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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I fancy my best friend's boyfriend?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya, I think i fancy my best friends boyfriend. I know nothing will happen as im not that type of person to do anything about it or even tell him or her how i feel. We are really good friends and he seems to flirt back with me, touching my bum, playing with my hair and telling ... (80 words)

How can he lose interest in sex with me but watch porn all day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend who I live with for over 6 years, he is 29 I am 24. I need some help trying to understand. For the last 3 years his been on medications, he has had lots of weird side effects from the medications, including weight gain ,depression,breathing pr... (256 words)

Best friend gets a boyfriend, now she seems to ignore me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya, My then Best friend started going out with her boyfriend about 7 months ago. There good together and everything but i feel fully left out. Its lead to us drifting apart and hardly talking. If we do they're always together, we never get a chance just us two anymore.... (112 words)

He ran out on me - no explanations!!

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Friends, I need your help. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We moved in together three months ago. Only 8 days ago (2 days after V Day!) he was being romantic making breakfast for me and got a text, a better offer so ditched me. I was upset but he s... (190 words)

I can't leave my kids and I can't stay with my wife, what should I do?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age - I am married for 10 years with 2 kids, 2 years old boy and a 4 years old girl. My wife and I have been to therapy and everything possible to save our marriage. I am the person that did look for the therapy and is always looking for a “salvation” for our marriage and willing to ... (205 words)

My boyfriend is busy working and studying and I feel so lonely at times

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend me three years are really struggling at the moment. He's at uni and i work full time so we don't see eachother durin the day. He works in a bar to make his money which means he has to work several nights a week. He also plays football alot and often goes out ... (249 words)

When she asks me what's wrong and I say nothing, she just says "whatever"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

22 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok i just to say thanks to everyone who has read my past post heres my question my girlfriend currently broke up with me a while back and ask me out again 4 days ago because she didnt want to see me in pain *supposidly* but she doesnt talk to me as often and she works from 9am ... (171 words)

Three questions about sex!

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - (Mod note: 3 postings from this same OP) Women....where do you find the most appealing and exciting place to have sex? i.e - on the plane, car, field? --------------------- Do women like it when their man is in "charge" in the bedroom? what do you find appealing abou... (81 words)

He answers my questions with questions, should I just walk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't even know how to ask for help with this question. I've been asking so many in the last couple of days. Right now my situation is different. In the last month and a half that my boyfriend and I have been dating I have been very up and down and back and forth on what I ... (786 words)

How do you play hard-to-get?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im ally, im 15 and i wanted to know how to play hard to get? i like 2 guys one is 15 the other 17. i dont want to be too hard, but not to easy. can i please get some tips? thanx!... (44 words)

My boyfriend says he is happy I am pregnant but he is never there for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5368 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I didnt know what else to do so i thought i will ask you all.I thought i was happy with having a baby and with my bf,but for the past weeks he has not been there for me at all since i been pregnant,and i feel really alone.I dont know anymore if he really loves me.He told me ... (304 words)

How do I tell my bf..I don't like his friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Not sure how to word this so bare with me. Ive known my boyfriend for awhile as friends then we moved into dating and ive fallen for him big time which has surprised me as i never thought i would as quick as this. But while i love spending time with him i try and let us h... (247 words)

Whenever I need to communicate to him about a problem--he shuts down! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5382 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and i have a problem with communication. When things are good, all is fab. However if a problem arises - namely if I am upset by something - he shuts down. Tonight i came up with a (hopeful) solution to something that's been an issue for a while; he just went really ... (274 words)

I need an original idea of what to plan for my bf's birthday!

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is such a commonly asked question, but I'm having trouble deciding what to do for my boyfriend's birthday. We've been together over a year. I've already decided what gifts to get him, it's the day itself I'm not sure about. His birthday's a Saturday so he'll be ... (199 words)

He makes me feel like crap..even when I haven't done anything! Advice?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and this guy have dated for 3 years off and on. We argue about dumb things that don't matter like I didn't tell him i was at the baseball game with my best friend (which is a girl). He gets very jealous and makes me feel like crap when i haven't even done anything. However, ... (110 words)

Should I tell a female know about my problem, first..before we have sex

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 27 and have never had a girlfriend and my only sexual experience equates to a string of infrequent one night stands over the last 8 years. Recently I have noticed that I have become premature to a worrying extent. My question is this, when I next meet a girl and things ... (106 words)

Dating him for the first time and I'm nervous! help!

