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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't see the point in dating - I've already met 'the one' - my ex!

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, thanks for reading this. I'm in a rut and need some advice on how to move forwards. To cut a long long story short, I split with my bf of 10 years six months ago, after finding out he had been seeing a woman from his work behind my back, using adult dating sites, and ... (422 words)

Typical "I'm in love with my best friend" scenario.

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12 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Typical I'm in love with my best friend scenario. She was dating this player type guy until recently. The guy had been in well over 20 "relationships" if you could call them that, and had always broken them off, he had never been broken up with. My friend and him dated for ... (296 words)

I can't get away from him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with a guy for about a month, we got on really well and he helped me more than anyone else after what happened with my last boyfriend, I really like him and I think he's amazing but I just can't get away from him sometimes, I feel trapped now, I've tried breaking... (137 words)

I think I'm adopted, what do I need for DNA tests?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

12 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi there everyone i think that i am adopted but i am not sure i don't want to ask my parents because they may get upset if i am wrong and if i am right they may deny it. i was going to have a dna test but i was thinking that do i need my mum and dad's dna as well as my ... (96 words)

Do I send my ex a Valentine's card?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm looking for some advice on whether to send my ex a Valentine's card. We were together 9 years, lived together for 7 years, but finally split up September 2009 after coming to a stuttering end when I found out he was 'messing around' with a female work colleague...we ... (300 words)

Two types of men...

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I come across two types of men in my dating life - those who quickly think I'm the answer to make their lives perfect and so within a couple of weeks they're saying they love me, talking about moving in together soon and starting conversations about kids and marriage after a ... (140 words)

Should I go for it and ask him how he feels or would that just make things awkward between us..?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I like a guy I work with and I think he likes me as well. We flirt a bit and have great fun when we go out, we text quite a bit and he makes me feel special when we talk. Should I go for it and ask him how he feels or would that just make things awkward between us..?... (63 words)

Is my girlfriend over her ex??

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12 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, I need a some different points of view on this to help me understand. As of 6 months ago I started dating my current girlfriend. She is a wonderful girl and I'm totally in love with her and she says she is totally in love with me. However, sometimes, I get this feeling ... (619 words)

I feel really battered and bruised by my boyfriend's constant abuse...

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12 February 2010 (F)

age - Hello, I'm looking for advice re my boyfriend of ten years. I feel really battered and bruised by his abuse. He has called me names over the years, insulted my daughter (he is not her father) and he has even threatened to 'slash' my face open and asked me 'do you want to end ... (515 words)

I don't want to be the cause of their break up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - heyah guys a tough one!!!! im really close with this boy and he has a gf but i dont know what's going on. we went to football together tonight and well he and my other friend went off on one i was later informed that my close mate had been finished because apparently we had ... (131 words)

I lied to her and now she won't talk to me. How can I make this right again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

12 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help... i lied to my girlfriend about this girl that i liked way before she came along and i just told her the truth and she says she hates me now and i need to fix this before valentines day, we've been going out for 10 months almost 11 and i dont have any clue on what ... (71 words)

Asked to be a God mother, what do I do!?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend has just asked me to be god mother to her 2 children. I'm really flattered but I don't know what to say! Do you have to be a Christian to be a god parent? What will my role be? ... (41 words)

I sometimes, whilst masturbating, fantasize over men stripping me, does this make me gay?

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12 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi I sometimes, whilst masturbating, fantasize over men stripping me, does this make me gay? i mean its not that i have anything against gays or bisexuals, but i dont really want to be one! i still do fantazize over women, but when i fantasize over men stripping me my ... (84 words)

My girlfriend is depressed and I'm going in circles trying to make things better. What can I do?

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12 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of almost eleven years has an exotic bird that she's had for about two years. Before you ask, we're not married because all our parents have been divorced several times and it seems pointless to us. She is depressed because she hates her office job and is behin... (773 words)

Is there anything I can do to inject some life into this relationship?

