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writes:My boyfriend and I have a good sex life. We do it at least twice a week. But recently, with curiosity, I started masturbating. All this time I've never really masturbated to a point where I would climax. It makes me realize that my boyfriend has never made me climax. It has just changed our sex life. I dont feel as pleased anymore because I don't climax and when I try to tell him what to do to help me reach that point, he'd try but it'd take so long to the point where I give up and lose my patience. My question is, does this take time for my boyfriend to learn? I'm just scared it will completely ruin or sex life. I love making love to him, it's just I wish I could climax too without always having to just masturbate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlright yeah thanks. I've tried to masturabate for him, and I know it would turn him on but to me its just so awkward lol. It's not that I'm not comfortable around him though. I guess I'll just have to do that though. :)
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reader, dirtball +, writes (16 August 2010):
 Have you tried masturbating during sex with him? I know I've had GF's in the past who did this. I was never offended, in fact it turned me on even more. It also helped them reach orgasm. When it comes to sex, we sometimes have to take a "whatever works" mentality.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010): Yes. I've 'shown' my guy repeatedly and his fingers never feel the same on me and he never gets the angles right and it's never worked out..for years. he can only make me come from oral which he gets sick of doing cause it's time consuming and is all about me. good luck.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (16 August 2010):
 SHOW him how you get off. If he is smart he'll pick p on how to get you off REAL QUICK...
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reader, Akir  +, writes (16 August 2010):
Think of it this way, you know what feels good, your boyfriend only knows what feels good because of what you tell him, try guiding his hand and/or show him how you do it yourself, this will help him greatly and you'd be surprised how intimate mutual masturbation can be.
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