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - (Mod note: 2 postings from this OP) So, this guy I've known for 2 years and now we just started talking again but he wants to hangout wednesday and I want to too but im scared. cuz itll be my first time hanging with him alone since i havent seen him since last year. and he w... (196 words)

Does my ex want me back because he loves me or just because I am dating someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so, about 7 months ago, my first serious boyfriend broke up with me after us being together for just over a year. i'm still so in love with him, but for the past 7 months he has wanted nothing to do with me, other than just friends in school, even though i told him all the time ... (361 words)

I walked in on my best friend having sex and now he won't talk to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a bit long, sorry there is some background here that needs to be explained. My ex and I broke up a year ago. After a lot of ups and downs we managed to stay friends. He had hit on me from time to time, and I didn't sleep with him b/c of the reason we broke u... (1170 words)

How can I get to know him a little better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there all agony aunts. I have a "problem". I like this guy who is in my school but he is 17 I am 15. He doesn't really speak to me much unless we are in the same place for more than 5 minutes. I really like him. He added me on facebook, but rarely talks to me on it. ... (79 words)

She cheated on her ex-will she cheat on me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

22 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a divorced man,my career has me out of town for extended periods. I have had three serious relationships including my marriage. Each relationship ended when I caught her cheating. I have now become involved with a new lady, and I feel I have fallen in love with her, and ... (219 words)

The last straw! But I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfiend for almost 4 years now, and ive put up with so much of his stuff it pushed me to the last straw. he went out to eat with another girl on valentines day and she stayed the night. he says nothing happened and he didnt pay but still it really pissed me ... (360 words)

Scared to tell my future husband that I am not a virgin...what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i m 26 now, female,when i was 20 i had a relationship with a guy..i never intended to have sex with him, i was deeply in love with him...so it just happened..he did with me only once.. when I was 21 we set apart and get to know he was only with me for dating purposes...Now ... (174 words)

I asked him out and now he's dating my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I moved school about two months ago, I have a crush on a boy there - Let's call him R. He makes me feel nice about myself and flirts with me most of the time, and he is just a generally nice lad. Two nights ago I told R that I had a crush on him, he said he didn't know if h... (148 words)

Does this older woman like me?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I must know if this woman likes me. She is a worker at school that advises me on issues. She has made me food when I told her i'm on a diet ( I'm not fat I just want to look better), she has asked me if i want to go to the gym with her, and one day I had really tight pants and ... (202 words)

She asked me out and I said no. Have I lost my chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

22 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Sorry to repost this, just didn't get comments last time so I'm hoping someone sees this Alright, so there's this chick that I work with. I'm always talking to her when we work together, and we get along pretty well, but we've never really gotten to a very personal level, ... (284 words)

I am no longer attracted to him because he acts like a spoilt child

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my older boyfriend for 3 years. We've always had a rocky relationship. Lately, I've noticed a change in my feelings for him. I love him, but I want to leave him. I don't do it because I don't want to hurt him. He used to be a truck driver making about $1,000 a ... (361 words)

My cousin seems to be flirting with my boyfriend. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 4 months now. It's going great, however my cousin who I get along well with has recently taken a strong interest in him. She probably just wants to get to know him but I feel really uncomfortable about it a... (158 words)

His kids talk horribly about me to his ex wife, and it's putting a strain on our relationship

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Here is one for the books. I was divorced in 2008 and started dating by boyfriend in 2009. We moved in together and each have 3 children. My ex husband passed away last August and my 3 sons are here with all the time now. I have to admit it was nice to have our weeks off ... (248 words)

Confusion over where we are headed

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Since moving in together 4 months ago (I moved to China from Australia and we found an apartment after 1 month together - prior to that we kept up a long distance relationship for about 8 months; we met when I was on tour in China; she's 23 and I'm 26), my gf and I have gone ... (852 words)

I'm really confused. does he like me or is he just flirting to seem cool in front of other people

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy, im 16 and there's this 26 yr old on a place i always go on holiday. he always flirts so much with me when people are around and offers sex and all that as a joke, and to be honest i love the attention, in fact ive fallen for him. one night when we were out with two othe... (154 words)

