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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I make oral sex more comfortable for me and enjoyable for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, this is a bit of a weird question but my boyfriend loves me to give him head, and i love pleasing him, but he has quite a wide penis and i wondered if there are any ways to make it more enjoyable for me? my jaw aches after a while.. and also i love to deepthroat for him ... (150 words)

I had an emotional affair and my wife still won't get over it. Is there anything more I can do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

17 February 2010 (M)

age - I had an emotional affair with a work colleague. My wife just WON'T let it go. I have reassured her that I've never loved anyone but her but she won't believe me. I've booked for lunch tomorrow but I sense from her attitude tonight that it will be yet another disaster. She ha... (190 words)

Could our different experiences in dating cause big problems down the road?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm very interested in a 23 year old guy who hasn't had a girlfriend before... and I'm 24 and have been dating for nearly 8 years. There are a few things that concern me about us and I'd love your thoughts on any of them: - would he likely be put off or intimidated by h... (211 words)

What does he really mean when he says that he values our friendship too much to be in a relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why would a guy want to keep you as their best friend, so they do not ruin what they have with you? Is it that they just do not want to have a relationship with you, or that they are not ready or, that they value you too much to lose you from their life? What motivates a ... (73 words)

His sexual past makes me feel used. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I'm upset because my 18 year old boyfriend isn't a virgin and he was my first. Just 4 months ago was when I lost my virginity to him and well....... He was 10 years old when he lost his...... And I'm the 6th girl he had sex with that I know of.... And out of them 6 girls ... (216 words)

He's married, but I want to be friends. Should we be friends anyway?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I know a married man who is interested in me. I am an Asian girl and have known this guy for a few years. We get on well and it is only recently that we have been in touch via text messages, occasional calls and meeting up for brief chats whenever possible. I am 24 and he is ... (169 words)

Should I stay with my boyfriend or try and date the new guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a guy for about 2 months. There is something about him I just don't click with. I don't feel the same way with him that I have with other guys I have dated, even in the same time period. He is older than me by 8 years, I'm 21 he is 29. I really don't think that ... (471 words)

He isn't saying the 'L' word, and now I'm starting to get worried. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a little confused at the moment and would love some input from those of you who've been in long term relationships. I've been with my BF for about 6 months. At first I wasn't sure where I wanted things to go so I never worried about the future and what would happen. La... (370 words)

Does this guy I met online sound like he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy on a dating site 2months ago..we've txtd and chatted on msn since. my problem is i really like him..even though i dont know him well. this was our last convo on msn earlier today. HIM: can we meet and some point this lifetime? ME: hahaha..maybe ano... (150 words)

Are these signs just circumstantial or could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this might be a stupid question but I would honestly like some opinions on this matter before I spend $10. I haven't had sex since about mid-January and I started on birth control about a week after my boyfriend left for university again. Yes, we used a condom (only a ... (236 words)

My girlfriend cheated on me with a stripper?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

17 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear All ... I have only just discovered what happened and Im devistated , my wonderful g/f of 4 Years ( well I used to think wonderful ) Went to a really " out there " Hens Night for the bride to be , It was in the city where there is much entertainment , however they had ... (198 words)

Is he interested or just nice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so here it goes. I have a crush on this guy from school, who is in two of my classes.(Yes, I know it seems juvenile for me to ask this since I am a college student, but please bare with me). Okay well, I had seen him several times on campus before and I even had a class... (1119 words)

Should I tell my girlfriend that I told her secret?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hey.. i broke up with my girlfreind about 4 weeks ago, she had been sexually abused in the past and it has affected her trust in people. anyway i took the break up bad, i kept things in for two weeks and then confided everything (including the sexual abuse) to a freind, the ... (163 words)

He has known me for a year, now how do I get him to like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help... How do i win a mans heart that ive been talking to for the past year? he likes me and feels for me but he wont commit to me. Men i need your help please give me advice. i know im attractive, sweet, fun, polite, caring, interesting, and would do anything for him. ... (79 words)

Does she really just want to be my friend or is she playing games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

17 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - What is she thinking? The woman I had an emotional affair with contacted me again after I told her that for my girlfriend's sake, I wouldn't be spending any time with her or emailing with her. I thought I was completely over her with her out of my life, but with one ema... (435 words)

