and make you seem cute and irresistible. I really like this guy and therefore trying to make the ... (56 words)

How do I achieve big but sexy eyes with eye make up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I achieve big but sexy eyes with eye make up? ... (12 words)

Marriage foundation... confused!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been chatting with a man on a dating site for a while we even discussed marriage. So he soon asked out on a date. But then he told me about a foundation that was helping people to get married and that they would be given money and a place to live. So he told... (107 words)

Will my ex get back with his kid's mom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my bopyfriend are currently seperated but still living together and im 6 weeks pregnant "he knows" . he tells me he doesnt know what he wants. lately probably since nov his kid's mom (they have been sperated for about two years already), has been inviting him to be ... (407 words)

Ex wants to call to catch up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

- Hi Me ex split from me 2 months ago. Since then I have not contacted her at all to try and heal. In that time it was her birthday and i still stayed strong and didn't contact her to say happy birthday Today, i have received an email saying 'i would like to call to chat, it... (129 words)

Should I wait for her to tell me the time is right???

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24 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I want to date my friend's sister and he has no problem about it. After talking to her, she confessed I am her closest male friend but that she is not ready for any serious relationship now. she never gave me a yes or no answers but that she want to gets in to college to ... (185 words)

My friend keeps asking me if certain girls like him. How can I tell him I don't want to talk about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend likes to ask me whenever I see him if so and so girl(s) like him. I keep telling him I don't know, and to go ask them himself. It seems that's what he's constantly talking about and it bothers me. I always change the subject and let it drop, but then he brings it up ... (75 words)

I want to do my own thing occasionally, how do I explain this to my girlfriend so she can keep herself happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My Girlfriend wont let me go away for a couple of weeks without getting very upset. I've been going out with my girlfriend nearly a year and a half. Last year I had to go to South Korea to work for a year, my Girlfirend came to visit for 4 months and we spoke for a few hours ... (310 words)

I like my best friend and want to tell him before I move. How should I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm moving soon, and I like my best friend. I want to tell him, but I don't know how he'll react and I don't want to ruin our relationship. People tease us about it, so I'm sure he knows that I like him. Should I tell him before I move or just write him a letter and give it to ... (67 words)

Can I get braces on an Irish medical card?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im sorry i didnt know where else to post this, i'm appealing to Irish people or others who know about the Irish medical card, Before i get into this i just want to say to all of those who will answer go to the dentist, my parents both lost their jobs and money is quite tight ... (101 words)

Please help me before I do something I regret! I'm sure he has cheated and it is driving me crazy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for about 2 years now,everything has been going very well.We loved each other like crazy,beginning of this year 2010.I started noticing my husband started to act very strange e.g when we are going to bed he will switch of his phone or put it on silent and he ... (385 words)

Why am I sabotaging my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, I'm in a wonderful relationship, so good in fact we are getting married later this year. My problem is that recently i have been feeling down and feel that my girlfriend no longer wants me. It has got that bad that i'm now feeling angry, accusing her of cheating and g... (99 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend and we want to work it out but don't know how to rebuild the trust

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - alright, my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months now and he lives two states away. today i told him that i had cheated on him and i was wrong, yes. i want more than anything to take it back and that i was very sorry. he was extremely angry but never once raise... (191 words)

Should I leave my husband so I can be happy with the friend I have been in love with for years, or stay in order to keep my family together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband of 4 yrs had an affair with my little sister but i really do love him and we have 3 beautiful kids.On the other hand my best friend of 5 yrs told me hes tired of watching me hurt and he has always loved me just too scared that if he told me he would lose me all ... (116 words)

Loveless marriage - stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have posted previously on my situation and I have tried to stick it out but have reached the end of my tether. My wife and I are less than 2 years married and have an 18 month daughter and she is 7 months pregnant. Our marriage has become loveless - there is no love, ... (685 words)

Does dating a guy from a different school work out?

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts, A couple of day of go, I met this guy named Oscar. He's dominican and we both speak spanish. He's so adorable and I love the way his face lights up whenever he smiles. We go to different schools though, but we live right next to each other and he's absolut... (92 words)

On day 16 of my cycle, I took my pill a few hours late. Was that gap big enough for me to possibly end up pregnant?