What else can I do to win her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

22 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, sorry this is a long one ! I recently had an issue with my girlfriend. I came home one night and she asked me to move out as it was her house. We had been together for 9 months and lived together for most of that time as well. I'm 27 and she's 36 she also has two ... (752 words)

How can I get alone with him???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! i was wondering, if you've never kissed a guy but you really want to, how do you get alone with him? my parents are always watching me like a hawk and always have their ears open for anything. they don't agree with me calling boys, much less hanging out with them. so of ... (130 words)

I want to know what he likes in bed but he seems so embarrassed to tell me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my husband for 7 years. I love him to death and only want to make him happy in every way. but we have one issue. He is only my 2nd partner, and im like his 6th or 7th. I had a lot of growing up to do sexually, like watching porn, using toys ect during sex. Well ... (315 words)

Help me please... I can't get over him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a mess! I reconnected w/a old high school sweet heart. We were both married w/children and love our spouse. In high school we dated for a year and then I called it off. We talked for a month almost every night for hours. We agree to meet and one thing let to another... we ... (182 words)

Help! Should I give her some space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Just looking for a little advice here... ive been dating a girl now for a couple months and its been great, everything i could ask for and more.. however the last week has left me questioning one or two things. She doesn't seem as excited or just not as close as we were right ... (176 words)

Milky discharge???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had protected sex a few days ago and lately ive been getting some milky kinda clumpy white discharge and they've been getting thinner too. my period is soon, probably in a week or 2. is this normal or did i get some kind of infection? thank youu in advance... (51 words)

Guys turn me on, am I gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

22 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 15 year old guy, and I'm pretty much only turned on by gay porn, or pictures of naked guys. I used to watch straight porn and when I was 12 I messed around with a girl (we gave each other handjobs and even tried to have sex once) and enjoyed it a lot. However, one day we ... (157 words)

Unrequited...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

22 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - There was a girl (Miranda) that I briefly dated when I was 17. The relationship was emotional, but never turned physical because she decided that she was going to see her ex-boyfriend again so, like a dope, a let her go. We both moved on and saw other people, but it hurt me ... (361 words)

"You never date your rebound..." Is that right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just broke up with my muslim boyfriend and I am now talking to someone else but we are not in a relationship but we have a very good friendship something I never had with my past relationship... I want to know should I see other people before I date him or if I know he is ... (78 words)

I really don't know what to do about this guy... please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5362 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I'm kind of seeing this guy from school. I say kind of because we're not officially a couple, I have no idea what we are! We don't talk about it much, and I don't really want everyone to know anyway, my friends wouldn't approve although my mother would! He is really ... (334 words)

Is it really a bad thing to spend time with the person you said you care about?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've got a question for girls who don't want a long term relationship, is it really a bad thing to spend time with the person you said you care about? ... (30 words)

I don't know if he loves me or not.

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am feeling a little bit weird. my boyfriend is a really shy guy because he says that i'm his first date. And i am the kind of girl who usually cuddles and have fun with boys a lot. not that i don't have girl friends i do a lot but whenever one of my friends come towards ... (213 words)

How can I make him see that EVERY marriage has problems sometime and it doesn’t mean either person is bad!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I guess this is a twofold question… My husband, Adam(not his real name) has almost no self esteem, and is very down on himself. Any times I get upset about something and try to talk to him about it, he ends up saying… “I am a bad husband. You would be better off with someone ... (295 words)

He's having a "friend" over to stay and I don't trust him with her!

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My "boyfriend" is sorta having someone over at his place for 15 days. I'm completely jealous, but dont really have the right to be since im with someone else, he's single, and our unbranded relationship is just a secret between the two of us. I kinda dont trust him coz when we ... (114 words)

I liked being in his arms... it felt so right!