My life is miserable now. Will I ever be happy again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Will ever be happy? 18 just finished school all my 'friends' are in college and having fun my parents cant afford to put me through school. soon i'm not doing anything with my life and on top of that i'm i'm ugly,fat and have a small penis and i've never had a girlfriend. ... (53 words)

Lied about my identity but found the man of my dreams!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Used a fake name and picture. At first it was just a fun account that my friend created and then I started to develop feelings for this guy. It went on for a few months and I finally had to come clean to him because I was falling in love with him and couldn’t hurt him any ... (853 words)

He's great but I just can't cum. Is it me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a week now. We have been best friends for a year and a half so things have moved pretty quickly as we trust each other and care about each other alot! we also live together so we see each other all the time (but also give ourselves ... (239 words)

I want to share my bed, but don't want it to come off as I planned it this way.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Right, this may seem like a slightly trival question but basically I've got a couple of mates coming over this weekend to stay at my 1 bedroom flat. One is a bloke and the other is a girl. The girl and I have had this thing for a while and there's clearly alot of sexual tension ... (218 words)

Who out there has been betrayed by a person yet you still want sex and love him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - OK, so here is my dilemma. I live with my boyfriend of 9 years. He works as an over the road truck driver so he doesn't come home often. I have a 3 year old son with him. But found out a year ago that he has also been with someone else in another state. They have many things ... (282 words)

Have any of you girls out there had a pregnancy scare?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

17 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a question for any girls / women out there have you ever felt you were pregnant, if so before you found out if you were or not, how did you feel, what could of the man / boy have done to make things better for you? what did you think? X thank you X... (56 words)

Will taking a birth control pill after unprotected sex help prevent pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just started back taking my birth control pills this past sunday night. Me and my boyfriend had sex but the condom broke even and he didn't ejaculate in me. I had already taken one of my birth control pills a few hours before we had sex. The next day Monday I took two birth ... (108 words)

I get too nervous when it comes to sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im just gonna get straight into it, i dont no why but i am so nervous wen it comes 2 sex!!even as a young teen i never really experemented kissing was the height of it, im not a virgin now but i've only been wit one guy like 3 r 4 times n he's the only one i've ever done ... (259 words)

How can I manage this difficult team at work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age - This question is more a problem at work than personal relationships. I am a manager in education. Lately my staff have been bleeding the sickness procedures and I have been becoming quite annoyed about it. I had one staff member with suspected swine flu - no cough or runn... (335 words)

Why won't he take me somewhere romantic to have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my bf have been dating for about a year and i had never had sex before i met him as i had strong views about it. I always wanted it to be somewhere romantic like a nice hotel room where we could both relax and enjoy the time together all day and night. This didnt happen ... (197 words)

His penis won't stay in!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, this is to anyone who can help. I have recently started dating a new guy and we have had sex twice and had a problem. When he first inserts his penis for what feels like 10 mins it just wont stay in. He was on top and when we got going we managed to go the whole way. It is ... (82 words)

He claims he loves me but won't leave his long distance girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - It's been just over a year since I found out the guy I was dating had a girlfriend. We had gotten pretty serious, exchanged the I love you's etc. Then, one night I stopped by unexpectedly and caught him on the phone with this woman. She does not live in our city, or even our ... (713 words)

My boyfriend won't make eye contact during sex. Any guy's opinions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf used to eye connect with me atleast once during sex now its like everytime i try to get that one connection he closes his eyes or puts his face on the side of mine. i have alot of different thoughts to what this might mean, but i want to her from the guys. men if youve ... (101 words)

He flirts with my best friend! How can I deal with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How do i stop being jealous of my ex boyfriend flirting with my bestfriend?... (14 words)

She was more into me in the beginning and now the tables have turned!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey me and my girl have been goin out for 1 year and 7months now and in the beggining she made me feel as If I was her world.She actually told me I was her second proirity in life.she used to be so jealous for me (cute jealousy) and alwayz accused me of cheating,and always ... (103 words)

Boyfriend spent more on his ex than on me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hello I was wondering if someone can help me. My bf had an ex who he was with two years and he spent over thirthy thougsand pounds on her to make her happy and he doesnt spend that much on me...does that mean he doesnt love me as much? He spent money giving her all the thin... (115 words)

