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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I stay with my best friend, my ex husband? Or move across the country with my current boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a very complex issue, and im sorry in advance for this long story, but I need help. From the beginning: I married at 17 , had 3 kids by age 24 and an alcholic husband. In 2004 I met some one online who I ended up leaving my husband for , and I have been dating him for ... (540 words)

Hanging out with a shy guy- does he want to be friends or date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy two weeks ago from a dating site. He invited me to go out with him and his friends. I had a fun time and he was attractive and nice. I didn't feel much of a spark but we also didn't have any time alone together, so I was willing to give him another chance. I wa... (296 words)

My boyfriend kept this woman a secret from me for a year!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my so called boyfriend has kept his other woman secret and this went of for almost a year. he swears that they are over but how do i trust that he is telling the truth?? ... (37 words)

If girls don't usually approach you, are you unattractive????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - if girls dont approach you in clubs does that mean youre unattractive to them? do girls normally approach guys or do they wait for the guy to make the first move? and does anyone ever notice that alot of guys you see in clubs that end up with gorgeous girls arent really that ... (70 words)

He has hit me and his ex told me he was abusive...how do I approach it with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out that my current boyfriend who has been suffering from depression and unemployment hit an exgirlfriend (a few years ago) of his multiple times, 'for no reason'. I've asked him if he's ever raised his hand to another woman and he's sworn to me that he never... (184 words)

I'm almost 40 and want another baby..when does menopause start?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - problem. im 39 and soon will be 40. im dying to have a baby again. my youngest child is 13. im capable and got enough income to provide for a new baby. the problem is im scared. does anybody here can give me advice. i dont know if im still capable of getting pregnant. im scared ... (64 words)

A few to get your teeth into...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello guys. I've been with my boyfriend for a year, it's all been well and good so far apart from two factors which are really getting to me. My boyfrined has a real issue with family. He just can't grasp it because he never really had one. His mother left him, his brother... (279 words)

To text or not to text...that is the question....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Thanks for your time. Im about to turn 15 and my boyfriend is going to be 16. during the day we usualy text and at night we talk on the phone. Well he got grounded for a couple days and he got it back two days ago. But now when we text i think he likes stops at of no where then ... (177 words)

How do I get my old teacher to be with me??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm graduating high school in a couple of months and I can't wait to finally start my life! However, I've fallen hard with a former teacher of mine who's 31. I'm legal now and don't want to cause him to lose his job or make him feel uncomfortable so I'm waiting. I really want ... (277 words)

My BF&GF fight all the time over me, and its getting kinda old

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OK.. so Im bisexual, and pregnant. Im only in high school, and am doing Really well. My BF and GF fight all the time over me, and its getting kinda old. I know I can only DATE one of them, but Im having a hard time chosing who I NEED to stay with.. I need advise by other ... (62 words)

Am I wrong for thinking she had her chance and it's my turn

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is still talking to his ex that he had proposed to n gotten pregnant. He wants to have all that with me, but he says he has an bond with her and he cant help but find out if she is ok. But im not sure she knows about me. If she knew about me and respect me being ... (139 words)

Is he just using me when he feels the urge?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age - I had great, great sex with a guy I've met online, and we seem to get on well. After sex he doesnt just disappear but hangs around and chats, and we both feel at ease with each other. But then he disappears! I texted him after 2 days later and said the sex was great, but f... (131 words)

Lost my virginity and I just wanna cry...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16 and i lost my virginity few days ago, i knew the guy who i done it with wasnt my boyfriend, but since he hasnt spoke to me, i know i was just a bootycall or whatever but now i feel like crapp, i jus wanna cry, i just dunnooooooo :(... (52 words)

I went thru the proper steps...and he hasn't called. help!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am a 25 years old female, and I have been single all my life. Not that boys werent interested in me, it was more of me being choosy about them. Now it is time for me to get married, and I have registered my profile on many matrimonial sites. Just a month ba... (286 words)

I feel like I'm using her a bit but my friends say just have fun...advice from the older aunt please..