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My name is Brandi. I WAS I'm love... Until my man cheated on me and then told me he was on valentines day... But now I'm like his best friend. Idk what to do... His friend likes me to. I went to school crying one day and then his best friend ran to be and held me tight in ... (96 words)

Can you really change your future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I know this site is for relationship worries, but I dont know where else to go to to be honest. Do you think its possible to change your future? My aunt went to a fortune teller on Saturday there, and they told her that i'm going to get pregnant soon, im only 17, I've... (125 words)

Will my friends think I'm a slut???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and a couple days ago I lost my virginity. It was with my 2 year long BF and I'm glad I waited till I was 16 and did 'it' with the right person. But, will my friends who haven't 'done it' yet think I'm a slut or will they still be the same around me but still ask ... (68 words)

What do I write in the note?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Right guys here is the situation. I sent a girl a valentine's day card and she saw me. A friend of mine confirmed to her that it was my handwriting. If anyone has asked, i have denied the fact that it was me. So, she knows i like her and so does everyone else despite my ... (203 words)

I'm branded gay and I'm not!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (?) age 30-35 - hi people.. so uh,we all have our good memories and bad memories. Being human we all made mistakes, sometimes a huge mistake right? So.. In 2006, i met a new friend, she's nice and all. We get along pretty well and I see her as a good friend,but what I didnt know that she's a ... (309 words)

Help!!! Guy problems!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hia, well i go on holiday to a place about 6 times a year, so it is like a second home to me really. I used to be in love with this lad who was 18 when i was 15. He made had like he liked me too, but over the course of 3 years no relationship happened. i went back there ... (289 words)

How can I stop being a jealous girlfriend so I don't lose my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have low self esteem and feel extremely inadequate to be with my extremely accomplished boyfriend. Because of that, I am a very negative person and it is draining him, literally. He is positive and loves me very much but me being so negative and weary and JEALOUS of almost ... (165 words)

Heartbreakers...??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Please i need help.... my boyfriend says he is still in love with his ex girlfrnd, even when she clearly told him she was not in love with him... he says he can't fall in love with me because he believes all ladies are heartbreakers. He said he is staying with me becoz he does ... (89 words)

Is my man over his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been living with my boyfriend for 1.5 years. He has always been faithful and trustworthy. He does however, mention his ex on a regular basis. He'll reference memories they shared, knew what the weather is like in her hometown... I've found out that he is a co-signe... (144 words)

Addicted to an affair - how can I break free?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been involved in an affair with an man I've known for over a year now. I am so attached to him, but when I rationalize it I realize I'm not in love with him. It's more like an addiction... and I want to break free from this. I've tried to stop contact but I always fin... (82 words)

DOES he have another woman and is playing games with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently made a post regarding my situation about my 35 year old guy who acts like he has a curfew. I tried asking to go to his house and he did give me excuses and he still has not spent a night yet, and i do feel like he has a another women because the situation seem so ... (129 words)

Too close to his secretary for comfort...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in the third year of my relationship with my fiance, we've been living together for 2 years and I am now 4 and half months pregnant with our second child. Things went very well with my fiance last year, he qualified, has since been promoted and his band is finally getit... (357 words)

When people are "seeing each other", is there any commitment or is it an open relationship?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - When people are "Seeing each other" is there commitment involved or is it more like a open relationship? i dont get it?... (22 words)

My boyfriend is getting annoyed with my sad and lonely behaviour, but I just cant feel happy after I found out he cheated on me...

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had a relationship of 3 yrs but my boyfriend cheated me and confess his mistake that he had many relationship and i dont have any hint, but due to some personal issue i forgive his all mistakes. i gave him another chance but i am not happy but he is doing each and every thing ... (187 words)

Jealous of the racy stuff she did with her ex

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I'm posting because I need help with a relationship/sexual problem that is entirely self-inflicted. I met my girlfriend a year ago and we're still crazy about each other. She is 27 and I'm 25, and she's my first girlfriend and sexual partner (cos I was... (667 words)

My boyfriend prefers to spend time with his friends instead of talking out our problems!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend is almost perfect and we have great time.. sometimes he is the one how seems to love me more and he treats very nice to me.. BUT when we have a fight he becomes incurious and he seems that he doesn't really cares to work it out soon.. he prefers for that day t... (133 words)

Should I feel so docile on these antidepressants?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi ya I wrote on here a while ago asking advice. I now need more advice. I have started taking antidepressant at the recommendation of my doctor. But for the first week and a half i felt like all i could was just think about the problems. Now two and a half weeks later i feel ... (129 words)