Just some advice on pregnancy for school project.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - now i have a question, its not for my self, it not real, its honestly 4 a project. but im afraid to ask my mom for help cuz she tends to period about these kinds of things so i thought id try hear first. is it true that women can bleed 6 days after conscription? and dose it ... (95 words)

Is my ex boyfriend over me? Or is he just acting like it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me last Friday, and we decided to still be friends (even though I still have feelings for him) and I've tried talking to him about what went wrong and talking about the good times we had in the beginning. But he's told me to move on and let it go. I'm ... (262 words)

She's been with some of my friends and it's bothering me! How can I move on from this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have found the woman of my dreams...unfortunately she found my friends first. Before my girlfriend and I got together she had hooked up with several people close to my everyday life. Joe* my roommate(who is in my fraternity), Mike* my downstairs neighbor(who is also in my ... (229 words)

How can I calm my nerves around him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I posted a question recently, regarding a guy who i wasnt sure how to move things forward with or how he feels about me. This has changed, having had a deep conversation last night we talked about what we each look for in a relationship. We expressed how we felt about each oth... (179 words)

Should we take some time apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Question: Should we take some time apart? My boyfriend is wonderful and I love so much about him, however I also despise a lot about him. I often believe that I am just being petty because I am a little older and I am more "particular". I also believe that I am just noticing ... (268 words)

My boyfriend ignored me for a couple of days and then contacted me.. what's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya I have been going out with my bf for 4 years now and it feels like lately he is not interested. When we are together we are fine and he is really lovely to me but when he goes home to his mothers he ignore me for a couple of days and then rings me with an excuse like his ... (294 words)

My penis is growing, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

17 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello ladies and gentlemen, I'm kinda emberassed to ask this but my penis is getting large day by day and certainly i haven't take any pills to get it enlarged but i wonder if this is a deases or is it something that has to do with me? It's really frustrating because i barely ... (146 words)

How do I make my boyfriend understand that this is still affecting me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Firstly apologies for what will appear to be a long and confusing story. I am 20 years old, my boyfriend is 22 and we met at university, we live apart as I am still there and he has graduated and works full time. We’ve been together for 14 months. Next year I have to go abroa... (628 words)

Have a new boyfriend but now my ex is back in the picture! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well it all really started last year. i finally got my first boyfriend. things were going great until summer came around. one day me and him went to the beach for our friends' birthday party. well the whole time we were there we got to tlk like twice cause he was way too busy ... (265 words)

How do you break up with someone you don't want to hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am with a guy that I love so much, but he is 22 and im 23 and he has so much to learn about relationships and is so immature when it comes to certain things. Hes selfish in bed, we have never been on a date (we also live together)he doesn't make much money, all he does is ... (153 words)

She moves very fast...should I run?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

17 February 2010 (?) age 41-50 - So... I met this girl online on a dating chat site. The kind where you have your own avatar and walk around a virtual world and etc. We have been together on this site for about... 2 weeks give or take. spending upwards of 8 hours a day with each other. She's amazing in ... (229 words)

How to set it straight to a man who is overly sexual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy online. He's going through divorce. His divorce isn't finalized yet. He's a US citizen but has international business in Filipine. He came to CA to visit me and took me to Seattle for a week. We did make out, but didn't have sex. When I came back to CA we talk ... (572 words)

Boyfriend can't perform in bed as good as he thinks he can.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

17 February 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I just started having sex very recently.My Boyfriend and I have had sex a couple times and everytime it was bad. I cheated on him with a friend who I asked to teach me how to ride and perform fellatio and some other basic positions and the sex was amazing,we did this twice. ... (197 words)

Should I take her back after all she put me through?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

17 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, this is a long story but here it goes. I met this girl almost a year ago (we were both 20 years old) and we became really great friends for 4 months. I ended up asking her out and we hit it off after a slow start. She ended up telling me she had been raped twice in her ... (501 words)

I'm pregnant and just found out my husband have been cheating for two years!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for almost 7 years and I am 8 months pregnant. We have two daughters and a baby boy on the way. Three months into my pregnancy I found out my husband has been having an affair with a co-worker for two years. She is almost 20 years younger than him. I am ... (194 words)

GF cheated - kick her to the curb, am I over-reacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am so hurt right now. My GF cheated on me and the guy she cheated with has pictures of the event. Even more embarrassing and adding insult to injury is the fact that she let him take her anally, which she has never allowed me to do even though I have asked several times bu... (247 words)