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

20 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I don't really think that my situation is special, but I'm really just unsure of what to do. For starters, I'm 17 years old. I started seeing this girl around December of last year and she says she really likes me. We had an official relationship going, but due to my fear ... (299 words)

How do I chose which guy to go for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I have 3 different guys that like me. Two of which asked me out, and you can tell the other one does, though her has a girlfriend. I was on Facebook yesterday and the question came up 'If [this person] was single, would you date him?' I said that I don't know, and he ... (117 words)

Silly I know, but I am still paranoid!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this may seem silly, but im really paranoid. My boyfriend and I are not having sex, but i gave him a handjob and he came on his stomach, when climbed over him to get off the bed and a little bit got on my thigh. I was wearing shorts and I took a paper towel and wiped it off ... (108 words)

I need help to get over this relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well,mi ex and I had been together for 2 years but still talked for 2 years after.He had a girlfriend but me being dumb and in love,didnt care.He was emotinally abusive towards me and i didnt realize until it was too late.I decided to cut him off for a while because the abuse ... (151 words)

The more money I give the more she wants

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, everyone. I started dating my now-fiancee in April 2009. Things were great up until about May. She started asking me for money. It was small amounts at first. $50 here, $80 here, and so on. I have to be honest with myself. I never felt right sending her money because I ... (728 words)

Does money guarantee happiness

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

20 February 2010 (M) age 41-50 - Do you think finical situation will cause happiness or unhappiness? Are well off couples are happier than poor couples? Do their marriage will have less troubles? Are rich families kids happier than poor families kids? Do they get in trouble less,when poor families kids? ... (79 words)

I worry my son in law's smoking could affect my grandchild

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My son in law smokes skunk and i want to know if my 1 year old grandson can be affected from the fumes as he suffers from nose bleeds and i think its a reaction to the fumes.... (38 words)

Although I have a boyfriend I find women attractive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this dude for a while now and he got a girlfriend. I do love him but I find myself attracted to females. When we go out I never look at other dudes, but always look at females from head to toes. To him, he is the only one I am interested in. Does that all ... (73 words)

15 and pregnant to my adopted cousin

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well When i Was 14, i Was havin trouble with my mum and eventually left home and went to stay with my uncle miles away...anyways my uncle had an adopted son which was 15 at that moment (lets just call him bob) and was originate from colombia he was so cute and as soon as i ... (437 words)

I think he might fancy me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A while ago i went for a night out and i was talking to my mate sarah and there was a guy who i didnt know sitting next to me.Then my mate went inside for a drink and the guy who i never met before started talking to me and then i said i was cold and he said he would give me ... (204 words)

My sister is feeling down, I need names of celebrities to boost her morale

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Anyone know any Celebrities who dont have their drivers licence or cant drive?? Odd question i know but my sister failed her driving test today again....she is very down ast the moment.She is 32 and because of her age she feels more of a failiure. I've assured her she will... (109 words)

My boyfriend always looks at women online.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend always looks at other women online and it hurts me so bad. I feel like i'm not good enough he watches porn a lot and i feel very insecure i can't even enjoy sex together anymore and its making me very depressed. I asked why he watches porn and he tells me he won't ... (106 words)

I want to initiate sex but I don't want my b/f to think I am slutty

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im scared my bf with think Im a slut. so Im seeing anew guy and I like him alot he likes me to but. I guess Im a diffrent type of girl compared to alot my age. I have had sex with one person. I dont really party. I dont hookup etc. My bf loves that Im not sluty and I dont do ... (113 words)

I feel the need to cheat...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I have come across a huge temptation to cheat. I am not married to the man I am with and am only 19 so the feeling that I should be able to do whatever I want is strongly in my mind, however I know that, that is never the case in life. Me and my boyfriend live together ... (345 words)

I made an "extra flirty" comment to a boy I like, now he has gone cold

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was flirting with my friend (a guy) via text messaging, and he made a silly comment which lead me to agree with it and adding a remark of my own that was a little more forward. If he was dense about my feelings for him before, I think my response was pretty clear. But ... (113 words)

My bf mistreats me..should I take my son and leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - (Mod note: Poster, we combined your 2 postings as they were both of the same content and topic area) 1) ok well i have a boyfrind ive been with for about six months when we first got together we were so in love. my first husband commited suicide and the guy im with was best... (478 words)

I'm too worried to see my doctor because a few years ago he called me a hypochondriac

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Alright, I'm fourteen years old, about to be fifteen in a month or so, and this morning I noticed two very small bumps under my foreskin. I'm not sexually active, and they don't really feel like bumps if I feel them. They also only look like small bumps when I look at them a ... (98 words)

I am living with a friend who said he like me, but for the past two weeks he has been hitting me and swearing

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my friend are staying for about 2years together,he said that he likes me but we never had sex.The last two weeks he just want to hit me and swear to me.How can i win him back?... (38 words)

This man makes me feel useless! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so this is kinda long winded so bear with me on this. Bout 2wks I put a post on this site az iv been with my boyfriend 7yr living with him for 5yr just got engaged this xmas eve just gone. We have our arguments problems etc just like all relationships but what I'm finding ... (370 words)

He teases me a lot...does he want to be more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have this guy best friend and we always hang out. he's really funny and he is the class clown, he teases me alot. one time we like actually got to the mall, just the two of us, and people started teasing the two of us. and after that, i cant tell if he likes me because ... (92 words)

I have problems achieving an orgasm...what can I do?

