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Is it normal to have sexual urges/ fantasies about my cousin?

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Question - (16 August 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 July 2016)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am a 17 year old boy and I have an obsession over my older female cousin who is 19 and really hot. We've both live together for many years, and when we're at home, she would wear only her underwear (bra/panties and sometimes a shirt) around the house. This makes me want to have sex with her, I know that incest is illegal, but I can't seem to help it. She treats me like a brother, so she isnt embarrassed around me about how she dresses or leaving the bathroom door open when she's taking a shower. Although, some boys would consider this to be okay, but for me, its strange, I never use to feel this way.

Despite how perfect her body is, and the fact that she dresses so hot, she is really smart and I don't think she would feel the same way. Especially if she knew that I wanted to have sex with her.

Is it normal to have sexual urges/ fantasies about my cousin?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2016):

It is actually legal to marry or have sexual relations with first cousins in some states

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010):

Well society will always say its not normal. Something that is normal to me may not be to you. Its a hard debate. However...incest is definitely illegal and people can go to jail over it depending on who what when where and how. My advice is...

If you want to have sex with her ask her about how she feels about the situation. If you don't want to do it then just don't try. Plain and simple.

I for one have experienced this thing before and I was left with severe awkwardness after the fact.

But I didn't plan it. It was just something that hit me all at once and I got caught up in the act.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (17 August 2010):

dirtball agony auntI think any man in your situation would be tempted, the test is if you act on those temptations. It is normal to be attracted to a beautiful woman. Especially one who also has other traits that you admire. The problem here is she is family, and you know that you can't do anything. adifferentperspective's idea of getting a girlfriend of your own is a good one. This way you can have a healthy relationship with a girl who isn't your cousin.

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