Why is it that women, more often than men, still have "friendships" with their ex boyfriends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all. I need some point of views from the ladies to really understand my girlfriend. We are constantly at each others throats...Here is the topic and I want to get everyone's point of view on the matter. Why is it that women, more often than men, still have "friendship... (863 words)

How soon is it too soon to have sex??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - how soon is it too for non virgin to have sex with a guy you just met?? when you want a relationship+sex and not just sex, so the guy would not think ur easy. oh and if guys like girls who makes them, wait, then why do they always ask for sex and gets moody when the... (95 words)

My Prince Charming says he'll only stay with me if I give our baby up for adoption.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i am 18 years old, i am having a baby, i am 17weeks today, me and the father are together but he says he will be with and stay with me if i give the baby up for adoption, and if i keep it he will leave, I am stuck in a rut and im not sure what to do, i look at it if i give ... (161 words)

Am I financially looking after my ex?? My new partner seems to think so!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am seperated and filing for divorce. I left over 2 years ago. I have numerous assets in many forms. I have numerous trusts. The family home is in a trust. I had built a small fortune while with my soon to be ex wife. I have been trying to get a deal done for these 2 year... (336 words)

She had sex with other guys while we were broken up! This bothers me! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

17 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - About six months ago, I broke up with my fiance, high school sweeheart and first girlfriend. A couple of months later, we still weren't talking and I missed her as a friend but was too stubborn to admit it. I then got into a bad relationship with another girl which I broke ... (147 words)

I'm scared my insecurities will ruin my relationship, how can I overcome this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i am 19 years old and i have just found the most perfect guy for me, i have never felt like this before and i know he is the one for me. i have completely forgotten that other attractive guys exist because i only have eyes for him. however, i get very paranoid whe... (254 words)

Am I labelling myself right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 an i have been using the term bisexual but recently realized that that term may be wrong. I date girls and guys and like both romantically but i dont want sex with either one. I have had sex with a guy but i didnt really care either way for it. I really dont want a ... (74 words)

How do I tell him that this has hurt my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. Due to a compulsory year abroad as part of my uni course we have been in a long-distance relationship since October. I thought so long about whether I should go or not because I knew I would find it hard without him. Even ... (320 words)

Does a relationship goes with money or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, i have a problem. there is one girl. am older than her. am 23 and she's 18. we met on the internet. we are planning to see each other. we supposed to see each other on valentine day but she disappointed me. when am calling her, she's not picking my call about ... (288 words)

I don't enjoy sex anymore, will this cause problems in my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I need help sometimes if I'm having sex with my lover I don't anything and I thing that will cause problems into our relationship I don't know what to do... (34 words)

Catholic girls are supposed to be saints, but I have ended up getting pregnant at 15

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im 15 and pregnant.. But Im also Bi.. but Idk what I should do.. because I was raised to be a Catholic girl... Catholics are supposed to be "saints". I need advise, but dont need to be judged.. Please help?... (41 words)

Why has he started talking to me again all of a sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What would make someone that you like start talking to you again? He wasn’t talking to me online for a long time he wouldn’t text or talk to me on any social network. I haven’t did much in that time I only gave him a present for Christmas and gave him a hug on my birthday? Do ... (182 words)

There is a chance my girlfriend could be pregnant, is there anything I can do or say to help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

17 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this girl and she thinks she might be pregnant, I did what i thought was right and reminded her that I love her and that no matter what happens i will be there for her, is there anything I can do or say to help? she says i keep reminding her of the situation ... (92 words)

Do I go to the American embassy to get the ball rolling in plans to migrate to NY from the UK

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Who do i go to help me get the ball rolling with plans to migrate to new york. The American embassy? i have no idea how to set up accommodation there what to do job wise i just know that that is where i want to live! i'm 18 and i would like to be living there by the time i'm ... (192 words)

He told me he just wants to get laid and not have to work for it! Should I leave him to find someone better suited to me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I have been dating a 22yr old guy now for about 7-8months and I am 23. Our sex life had not been very exciting so I finally got the courage to bring it to his attention recently. He only ever is either on top of me or me on top of him, those seem to be the only positions ... (312 words)

