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writes:So I want to know why I can't get or how to get a bf my age or at least close to my age? I'm 16 in my third year of high school and i've only had one bf in school at least! I have dated one 22yr old one 24yr old and a 14yr old! There has been guys my age at my school but they never asked me to be their gf, it was a date here a date there and that's it they stopped talking to me!! I am rather nice, have been told im funny and i'm moderately attractive (not eww!!! but not ooolala)!!! PLEASE HELP!!! what can i do to get a bf?? Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball +, writes (16 August 2010):
 First things first, stop it with the guys in their twenties. This will drive guys your age away quick. I remember the couple of girls who did that in my high school. One was pregnant by 16 they both had the reputation of slutty partygirls. Why is that? Because guys that age don't actively seek out girls your age unless they are using them or are a pedophile.
You may have to ask a guy your age out. Depending on the grapevine around your school, guys may be questioning if you're single. The other problem that comes with dating "unverifiable" guys is that people don't know if you're single or attached to someone.
When you go on dates, what do you usually do? This could also be an indicator of why you aren't getting more dates. Guys will talk about good and bad dates. How did the dates you had go?
Really, it's hard to say why you don't have a BF. Sometimes we just go through dry spells. For some unknown reason, we just stay single. It's natural and to be expected. I suggest taking the time to focus on yourself. Get to know yourself better. Start thinking about what you'll be doing after you finish High School. Think about some short and long term goals. I'm sure a BF will come in time.
Are you getting out there meeting people? Do you go to dances or parties? Is there anyone you have your eye on? Are you in any clubs or extra curricular activities? Are you working? All of these things can help you meet people. Good luck.
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reader, supersuper +, writes (16 August 2010):
 Guys are primarily attracted by looks. It's in our genes. I would highly suggest buying a style magazine and putting together some outfits and makeup that you find stylish. The other thing you can do if you haven't done it already is join a school club or sports team. Being a part of a social forum will improve your social skills and make your more approachable. It's a good thing to do for yourself anyway.
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