Should I ask her straight about how she feels about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm in a bit of a state at the moment, it is to do with my ex. We have been great friends since we broke up and since then have always had some sexual tension between us. We go back a hell of a long way and her family are friends of my family etc. Anyway she came down ... (475 words)

When we have a fight my boyfriend prefers to spend time with his friends instead of talking it out with me

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22 February 2010 (F)

Followup to my question about my girlfriend's trip to Thailand

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a follow up question to the one asked previously. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/she-is-away-in-a-foreign-country-and.html So my gf came back from Thailand and openly admitted to having a couple of Canadian guys (apparently couples) approach her at the bar.... (305 words)

What could be the reason for his non-commitment?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i been dating this guy for a few months and we get along great he is a Libra and i am a Gemini, the problem is he claims he been hurt very bad in the past so he wants to take things slow, but he says he wants to be with me and calls me his girlfriend but he never spent one ... (199 words)

I thought he had dumped me so I destroyed his records, and now I feel very guilty!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age - i have been seeing this guy for 2 and half yrs never met his family or children. he stays with me and goes home on a Wednesday to see his children, 2 weeks ago his mum died he never told me he hasnt been in touch at all. i sent him texts he hasnt answered, as i didnt know what ... (107 words)

I'm finding it hard to think clearly because of my deep affection for him, can anyone share their opinions on my situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I've been with my BF since 2001 and we have had our ups and downs but I do love him and I can't imagine being with anyone else. I have a real chemistry with him physically and he has been very loving, generous and loyal to me. However, he has another side to him where he ... (1142 words)

How can I show her I just want to be friends?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have really fallen for this girl, lets say Anne, off my course in University and she now knows this. I had felt awkward around Anne and wanted her to know why I was feeling this way so on facebook I asked if we could talk and she said yes ok. I met her the next day, ... (621 words)

Would it be appropriate to introduce him to some of my friends?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in my mid thirties and dating again after divorce. A little on the rusty side when it comes to dating so hope you can help? I am in the early part of a new relationship with a great guy. We have just started spending the night at each others places over weekends and have ... (139 words)

How can I get my ex to start liking me again?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a few things that I have been wondering about. Me and my ex dated for 5 months then broke up in november, we pretty much spoke everyday and were on again off again relationship until now. we have also been fighting a lot. She told me she never wants to talk to me ... (90 words)

I'm struggling to work out if he is gay, can anyone help me?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody! I am a gay nineteen year old male, and I have a bit of a mundane problem that happens a lot to gay men. Thus, when I came across this site I saw the perfect opportunity to gain a different perspective other than my own. And possibly obtaining some clarity on this ... (1003 words)

Why are his ex's sisters acting like this when I had nothing to do with the break-up?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, ive been seeing a guy now for about 9 months now. he broke up with his ex girlfriend about a year and a half ago, they had been going out for 6 years.'he told me he broke it off with her as it wasnt working out anymore. when we go out we always see his friends and sometime... (293 words)

I'm 9 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend wants me to have an abortion, I don't know what to do for the best

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 25 year old women with 4 kids and I am 9 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend of 3 years wants me to terminate my pregnancy but he also told me its my body and whatever my decision is he will support me no matter what and he will stay with me. we have a 1 year old son I had ... (229 words)

Is it normal to be jealous of my boyfriend's ex or am I just over reacting?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my friends we hang out in groups of couples and there are three of us . one of my friends tho happens to be my boyfriends ex girl friend. and the other day when we were leaving her house he hugged her and i jealous is that normal or am i just over reacting ? also it ... (160 words)

I'm worried that because of my yeast infection stopping us having sex he will cheat on me!

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have recently had a yeast infection and then i took the monistat one day thing and the symptoms started to feel better for like almost a week. while it was feeling better i had sex like one time and now i have one again . im currently using the seven day treatment one and it ... (201 words)

How does a girl play hard to get? And how do I get to be alone with a guy I like when my parents wont let me date?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [Moderator's Note: Two questions from the same poster have been merged into one post] hi i was wondering if you like a guy, can he tell by how you act that you like him? if so, how would a 15 year old girl like me play hard to get, but not too hard? im looking for real answers ... (156 words)

How can I make her feel that it is ok for her to like me?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i've known this girl my whole life almost and i have fallen madly in love with her. now the thing is her aunt and my uncle got married about 6 years ago. now everyone in the family thinks that there is something wrong with me liking. plus i think that she likes me as ... (111 words)

I'm really worried I may have blown my chances!

