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*edneck9407
writes:Well, my mother started dating a guy I knew from playing poker and he has a daughter that at that time was in a relationship with someone else. After a month or two my mother and now step-father are married and she has become my step-sister. Also, the boyfriend she was dating turned violent and so hes out of the picture. But since then I have been spending a lot of time with her. She has a 2yr daughter that I am ABSOLUTELY in love with. On Dec. 19th she called me and asked me to stay the night with her (this is when it all started) and I did from that night until Jan. 1st. On Jan. 1st I told her that I was beginning to get attached to her and her kid in ways that I shouldn't be. She replied with her not wanting any attachments. So me sleeping with her stopped (no sex the entire time just sleeping next to each other, I did hold her almost every night). Well, I have since then stayed the night some but on the couch but my feelings for her and her kid have grown and I am in love with both of them. Her kid has no father he has never been there for her and I would absolutely jump at the chance to fill those shoes. Should I talk to her again and tell her that I am in love with her and her daughter or just give up and is it wrong of me to feel the way I do towards her?
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reader, redneck9407 +, writes (14 February 2010):
redneck9407 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, I have continued to hang out with her and none of her actions are coming in as though she would like to be with me. They are all mixed signals. I am truly starting to believe that she is using me and is giving just enough signal that she would like to be with me just to keep me there... I am still unsure if I need to tell her how I feel... Also, I am not ashamed that I am in love with her simply because you can not chose who you love or how you feel about someone. (not saying anyone was saying I should be.)
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (8 February 2010):
 Your decision to stick to 'foreplay' is good, not from the stand point of religion, as you say,'We have both agreed that there wouldn't be sex (oral was ok) in the relationship before marriage because of religion"...but, from the stand point of maximize sex pleasure also. It is commonly experienced by many many married couple that their sex life is losing fire. You should learn tantric aspect of sexuality, is all I have to say about your question.
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reader, bharat mehta +, writes (8 February 2010):
The situation before you is serious, in a sense that it is not simple. Second, you are very young, say in your teen. What you feel today is your liking, can be turn out as disliking in short or long time span, and so on and on. So just wait, do not take any hasty decision. Know your self, read her response, let long long time pass, and decision will naturally come.
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