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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why doesn't my wife trust me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife is having some bad trust issues right now. First some back story, I have my best friend who We'll call A. I've known A for a very very long time. almost 30 years now. A has recently left her husband and moved back to town. She needs a friend right now, and h... (371 words)

Broke up... what's for me now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi again i have recently posted about my situation. My girlfriend and i have been dating for two years, until recently she told me that she wanted to be able to have fun and be social. She stated that she wants to be single. before this she had been taking to a boy and she said ... (427 words)

Is not closing my eyes when I kiss someone normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last October I had my first kiss. About a month later I had kissed another person and ended up making out with them. I thought it was them, but I think I may be a bad kisser because on New Years eve I played spin the bottle and I...kind of missed. I didn't even close my eyes ... (81 words)

Could I have an STD?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This might sound a bit stupid...but I'll ask anyway! I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. He was a virgin also, and we used a condom. Neither of us had been sexual with anyone else before each other, and haven't been while we've been together. And before u ask, yes i know ... (75 words)

Does our female teacher have a crush on my male friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I think a (female) teacher at my school fancies my (male) friend? First, let me make it clear I have no feelings for him except as a friend, so it's not me being paranoid. She often flirts with him a bit, and has said several times how perfect he is. He used to sit on the end ... (182 words)

I feel way to shy around girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

16 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, ive always wanted to just go on dates with girls for the experience but im so shy around girls i dont think they ever know that im interested!! sometimes il only realise maybe the next day that a girl was into me, but im so nervous i never get the hint!! what are the main ... (74 words)

Can anybody feel my frustration and confusion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We're LIKE a romantic couple but truth is he hasnt ask me yet but instead shocking me with the suggestion "let? "let's be best friends" why would a guy who likes her thinks that he doesnt want to confuse himself anymore and thinks they should and thinks they should just ... (240 words)

Do I just cut all ties and walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I split up from my ex about 3 months ago, thay left me for someone else. Yes it hurt but i've got on with things. I have been in contact with them often but just recently they keep telling me the grass is not greener and they've made my bed so they'll have to lie in it. I'm ... (109 words)

Why would he say these things to me then start dating someone else? Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - he would tell me i was beautiful,smart,funny,caring,nice,sweet, pretty much every nice thing you could think of. he told me he loved being with me ,he would flirt with me all the time,he asks me to a movie,never texted me back ,stood me up,and now hes dating someone else,is ... (53 words)

I don't want any of these guys that are asking me out I want one that makes me excited!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm a little bit worried because for the last few years all the guys that have asked me out or shown interest in me I haven't found attractive. I don't know if its beacuse I am obviously getting older and the dating pool is getting smaller but I just seem to be getting mu... (245 words)

Hen nights/batchelor parties

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, even though im not yet getting married because Im obviously too young right now. But I was wondering... Do the girls always go to male strip clubs and guys always go to girl strip clubs for the bachelor party or whatever? Cuz I always see that in movies and stuff. Just ... (55 words)

Is there another reason my period could be late?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have had sex, the past month has been very stressful cause we werent sure if i was pregnant or not because i hadnt got my period yet. He went out and bought 2 pregnancy test i took one on a sat. and it came up negative( i took that one in the afternoon) then ... (167 words)

Different sized boobs!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Can some one help me im 17 and just had a baby boy a few weeks ago i have alway had one boob bigger than the other but not a lot bigger but after having my son there is a huge differnce what can i do?... (46 words)

Torn between boyfriend and ex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm currently with my boyf for the last year and a half and I do love him, he's kind and thoughtful and secure. My ex from a few years ago is now back on the scene, we kept in touch in dribs and drabs but hadn't seen each other in years, but are due to go for a drink soon bec... (256 words)

I don't wanna be his little bitch that he can have fun with and then ditch me when he's done.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so here's the deal; I really like this guy. He's got a nice charm to him and he's extremely attractive. We have gone out twice but they both ended after 2 weeks. The first time he cheated on me and the second time he lied to me saying he loved me and wants to be together for ... (144 words)

