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writes:My boyfriend Thinks Im Not "Freaky" enough. I think he going to break up with me for that. How Can Isave This Relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (8 February 2010):
 If he is breaking up with you because of that reason, the relationship is not worth saving. He might as well join a BDSM group and get spanked by a dominatrix. Or maybe I don't know what freaky means, do you? I honestly don't think there's a relationship going on here. He wants instant gratification. Someone who loves you would be patient with you and show you what he likes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010): I see two solutions. Either get freaky or don't. If you decide you don't want to, it's best to break it off now. This is not something that is likely to go away. If you decide you want to try some stuff, just move slow. Some "freaky" stuff isn't all that freaky in the scheme of things. My ex thought anything other than missionary was freaky. It took years to try and change that. The sex was never satisfying.
My advice, either find someone who is a better fit for you, or let go of some of your inhibitions.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 February 2010):
Why would you want to save a relationship where he would dump you for something so stupid?
Get some self respect and find a man that wants to be with you for you, not for how far you'll go in the bedroom.
Good Luck!! xx
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