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20 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 23 yrs old and have only ever orgasmed once The feeling like you need to wee puts me off and i cant do it now its Affecting my relationship i dont want to lose him, but dont know how to overcome this if anyone can help me i would be very greatful thanks car xx... (65 words)

I am bisexual and I do not know how to tell my parents! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm bisexual and I dont know how to tell my parents. There's a part of me telling me not to tell them in case they don't agree with that type of thing. As far as I know most of my family are homophobics so I think if I told my parents, eventually the rest of my family ... (86 words)

My breasts are heavily bruised from his hands, biting, and sucking. Any worries for the future?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunties-- Thanks so much in advance for reading. I care very much for my boyfriend of several months. I thought I should start off saying that to clarify that this isn't a casual situation. Whenever I let my boyfriend feel up my breasts, we get a bit carried away. I ... (123 words)

My boyfriend's friends love me and won't leave me alone! My friends hate me for it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm worried I'm loosing all my friends because of my boyfriends friends. They all fancy me and wont stop following me, I need some time with my girlfriends but thats never going to happen because they wont leave me alone - My friends dont like his friends. I talked to my mam ... (91 words)

Should I ask him if there may be a chance in the future once his head is back in play?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing a guy for around 6mths and he's recently left his wife. The last 6 weeks have been hell. He's completely changed. Last week he said he needed some space to sort things out and his divorce etc, he said he loved me and that once everything was sorted he'd focus ... (241 words)

First time sex... I don't know whether I should do it or not.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, my question is on first time sex and its not going to be easy to answer, but basically I was wondering whether I should do it or not. I know this must sound a little odd, but I was watching a Family Guy episode last night (don't knock it, it actually got me thinking... (147 words)

Does it matter if a guy is shorter than a girl?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Just a quick question for the ladies especially. Would you be put off a guy if he was smaller than you, height-wise? There is a girl in my class at school, who i get on with really well, talk a lot, and sometimes have a bit of a flirt, but inam considerably shorter than her. ... (63 words)

I feel I don't have friends anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 28 and I just realised that I don't really have any friends anymore. I have lived in my hometown all my life and had loads of great friends there. One best friend in particular, moved 200 miles away and he was like a brother to me. He now lives with 6 crazy housemat... (359 words)

I was locked out of my house, and my friends are not supportive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okkayy to begin i met this guy a while ago and the more time i was with him and talked to him i continued to fall for him. but throught that time we had our ups and downs with his ex's getting in the way. But I was willing to deal with that because of all te feelings i had for ... (408 words)

I want to make sure our first time is enjoyable for my girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How many times does a woman orgasm on average in the time it takes for the guy to climax? Me and my girlfriend are going to have sex, and i want to make sure she gets satisfied. I have a lot of stamina, i just want to make her happy.... (50 words)

He tells me about his beautiful girlfriend but never talks about his wife, could he be interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just want to know whether this married man loves me or not.. We've been good friends for sometime now.. we have shared almost everything.. he had a child few months back .. we both like each other.. more than friends.. to be frank i look good compared to him. He always says ... (113 words)

I got drunk and made out with another guy, and now feel guilty

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. Right now were doing long distance and i see him every month and a half or so. i was basically with him all the time for the first month, then left for uni, came back and had a solid month with him, we talk all the time, skype, fb, ... (343 words)

I bought a sex aid but my wife doesn't seem interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have question about something in relationship ,trust and marriage. I had shown my wife a orange spanish fly liquid coupled with kamasutra gel after few weeks of marriage. more to show as trust builder since before marriage we had some unsaid perpections. as a per... (200 words)

I have a boyfriend but I am jealous of my male best friend's girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I was in love with my best friend for 2 years or more, but then i just realized that he didn't actually love me as a more than a sister. So i tried to get over him and i did for a while and fell in love one of my friends and he asked me out one day so i accepted because ... (282 words)