To engage or not to engage...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age - Here's my situation. My bf and I have been together for 3 years. We're both in our mid 40's so it's not like we're young and inexperienced with life. We've both been married before and I have kids. I feel it's time to step up the relationship and perhaps get engaged. He ... (127 words)

Trust is a big issue in our relationship, and that's what we're lacking.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 6 months. Trust is a big issue in our relationship, and that's what we're lacking. I can’t really say that we both started off the wrong or right foot. At the very begin of our relationship, he was seen someone and our ... (336 words)

Help!! I'm in love with someone I can't have...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I am 21 he is 34...In september of 2008 I started to think I liked my coworker we were both having issues with our partners, I was having serious problems with my husband abusing me and he was having problems with his GF. So that created a little spark having something in ... (544 words)

Should I stay with my muslim boyfriend and try to make it work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just broke up with my muslim boyfriend we were together over 3 years... we were good for the first year but then I couldn't deal with me being a secret anymore all we would do is get into aruements about it but all he would do is ignore the situation I felt like there was not ... (762 words)

I just can't take much more of this sneaking around.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please no judgment or negative comments. I have been married for about 5 years and about a year ago my husband’s best friend started to be real friendly with me. My husband’s best friend is nowhere near my type. He is not something I would be looking for in a man. He is a major ... (545 words)

I have tried to psyche myself up, but no way can I do it... how do I ask him out???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age - Further to a recent post..... I am going to take some of the good advice given and now want to ask the bloke I fancy out. We are friends, both mid 40s and have been friends for nearly a year. He tells me lots about his life and is a really private person so this is unusual. He ... (392 words)

Gay urges!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a 22 year old male with a girlfriend that I have been seeing for the past two months. I have issues reaching climax and I'm afraid it's because I have been having gay urges lately. I'm fairly confident that I'm not gay; I am not sexually attracted to men and never have ... (82 words)

Intentions of an ex wanting to stay friends, opinions please!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just everyone's opinion as I am a bit confused. What is your opinion on exe's wanting to stay friends? Is there a hidden agenda or is it a sincere gesture? I mean, how do you know if your ex's intention is pure about staying friends? Give me some tips please how t... (65 words)

Friend says my girlfriend cheated, she says she didn't, who should I believe?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

16 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I think my GF cheated on me while skinny dipping. I had to work that night and she went out with some friends and ended up at a pool party. According to a mutual friend that was there, as the night progressed and people drank more the swimmers eventually were skinny dipp... (414 words)

I don't know what to make of this situation, any advice would be appreciated.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a man 33 with two young children for approx the last 4 months. He has a 6 year old and a 3 year old with his ex. I have met all his family and we talk all the time over the phone til late at night and spend most weekends together. He told me that they bro... (487 words)

What to do when I love both these guys...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been best friends with Kyle for around 8 years now. Everything he says I respect and I have yet to meet somebody else who understands me and cares for me like he does. A year ago however I met Luke, and found his interesting nature irresistible. I've always been ... (655 words)

How can I be beautiful???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to know what about me I need to fix to be beautiful. People tell me I'm funny and smart, but beautiful is a word I've never heard except from family. I am tired of always being alone and yes, I know I am only 19 and I have my whole life ahead of me but it's still sad ... (171 words)

Should I write this relationship off soon or continue waiting, with the possibility he will never be ready?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (?) age 51-59 - My boyfriend says he loves me a lot and is extremely happy, but does not want marriage very soon, encouraged me to move closer to my job, which is an hour away from the town we both live in right now, and talks about how he'd like his future home to be, using "I, me, mine" ... (155 words)

He's clearly not into me any more but why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Guys I AM PUZZLED?!? I was seeing a guy that I really liked for about a month and then went to Thailand for three weeks. We live 10 minutes away and the sex was amazing. We spoke whilst I was away and he said he missed me, then when i returned I went and seen him the... (169 words)

It becomes painful...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Whenever i masturbate or my boyfriend plays with me, after rubbing my clitoris i get the feeling i need to pee, i carry on because i know this is when im about to cum but just as i get the peeing sensation, my clitoris begins to become very painful and i can no longer handle it ... (82 words)