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm worried I may have screwed things up with a guy I just started seeing. See, I started talking to this guy on a dating site a couple of weeks ago. He seemed really nice (unlike a lot of guys on dating sites!) and we seemed to really click. Anyway, he asked me to meet him ... (568 words)

No matter what I do my wife never feels content, and now she is threatening a divorce. What should I do?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a small online business so I work at home. I have a wife, a lovely 1.5 year old daughter and I love them very much. We moved to a new house out of state to start a new beginning with our daughter. As our new home is bigger, my wife would struggle with house chores all ... (349 words)

I don't know whether I should ask him if I have done anything or just leave him alone

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey just after a bit of advice. I met this guy about 6 months ago after seeing him around a bit. At first he was really keen texting me etc and went to his house a couple of times after meeting up out (didn't have sex though). Then he started to back off, like if he saw me out ... (346 words)

Who is my baby's father?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello.. I feel awful however I made a big mistake and I am wondering if someone can help. I am 16 weeks pregnant and I am unsure who the father of my child is. Me and my fiance have been together for 5 years and broke up on oct 2nd... I met a guy while in california and I had ... (131 words)

How do I deal with an EXTREMELY insecure girlfriend?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I deal with an EXTREMELY insecure girlfriend? I am going to flat out say this, she is crazy. When I call her back to ask what is wrong, she pushes me away until we fight. But when I do not call back about something she then thinks "oh he does not care anymore." I made a... (163 words)

She says she cant live without me, but she doesn't want to take the relationship further

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Been with my girlfriend for 3 years now, she is 24. At first it was great, we saw each other all the time, we kissed and held each other a lot, we had lots of sex, we talked about the future and getting a place together. After a year and a half we split because I was ac... (440 words)

Why do I always act like a total jerk in front of girls?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Girls hit on me pretty often but I just dont know how to talk to them and i always stroke out and they think i dont like them and they lose interest asking me question and smiling and similar stuff. I always act like a total jerk but I dont know what to do what should i do ?... (59 words)

Joking around or an actual teacher crush?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so there is this teacher at my high school. He is in his late 20s and I've known him for 3 years now. He was my world geo teacher in ninth grade, and that first semester everything seemed okay, I wasn't attracted to him and he obviously didn't notice me. But after the ... (574 words)

I'm on a study-trip for 4 months, how do I keep my girfriend of 3 years from cheating?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, this is slightly long-winded .... sorry ... I have been living with my girlfriend in America for 2 years, and we are best friends and all that, I love her dearly. I do everything for her. But ..... When we started our relationship, she admitted that she had cheate... (429 words)

Should I just forget about my ex and go for his friend?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys.. I just got my heart shattered on valentines day... My boyfriend cheated on me... And he told me on v-day;( but I still love him and care about him deeply... I don't know what to do.. Cuz know i'm starting to fall for his friend... And his friend like me too... B... (82 words)

Was all of this that I went through admiration or love?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It’s almost been a year now that I first met my coach I would soon grow to admire and still do to this day. Here’s my (long) recap: Before tryouts, I had no clue what to expect from him, but I’d heard that he’s pretty fun to be around, etc. (He’s a pretty popular teacher). ... (1155 words)

We stopped our affair because others began questioning our relationship... but neither of us wanted to stop

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I can't have her but I can't stop thinking about her. We had a friendship that turned sexual over the summer. It was wrong and crazy fun at the same time. It was something I never thought I would do, and I fought my feeling for as long as I could. She is married- not happily ... (279 words)

Trouble getting over girlfriend's past

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend's past is not even that bad. She had two ex BFs and only one she had sex with. She says the sex is a lot better with me (i'm her second). However after her second Bf, she had a "fling" whom she knew for a while. They did stuff and she said he was incredibly good ... (220 words)

How do you know if a guy really likes you, and not just for your body?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy stares at me all the time. he looks good to me, but im used to guys who say something to me when i walk by if they are into me. this guy i no went over to him and said he'd get the boy to come talk to me. they were watching me and talking. i guess the cute guy ... (214 words)