Am I just fooling myself trying to believe that he is not cheating?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 5 years. Husband is from a different counrty and speaks excellent english. We have had a great relationship I thought. I have been back and forth from the US to his country and last year when i returned to his country, I found a condom in his wallet and ... (313 words)

I hate my surname! Is there any solution to this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this problem is lighthearted compared to some of the other stuff people are going through, but it's been bugging me for a long time. I can accpet an honest answer but please don't judge me as shallow. I love my family, but I absolutely hate, hate, HATE my full nam... (1208 words)

Does he find me sexy or is he only touching me because he would feel bad turning me down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The other day i went cinema with a group of friends i sat next to my ex, we flirt with each other but he's a bit hesitant and says he would never want to take advantage of me so he pulls back sometimes. Theres nothing wrong with friends flirting he says. In the cinema my hand ... (313 words)

My boyfriend has caught me flirting online, and now he hasn't spoke to me for over a month!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age - question to the guys. my boyfriend of four years has caught me flirting online. its not the first time and we always broke up because of it. i never cheated i did it for a laugh when he was at work,i did text them but never met any. i denied it and used to convince him. this ... (98 words)

Now my husband has lost weight I cant help but be turned off by him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

17 February 2010 (?) age 36-40 - okay, my husband starting working out again but only after I got some diet pills to loose weight. It really bugs me that he has lost more weight than me and built more muscle. He has always been on the thicker side since we got married and I loved that about him. I told him I ... (96 words)

I'm being told too many different things about feeding my baby and I'm worried I'm doing it wrong! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i need some advice, i had a baby 4weeks ago, my partner already has a child and i was worried about him saying "your doing this wrong" but instead its everyone else and im feeling mega depressed and a failure. i had to have a c-section and my baby was full of mucus, i was ... (295 words)

What are the chances of me becoming pregnant by this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm concerned about whether or not I might be pregnant. I've done some research but I wanted other's opinions. My boyfriend and I haven't had sex in a while, and I know I'm not pregnant from the last time we had sex, as I've been ill and had a routine pregnancy test at the ... (131 words)

How can I practice being ontop?

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17 February 2010 (F)

- IS there any way that i can practice being on top without actually doing it and making a fool of myself?? I usually try it when I'm drunk however when I'm sober i usually want to do it but I'm so frightened of messing it up and my boyfriend just thinking this girl doesn't hav... (63 words)

How do I feel less shy when it comes to having sex?

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17 February 2010 (F)

- i started seeing this guy about 2 months ago and i just feel so shy when it comes to having sex with him and i don't know why. I have had quite a few one night stands with different guys and i always thought that i knew how to get what i wanted in bed. But not with this guy. ... (169 words)

How do I accept my gf's promiscuous past if I've only been with her?

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17 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've seen a few questions on here that are similar to mine, but I think mine has a special little twist on it. My girlfriend, whom I've been with for 6 years, has a very promiscuous past. Around 40 - 50, she can't remember exactly. And before her and I got together, I was a ... (318 words)

University break ups?

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there Recently me and my boyfriend, of about 2 years, talked about what we were going to do for university,even though its about a year away from him actually going. we will be going to separate universities. He says that he wants us to break up when he goes because ... (247 words)

Is there something wrong with the shape of my penis?

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17 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hey everyone Im 15 and i have a... Different penis Its not like a banana like other guys and its not straight it almost looks like someones twisted it around It doesent stick out forward but kind of points to my left ear :s is there something wrong with me?... (53 words)

It hurts knowing she doesn't feel the same way anymore and probably never will again. What should I do?

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17 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl that I've had a crush on for a long time. She knows I like her (and basically all our mutual friends), and for a brief time she liked me (I wasn't aware of this until it was too late) but I was too nervous to ask her out. She's one of my closest friends and ... (127 words)

L love him but I think he is seeing someone else

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - l love my boyfriend so much l feel as if he is seeing someone else he can take a week or two with out seeing me but if l ask him he keep on saying he loves me and he not seeing anyone else ... (44 words)

Why would they label me a stalker?

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17 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My nickname is Rocco I have talk to this girl and she labeled me a stalker the other day, meet her on myspace and we talked I got her digits and we would text I told her my school situation and she cracked a joke but then it was like we would text everyday to every few days... (96 words)

Does this sound like the personality of a control freak, or a pathological liar?