Why doesn't he just end things with her right now if he wants to get back with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and i split 5 months ago. he had feelings for someone else so i left him. the thing is we never stopped keeping in touch, he tells me he loves me every day and recently said he wants us to get back together. however he's been in a relationship with this girl for about 2 ... (83 words)

How do I improve this situation? My boyfriend is not giving me any time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well...umm im in a committed long distance relationship.its going to be almost 8months.i remember that the first 3months my bf used to go crazy with me.he used to text me a lot and even call.but now it seems as a dream.i know its not possible to be with him every time but he ... (220 words)

My sex drive has really increased but it seems like we are having less sex than before!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is always really swamped with work, and usually I am too. However, he's always had a huge sex drive, and I a medium one. I'd try really hard to get in the mood, even when I naturally wasn't, and he seemed to be supportive when I couldn't go on. I got off the ... (224 words)

Help me go out with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i like this guy for years and we havent gone out but always flirted and people always tell us to go out we've gone to different schools but i cant get him out of my head. i text him the other day and he didnt reply i rang then hung up just to make sure i had the right number. ... (66 words)

My wife wont let me go down on her and it is a real turn on for me. Any advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

16 February 2010 (M)

age - My wife is wonderful and we have a good sex life, but she won't let me go down on her. Or at least it hasn't happened in many years. She says she just doesn't like it, but its a real turn-on for me. Any advice? ... (50 words)

I feel like I cant be bothered anymore, has anyone else ever felt like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have just had enough with the struggle that is life. i've had enough of the constant frustrations and disappointments in life. i can't be bothered anymore. has anyone felt like this? how did you deal with it? how did you move on and start to enjoy life? ... (56 words)

I can't walk away but I don't want to be his little bitch either!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so here's the deal; I like this guy a lot. And I'm really comfortable with him more than any other guy. We went out twice before and he ended up lying to me both times. The first time he cheated on me and the second time he told me he loved me and wanted to be with me for a ... (154 words)

I cant help but feel like I got myself into another horrible situation way too soon

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't even know where to begin... but I am in need of advice... Back in June I had left my fiance of 3years because I didn't feel he was the one for me, and he was becoming overly possessive and controlling, to the point where I would get "punished" if i went out with fri... (942 words)

Why do I think about him sexually all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been single for 14months now.. and all the guys that have come my way just waned sex.. and of course i said no (they all disappeared) cos i want relationship+sex not just sex. ive meet this guy hes really sweet and sexy and he thinks am really sexy he told me he th... (193 words)

Need opinions on what happened to me..thank you for reading!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am writing this as my "burn letter", to free me from the pain I am going through and to try to get over this and ask people what did I do wrong so please bear with me and read this, thanks! I went about 4 times with a girl in nov. 2008 (we were both on a dating site) an... (1706 words)

I'm so confused, is he cheating on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have dated 3 guys, and 2 of them have cheated on me (cheated on 7 times between both my exes) and now i have a new boyfriend we have been dating for 1 year and 3 months, i recently found pictures of a naked chick on his phone, he doesnt know i found them, he bought me a ... (80 words)

Did I make the right decision to cut him off and let him miss me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My relationship of nine months ended 2 months ago because my ex boyfriend didnt have feelings for me anymore, wanted time and space for him alone, and we argued too much! He was tired of fighting. It was a hard break up for me cuz i loved him, we had great memories to preserve. ... (287 words)

I have heard a number of stories about my husband with other women, what shall I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear agony aunt! we have been married for 9 years.mine was an arranged marriage.we later had 2 kids,one boy,3 years and one girl,5 years.I am 33 years old and my husband 34.My husband is a good human being.he is always concentrating in my family and taking c... (353 words)

I cant accept that she hates me! What is the meaning behind her blocking me on Facebook and not replying to my emails?