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I started taking my BC pill--Ortho Tri Nessa--at the end of November '09. My BF and I started having sex in the 3rd week of January '10. At the end of January, my period was very light. When I was on this pill before, I never noticed any changes with my period but I did... (271 words)

I feel like a fool because I keep trying to make this work and when I do she doesn't try at all

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24 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, In summer of 2009 i met the girl i believed would be my future wife.i had just gotten out of a 1 year long distance relationship and for some reason when i met this girl, all of the remaining feelings for my ex had vanished. Conversation was exchanged and ev... (545 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend that his extra weight is killing our sex life?

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - We've been friends for 3yrs, and recently hooked up. We've just completed 1yr together and expecting a child in 3mths. Along with my belly bump, he's gained weight. I'm normally 115lbs, 5'3, I know my belly will go after the baby's born(already a mom).But what do I do about ... (152 words)

Should cheaters get a second chance?

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out my boyfriend cheated on me because I checked his email. He has since then apologized, said he really wants to be with me, and has treated me much better like when we first started dating. (I knew something was different when he was with the other girl). I never, ... (116 words)

Is it worth pursuing a girl that's not over her ex?

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24 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I know it's a general rule of thumb that pursuing a girl that is not ENTIRELY over her ex is a big no no, but I've ran into a rather precarious situation. I met this girl about 3 weeks ago and we've been talking steadily everyday online via IM for those 3 weeks. She seems ... (282 words)

I feel as if I never got to tell my side of the story, what do I do for the best?

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24 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have this "ex" we ended on bad terms, not that I had anything to do with it, yes seriously. It happened 17 years ago in High School, I really liked her... a lot. Well I got into some trouble at school and got suspended. While I was suspended, this other girl beat the pi... (267 words)

Wife went down on old man just to come to the USA....

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24 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I love my wife, but now I just found out that my wife sucked the d__k of a 59 year old man in order to get a VISA to come the final time to the USA, the time that she met me and married me! I knew she wasn't a virgin, but I'm caught up on two things... the age difference s... (129 words)

I have a long distance guy who I've been talking to for months, but now another guy wants to date me

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been talking to this guy for about three months now. We are three hours from each other, and used to talk everyday at the beginning. I have recently met this guy who wants to go on a date, and I dont know what to do. ... (48 words)

What does female ejaculate taste like?

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24 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - just wondering but what does female ejaculate taste like? i mean i can go down on my girlfriend and the taatse wont bother me but somwtimees after fingerin and eating her i will go back down and the tatse will be unbarable lol why?... (44 words)

I'm fed up of waiting and believing his promises, so much so that I slept with another man

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24 February 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I have a live-in partner for almost 3yrs. he is a married man but they are separated. he has 1 son on his wife and 1 son on me. since of our being together i always helped him to support his child on his wife, i gave him money for the needs of their baby. when i got pregnant i ... (239 words)

I hooked up with his cousin 2 years ago and now my boyfriend cant get over it!

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - okay, so i need help! i've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now, he's everything to me. well about 2 months ago he was talking about his cousin and then showed me a picture of him.. turns out, i hooked up with his cousin like 2 years ago!! at the time i didn't react to it ... (201 words)

Was he joking or was he serious?

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost five months, and to this point we have had a very slow paced relationship. but last night, we were texting and he started talking about sexual topics, at first he kept putting jk or saying just playing at the end of every text. but ... (130 words)

Would you take this as a compliment?

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Would you take this as a compliment? I don't, but I hear it all of the time. It goes along the lines of: "I like you because you make things easy/You're so easy" (please don't infer a sexual overtone here). I think I've heard this from almost half of the people I've gott... (270 words)

How do I stop the desire to go further-or at least tame it?

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunties, I have yet another question: my bf and I have been together 10 months of the past year and a half, on and off. Since we last got back together it's been more than 4 months--a record for us (I'm afraid of long-term relationships, I guess, and for high school, ... (268 words)

What can I do to cheer her up and make her laugh or smile?

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24 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend been sad for about a day now, and I've tried many possible way to make her smile and laugh but It just doesn't seem to work. She seem to always be down and she seem to always be sad. The way she talks to me tell me that something in her mind is really bothering ... (177 words)

I'm worried that when it comes to having sex I will just be really clumsy and inexperienced!

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there this is really embarrassing but i don't really know what else to do. Basically i'm a 20 year old virgin, and this is totally out of choice. I have been extremely picky in the past, and to be honest a bit of a prude. I'm not ugly, and i do get loads of male attentio... (228 words)

A miserable and unwanted desperate wife

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been married for close to four yrs, and am very disappointed in my marriage. Since the beginning I have so miserable with my husband. We have the same age (26 yrs). My husband is a very explosive with a bad temper. When he gets mad the first he tells me is that ... (407 words)

Is there an amount of time I should wait for his pain to subside?

