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writes: My boyfriend rarely kisses me any more, when we have sex there is no foreplay, no reciprocation of oral sex for me, never any kissing during sex, sometimes he's looking at me and other times just watching porn while I perform oral on him. I try really hard not to let this get me down, but of course I feel like I'm not what he really wants. Lately he's been complaining about nearly everything I do.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (9 February 2010):
 The fact he does not try to satisfy you sexually is the most telling part of this. As for watching porn while you perform oral sex, that is up to you. Don't do it while he's watching porn.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): My instinct on this is to say to you, he's being a very unloving bf to you and is this the way you deserve to be treated? No it's not. So there's one thing you can do. Communication..plain and simple. Come out and ask him what is going on in his head. For him to be acting this uncaring...something is definitely up. I am sorry you are going through this hurt, hun. It's time for you to reach inside, grab that strength and just ask this guy, 'what the heck is he's doing and why'. Look I am seeing your age here. So I have to assume he's no younger 20 something guy. He's older, more mature and he should know how to navigate his way around life..right? Ok then the least he should be doing is talking to you and respectfully telling you the truth. You truely deserve an honest answer. You really don't deserve to feel this ignored, unimportant and undervalued like this. You want to be with someone who is giving, caring and doesn't give you these mixed signals. And he is treating you horridly..why are you tolerating this? I think it's time to seek the truth here and ask yourself, whether you really want to continue in a relationship with someone who treats you this way. Always make the choice in life, that upholds your self-respect and dignity. Ask him outright, be prepared to hear the worst..and if you do..let this cad go..dump him and go find happiness elsewhere.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010): honey im afrad the reality is he's just not that into you. It sounds like its time for "THE TALK." The first time my guy is focused on porn while i try to please him is the day i stop. I have way more self respect than that. He is desrespectful and degrading you. Put a stop to it yesterday. i think its time for a long look and a kick to the curb for this guy. mal
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