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16 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have 20 years and am a boy. I love a girl for almost 7 years. I am certain that she was too. But i never communicate my emotions to her properly, (it was only through body language). Now we are enrolled in different universities and i have not seen her for 2 years. We were... (113 words)

He feels that since he buys me things and gives me money I should tolerate his bulls**t

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So, Confused for something I haven't done wrong. I have been in a rocky off and on again relationship for more than 4yrs. I have been through physical violence and disrespect you name it..infidelity and everything in the book..I've taken him back but now I think I just have had ... (199 words)

Should we have an open relationship or find the elusive spark?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Married nearly 13 years. 3 children. Nearly divorced a couple of years ago but we went to counseling for 18 months, and now live together peaceably, but the spark went out years ago. I’ve been fantasizing about an affair for some time. I’ve come close to having an aff... (779 words)

I really would like to emigrate while I'm still young but I don't know how?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Not a relationship question..I'm 18 i've lost contact with everyone from school and college, so my best friend is the only person ive really stayed in contact with,my job is boring, i can't find a decent guy where i live, there's not a lot to do here, and i just want so much ... (143 words)

Do you think I should always wait to hear from him first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy at a training course a few months ago. We kept in touch over the past few months, emails, texts etc. He asked me out for a coffee ages ago but we never seemed to get round to meeting up. Partly because of nerves on his part, I think (and mine to be honest). We ... (366 words)

What can these guys online give her that I can not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

16 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have a girlfriend problem. We've been seeing each other for about a year now, but lately I've seen a different side to her. She's always been a little edgy when it comes to my exes, never wanted me to talk about them. But now all she does is sit in her computer ... (768 words)

Does this sound like there is hope for the future or is she just trying to let me down gently?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

16 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok, long story, and any advice from the women on this forum who have been in a similar situation would be greatly appreciated. My girlfriend of 5 yrs left me this past week. I am going through what you might expect. Complete loss of appetite, sleepless nights, bouts of ... (912 words)

He broke up with me because some other guy claimed he'd had sex with me! I don't know what to do, I'm still in love with him....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, am 18. i dated a guy for like 3 months we loved each other, and things were going fine till an unknown guy showed up and started claiming to have had sex with me on all occasions.that he should stay clear off me.initially i told him was a virgin and still am.now he doubts ... (83 words)

Where does the loyalty lie?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (?) age 36-40 - my friend was not loyal to me i cheated on my girlfriend and he chose to be with her by confessing to her....who is right here.......... (26 words)

Torn between my ex and my new boyfriend....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

- i went out with this guy for 4 n half years and he cheated on me twice and continuously broke my heart, In the end he left me to be with the girl he cheated on me with, that was nearly 5 years ago and since then they have had a child together. It took me a good few years a... (502 words)

My girlfriend found my fetish through my computer history, now I'm worried she will never be able to get over this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm in a horrible situation and its killing both me and my gf. I've been in a relationship for two years now and despite what I'm about to say, I've never been happier, I can imagine not growing up and living my life with my gf, my freinds say they have never seen me so... (470 words)

Can anyone help me with my doubts about counselors?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age - Can someone please enlighten me? I am very skeptical about the role of counselors in helping with marriage problems. Several people in reply to my posts have suggested seeing a counselor to get things out in the open and get answers to questions. If one spouse needs answers... (170 words)

Nervous about having sex for the first time with my new guy....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm meeting this guy again on Friday and the way things are going I think we might end up having sex. The problem is I'm generally quite tight. My ex-boyfriend used to comment on it, and it didn't bother him because I loosened up after a while but I don't know if that's how ... (91 words)

She is a moody aquarius and doesn't seem to know what she wants!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

16 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl and I were friends for 2 years and a half then suddenly i began to like her, but i was several month of me liking her sometimes but not feeling that i have feelings and i couldn't like understanding whats going on...then i began to like her for real and when i was ... (525 words)

Why do guys prefer "slutty" girls rather than a girl who is romantic and caring?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I have a very simple question. Why do so many guys find girls who are promiscuous or 'slutty' more sexually desirable than a girl that is romantic and caring? For some reason, so many guys I know prefer to hang out with the girls that have no real standards, that ... (150 words)

It really hurts to not be able to speak to him and for him to be so nasty

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5395 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age - Hi Guys. My questions is regarding my ex/on-off partner. We've been together for years and split up on-off over the last 18 months. We always stayed in touch and stayed friends and there are still feelings between us and we are still attracted but because he has 'issues' with ... (594 words)