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. I would really appreciate you helping me play psychologist here. I'm going to tell you about the guy I've been with for the past four years and I'd appreciate your thoughts on what you think about his characteristics, why he does what he does and what kind of ... (918 words)

This is the last thing I want...but I feel jealous of his 3 year old daughter!

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I NEED HELP!!!! Seriously!! ok, im 21, and my bf is 23 Ok im gonna try n not make this too long.. But My situaton, me and my fiance are getting married next year, and we currently just got house together and its me, him and his 3 year old daughter.... i guess you can say befo... (467 words)

Sex tips and techniques for a less endowed guy?

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17 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Guess you can see from the title, I'm kinda worried that I won't be able to really satisfy my girl 'cause I'm not really endowed down there - and I'm actually still a virgin so I've got no real experience going into my first time. Anyway, I'm fully aware of the "size doesn'... (168 words)

She has made me feel like some sort of sex maniac just because my penis touched her!

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17 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I was hanging out with my girlfriend of a couple of years watching some TV. She asked me to give her a massage. This is kind of a turn on for me, I admit. She pointed out something on TV, I wasnt' paying attention so I leaned forward. When I did so, my penis touched her ... (237 words)

I know she has feelings for me too but she has a boyfriend!

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17 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi I wrote last night , title:I'm ashamed of myself for wanting to steal another man's girlfriend, but I cant help feeling this way! too clarify I am not trying too use her to stop my drinking problem. she knows I have a drinking problem and has helped me too slow down my ... (319 words)

The girl I love thinks I am a cheat!

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17 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, i am 23 age boy who have a complicated life with my girl. anyone have idea please please tell me. I saw a girl who's looking good, homely character and i fall in love with her. She is the girl who is friend of my girl friend. And actually i saw the girl(lover) in m... (432 words)

My boyfriend wants to watch a sex video of his friend, is this bad or not?

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i m in a long distance and committed relationship.recently i and my bf were chatting through sms and when we were talking,he was telling me that how he knows some guys who cheat their gf by keeping hidden cameras and taking video and selling them.i said its really bad..and hope ... (123 words)

He came to my work to ask me out but I was not there, now I cant stop thinking about him!

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there a few days ago this Guy showed up at my work place to deliver documents, that I received.Later that day on my Lunch time he came back to ask me out on a date but no knew were I was and so he left. Now the problem is he did not leave his contact details for me to call ... (80 words)

Drop everything and go for love, or work out what is already there...

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17 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone, im kinda stuck in a situation that almost everyone one here can relate to on either side. Ive been together with my wife for 6 years now and have been married for a little over a year now. We have gone though tough times and I have done things that I may not ... (595 words)

I just want to change his feelings towards me and make him stop cheating

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - the guy i have been messing with for 7 months has finally asked me out.but i really think he has another girl on the side.but i really want him to love me and be faithful.i dont know how to make him feel that way.i want to make him jealous without him calling me a whore or a ... (108 words)

Curious about moral convictions on sex....

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Curious about moral convictions on sex. I was raised Christian, and sex outside of marriage is a sin--period. What are others' thoughts? Thanks so much! --GG... (32 words)

I slept with over 30 women to try and find vengance, but it never came! Now I am trapped in a loveless marriage but I don't want to start a new family

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17 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, so this is my story. I am on separation. Have been married for the past eight years. Not that I wanted to spend the eight years with my wife but thats what counsellors would tell me to forgive and accept my wife after she lied to me about her previous life prior to our ... (238 words)

Is there any way to make giving head easier?

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some input from the more experienced. Well I've been with my boyfriend for about four months now and I love him very much. We waited two months to have sex, I am 17, and he's 18. {Trust me two months is a long time for people our age now adays} Well my question is,... (160 words)

How can I get over someone that great? Will I ever find someone better?

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17 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. For a while now I've been struggling after my first love broke up with me. It was a two year long relationship that was undoubtedly amazing. However, I made a horrible mistake and was unfaithful. After I told her, we both cried all night, and for the next three ... (337 words)

Is my mum right - should he grow up and provide?

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there. My boyfriend is 35 and I am 26. My mother doesn't think he's good enough for me, for very old fashioned reasons. Now I'm beginning to think she's right. Or am I being shallow? My boyfriend worked but kept dead end jobs until he was 30, because he wanted to be ... (568 words)

I feel like I am second best to his ex!