He rushed into an engagement, rushed into a mortgage now he is having second thoughts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I apologize if this will be long, but there's alot to say here.... Recently, my fiance (who I've been with for 5 years and have been engaged to for almost a year next month) asked me if we were rushing things. I asked why he thought that, and he said "Friends, family... (712 words)

By accepting my wifes affair am I just prolonging the inevitable?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

20 February 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi , i have been married for 12 years but this year i found out that my wife was having an affair . We are trying to work things out but she still wants to keep seeing the other man . I am not happy about this and at the moment it has been left that she can as long as she tells ... (102 words)

I read my boyfriends texts and now my world has come crashing down

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend now for neally 6 months, and I've trusted him untill now. Yesterday I was bored and I know it was wrong of me but I had the urge to see his texts. In saved messages I saw a text saying 'well you can see them for real if you want:p' and ... (146 words)

The married man I love pretends to be busy and wont talk to me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in love with a married man who is 10 years elder than i do. I had recently broke up with a guy.. soon after my break up this man came in my life ( we knew each other even before my break up but we got close to each other after my break up) This guy usually comes and speaks ... (654 words)

Since he cheated my life has never been the same

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm at breaking point and so is my partner. I don't know what to do anymore. He cheated at the begining of our relationship and I have obviously not dealt with it. My anger has grown to such a point that I don't know if it will ever get better. I speak to him with no re... (306 words)

Work and study gives me no time to party with my girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my girl for 3 months now. I love her so much and she loves me too.Am a post graduate student trying to put my life in the right path, by concetrating on my education while working part time.I am still living with my Parents. She on the other hand is working,... (147 words)

I focus on the negatives but want to make my relationship work

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - The story (I'll try to be brief)... My boyfriend who I loved and was crazy about, broke up with me around April 2009 after being together for several months. We had been dating long distance for a few months prior to the break up, as he was away on a work assignment, and ... (429 words)

I want my ex back, she loves me but has married the father of her first child

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

20 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in love with my ex, who is the mother of my daughter, and who is also married. I am at a complete loss as to what to do. She tells me that she still loves me and wants to be with me, but I dont know if I should believe it. We split because I was drinking to much and ... (195 words)

Can I ask her to wait 18 months until I return?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5419 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so this is kind of weird. I'm a architect, lesbian and from manchester. 7 months ago I got talking to a girl on facebook (i didnt know her she's from london) she's gorgeous, we really clicked, and was talking every day for hours. I had a girlfriend then as well. After a ... (579 words)

After doing some research I've discovered my ex was a narcissist

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all I'm looking to hear from people who either have had a personal experience with a narcissist or have some psychological experience and can give me their opinions. So I've spent the majority of my adult life with, from what I've read, is a narcissist. I've just b... (770 words)

I am seeing a new guy but am totally paranoid that he might treat me as my ex did!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so recently I have been seeing this new guy and he is 5 years older then me. which I dont care about but we are doing long distance right now. Im totally happy and I know hes happy too. At the same time Im totally questioning everything..like why does he like me and I know I ... (194 words)

Was she snogging for my benefit or did I over react?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

20 February 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, just want an opinion on this one. I was out last night and my ex was there. We don't really talk much these days but she is the sister of one of my friends so we will occasionally bump into one another. I went to the toilet and she was standing nearby in a quiet area ... (182 words)

A question about sex

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20 February 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, well i just want to know that I am in a realtion and i am happy too, but the thing is when ever i sex with my partner she losses her power very fast , ( her water came out) i dont know what to do in this situation ,, can you suggest me wt should i do 4 her better ... (75 words)

Since I have a girlfriend the thrill to masturbate is gone. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Since I have a girlfrriend (we do not do anything sexually except hugs and kisses, we're 16 and i'm a virgin) the thrill to masturbate is gone. It's like i don't want to masturbate anymore. Is this normal? Or is it because I miss her because I haven't seen her for 6 days (... (62 words)

I am a touchy feely guy but sometimes she will turn her face away

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 16 years old and i am in a relationship with my girlfriend, she is 17 years old. we have been going out for almost 6 months, and i love her to bits, we are both emotionaly happy and in tune with each other but whenever i go to slide my hand down their or move in for a kiss ... (130 words)

He is rude and mean and in love with somebody else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this friend.. And he is, well Just to get down to my point. Full on Emo. But I love him! (: I am the COMPLETE Opposite from him. But, we're like best friends:) -- I don't know wether my feelings for him, Are more then a friend. I want to fall for him. And Honestly He can ... (232 words)

