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*okutenda
writes:l am 23 and my guy is 26. we have been dating for 1 year. the problem is l don't know if he still loves me or not. was suppose to meet him on new years and he didn't turn up. l didn't contact him and he didn't also. l then texted him twice last week to ask him where l stand. he didn't reply, he hen called on Friday but didn't say much, he said he was busy with work he was going to call back. he hasn't done so. what should l should?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): Well at least you know where you stand. This guy is not worth your time, you can do loads better. Good luck! xxx
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reader, nokutenda +, writes (15 February 2010):
nokutenda is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for responding. there were problems in the relationship. l wasn't wanted by his relatives there were in favour of his ex. he started acting strange when he got back from his parents house.l took samatha advice and texted asking him where l stand. he didn't reply. l texted again telling him l was moving on, still no response. l am moving on have seen the guy is not into me
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010): Has this suddenly happened out the blue, or were there problems in the relationship before?
It is not nice to be stood up by someone. I've had a guy do that to me on a few occasions. To me, it says that he is not really all that bothered about the relationship. If he can't even turn up, or even let you know he can't make it, or even have the decency to contact you to apologise...that isn't a good sign in my opinion.
I think you should try and ask him again what is going on, and where you atand. If he still doesn't reply, then move on. Don't wait around for him. If he does contact you in the future though, and wants to meet up, be careful, because it sounds like he may want things on his terms. When this happened to me before, it wasn't a one-off thing. It kept happening. This may not be the case in your situation, but even so, it really doesn't sound good to me.
If he won't make you a priority, then don't wait around for him. You deserve better treatment than this! x
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