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12 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in an extremely boring relationship with a girl that I really like. She is very kind, considerate and giving. She takes exceptionally good care of me and takes care of a lot of my needs, like my laundry, helping me keep my place clean, cooking, etc. The problem is that ... (623 words)

He gets excited to easily, is this normal?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - When I am kissing this guy he gets turned on really quickly and asks me to make him come which he always says it wont take him long and it doesn't I mean he lasts about 2-3 minutes, is this normal, he usually comes quite a bit. We aren't dating or anything, its just a quick... (95 words)

He wants us to be "best friends" NOT boyfriend and girlfriend!

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We'd been really close and intimate. i thought we were going to be in a special relationship soon because he told me we were having something special. recently i was questioning him texting other girls and we brought up the 'freedom' matter. well he thinks it's a freedom t... (236 words)

Help!!! How can I last longer???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

12 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i was watching porn the other day and i got very excited over it. at every exciting part my penis will "jump" as if i was cumming. after that i decided to go masturbate and i realized i came really fast. is there any way to not cum fast other than not thinking about it. Is t... (76 words)

How can I stop getting so nervous before I meet with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i am a 14 year old girl and ive been asked to meet (french kiss) a guy before but my problem is i get so worked up the day before i meet them that i end up getting sick and completely losing my appetite got any suggestions on how to stop this? I have been asked by another ... (70 words)

How can I tell if my shy friends likes me?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How would your friend act if he liked you but was to shy and unsure to tell you? maybe through lack of confidence etc. I think my friend likes me, and so do some others that have seen us together but i really do think hes shy and doesnt have a clue what to do. What are the ... (63 words)

Was her reason for breaking up with me valid?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

12 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, Recently, my girlfriend broke up with me for a reason I didn't understand. Here's what happened. We were talking about her past (dating, first kiss, making out, etc.) Then she asked me, "did I turn you off?". The reason she said that because she had more dating expe... (248 words)

He won't stop his flirting even though I have a boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, I have a question regarding a work situation and a guy. There is a guy at work, he is new to the job but is very confident and talkative. I thought at first it was great that someone near my age had joined, and that we could have a laugh at work etc. However ... (313 words)

Is it worth trying to fight for the relationship before he gets too close to this new woman???

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, my long term BF and I have been arguing a lot mostly because of his problems and we have been kind of on/off over the last year but I still love him. I saw him a couple of weeks ago then he suddenly told me he had seen a woman at work he liked and was going to go out for ... (205 words)

What's wrong with him? He's like 2 people and it's making me super frustrated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently a sophomore in college. My boyfriend and I have been dating since spring quarter of last year and since then, I have pretty much been staying in his dorm room (even though I have my own) apart from the summer when we both went home. Recently, I've been finding it ... (293 words)

Is this spotting, or was something hurt during sex? I'm starting to worry!

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I need advice please. I'm 18 and I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 2 months ago. Very soon after, I went for my first visit to the gynecologist. My tests turned out fine and I was put on birth control. I have had quite a few side effects from the birt... (214 words)

He more or less wants to play the field for a while before committing to me...

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well i was going out with this guy "Nikko" and we hit it off. It started off slow, with movie dates and hanging out ect. I told him that i was gunna move soon so i didnt want to get to attached, but he was so addicting. We rele liked each other and he finally said I love ... (402 words)

I want to feel like am 100% in love with him again and I don’t know how to do it.

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a year now. We have been through more than the average couple. I love him but I don’t know if I am in love with him anymore. I want to want to be with him so badly. I really care about him and I want to marry him and spend the rest of my ... (164 words)

I'm mad at my boyfriend but is my anger justified?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay hi people.. basically ive been with my boyfriend 2 months today and we had been talking for long before that.. anyways on the 14th(yes valentines day) its his birthday and of course valentines day, i think thats kinda sexy lol, his a vlanetines baby ;) back to what i w... (214 words)

My father watches porn even though he has a wife - is it right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

12 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - My parents have been married for 15 years. My dad has a short temper and gets very angry at my mum (non violent though) she has always just let him push her about, also he is always sneaking glances at other women on the street or on a bus whatever, however if my mum is even ... (118 words)

He treats me really badly but I just can't seem to leave him... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so this will be a bit long. I am 15 years old and have been through a lot, I think.. Alcohol use and drug use. My mom drinks a lot and my dad isn't in the same country, he also drinks a lot. They both smoke. I'm saying this because I find it important. Okay, so like almost ... (388 words)