I really liked him but through shyness said I couldn't go with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just turned 16 this year and I’m troubled over my feelings. Since Sec1, I was attracted to K and we always hang out and he would write me some silly notes that made me laugh. He would walk me back home and carry my bag for me under the hot sun. At then, my best friend was ... (467 words)

How can I know if my boyfriend didn't enjoy sex without asking him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I know that my bf din't enjoy sex without asking him... (14 words)

Since my boyfriend cheated I don't feel anything during sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - l think l have a problem about my sex life cos every time when lam having sex l don't feel anything at all this thing is started about 3 months ago when l found my boyfreind sleeping with other woman... (40 words)

Love or an obsession?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Can love be easily confused for an obsession?... I love my bf to death and he feels the same about me but we fight a lot and feel strong feelings of leaving one another but the same about our love. Could we be obsessed with one another, comfortable with each other or are we ... (127 words)

My coworker having an affair reminds me of my husband's past affair and I'm hurting again. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 8 years. During the first year, my husband had an affair on me. Since then we have moved forward and are back on track. It's been 7 years and I have not thought about the past until 6 months ago. I work with a girl who is having an affair with a ... (196 words)

I hate it that he has anger issues but I love him too. Love shouldnt hurt like this

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can i settle differences in my relationship without making an argument worse? My bf has anger issues and its never easy talking to him about anyhtin. It seems like everything gets him upset. He never thinks he's wrong and doesnt say sorry when he realizes he is. Im tired ... (79 words)

Everyday I wait for a call from him, and wait and wait ..

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20 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Guys, Thank you for this site cuz whenever I have problem, everyone is trying to help me.. I have problem with my bf whom I havent seen him since he went to his country for 2 weeks because sickness of his granddad. I know its really hard for him cuz his granddad raised ... (286 words)

I have just discovered my husband is cheating with escorts

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20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Just found out my husband has been cheating on me with escorts. I still love him and want to work things out. Am I wrong for feeling this way?... (29 words)

Doesn't he love me anymore?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of 5 yrs (been together for 11 yrs) has become increasingly uninterested in me and our marriage over the last 7 yrs. I'm not really sure if he is having an affair, although a lot of the circumstances surrounding us appear that he could be. In the last 12 months ... (601 words)

He wants to come first, over my child

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20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a single mom with a 4 year old son. My boyfriend has a small issue of me not putting my son to bed before 9pm, so that we could have sex. We don't live together, we live 15 minutes apart. The thing is that he sometimes gets tired at 8pm and he gets a nap whenever he wants. ... (163 words)

I know I can't make him love me but it still hurts

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20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm confused about my situation. I'm trying to give up but I can't What would you do? I'm a girl in love with her best friend. We have gone out before (On and off for about 4 years) But this stop last year and we became best friends. I dump him because I thought he was in love ... (418 words)

He doesn't want love, he just wants sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We are both in our late 20's. One of my problems is that he wants to have sex all of the time but is not affectionate. His complaint is that our sex life has become boring. He wants to have sex all over the house. He has ... (197 words)

When she is in a mood there is no reasoning with her

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20 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, im in bit of a situation... Well theres soo much to tell but ill try to keep it short. Well my and my gf have been dating for 2.5 years now and im 18 and shes 19. Things started out pretty well, but they were going in the wrong direction. Due to constant sexual ... (580 words)

My boyfriend complains and accuses me of cheating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is STILL complaining about me being too loose down there and accusing me of cheating. I have tried desperately to no end to tighten my vaginal muscles; ben wa balls, smart balls, china shrink cream, tighten her uo sure grip gel, vinegar baths and douches, kegels ... (188 words)

I wonder if my ex would have loved me more if I had been beautiful

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I might not be doing myself a favor by dwelling on this, but dwell I will. My ex who I am still getting over, used to tell me out of all the girls (more than ten) he's ever been with, he only fell in love with two of them. He talked about them by name and I found them as his ... (668 words)

How can I tell if a nice lady wants more than just a friendship?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

20 February 2010 (M)

age - I am single man attracted to a lady with 3 kids. I have not dated her yet but have been talking with her off and on for about 6 weeks now. I have mentioned to her that kids are resilent and they are good to have around sorta my way to let her know that her kids are OK with... (199 words)

Sometimes I wonder if she even wants to be with me ...

