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writes:My boyfreind and i have been going out almost three weeks and he is already telling people he loves me. But the thing that bothers me most about that was that he was planning on proposing to his last girlfriend until she cheated on him. now I'm afraid that he is going to give me the ring that he bought for her. Reply to this Question
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reader, nanarial +, writes (8 February 2010):
nanarial is verified as being by the original poster of the question If he had bought the ring thinking of me i wouldn't be as upset about it, but he bought it for his ex. That and i don't want him to give it to me. not only am i only 15 but we've only been going out for 2 1/2 weeks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010): Jikes, if he does give you a ring say no. Too fast like you said, and also, if he's not bought a new ring even then definitely say no. If he gives you a ring and you are unsure, ask him. But if he did get a new ring, he could get very offended by your mistrust, however in your case I think its good to not be naive and believe everything he says.
I mean, he might think he truly loves you, but let him prove that by sticking with you through tough times and hardships, not by giving you a ring.
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reader, becca b  +, writes (8 February 2010):
Hi, that's quite simple really, if he says he loves u thn no matter wat he will listen to u and not judge u, so just tell him exactly how u feel, and if he doesn't listen then he aint worth nout.
Let me know wat happens
Becca B
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010): First cahnce you get, grab him and tell him straight that you want to take things slow, because your still young and dont want to spoil things by rushing.
Just say it to him, dont tell him you know bout a ring
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