Help! Having issues with getting over a break up.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

12 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So I'm 28 and my ex girlfriend is 24 and we dated for just over 2 years. To make a long story short just over a month ago my girlfriend became very distant and I suspected there was somone else. Well after looking into the matter more I figured out she was going behind my back ... (399 words)

Should I visit my doctor???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

- Ok, so this isnt specifically about love or relationships but i really need some advice/your comments... I am almost a week late on my period with no signs of it showing up any time soon (no cramps, no soreness) which i normally get. Me and my partner have been having... (138 words)

What can I do with this guy who I'm meeting soon for the first time???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5395 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so am meeting this guy from plenty of fish dating site tomorrow.. we are just going for a drive and then maybe somewhere casual for dinner but he says he wants to go for a ride then back to my house for a cuddle and a dvd. i dont want to and my friends say no no.. so c... (98 words)

Is there anyone genuine on internet dating???

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is there anyone genuine on internet dating??? I have been online dating on and off for the last few years. Every time i do it it just seems to be a waste of time, I really get to know people chatting first by txt, email, msn etc. Dates seem to go really well, i try to be honest ... (234 words)

Am I worthy of a second date?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Am I worthy of a second date? Hi all! I would really appreciate some advice. I had my eye on a guy at my gym for like 6 months. the feeling was mutual. 2 weeks ago I felt really brave and out of character. I left a note on his car saying that I'd like to ask him something w/... (179 words)

Do women not like men to touch their breasts in intimacy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm really confused and I know this will sound weird to many people but I need some help. My boyfriend and I have wonderful intimacy. I love my breasts being touched as much as I love kissing and intercourse. I am also a very giving lover. My boyfriend thinks my need... (199 words)

He's different around me now and I don't know what to do... help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5393 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16. ok so i really dont know what to do. theres this guy at my school i really really like. and last year we got really close. we hung out, bite eachothers noses, hugged, held hands, kissed once, and texed every day. those were the best couple of days of my life. then this ... (405 words)

The Office!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

12 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I like this girl at my job. She's 20 and very hot. She's the receptionist and I work upstairs in the office where we rarely see each other. I know there's something between us. Every time I go by her desk we talk for a bit and she tells me about her personal life and smiles at ... (175 words)

Is my ex boyfriend over me - why the mixed signals if he has written the relationship off??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with a man for a little over a year - on and off for the last 6 months - I am 31 wks pregnant and he denies this is his child so has asked for paternity. I said fine because the fact of the matter is, I was attacked the same month that I conceived.. We broke up in ... (820 words)

If he's dating again does that mean all hope of us getting back together is lost?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, My ex and I split up a few months ago but stayed in touch. We talked about getting back together but then had an argument and haven't seen each other for a few week and he told me he is dating someone else. We still have feelings for each other but there are old unresolved ... (181 words)

How can I prove to my wife I'm NOT cheating on her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

12 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife accuses me time and time again of cheating. She has also tried to hack into my facebook and myspace. I have proved to her time and time again that I'm not cheating by letting her look at my accounts and also she goes through my phone and I have to tell her every number ... (73 words)

How do you move on after a break up?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - what do you do to get over a very hard breakup when ur still in love with the person but he as moved on and after 6 months i cant seem to move on and you cant seem to find anyone else. he has moved on and looks happy and i just want to be happy too. ... (57 words)

Using one another...?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I being silly or have people felt the same as me. I am a 25 year old female (virgin), I have low confidence and no guys ever want to date me, they just want a bit of fun no strings, I always laugh it off but I have for the first time fallen for someone who just wants fun, ... (306 words)

Is it normal to have blood in your pre cum?

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12 February 2010 (?) age 41-50 - hi, a medical issue that i would like to share with you all and need some advice. ok as my girlfriend needs me to take a blood test, she came with me and i gave a blood sample for test for normal blood sugar, urine sugar, jaundice and also she insisted me to check for HIV and ... (207 words)

Am I being taken for a fool?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm very confused and need advice please. a guy at work started 6 months ago and from the start i have been attracted to him. we have become very close friends but no more and for now im happy with that, hes just got divorced from his wife and she left him last september f... (287 words)

How fast does the penis grow during puberty?