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20 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girl and i are together and she says she has no patience for nobody and sometimes she gets mad at me and for me its like for no reason i dont like upsetting her but i also dont want her to act like that so much...and sometimes she dont even act with me like im her boyfriend ... (104 words)

My boyfriend is sleeping with his sister in law

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20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i just find out my boyfriend has been sleeping with sister in law i find out 4 weeks ago my sister in law told me on the computer she told me so many storys and they hid it from me for 6 to 3 years i get told they sleep together 2 times but i belive it been more when i ask ... (219 words)

I am considering dating while pregnant to someone else

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20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a wonderful amazing guy early last year and we hit it off really well. I thought he might have been the one cos we clicked so much. He sadly had to call us quits fairly early on in the relationship because he had very serious issues he had to focus on but wanted in the ... (645 words)

We are constantly fighting and having pointless arguments

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, maybe the past month or so, I have no been able to stop fighting with my boyfriend even when I try to avoid arguments. We just got done having a fight about how I hurt his feelings and tried to "challenge" him last night when he was play wrestling with me and I ... (247 words)

I told him I'd rung to break off, but he took it literally

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20 February 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, About 2 months ago, I called my boyfriend of 7 years to break up with him because I'm having feelings for my ex, I took about 1 month to think about it prior to calling and realized I needed to listen to my heart. The bf and I had a very long conversation, we... (270 words)

I want to rush this relationship along to make sure she is mine

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20 February 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl. We haven't known each other for that long, but we have been going out on dates. We have talked nearly every day since we met and have really hit it off. We are holding hands, hugging, etc. She has recently gotten out of a bad relationship she was pushed into ... (460 words)

I'm hooked on somebody who will never love me

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20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Im hoping someone has some good advice to help me out! Im 26 and totally, head over heels, in love with one of my friends. He's 27 with 2 children and a ex gf who he's never denyed he'll always love. Problem is now Im the great friend, of 2 years, who he met on ... (177 words)

I agreed to move town when married but now I have changed my mind

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi can anyone give me some advice? I live in Wxxxxxm with my parents and my fiance lives in Wxxxxy which is an hour and a half away, we've always said that I will move in with him once we get married next year, but lately Ive change my mind and I desperately want to stay in ... (156 words)

My ex wont talk to me anymore and I can't stand it!

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20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right here it goes.. I was going out with this lad for a really long time. We were so close and he is my first ever love. We broke up now just over a month and within that month there has been alot of big and small arguements. A then went out with this guy for one night and he ... (217 words)

Trying to untangle friends and relationships

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20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Let's call this guy Joe. So yesterday, Joe compliments my other friend right in front of me. He says she has a good serve and everything, but I'd see him kind of look at me. But i' brushed it off. Practice ended, everyone stayed. One of my other friends, let's call him Ri... (195 words)

My boyfriend wasn't surpised my best friend said he loved me

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20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My best guy friend of about 8-9 years told me he loved me the other day. Im in a relationship of 7 years. I do NOT feel he same about him, hes just a friend. I dont want to lose my friend but i dont want him to love me! We agreed to not talk or hang out for a few mont... (151 words)

My boyfriend assumes I am sleeping around

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20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this man for a while. Lately he's assuming I am sleeping with another man. I am not! However he said, "it's o.k. with me, believe me!" How am I suppose to take that? Confused and Frustrated?... (49 words)

My family is out of control ...

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20 February 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok to be franc I'm peeved off with my entire family whom I do live with, my brother, dad and mother. Basicaly my father drinks way too much everynight and has really mad mood swings at times not physically but becomes nasty calling everyone names etc... He also has become ... (306 words)

We are both crushing on and stalking teachers

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20 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I am a 15 yo girl. Me and my BFF (17 yo girl) both have teacher crushes. Hers is on a Middle School Spanish teacher. He is about 46 yo. Then i have a crush on my High School History teacher. He is 25 years old.(and blonde!!!) Neither of us have our fathers close to us ... (240 words)

My boyfriend and his girlfriend and child are moving to another state, and he has asked me to move too

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20 February 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with this guy for 1 year and 3 months now, we are both from the same country, he has a chinese gf that he's been with for a little over 3 years now, they live together and they have a daughter, he spends all his time with me, helping me and my daughter. Although I ... (193 words)

My friend and I both liked the same boy but he chose her!

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20 February 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my friend and i both like the same boy but he decided he likes her better than me. im very upset about this but he dosent want to hurt me and he wants to be friends. i tried getting over him but i just cant. everytime i see them together i go into this mode of depression. help!... (58 words)