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am engaged. We have been friends for several years, but always had a thing for each other. He was with his ex... and I was with mine for about 4 years, but we remained friends throughout that whole time. My fiance ended his relationship with his ex, and i ended mine. ... (183 words)

How do you get over losing the only person you have ever been with who made you feel comforted just by sleeping next to you?

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - how can one reconcile with losing the only one they've ever been with who they felt unquestionably comforted by the act of sleeping next to? maybe that seems like a silly question to you, but the loss is a big deal to me and i don't know if i'll ever find something that felt ... (81 words)

I've got to wait 2 months to make out with her, how do I clear my mind as this is torture for me!

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17 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - A girl i like i teased and promised i would kiss/make out with her on near her bday. Well im liking the idea and its as much torture for me as for her, what do i do to clear my mind for 2 months?... (44 words)

I need some advice on how to end this nightmare

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17 February 2010 (F)

age - I am in a bad spot in my life right now. Everything seems to be going wrong in every direction. I am divorced over 45 and not happy. I started seeing someone who what it thought was getting out of his marriage but over 2 years later he still hasent. I am trying so hard to end ... (100 words)

Why do I "feel" pregnant?

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time just after christmas, and the condom broke we tried having sex again and the condom broke a second time, he never came in me and we stopped right away, but i have been getting all the symptoms of being pregnant, i got my period ... (90 words)

Lately it feels like we are drifting apart and I have no idea what is going on with him

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together so long that I really can't imagine life without him. He feels the same way and we've somehow managed to stay together going to two separate colleges for the last two years. Lately, though, it seems like we're drifting apart. We used to ... (206 words)

Why is my friend ignoring me?

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17 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my bff have known each other for a few years now. i recently asked her to junior prom and she said she's just going with her girlfriends. Now at school, she started acting different around me like she was uncomfortable and these past three days she's completely ignored ... (198 words)

I really don't understand him, can anyone shed some light on his behaviour?

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok there is this guy i like we are friends i know he used to like me. im not sure now. but lately he is doing things he never did before like always touching my leg. asks me if i would ever marry him we argue a lot and sunday he asked me why arent i nice to him. i treat other ... (177 words)

Parents hate my baby's father and threaten to abandon me if I rekindle a relationship with him!

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm 27 yrs old female and In early 2009 I lost my job then my apartment due to financial difficulties ever since then i have been living with my mother and step-dad. they have been accommodating. during the time i lost everything i was pregnant and engaged to my baby's ... (414 words)

I don't see myself as sexy, I can only see myself as "cute"

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My issue is that I don't see myself as "sexy." This poses a problem since I am in a relationship. I see myself as "cute" - not really how you want to see yourself when you're intimate with your significant other. My boyfriend says to me, "you're the sexiest girl I've seen."... (174 words)

Did my boyfriend get another girl pregnant?

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 yrs and 3 months off and on. when we broke up he slept with another girl. she is now going around saying shes pregnant with his baby but she slept with other people after and before her too. her ex told me the conception date was ... (149 words)

My husband has left me for another woman, and now each time he visits his kids she wont stop calling him!

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband left me with another woman.were married for 10 yrs.and we have 2 kids.it's was hurt for me specially to my kids,he visit my kids sometimes but the problem is every time my husband is with our kids his mistress keeps on calling in calling.that's the reason my husband ... (74 words)

Do I let it ride until calmer minds prevail or ask for a discussion about it?

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17 February 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend of one year is one of those people who loves to have the last word and makes remarks after which he swears he's just kidding but doesn't like it when you say them back to him. I am one of those people that won't always let you have the last word and will happily ... (137 words)

Can it ever really be just friends when you feel this way about each other?

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - If a guy and a girl are really good friends, know everything about each other, have great chemistry, and are physically/mentally/emotionally very attracted to one another, can it ever really be just friends? I have a friend who I connect with on all those levels (I have even ... (112 words)

Could you consider what happened to me as rape? I never actually told him to stop.....

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Saturday night I went out with some friends from work. After the bars, we went over to one of their houses for an after party. At about 4:35 I went to hang out with one of the guys alone. (No intention of sex, just wanted to make out). We were doing fine with the make-out onl... (227 words)

Will he please me or keep teasing me?