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I really appreciate all the advice and answers that have been given. I have one more question to ask the men. If your wife slept with someone else while you while separated from each other. Could you take her back if she had changed? I made a lot of mistakes before he left and ... (198 words)

Pubic hair problems, help!

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, im 14 and i already have a bunch (not a whole freakin forest) of pubic hair. it kinda worries me for 3 reasons, one im scared when i start having sex guys will see it and be disgusted by it, two because i do not know what to do with it, and three, i have it in places i ... (162 words)

How do I get to know her better and get her to like me too?

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24 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i really like a girl at my school, but i dont know her very well. shes no friends with any of my close friends, but i can tell we have a lot in common and she is the best for me out of anyone. please give me some advice for getting to know her better, and eventually getting her ... (63 words)

I'm not ready to kiss him yet, how do I show him how I feel without making it too awkward?

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and he's 15. We go to different school and I've really only seen him 5 times. We have a lot of mutual friends that we do hang out with. When he did ask me out, he tried to kiss me. I told him not today, but I have a feeling that the next time I see him, he will try ... (139 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend that I keep having moments where I really want to get pregnant?

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i have been having some moments where out of the clear blue sky i want to get pregnant and then i snap back to normal. should i tell my boyfriend about this or should i let it go and forget about it?... (43 words)

My friend flirts with my girlfriend!

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24 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have problem. I have a girlfriend and a friend that used to like each other a lot. We all go to the same school. When they liked each other they flirted a lot and talked about everything with each other. They both also had a boyfriend and a girlfriend. That went to other ... (317 words)

Should I tell my friend that I have feelings for her old crush?

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I’m really sorry if you get confused by this but I would really appreciate any help! I started a new school for my A-levels in September and I have a friend who is a couple of years below me who also goes to the school called Amy and we are quite good friends. A little w... (328 words)

She's giving off signals that she likes me, but always uses the same excuse that she doesn't want to ruin our friendship

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24 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've got a huge lot of confusion. I've been extremely close friends with this girl I've known since we were 3 and I've always had a major crush on her. I asked her out when I was 14 and she said she didn't want to ruin the friendship....that's fine......but for the past year or ... (187 words)

Can a store refuse to sell condoms to minors?

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - can a store refuse to sell condoms to minors, just curious, me and my friends were just wondering. is it against the law??... (24 words)

What does this mean and what should I do?

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there. Ok so there is this guy who has been looking at me a lot in the beginning of the school year and all my friends told me that he might like me and i should give him a chance. I didnt think too much of him but all of a sudden, i started having this thing for him. ... (161 words)

Help, I don't love my wife but can see no way out.

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24 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Please help me, I'm in despair. Im 35 years old and married to a woman I can not stand. We have 2 children aged 5 and 3 and have been together for 8 years. We are not compatable at all, I am sociable, she is not, I am fun, she is forever serious. I no longer love her, to ... (311 words)

How do I tell her we are dating? And what do I do if she's not okay with it?

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a sophomore in college. At the beginning of my freshman year I met this guy who was cute and really easy to talk to, there was obviously chemistry between us but we both had significant others at the time. We kind of fell out of touch because of some mutual friend drama. ... (281 words)

She wants to talk tonight....what should I say to her?

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24 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i have been on a break for a week and a half. She is the one who wanted to break up for a while. I havent been texting her or calling her lately and today she said it feels like i fell off the face of the earth. She said that she wants to talk tonight. I want ... (73 words)

Is he cheating or am I being paranoid?

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So lately I have not been feeling very good about my boyfriends and my relationship. I feel like crying.and also I have a weird feeling that he is cheating on me. Because last week he left work and went to wendys to get some food and he ordered two meals with two different ... (203 words)

I love my girlfriend but I can't see her...

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24 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I'm 13 and I've always felt like no one's liked me in that special way... I recently found out that my crush likes me back, so I asked her out. It's been almost 2 months now and I couldn't be happier. She says she's crazy about me and I am too. But we're in different ... (103 words)

I'm not getting any pleasure from sex! Is it me or is it him?

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24 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, basically ive been with this gorgeous guy for 7 months and ive started having sex with him...it was both our first's and so it was really important to me. We have been doing it for 3 months now, but im still getting nothing out of it! Im not turned off by him, Im just ... (82 words)