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12 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I have been with my gf for like 4 years now and she said i had a small penis. my penis size is 3.7 in. she said she thought it would be bigger. i am only 14 years old and for the past year since i was 13 my penis hasn't really grown. im wondering how fast does it grow. anot... (107 words)

To call or not to call?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

12 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I have a friend who is in some financial difficulty. she called me telling me that she has finally gotten a job but needs some money to buy the uniform or she could lose the job. She told me how much it would cost. I transferred the money to her and wished her all t... (346 words)

Age old situation - Boy likes girls, girl already got a BF

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

12 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I need some advice and help on a situation I find myself in. I am very lucky in that I'm single and can enjoy eating out regularly; being a person of habit I got to certain places on certain days. Over the course of going to one particular restaurant I h... (376 words)

What do I get him for valentines day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5395 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do i get my boyfriend for valentines day? Weve been going out for a couple of months and i know hes getting me something quite expensive, iv been thinking about it for ages but im really not sure. can anyone give me some ideas? thanks... (47 words)

I seem to get unfair treatment all the time from men

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - can some one be a born reject.guys have always being rejecting me since i was 18 yaers old. that its is me not you routine. the rejection towards me is aggressive, they've treated me like dirt, belittled me,name called,even threatend me which is really scary.all i be doing is... (187 words)

My girlfriend thinks I intentionally get erect when I see her naked! How can I stop myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

12 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I always erect when I see my girl naked, I want to stop it. Pliz help! She thinks I do it intentionally.... (22 words)

He says he is unsure about our relationship yet he still acts like normal, I am so confused!

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. First of all I'd like to say thank you for helping me out. Greatly appreciated it. Please be honest and speak your mind. I also like to see the perspectives from any guys who have been in a relationship for more than a year or anyone who can relate to the issue I am ... (592 words)

I know he loves me but why would he cheat on me and get her pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dating him for 4 years. His cheated on me with the same person, but each time apologizes and says its over. Now I discover she's pregnant. He wants a child (I cannot have any), so I told him go make one (jokingly) but not with her. Low and behold he goes to her, and 3 ... (106 words)

I want these feelings for my teacher to go away! Please help me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i'am in love with my teacher, he is 26 and i'm 14 i know this is wrong, and i dont want to feel this way. but when i see him my heart beats really fast and my face gets really hot, and i feel conscious! i have tried to tell myself that i just admire his way of teaching, because ... (93 words)

Why can't I forget my pig of an ex even though I'm with someone better now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - 2 years ago now my first love walked out on me to be with another girl. We had been together since the age of 16. It was a very troubled break up which was dragged out for around 9 months following the first time he walked out... he was coming back and forth between me and the ... (434 words)

Is there any way to make everyone happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5395 days ago

12 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so I got a problem. there's this girl I think im in love with. she's been there for me countless of times. though she does have a boyfriend. she still treats me like a boyfriend and always hugging me. she will come to me sometimes just saying that she just needs to be held. ... (236 words)

How can I connect more with a woman when I suffer from depression and she suffers from ptsd?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

12 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - How can I connect more with a woman for a realtionship, when I suffer from depression and she suffers from ptsd?... (21 words)

Would it be so bad to get a tattoo reminding me of him, even though this weekend will be the first time we have met up?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age - I have recently met a younger man (3 years) on a dating website. We have texted and talked on the phone. We are supposed to meet this weekend. To add insult to injury his father passed away this last Monday. I feel a VERY strong connection to this man already and I re... (215 words)

Do you think I will get the chance to have a relationship with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

12 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok here I go I went out tonight with a chick I knew from 3 yes ago I always thought she was cool she was dating a guy at the time so I never had a chance nor would I try getting involved with a mans functional relationship but I seen her at the mall before Christmas and I fi... (384 words)

Why is he not physically intimate with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years. We still did not have sex yet. But we have fooled around a lot.. My problem is that we are doing well in our relationship. But.... when we met on Sunday we made out a lot and were physically intimate... But ever since Sunday ... (151 words)

Why am I acting like I am single and looking for a man when I have a boyfriend? Is it wrong that I am still with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5395 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together] Question 1 I'm a mother of a 4 month old girl, and am still with her father but only as bf/gf. Well he wants to get married, but I don't. He's madly in love with me, I'm not. And I'm no longer attra... (252 words)

