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writes:im 19 and i have a boyfriend, iv been with him for 3 and a hlf years. i meet this guy who is 24 and is my boyfriends bestfriends cousin. ive kind of met up with him a couple times and really really like him. he also has a girlfriend and a baby on the way, hez told me he really likes me as well. he continously messages me and calls i just cant get over him! Is this love or lust? what can i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): thank you both for your answers which i am taking in to consideration.
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reader, Kim194  +, writes (8 February 2010):
Hi, i think it depends on your relationship with your boyfriend, are you happy? if yes, then i really think you should try and distance yourself from this other guy and make things work with your boyfriend, especially seeing as there's a baby involved. I'd put it down to lust, we always want what we cant have! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010): From what I am reading I believe it to be lust, perhaps it is showing you and your boyfriend need to take a break, even if you might not feel like you're loosing interest in him you may be, especially since you're having feelings for other guys. You should probably take a short break from dating each other to see if you truly want to be with him. Cheating is never the answer and most guys will never forgive you for cheating. Take a break and get out there a bit. See if you still want him because if you're looking at new inventory then it might be better to break it off now rather than waiting and hurting him more in the long run. If you feel you still want him then try new and exciting things with him to keep the both of you interested.
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