Was it a bad idea to tell my best friend that I like him?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my best friend matt are really close and whenever people ask us if we go out we say yeah but were just joking then laugh. but ive really liked him for a long time and i told him and now we havent talked in 4 days because of how he stupidly reacted. i really miss ... (109 words)

Should I confront my brother in law, or keep quiet?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Well, this post is about “failure to leave and cleave”. Until six months ago I had no idea all the writing on this topic. The bible, a few books, and reading lots of internet posts later I kinda get it. Here is the situation. First of all this has nothing to do with ... (874 words)

Was she trying to have sex with me?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Was this chick trying to sleep/have sex with me? This chick and me were in a hotel together were really close and her friend came and fell asleep on the 2nd bed and the the girl I'm close with she went to go take a shower she came out of the bathroom naked with a towel cov... (113 words)

She was pushing me to have sex with her and once we did, we just stopped talking to each other! Why did this happen?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was dating a girl that is a little older than me. I really enjoyed spending time with her. I feel like I was an amazing guy to her by doing a little surprise here and there that would make her day and I always told her how beautiful she is. I put off having sex with her, ... (114 words)

Why do I always feel so depressed when I end a relationship, even though I know it was the right thing to do?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. My question is regarding a person's feelings when a relationship ends. I've been in a few of relationships and I've personally been the one to end all of them except for one. I really have never been in a relationship where I was CRAZY about the girl - I was interested in ... (334 words)

Insecure and wondering if he will get over his first love?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, I never really realized it until now, but I am extremely insecure in relationships. I am not clingy or anything, or naggy, I just expect to be cheated on (maybe not physically, but emotionally...like he'll like someone more than me and be closer with them, but use me ... (428 words)

Why am I acting like the anxious one?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I'm not really sure what to do. I started talking to this guy several months ago, online. Our level of talk time increased continually. We spent hundreds of hours on the phone, web cam (nothing in appropriate) etc. and I have to say I really really felt a connectio... (322 words)

It seems like I want her a lot more than she wants me. What do I do?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay. There is this girl I really like. She's a family friend so she came on vacation with us this weekend. While we were there, we hooked up twice. We've been talking for about 2/3 months now and that was the first time we hooked up. We also sat up for hours talking. We can ... (285 words)

I want him to be confident of us being together... not scared

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do when your boyfriend loves you in a way he's never loved any other girl before? It's that kind of feeling you get that's kinda scary... and you just want to run away from it cos you don't know how to deal with it - like you just don't know what to do with the ... (225 words)

I cant get wet , why is this happening?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been trying to have sex for the past to week. And yesterday I realized what one of the problems are I cant get wet =(. I dont know what the problem is and I dont know why this is happening. Im very interested and him. I dont know what to do next. and ... (65 words)

Girlfriend broke my trust; should I try and work it out or leave

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok at the start of my relationship my girlfriend cheated on me 6 months into the relationship. We broke up for about 4 months. Well we got back together on some rather strict rules, since I did not know if I could trust her she was to share all her passcodes with me, and let me ... (650 words)

What I can say or do in order for him to realise that HE is the one I truly want?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure how to handle this situation. I am currently seeing a guy and he is exactly what i've been looking for! However, I told him a while back that I like another guy too. We was in a deep conversation and it just came out - honesty is very important to me and I thought ... (335 words)

Any advice on how I might go about this and possibly take this girl out?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so there's this chick that I work with. I'm always talking to her when we work together, and we get along pretty well, but we've never really gotten to a very personal level, it's mostly just small talk. She's 5 or 6 years older than me though. So the other day I was ... (262 words)

He watches porn every other day, we have sex once every month or two months...is this normal?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband watchs porn every other day but we have sex once a month or every two months. Is this normal??... (21 words)

My girlfriend thinks she doesn't deserve me. How can I convince her that she does?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend and i love each other alot.but she always says that she doen't deserve me.how do i convince her that she does deserve me.... (25 words)

Should I continue to pursue my dream in becoming a nurse, or just give it all up to save my marriage?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in Nursing School, my husband's arguements stressed so much while I was in school that I failed and need to restart program. My husband says, that my dream "becoming a nurse" has doomed my marriage. Now I don't know if I should continue to pursue my dream in becoming a ... (87 words)