She has reassured me time and time again that she is not cheating, but I still cant help think she is!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5395 days ago

12 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I think my girlfriend might be cheating on me. I can't get it out of my head, and I feel completely paranoid about it and am afraid I'm behaving like one of those obsessed boyfriends. I don't think my suspicions are completely unfounded though. I happened to be outside of ou... (283 words)

She wanted us to get married someday, but now she is saying she is unsure of what the future holds for us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5395 days ago

12 February 2010 (M)

age - This is an email from my girlfriend and I'm not sure why she says she is not sure what the future holds for us.She wanted a commitment and was the one that wanted to get married someday, now i get this. Not sure whats going on.Any insight would be appreciated.I feel like she ... (160 words)

She has denied me sex until I pay for it!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

12 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Have been in a relationship for four years now with a lady i do love soo much and ready to marry, she is 32 am 27, But she is so controlling, she doe's not like to be forced on doing things she has become miss independent, i lost my job recently and now always complaining am ... (122 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend what happened in bed with his best friend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What should I do ? , my b/f was out of town at a business function and we had a party down here , It was all good fun , with drink , music and Dance . When I was getting ready for bed I put on my favorite skimpy nighty and jumped in bed , 10 minutes later my boyfriends ma... (159 words)

My boyfriend lied to me about looking at porn, I feel like he has cheated on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for more than 2.5 years and everything has been going great. So, the last night I was on his computer and I saw that he had been looking at porn. When I asked him about it he said it wasn't his, and he didn't know how it got there. I ... (334 words)

He was meant to be moving out on March 1st, but now I am pregnant and I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 34 and my husband 29... we have 2 kids and i have an older one from a previous marriage... back in 2002 he had an affair.. to this day he justifies it saying that she is a great person and that she is better than me in every way... i have asked him repeatedly why he didnt ... (215 words)

I want to keep working as an exotic dancer but my boyfriend wants me to stop, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

12 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all ..thanks for some help , Im working as an exotic dancer in a rather nice club , I love my job and really enjoy turning on the guys and feeling them wanting me so badly . But I began dating this guy I met there ( I know , I know ..its against the rules ) but ... (148 words)

How do I get her to choose me? I need help to make her see that he is a complete tool!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

12 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So, this is all that has been on my mind for a while, and I want to ask for advice before everything slips away, and I ruin my chance. So, I was dating this girl, and I treated her perfectly. You may think I have an ego after that or something, but she realized that to... (576 words)

Trying to handle this time apart thing?

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12 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I been together for 2 years and last week we had another argument and she said that we needed time apart to get out stuff together, she said she still loves me and she sees a future with me but right now its to hard to keep going on the way we have in the last ... (440 words)

Is this normal or is my brain telling me that I like her?

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12 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this girl that's a great friend of mine but I keep getting horny whenever she hugs me and one day I saw right up her skirt and saw her panties and got an erection right in the middle of class is this always normal or is my brain telling me I like her and want to get in ... (109 words)

He told me he prefers larger breasts, when I only have small ones! How do I get over this?

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12 February 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Lame question... but I have small breasts, and my boyfriend prefers big ones. I know this because his celebrity crushes have big breasts and because I asked him and he straight out told me. During sex I'm not self conscious about them, although when he licks them and plays with ... (190 words)

I feel like I am only staying with my partner because he is my best friend, how can I explain this to him without being too awful?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my wonderful partner for near on 8 years now. As much as I love spending time with him, I don't think it is in the same way as it once was. What we have feels much more platonic than romantic to me, and not just in the 'we're comfortable with each other' sense. ... (280 words)

Should I break up with my boyfriend?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months, a few weeks ago he told me he wanted space because he felt that i was always on his back and that i was too clingy.. so i left him alone and 2 days later he came crawling back saying he missed me and loved me. so afer that w... (687 words)

I don't understand religion and why we should be forced to put up with it.