I'm ashamed of myself for wanting to steal another man's girlfriend, but I cant help feeling this way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - having a little problem here. im working with this girl and we are extremely close. honestly I do have very strong feelings im not sure what this is I just know that I love being around her and just talking with her. but there's a problem she has a boyfriend and they've been ... (278 words)

He has asked me to marry him after all his revelations, I have no idea what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - About 4 months ago, the man I had been with for about 4 or 5 months, sent me a text message and told me that he had met someone else...yes, a TEXT message! At the time, he had been out of state for about 2 month for his job, but we continued our relationship with phone calls ... (195 words)

I really think that I could fall for this guy. Problem is that he's not sure what he wants!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So I'm separated from my husband. We still get along, we just realize it isn't going to work. I have this male friend who I've gotten close to since. We live in separate states, I've visited him and he's visited me. We talk all the time, he calls me sweetie. I really think that ... (109 words)

Is my husband looking for attention?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - there has been two incidents (1) divorced friend and my hubby got chatting and laughing so much they ate even my salad at table (left with vinegar on plate) when asked what the chatting was about was told nothing, just nothing consequential.(both said that when asked. (2) Re... (533 words)

Why does he hate me when I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend says he loves me but I'm sure he hates me :(. He loses his temper over the smallest things, and tells me I'm shit, worthless and don't care about anything. Sometimes he gets violent as well. For example he's always pressuring me to loose weight, the other night ... (175 words)

I told his fiancee we had an affair out of anger!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I had an affair with a man who was in engaged. He is from Italy and is here for work and his fiance is and has been in Italy which I'm sad to say made it easier. When we started hanging out he didn't tell me but after I found out it was so hard to let him go because I felt like ... (207 words)

She has a broken heart, can anyone help me find the glue to reconstruct it again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

16 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok here I go this will take a little well it all started right b4 christmas, I was going Christmas shopping and I saw this girl we seen each other we hadn't talked or anything for about 3yrs I wanted to date her back then when I was 15 then which I'm now 18 and this girl is 17 ... (960 words)

Not sexually attracted to my girlfriend anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

16 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 23 year old male who is a collegiate athlete and never had any kind of mental or physical problems in my life. No trying to boast but I am not an ugly looking guy and my gf who i have been dating for 8 months exclusively and been with for like the last 2 years is pretty ... (299 words)

I want to know how and IF someone can consistantly keep secrets from someone and still love them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently ended my long term relationship because I found out the man I was with had been lying to me the whole time as he was with someone else. When I look back now, we had become more like friends because he never wanted to be intimate with me and now I know why, but ... (513 words)

My boyfriend attended a "filthy" lap dancing club..and had a dance!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone ... Please read my story , because I just dont know what to do and Im constantly privately in tears . I found out by pressuring one of the guys ( and thats a story in itself ) That my b/f of 3 1/2 years attended a " filthy " lap dance club . Its a Club where... (268 words)

Do I still have chlamydia?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to the doctor today (February 15) got treatment for chlamydia. So i took the pills. I went out to eat at the mall. Then later my boyfriend called me over and i promised myself i wasnt going to have sex. Unfortunately it happened, we had unprotected sex. approximately 5-6 ... (137 words)

Should I wait for him or look for others?

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I love a guy more than my life,but he's 4 years older, from a different religion and background, and has gone abroad 4 years on studies. My mother says to look for other options, but at times understands my feeling for him. He loves me too, and wants to keep this going, and I ... (98 words)

My wife has admitted having an affair and wants to save our marriage, but all my trust for her is ruined

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16 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently learned that my wife was seeing someone else through people that I work with. She admitted to having an affair, and I have been on a roller coaster of emotions for about a week now. We've been married for almost 5 years, we have 2 young daughters, and I have never ... (294 words)

How can I deal with my problems? Her past haunts me and makes me so jealous!