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm having an affair with a man who's been married for 16yrs. I'm not proud of it but, I can't stop myself.. I get near him and I'm instantly heating up and wanting him more and more. We have had 8 encounters set with his boundaries,he won't put himself in me. The last time we ... (135 words)

Is my daughter taking advantage of me? I helped her out with a loan over a year ago and I've not received a penny back!

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17 February 2010 (F)

age - two years ago, i reunited with my daughter whom i've not seen in 18 years. All was well until, 3 months into the relationship, i helped her out with a loan. It's been more than a year now and I have not received my money back. She says that she's in financial difficulties ... (85 words)

How soon can I tell if I am pregnant?

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so my period was due the 14th, give or take a few days, my periods are off sometimes. I usually am really emotional before I start and I was for the past couple days so I thought I'd start soon. but my bf and I just had unprotected sex yesterday and he came the tiniest ... (96 words)

I'm back with the father of my children but I'm in love with someone else!

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok its really weird but i have been dating this guy for like 5 years i have two beautiful daughters with him . we were actually separated for like 3 months because of problems but anyways.... started to date this guy that i had dated back in high school. i feel in love with ... (95 words)

I know it is wrong to make a move on a married lady but I cant walk away from her....

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17 February 2010 (M)

age - Ok I met this lady who is a physical therapist where my mother is at a nursing home. From the very day I was introduced to her I have been smitten by her. Anyway, she is married with 3 kids two boys and a girl. I asked the lady who introduced us about her and she said she ... (475 words)

What should I text back to him? I only suggested we go out more as a couple rather than staying in all the time and he has reacted really badly!

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - a guy i met on plenty of fish website.. on out 1st time seeing each other we went for a Drive..but he wanted to come and hang out at my house i said no. he says he wants to come to my house and chill with me cos he has no money to take me out. but he drives a very p... (172 words)

How do I confront him and tell him how I feel? After 5 months of feeling this way I cant take it anymore!

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, Back in september, i posted a question on here about my attraction to my college friend called 'Im Stuck Between My BF And my College Friend' and how i already had a boyfriend.( I would just like to take this time to thank those people who answered.) I am still i... (369 words)

We've only recently got engaged but I don't know if I want to be with him anymore

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi well iv been with my boyfriend 2 years and we have a daughter together who is 11months old the thing is we keep arguing and i feel like im beginning to hate him i do love him and we got engaged a few months ago but im not happy anymore and i feel like he isnt happy even ... (119 words)

Is there any way I can get her back without begging? Or should I move on - and if so, how do I get back into the loop of making friends and talking to girls?

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17 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one post] Question 1 Hi, i have recently got left buy my girlfriend of two years, Yesterday she said she wants to experience the fun of high school. I am leaving her alone like she wants and she is start... (459 words)

For the guys: Is it a turn off for a woman to talk about her ex?

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, my question is re talking about exes to new guys. I met this guy once and up til now we chat on msn at times ... but i made the mistake of talking about my ex who behaved very very badly ... it is still on my mind. Anyway this guy said to me one night when we were ... (241 words)

I told him the ring he proposed with was not my style and now he is really hurt! How do I fix this?

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend proposed to me out of nowhere and the ring was from a pawn shop, I told him yes, but the ring wasn't my style and I kind of wanted a new ring, not someone elses. I told him this and now he is really hurt, my question is how do I fix this uncomfortable feeling, did ... (73 words)

If you take birth control after a pregnancy test coming back positive, does it kill the fetus?

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm not pregnant, just curious. If you take a pregnancy test and it comes back positive, then you take birth control, would it kill the fetus? And make your period come again?... (33 words)

I feel extremely disrespected after I told my boyfriend to stop during sex and he took no notice! What should I do?

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17 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi to make this as short as possible... im about to be 16 and my bf is 19. we had sex for the first time a few nights ago. it was my 4th time ever having sex. he was way too aggressive and did it way too hard and i cried and told him to stop but i was crying so it was hard for ... (109 words)

What does it take to get a girlfriend?

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17 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What does it take to get a girlfriend? I am an analytical person. I'm not always happy and I question stuff a lot. I think about consequences before I do something. I might be a bit prude, but hey, I've got standards. Sometimes I'm very outgoing and sometimes I'm quite ... (191 words)