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12 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hi, im 14 and an atheist but i respect religious people who are open to another persons point of view, but the other side of that coin is that ignorance and single mindedness makes me really really angry. i just dont understand religion, i mean no disrespect, but i dont see how ... (219 words)

I have never been kissed! What can I expect?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not proud of this but I have really never been truly kissed. I kissed a guy once and it was a little more than a peck, that's it. I need advice on how to kiss, what to expect, ect ect? (I know I sound like a geek and that girl off of never been kissed)... (60 words)

How do I handle a guy who gets completely freaked out at the thought of having a girlfriend?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What would you do with a guy who you're sure likes you but who seems completely freaked out by the idea of having a girlfriend? I like him, we briefly got together last year before he backed out and now we hang out mainly in groups, with his best mate dropping huge hints that ... (68 words)

So what do you guys think is going on here? Does my crush like me?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So there is this guy I am attracted to physically in school. We're just friends- he's a bit reserved. I notice him looking at me when we are in the same room. We are friends, we have a lot of mutual friends too. He's a bit shy when he's around people. When it's just the two of ... (427 words)

My girlfriend said she can't do our long distance relationship anymore and is going to block my number!

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12 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Back in July of 2009 I started dating this wonderful girl, but soon after she moved to California. We kept it a long distance relationship. She was 25 and i am 19. In November I flew out to see her and I lost my vcard to her. (Yeah I know 19, but it was a personal choice ... (345 words)

Should I still try to date one of them or leave them both alone?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this problems i been messing with this boy for three years we never have an relationaship but we felt in love. Even through we not together or never been together he broken my heart in many ways you couldnt image.. so i stop caring and doing me i started to mess with his ... (175 words)

How can I stay strong and keep my decision of walking away?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years, during this time he disrespected me, tried to hook up with other girls and just acted as if he didnt care about me, only when I wanted to leave did he break down and cried, so I foolishly stayed. January 09 I told him he had to ... (254 words)

I am 4 inches erect. Will I be able to please her?

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12 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - About sex I know she has given head to two other guys and there both older and taller and bigger than me I'm not sure if you get a girl excited enough that a smaller dick than what she is used to will satisfy her. I'm 15 and I'm 4 inches erect I heard something like most girls ... (141 words)

All we do is sit in and watch tv... How can I make this relationship more interesting?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and i love him dearly but i am feeling really bored in the relationship. I am a very outgoing, independant and love to party. I am currently at university and he has been in the same low paid job for years. My boyfriend is a good m... (225 words)

I have no idea how to french kiss. Help!

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im going to keep it short and simple my bf wants to french kiss what do i do can some one please help me i would appreciate it very much... (30 words)

Do you think she would accept being my valentine?

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12 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm extremely shy and I'm not sure how to make this girl want to be my valentine should I get her flowers chochlates or something like a romantic card I know I just want to pour my heart out to her but I'm just so shy Ive known her for about 2 years now and I just think she's ... (91 words)

Is there anyway to find the guy I lost 2 years ago?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I talked to this guy over summer of 2008. Yeah its been 2 years... He was one year older than me and amazing. We got along so well and we had so much in common. We flirted the whole time we takled and it was great. My friend intoduced me to him and we were texting.... (144 words)

Is it just me, or are lots of young people having sex nowadays?

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12 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - is it only me or you guys see that lots of young has experienced sex already, and they are so open about it. do you have kids that age (13-15ish) are they doing it? are you aware of it? i don't have kids, and I'm not going to for that reason. i just need other's opi... (66 words)

I think my boyfriend thought badly of me when I got pissed at my sister.

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - we had a dance last week and it was the kind where everyone was wearing dresses and had dates. i took my boyfriend. the problem was when my mom came she brought my sister with her and i just started acting like a jerk and i cant help it when my mom trys to take too many ... (88 words)

What does love really feel like?

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12 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I may be in Love with someone, but i don't know about it because Years ago I let go of most of my emotions. I think i may like her, i know she likes me, but there is another problem as well. She is only 15 or 16 i think and im not that kind of person im really not. I... (81 words)

I feel like an outcast and alone, is there anyone out there I can talk to?

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12 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there anyone who I can talk to about my issues? I'm new at my highschool and I came because I felt like an outcast at my old school. I thought things would be better once I came to my new school, but they are not. I never have anything to say, and I feel like I have no real ... (99 words)