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30-35,
*gonyunclechris
writes:so ive been best freinds with my girlfreind for 4 years, And ive been going out with her for 7months, when i came on the scene 4 years ago, i took the scene as her closest male freind.my girlfreind joined a college course this year, and she met her ex as he is in the same class, my girlfreinds 19, she was going out with this boy when she was about 8years old for 5 years, and they mutually decided to end it. they were best freinds.My girlfreind went away for a week with college and she really bonded with her ex again.......they've started texting and She says hes her best freind, he was there long before me, although ive been there for 4years when he wasnt anywhere to be seen.i dont think for a second she will cheat on me, but im pretty anoyed after the 4years ive been standing by her side through thick and thin, all of a sudden he walks back in and is treading on my turf. i dont like her texting him ive told her this but she says, me and him go way back. the thing is, he was just a childish play freind, im the one whos been there not him, he cant just walk in and take over again, he gave that right up when he left her.he could of came and knocked her door for the 3/4 years that ive known her and he didnt bother! some freind. What should/can i do, what is the BEST thing to do. thanks
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reader, Sydnee +, writes (8 February 2010):
Dear Agonyunclechrisyou are experiencing jelousy in its purest form she hasnt seen this boy for many years and him coming back with be like christmas for her so to speak things will soon settle down to normal just support her and be happy for her that after all these years she still has a friend in this boy i would take the realtionship they had into consideration as it wouldn't have been anything more than an amplified friendship as they were so young just be there and be supportive it will calm down again Good LuckSydnee x
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