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16 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been talking to a girl online for the past 8 months. We have had video, voice chats, phone chat, text chat. I first met her on a friendship site. We started talking on a messenger and soon we became close friends. And slowly the friendship turned into love. After 6 ... (749 words)

How to make a move on friend when she's sleeping at my house

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16 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey all one of my close girl friends we always talk about sex and each others experiences etc and we are heaps flirty. now were both single and even when she was with her boyfriend she used to talk to me about everything they did and send me sexy pictures. She wants to come ove... (94 words)

I have a huge fear of pain and this is stopping me from masturbating!

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi!! im scared as hell 2 finger myself...i have a HUGE fear of pain but i need something 2 help me pleasure myself and i DONT have a bf so i can only help myself. ive tried touching myself and ive even got creative and used the shower head but it doesnt work!! anyone have any ... (75 words)

I'm already worried about the size of my penis even though I am not planning on having sex until I am married!

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16 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I know I might be to young to worry about this, but I'm 17 years old and I'm a virgin and I don't really plan on having sex untill I'm married, but I need an opinion from a woman, my penis is about 6 inches long when erect, is that too small??... (52 words)

Please give me a reason why I should stay a virgin!

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16 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Please give me a reason to stay a virgin. I always wanted to have sex the first time with another virgin, but there are non! All the girl today just shack up with the first guy they're with for more then two weeks. I don't blame them though, I blame the pricks that lie to them ... (282 words)

I've been feeling really insecure about her past lately.....

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16 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old and got dumped right before this past xmas. I was with her for like 19 months and it was hard at first but I've moved on and am happy without her. I got into a relationship around new years and things became “serious” only a couple weeks into it. It's s... (593 words)

Nothing seems to be working when I try to work on our relationship, and now we are fighting in front of our children

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 31 years old and a mother of 2 toddlers, their father and i live together. he has not had a stable job in the past 4 years. we once had an amazing connection and relationship but now it is sabotaged by a drug and gambling habit he has. i have been sober for 4 years and ... (223 words)

My brother caught me watching porn, should I talk to him about this?

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16 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so it was about 11:00 at night it i had the week off of school due to snow and i was watching porn. all of a sudden my 18 year old brother comes in and asks what is this. i really didnt know what to say. well its been a day now and i dont think he wants to talk to me or look ... (107 words)

Lately I have been feeling an intense sense of emptiness, and to make things worse I am now questioning my sexuality

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into this one post] Lately I've been feeling an intense sense of emptiness, or not reacting to anything happening (e.i boyfriend breaking up with me.). It all started back around October when I started gradua... (372 words)

Is it ok to slip a note to a married lady letting her know I find her sexy?

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16 February 2010 (M)

age - Is it Ok to slip a note to a married lady letting her know you find her attractive and sexy?... (20 words)

If a woman had a big crush on a man and she moved on, can she ever have those feelings again?

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16 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - If a woman had a big crush on a man and she moved on and just treats him as a friend, can she ever have those feelings again or is it a done deal? All the psychology bs on the Internet says it can never happen.... (47 words)

I don’t know if we’re only playing games right now, but I know I want to fall in love with my boyfriend's friend

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I met someone a few days ago, but we’ve been always known each other by face and name, since we go to the same college and he’s a close friend of my boyfriend. A Friday ago, my thesis group had an overnight stay at his place because we needed to finish our paper... (393 words)

Is it normal to hate making out?

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16 February 2010 (?) age 36-40 - is it normal to hate making out? i love to make out, being 24 im pretty much at my prime. my fiancee on the other hand is 30. says making out is for teenagers. weve made out once....in the year we were together. all i get is 3 small pecks on the lips. i want more....already ... (153 words)

Still madly in love with my ex...how can I get him back?

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok...This is the situation...This guy1 and I had feelings for each other since we were kids...I am now 24 an he is 25...He never got the gut to ask me out...He kept sending mixed signals...Finally I decided to move on with someone else and was in a six year relationship, and ... (368 words)

I really want her back but she wants to have a large single social life, should I text her or continue to give her space?

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16 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, my girlfriend and i have been dating for almost two whole years i am seventeen and she is sixteen. recently she told me that she did think she wanted to date anymore and needed to find herself. She states hat she doesnt want to look back at her high school life knowing that ... (149 words)

Why does she ignore me when I ask her out?

