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writes: I met a guy from online..we met at a bar and we seemed to like each other..the conversation went well..he offered to buy me another drink..and then he said after awhile he isn't really a big drinker and do i want to go to another place after this maybe for coffee? so i agreed and said you choose the place..we drove to his area which is about 10 minutes awayWe went to a cafe and we seemed to like each other..i was a little nervous..he complimented me a few times that i am really pretty, how can i be single..that i have nice eyes and i accepted the compliment and said thank you and he seemed to be a gentleman and not pushy. He asked if i liked sushi and i said i did and he said if we go out again and also said if you want to go out again, i'll take you to this sushi place. I offered him money when the check came to be polite and he said no its ok..he drove me home and when we parked he said we'll hang out again and i just said ok and then we kissed and made out for a few minutes..nothing too much...when i felt him maybe grabbing a little too much i would try to hold his hand. He wasn't pushy about anything and i felt comfortable with him.He said i drive him crazy(i guess meaning turning him on)He then said that i can call him....Which i thought was maybe weird? and i said ok. I texted him yesterday saying you are probably watching the game. I just wanted to say hi and thank you for the dessert. And he texted a little while later thanks for a great night with a smile face.Is he blowing me off or just taking things slow? I didn't text him after that and left it alone. Should I call him tuesday or wednesday night? Not sure how long to wait and he's the one who said i can call him. I hope he doesn't flake on me because i really liked him.(almost felt like he was too "cool" for me even and probably has other options online)..i really want to see him again and i can tell he doesn't want girls who become that pushy type rushing to be in a relationship. I'm just scared because some guys can show interest and even make out with you and then you never hear from them again
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010): I'm going through the exact same situation. If i were you, I would give him a call. He might not be sure how you feel about him so is waiting for you to make that next move. Be brave and pick up the phone, arrange another date and take it from there xx
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reader, nanarial  +, writes (8 February 2010):
 I think you should call him. If he wasn't interested in seeing you again he wouldn't have given you his number or replied to your text. He obviously cared about your opinion of him or he wouldn't have stopped when you grabbed his hand.
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