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writes:So the guy i am talking to is a whole 6'7'' and i am only 5'1/2'' so we tried to have sex and it was completely awkward. i need help on how to not make it so awkward and let him enjoy it! Please Help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): Sweet! At 5'5'', I think I can help.
Sashay over towards him while he's in a sitting position, kiss him, and let it go from there. But if he's standing up, there's a few things you can do:
Lean a little backwards, so he has to stoop down to your level, cradling your back. Think classic Hollywood screen kiss...
or wear really killer heels to elevate you a couple of inches;
or start by kissing his chest (Men love this).
If he's much bigger and stronger than you, he can lift you up and you've got it totally sorted!
Look on it as a fun challenge. Once you're flexible and inventive, the sky's the limit!!
Enjoy your man and...best of luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): thanks guys his issue is that when i am on top of him i am half way down the bed.a.k.a his torso is way too long! The sex wasn't bad just awkward! Any other recommendations?
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reader, alexis23 +, writes (16 August 2010):
 I'm 5ft and my boyfriend is 6ft. When I hug him he jokes around about me not even reaching his chin yet, but in bed, I'm sometimes on top, or doggy style works from time to time, but when he's on top, he's in between my legs, so there's not much of a problem there. (Sorry if I'm too specific on the details.) Hope I helped.
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reader, Sura  +, writes (16 August 2010):
Although my guy is 6'2 with me being 5'2 ( not quite the height diffrence you got going on there) I'v faced the same problems as you have.
You can always do the boring old missionary style, nomatter what anyone says, I still say it feels good, and if your flexible enough, bring your leg(s) up to your chest. Because more then less most of the height diffrence is in the legs more so then the upper body anyways. So it should work for you.
You can play around with diffrent styles of cowgirl with the guy on his back and you on top. If you want to do doggy style, the way we do it is the guy standing on the ground, and you on all fours on the bed. That way you have some height and he doesn't have to bend his knees and kill himself to get into you. Umm theres missionary on your side witch isn't too bad, that's all I can think of right now, I hope you can find one of these usefull.
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reader, LauraxLeex  +, writes (16 August 2010):
I think I am going to have this problem myself quite soon, as my crush is 6ft 5 and am 5ft 4!
We didn't have full sex, so I can't advise you on that, but Maybe you could be on top, spooning, and doggy style may work
He could hold you and do it standing up also.
Good luck and enjoy :) x
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reader, LittleAlfie +, writes (16 August 2010):
 From personal experience, there's nary a such thing as a "bad position" if the sexual chemistry is there. Truly the only awkward one is basic missionary with him on top. Even then, I've never found it personally distracted to have my ladys heavy breathing so close to my chest. Perhaps little adjustments to standard positions are all you need. Try having him stand on the side of the bed rather than kneeling with you if you fancy doggy style. Women on top is always a classic but perhaps you can spice it up by him sitting up with his arms around you. Or if he's got the back And leg stamina for it, you can try against a wall. Really it's just up to the both of you to get creative. And remember: have fun! It is sex after all.
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