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writes:I've been with my gf almost two years now and through honesty I found out from her that she slept with many much larger guys than myself and thats fine. I've noticed that on separate occassions her vagina felt more loose than others and thought nothing of it. Recently though I was a bit concerned because we went two weeks without sex, not to mention she just went to the restroom and wiped her vagina clean and dry so that I could perform oral. I started and within 10sec or so I decided to throw the finger into the mix, to my surprise she was more loose than any other time before but it wasnt even properly lubed. I figured once I got the penis in that it wouldnt be as bad as the finger but, it was... Not to mention that she herself acknowledged she was surprised it felt that way and that she noticed it herself with the finger. I questioned her fidelity as respectfully as I could as I have not ever encountered this problem with her or and the one time I did was with my ex and turns out she wassleeping with everyone, should I not be concerned?
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reader, lemieux +, writes (9 February 2010):
hahahha dude you're funny like hell! If she "slept" with others and she told you that then she thinks you ain't nothing. And you ain't hahahaha. No girl will tell you her life story if she wanted to keep you so sooner or later she'll find someone else. You do that to. Now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): Married Lady is right on this one....it is really an insult when a guy does this to a woman, base her faithfulness on the feel of her vagina...it just shows your ignorance really, and if a guy ever said that to me, it would be the last time he did that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): have you considered that she has been masturbating? I mean if i wait a week then sex does seem a little tighter.. but if i use a toy.. then it does seem not so tight.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010): if you have issues and suspect her of sleeping with someone else that is one thing but it has nothing to do with her being "looser." i have slept with one man and as I'm basically anonymous here there would be no point in lying about it. there are times that i am looser and wetter and times that i am tighter and dryer. there is no rhyme or reason to when or why. I'm sure it has to do with hormones but it does not necessarily happen at any certain time of the month. it doesn't seem to matter whether it has been hours or days or weeks since i last had intercourse. for all you guys who spent hours anguishing over this its pointless. its just like anything else in the human body...expect the unexpected. if she hasn't given you any reason to doubt her faithfulness you are completely out of line questioning her about this. its not like we have any control over it. ha if only!!! mal
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