It upsets me when people tell me long-distance relationships never work...is it true?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - can long distant relationships work? Im totally inlove with this guy but he lives 3 hrs away and I will only be able to see him like once a month...we talk all the time.. but I wanted to know if it can really work..everyone tells me LD never works.. it makes me upset.... (55 words)

Is love just a dream? Or is it possible for two people to care for each other?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello =). I have been wondering, becouse ive been always kinda lonely, is love just a dream/fantasy? It is possible for two people to care for each other? to trust each other? to try to make the other person feel special?.... (41 words)

Why does my boyfriend get a sore throat when he goes down on me?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Why is that everytime my boyfriend goes down on me he always gets a sore throat? ... (16 words)

Most guys always tell me I have nice boobs...but I really hate them. What can I do?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know if im the only female who really feels this way.. but i hate my boobs ..extremly. Most boys always tell me I have nice boobs, because there larger then most girls yet I still maintain a small body But I on the other hand hate them I think they look abnormal and ... (130 words)

I have to tell her I love her soon? But how? And do I mention what she said when she was drunk?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So here's the deal. I'm in love with a girl, and a couple of weeks ago whilst blind drunk, I think she professed her love for me. She doesn't remember this, and has a boyfriend. Here's a more detailed explanation: This girl has been my best friend for over 2 years. I devel... (442 words)

She took him back too fast! How can I help my friend?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so my friend and her boyfriend recently broke up ( the guy's fault by the way) she texted him and told him that she is willin to make it work she asked him if he felt the same way he said yes. i spoke to her today and she said that he is not calling her, i told her that she ... (125 words)

Does my cheating ex-girlfriend deserve forgiveness?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend cheated twice, both times I felt like it was my fault... But I still couldn't believe she did it and she seems not to care. I told her things like, ''I knew you never cared about me'', ''how could you do this to me?'', ''I hate you for doing this to me'', ''I ... (422 words)

Men and women are different. We need different things. Does anyone else agree?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Men and women are different. We need different things. Women need continuous validation of their partner’s feelings for them. Men do not. Or do they? Men may not need it as much as women, but they do need it. They don’t know they need it because they constantly get it. You see, ... (228 words)

I know rape is wrong and very bad...so why do I get turned on when my boyfriend says this?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. Some thing is really bugging me. Some times when me and my boyfriend are jokeing aroung he'll say hes going to rape me and i get turned on by that. I know rapeing is wrong and very bad so why would i get turned on by this when my boyfriend says this? Is there some thing ... (66 words)

What do you do if someone is your world...but being together is tearing you both apart?

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do if someone is your world. You love them more than anything and you can't imagine ever loving anyone again quite like it. You imagine not being with them, not having a future with them and it physically hurts. You break up with them and every little thing reminds ... (137 words)

I would never consider going out with a young girl so why did I dream about my friend's little sister?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 25 years old male. Last night, I had a sex dream about my friend's sister who is 14 years old (my friend is 24 years old but his sister is only 14 years old). In the dream, both of us nude making out with each other. In the real world, I would never do anything... (177 words)

I found disturbing porn on my boyfriends laptop.

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19, my boyfriend's 22, we've been together for a year and a half. I was recently on my his laptop, I was looking at photos and I closed the folder and forgot where I found it. So I looked at recent items, and clicked on one of the photo names. The photo that came up was ... (165 words)

How can I avoid a confrontation with my in laws? I'm near the end of my patience!

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All Aunts and Uncles, I have been with my B/F for 7 years; we bought a house together 5 years ago and have a 2 year old daughter (MOO). My problem is his family, apart from one sister who is cool. The other sister and his mother just do my head in. Prior to the birth of ... (761 words)

Paranoid sexual feelings,

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22 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'll make this short. My previous sexual encounters with my ex boyfriend were absolutely excruciating, for this reason i'm scared to have sex with my current boyfriend. Deep down I know with him, it will be a much better experience - because my ex forced me into it and I did ... (150 words)

I told her the level of sex needed to increase, but it hasnt, should I dump her?

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22 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I told my girlfriend that I didn't want to have a relationship with her if there wouldn't be regular (somewhat frequent--at least once a week or so). She promised things would change, and they did for about a week, and now things are back to boring and sex-less. I approached ... (68 words)