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16 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - there is a girl i really like, i call her like 4 - 5 times a day. sometimes i feel that she is ignoring me. what must i do ? sometimes she ignores me when i ask her out... (42 words)

Torn between two men

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Here is my problem.....I have been married for the last 12 years. This marriage has been very unhealthy and destructive in many ways. First my husband has been a drug addict and has been incarcerated for the past on multiple occasions. I have 2 small children with him. I ... (820 words)

Fiance makes sex seem like a daily chore....

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16 February 2010 (?) age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been together for a year now. he recently just asked me to marry him...i was shocked, surprised and happy. but now im questioning it. for a year its been me begging for sex. i enjoy sex, its a stress relief and it feels good. im only 24. i was married to ... (389 words)

Is he blowing me off?

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16 February 2010 (F) - I was supposed to go on a second date with this guy Saturday night. We originally met from online and i think i played my cards right from the beginning b/c i know he gets busy with side jobs and i never called him much or texted much..we met at a bar the first time and then he ... (506 words)

I feel I am second best to her ex....

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16 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf is still in love with her ex to the point she will cry if he dont pay attention to her in a dream, i can understand why to an extent as he committed suicide about 2-3yrs ago, we have been together almost 10mths and i am being put second best, i do understand what she went ... (68 words)

Teenage confusion over 3 guys.....

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Heeey everyone , soo , i kinda like this one guy , and i dont think he has any idea that i do , usually he gets the girls he wants , so because he hasnt hit on me , does that mean he has no interest on me ?? should i "chase" him ? do some guys like being chased ? or should i ... (391 words)

Will a doctor prescribe me HGH?

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16 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - If i ask a doctor, will he perscribe hgh to me? Its known as human growth hormone... (17 words)

Is it a good thing that he has not asked me about this note my friend sent him, or is he just oblivious to my feelings for him?

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to think. This boy "Joe" is really oblivious. I mean, he's busy and everything but really oblivious. We have good chemistry and everything, but sometimes I feel like he's not interested or he just doesn't care. My best friend gave him a note yesterday t... (133 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend I am too young to have a baby?

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriends want to have a baby but im only 14 and his 13 we dont even live in the same town, i want to have his baby but not this early. i need help what should i do... (39 words)

How can we go back to being best friends after we broke up?

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and best friend broke up with me a month ago he is still my best friend. Any one have any idea or advice on how to get over the fact that we are no longer together and for us to go back to some sort of friendship and be able to live with that. This is more me ... (88 words)

He used to like me but his friends still tease him about me! What's going on?

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Would a guy's friends still tease him about you and make jokes about him to you if he had stopped liking you? I know he used to like me, but now I'm not sure what's going on.... (37 words)

I nearly pass out when I go to finger her! Help!

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16 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Scenario: i'm getting 'close' to a girl and I go to put my hand downstairs but my heart races, so fast that I nearly pass out. What do I do? I have serious nervous issues, it's not that i'm afraid that i'll do it wrong, i'm not sure what it is. Should I just do it and hope I ... (66 words)

What can I do about my mom?

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this is a question on what to do about my relationship with my mom... i went through my first break up by myself locking myself in my room and crying even on the bus on i would just cry but always make sure she never saw me cry cause i didnt want her ask why. she has a prob ... (252 words)

Saying anything makes my situation worse..what can I do?

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. My issue is that my boyfriends mother hates me and he wont tell her how she is affacting our relation ship only that she has been stressing us out. When in all reality she has been making him wonder if we shouldnt even be together. Along with the countless things she has ... (112 words)

She and her Mother are turning me against my own family! Help!

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16 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently I got introduced to a girl who is still in her school.She is average in looks.But, somehow she and her mother focred me into this relationship.I feel her mother has used some technique that I am totally mesmerised.It started only as friendship.But now I am totally in ... (171 words)

What sort of weight do guys like for a girl?

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, i just want to know what weight guys like. im 5'2 and around 109lb.. is that fat to you guys? i mean i have curves and crap and i feel fat around my friends cause the havnt hit puberty yet and their like 75-95lb.. does it make me fat? i mean i dont have a tummy but.. i ... (73 words)

I'm scared I could ruin our friendship, should I go for it or hide until my feelings have gone?

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So i like my best friend. HE is a guy. We've been friends for a while too. he sits with me and my other friends at lunch, we sit by each other in classes, we switch hoodies(i have a guy one), and we talk all the time. but now i like him but i dont want to ruin our relationship, ... (80 words)

Weird teacher keeps looking at me weird

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I sit at the front of the classroom, right infront of his desk. When we are doing classwork or have to read something off the board, he always looks at me. When he's staring at me and I look at him, he either looks away or smiles. It's really uncomfortable for me to do my work ... (176 words)

Help! How do I deal with my boyfriend's ex writing on his facebook wall?

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and I can’t seem to stop obsessing over his ex. He has never talked about her to me, the only thing I know is they used to live together in Florida, broke up almost a year ago and they tried to be friends but it just didn’t work. ... (325 words)

Advice needed. 15, pregnant and don't know what to do... please help!

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 15 I Am pregnant and dont know what to do.. Please help me? If your gunna judge than dont say anything.... (22 words)

Why have I not got a promise ring???

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone , ive posted quite a few relationship questions on here my lastest one has nothing to do with what im about to ask im just looking for a male perspective on my situation. okay so me and my boyfirend have a group of 2 other couples that we hang out with all the time... (201 words)

Smelly problem!

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm with this guy and I really like him. I've been with him for 5 months but recently he has started asking me to do stuff with him. I don't mind as I feel ready I'm just really nervous about doing anything as it will be my first time (for everything) :/ Also this is e... (136 words)

Is this a rebound relationship or something else entirely?

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16 February 2010 (F)

age - My ex and I were together for nine years and have one 5 year son together. We never got married (he never asked). He moved out on Valentines Day last year but had been emotionally detached for months. He started dating one of his patients (openly) 7 months ago. It is the same ... (170 words)

He's Pakistani, I'm White - Mum doesn't approve, Help!

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The Title basicaly says all. I am just a teen girl, and my boyfriend has Pakistani Grandparents, and Parents, but his family have been living in the UK since before his parents were born. So his skin colour isn't the same as mine basicaly and my mum has a problem with this.... (386 words)

How can I maintain a friendly relationship with him throughout the semester?

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on my physics TA. He's a grad student and I'm a sophomore in college, so our age difference isn't a big deal, it's only about 2-3 years. I think he's really attractive, both physically and in personality too. I go to his office hours a lot and he's always really ... (343 words)

Hot and cold love...

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i need some unbiased advice!..... basically, i was in a relationship from a young age, 15. At the age of 20, i fell out of love with my boyf, and fell totally for my best guy friend who id known for three years. I ended my relationship nt knowing what wud happen as my ... (324 words)

Will you say a prayer for us please...?

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my fiance have been trying to conceive for 7 months.. We hope that we've done it this month.. We really do.. But i feel the need that if someone were to pray for us, for the miracle of life, then it'd help us, so please, say a prayer for us? Thank you x... (55 words)

Next time we go away he wants to take his mum with us!!!

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my partner's 50 and been living with his mother again for the last 5 months due to financial difficulties. the whole situation is really depressing him to say the least. although his mum willingly put him up he doesn't have his own space - 'his room' has loads of her stuff in... (390 words)

Please help and suggest something about this guy I love...

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - yesterday was valentines day. and it was all very freakn perfect! me and my boyfriend went to the movies but the problem was my sister. she came along. my mom made me take her since she was going to be all alone. now me and my boyfriend are 15 and shes 14 now so it wouldnt be a ... (571 words)

I am pregnant to a foreigner who I don't hardly know!!!

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16 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid please help let me know opinion, your experience, view to help me have all the picture. I am white girl form central europe, my parents were always trying to lead my life the way they wanted. Yes I was the best student etc, model, but my first love in my 1... (278 words)

So confused about my sexual orientation...

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16 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi people basically my problem is i've been confused about my sexual orientation for a while now. It all started about a year ago when i made friends with this guy and we became best friends really quicky and became really close and i started getting feelings for him that i've ... (190 words)